Welcome... My name is Kim, Kimmee (or at least that's what my husband calls me), and Mommy and my hubby and best friend's name is Zack, we have two beautiful children (ZJ and Zoey) and we are so blessed! Although we had complications along the way... our two miracles were born 17 months apart and both have taught us how to be more patient, love more deeply, and cherish EVERY moment - good or bad! God certainly meant for two people to have children - I, for one, would not want to do it alone (Thanks honey)! We also have two pets - Ana and Stud - I'm sure you'll see them in pictures from time to time. Thanks for stopping by.
We discovered (with the help of Cuzant Amanda) that ZJ is cutting his two year molars. I guess it's about time considering he'll be three in January. So - two year molars at 34 Months. Better late than never. They don't seem to bother him at all!
Zoey (on a side note) got one of her top middle teeth. She's up to 5 teeth now.
I just can't get over all the things the kids are doing these days. Zoey is starting to talk more and more and it simply amazes me. She also is learning to sing. By that, I mean, each night after our book, I sing "You Are My Sunshine" to her, then say our nightly prayer. When I sing to her, she hums along. At first I thought it was a coincident, but she's continued to do it all week long. I just makes me smile. Then, to add a little more "SWEET" to the party, when I lean over her crib to put her down each night and say, "night night" she says it back to me in the most girly, innocent voice ever. It never gets old!
She's also getting more comfortable with words she knows. Now, when you ask her who Daddy is, she says it. Or if you ask her to say it, she does. She's started answering questions and she'll answer "uh huh" or "no." She's learning about the potty, too. Because we struggle so much with ZJ, she's in the restroom a lot with us. She even sat on the potty yesterday and if she has a dirty diaper, she goes to her changing table and waits for us to change her. I hope she potty trains with ZJ! I know it's crazy, but it's not unheard of an 18 month old potty training.
ZJ has started putting things together that are interesting. It makes Zack and I look and say, "I wonder where he learned that." For instance, we see busses every morning. He loves them. Just the other day, he saw the bus and Zack said, "you'll get to ride on the bus one day." ZJ said, "ya, when me go school and learn ABC's like me supposed to." Zack and I just looked at each other in amazement. Seriously, he knows he has to learn his ABC's to go to school =) if only he knew he had to potty train to go to school!!! Why I can't think of a couple other examples right now, I'm not sure, but he's learning SO much... both the kids are.
Unfortunately, ZJ has begun to experience bad dreams. Last night, he went to bed only to wake up around 11 at our bedside. He was upset, hot, and wanted water. I gave him water and Zack took him back to bed. About 30 minutes later, he woke again, this time yelling out from his room. Zack, again, went to check on him, settled him down and he went to sleep. Around 12:30, he was yelling again, I went this time to find ZJ sitting up in his bed pointing at the window.
K: "what's wrong baby?"
Z: "Mommy, Monster!"
K: "ZJ, there are no monsters, I promise."
Z: "SHARKS!"
K: "No baby, no sharks, do you want to sleep with a bear or something."
Z: "I want to sleep with daddy."
K: "You can't sleep with Daddy, but this daddy bear will protect you."
Z: "Ok, mommy."
K: "Night - night, ZJ"
Another hour went by and he woke up again... this time it was Zack's turn (not sure how that worked, except ZJ wanted Zack) and he calmed him down once more. When he fell asleep this time, he stayed asleep, but I suppose it's night-light time. Poor thing, I felt so bad for him. I'm tried today since I'll say it's been a good solid year since we've had to get up in the middle of the night... not to mention several times.
It's hard to believe that tomorrow, baby Zoey will be 15 months old. I really need to look back on what ZJ was doing at this point =)
Zoey, though, is a lot of fun... hard work, but fun. She enjoys being outside, but making her come in is always a challenge. Last night, she stood in the driveway removing rocks from the flower beds. She just didn't want them in there. She also ran around in the backyard with ZJ yesterday. It's really nice to see her exploring more and doing new things. She only has 3 teeth, although we feel like more are coming soon.
Zoey is trying to say more words. The average person wouldn't be able to understand her, but she attempts to say; dog, book, bath, and duck. Last night she said, "nigh-nigh" and waved her hands. She says, momma, dada, and bubba, too. She's starting to walk to the car from Mrs. Patti's house. She thinks it's fun and laughs when ZJ runs past her.
Our babies are growing up. It's sad, but what we want. They're good kids. They keep us challenged and on our toes.
ZJ has decided in the last few weeks to talk NON-STOP! He will talk when he has nothing to say. Yesterday, on the way home, he said, "Mommy?" I said, "yes baby." He said, "ummmmmmmmmmmmmmm." I just laughed. He also told Zack, when Zack responded for me, "no Daddy, I wanna talk with Mommy." I think that is the longest sentence he's said to date. He's still a good kid. He pushes his boundaries like every other 2.5 year old, but all in all we scored big time with ZJ. He minds, he follows directions, and he's pretty patient.
That's all for now... we go to the doctor soon, so I'll update again, then.
Well, it's official... Zack and I are horrible potty trainers! You know, it's possible that ZJ would get it if we could just be consistent! I mean, with kids... you have to be consistent with everything else... and we ARE, with EVERYTHING ELSE! Why can't we do this? UGH...
All I can say is; we'll try again next time we're off work. He does really well throughout the day for Mrs. Patti, but for us, it's all PEE and no POOP =) It's like he's scared to do it for us, lol. Well, if you're reading this, say a little prayer for us. I should read a book on it or something. I mean, I didn't do anything else without reading a few different things on the topic...... ya!, I'll try that... and report back, OK? Ugh... oh wait, said that already. Well, potty training is NO FUN... and a bit inconvenient, <LQTMS> why can't it just HAPPEN? =)
Have a good day, all... hope this read at least made you laugh. I know it will for me when I look back on it.
Well, Zack left today for another trip to Dayton, OH. It breaks my heart to watch ZJ sit in the breakfast nook window waving and saying, "bye Daddy, help daddy work!" He wants to be with him. I don't blame him... I want to be with him, too. One thing Zack going away does do for me is give me an appreciation for all he does. Zack's a wonderful father. He's extremely patient and he believes in his kids. While this week will be hard for me and the kids, I know it's hard for Zack, too. We miss you, honey! We love you. Come home soon - we can't wait!
PS - it's not any easier when I leave for work, either. Travel is part of our jobs - it's fun, but it's hard.
So, I hesitate to even say anything, but I'm so proud of ZJ! Yesterday AND today when we picked him up from Mrs. Patti he had stickers! What are the stickers for you might ask? He went tee-tee in the potty yesterday and today he went tee-tee and poop! YAY ZJ! Such a big boy. Yesterday he wanted to go after Kaitlyn went, now I think he's trying to prove he's a big kid too! He got tons of praise from us (especially from Zack) and we're getting ready to establish our potty routine to officially start potty training. Keep your fingers crossed all goes well. I need to buy some big boy underwear and reward, reward, reward! I'll take any tips/hint/tricks!
GO, ZJ, GO!
Lots of milestones this week. First, ZJ turned 2.5 yesterday. I told him and he said, "yay, Tammy!" I have no idea why or where it came from, but that's what he said. Two nights ago, he counted to 10 unprompted. He's been able to do it for awhile, but you'd have to remind him or really get him going. The other night, Zack was benchpressing ZJ and he'd count 1 through 10. I got it on video... I'll upload later.
Zoey... well, that ball of fire is not slowing down. Shortly after tooth #1 came in, tooth #2 decided to pop right through. Now, we have two bottom teeth. I feel she's in the midst of a growth spurt, too. She ate TWO dinners the other night. She's getting so long. She's saying mama a lot now and last night, she said bath. I can now undress her in the living room and when she hears the bath water running, she'll stroll back to the tub all on her own. It's awesome!
Ok, so Zoey is officially walking more than crawling. Actually, she's barely crawling anywhere... really just to maneuver around tight spaces. She thinks she the coolest EVER and walks up to me or Zack and just smiles or laughs. For awhile she'd clap for herself, but now, she's carrying things with her, so it's harder to clap! She IS a straight-up drama QUEEN, though. If she falls, she'll roll and make a big ordeal out of it. If you're on the floor with her, she's gott to get all in your face.
Chasing after two kids is so fun! I'm so happy Zoey is walking, but I do slightly miss her being a sweet baby in my arms. She's very "dare-devilish" - she already tries to climb in the bathtub by hiking one leg up onto the side. She's so short, however, her foot will reach the top of the side of the tub, but she's basically in the splits. She also tries to climb up on the step stool we keep in the kitchen. Again, WAY too tall for her, but she tried. Man, when she can "reach" she's going to be climbing on everything!
Poor baby's! ZJ was sent home from Mrs. Patti's yesterday because he had gotten sick. By the time Zack got him 30 or 40 minutes later, he had gotten sick twice more. He layed on the couch all afternoon and couldn't keep anything (not even water) down. He slept all night last night, now, he feels better and is keeping some liquid down.
On the other hand, when getting Zoey up for her normal routine this morning, she had gotten sick at least three times through the night and never made a peep. She got sick one more time after getting upset when I got her up She got a bath and fresh clothes and so far she's keeping diluted juice down.
Zack's at home with both of them today and Mrs. Patti tells me another child (so 3 of 5) is home sick with the same symptoms. Sounds like a 12(ish) hour bug and it's working throuh quickly. I hope they get better soon!
Things they say: Last night, Tattee (Tammy) came over. We ate, then played outside. ZJ and Zoey swang (???) for a long time, then played on the slide, then in the grass. ZOEY LIKES the grass finally. ZJ played with bubbles, then with an American Flag we had from the party. The flag is on a stick, but not permanently attached, so he would wave it around and it would fly off. Everytime it did he would loudly say, "Ohhhhh NOooooo, Mommy, broke it!" Then bring it to me to fick it! -When telling Zack this story this morning, ZJ proceeded to say it again because his faffle (waffle) broke.
Things they do: Zoey kept trying to walk off the back porch, but the change in elevation pulled her down every single time. Eventually, she just decided to crawl out away from the porch into the yard. ZJ, ran up to her and said, "CRAAAWL!" and proceeded to crawl with her. ZJ was dragging his belly on the ground and they were "racing". ZJ would slow down so he didn't get too far ahead and when Zoey was in front, she'd look back to make sure he was still coming and laugh. It was adorable.
It's official. As of Friday, July 3rd, Zoey is officially off the bottle. No more formula, no more bottles. Just sippy's and milk. And, although I was concerned about her not getting much out of a sippy, as of yesterday, July 5th, she was sucking juice and milk down just fine. It finally clicked for her.
On another note, I was laying bed last night thinking about the weekend. Thinking about ZJ and I playing together... and thinking about Bert and Sandee telling me he's half my size (which he is). I am sad. I am sad my baby boy is "out-growing" me. Before I know it, he will be "too big" for me to carry around. This makes my heart hurt. He will always be my BABY BOY... and I say this all to say... ENJOY EVERY MOMENT. Every cry, every wine, every giggle, every kiss. Enjoy your kids... mine are awesome, but of course I think that.
Zoey turns ONE today and my how the year has flown by! Zoey has learned a lot in her first year. She recently started walking and she's into everything. She can stand up from sitting or crawling all on her own. When she does this, she always looks to see who's watching, then gives a BIG 'OL GRIN. She can say Mama, Dada, Uh-oh, and Bubba... but it's still mostly babbling. We're in the process of taking her off the bottle. 2 down, 2 to go. She currently gets a 6 a.m. bottle and a 6 p.m. bottle. During the day, she eats a lunch and a snack with a sippy of milk. She doesn't LOVE the sippy, but she's getting better. I'm almost to the point of buying all different types/brands of cups to see if she'll drink better.
Zoey is a happy baby, but she's got a temper. We're working on it. Just the other day, Zack said, "when can we start time-outs?" I laughed... knowing she'll be there as soon as she can sit in the chair and not fall out of it. Zoey still doesn't have any teeth, but this is how my children do it =) ZJ got his first tooth at 13 months. Zoey looks to be on that schedule, as well. She's got two tooth buds on the bottom, but they just haven't poked through yet. Zoey is a little bitty thing, in my opinion. She weighs just at 18 pounds (unofficially... we go to the doc tomorrow) and has the smallest feet in the entire world. I haven't been able to put shoes on her yet. The only shoes I can find are the newborn style with no protection or support (or they're so stiff she can't bend them when walking). So - she's been barefoot the majority of her life so far.
Zoey is a mama's girl. Zack just sits back and laughs because when ZJ was this age he was attached to his Daddy at the hip. Not much different than now, but he does let me into his world sometimes. So, back to Zoey... if I'm near, she wants me. Anyone else can put her down and she'll go about her merry way and play, but if I do that, she freaks. The other night, I was vacuuming her room. She was in the hallway and I shut her bedroom door. I guess she thought I was gone forever because she cried harder than we've ever seen her cry. She could barely breathe. It was pitiful.
I'm not sure who Zoey looks like. She has the same color hair as ZJ (blonde) and chubby cheeks, too. I've heard everything... I've heard she looks like me, like Zack, like Sandee... I've heard it all. I just think she's adorable.
For ZJ. Well, he's almost 2 1/2 and he is a wonderful child. He minds well, is talking more, and is ALL boy! There's not much he won't *try* to say these days. He certainly doesn't get it all right, but he tries. He's starting to learn more colors and he can count to five with some encouragement. His favorite cartoon is still Miss Spider & the Sunnypatch Friends (which he calls FOO-FOO and we have no idea why), but he also enjoys others and watching movies. Bolt, Meno (nemo), Bug Yife (Bugs Life), and Credibulls (Incredibles). Just this morning he said a new sentence, "wha you doin?" It was precious. Mostly he speaks in very short sentences, but we can understand approximately 90% of what he says; and of the other 10% he can usually show us or do ZJ sign language for us to figure it out. He says please, thank you, and bless you (after you sneeze).
ZJ is not potty-trained. Not even close, really, lol. He will go to the potty. He will sit on the potty, and he will pee on command then ask for candy, but as for the other stuff... it's always after the fact. We're not pushing him. I think the biggest issue is schedule. We've not been able to provide a consistent potty training schedule, so until we do that, we're fighting an uphill battle. We're taking a week off in August for a staycation. We will hit it hard that week, but if it doesn't work then, we'll try again toward the end of the year. ZJ weighs about 27 pounds (again, unofficially) and is a tall boy, in my opinion. He loves reading books, playing in a bubble bath, playing with the water hose, climbing, and jumping.
Zeedge is so good with Zoey. That's been amazing to watch. He never got jealous of her. He wants to help. From early on, he helped get burp cloths and bibs and would follow us around when caring for her. Now, he helps feed her. The other morning, he would take his grape, bite it in half, and give her the other half. He sees us doing this and he's caught on. He's never been (so far) outright mean to her, and he's not hit her. He has pushed her a couple times, both times he was punished, hugged her, and said, "sossy" (sorry). Zack and I were amazed at the development since Zoey started crawling... they play in ZJ's room together and laugh at each other. ZJ will often give her something to play with or share his things. He does the normal 2-year-old thing sometimes and tells her no, says, "MY TOY!," or freaks out if she gets too close to his toys, but all-in-all I could NOT ask for more!
We are so blessed and thankful for the family we have. We enjoy sharing our lives with all of you and glad you all keep us updated, too! I have tons of pictures and videos on our website at http://foreverwagnerfamily.shutterfly.com! Visit us there... I keep it updated, usually several times a week!
God Bless!
Short post, but I had to let you know what ZJ did last night.
He has some "safety goggles" that came with his John Deere tool set. Well, ZJ loves the goggles and plays with them frequently, but last night, he dug them out of the toy box, put them on turned around with his hands on his hips and said, "Goggles, go schwimmin at laayke." I don't know if it was the hands on the hips, the country accent, or the fact that the goggles are so worn out you can barely see out of them, but it was CUTE!
To my loving husband and AMAZING father!
Honey, I couldn't do it without you. I don't want to do it without you. You are patient and kind. You really are the best dad I know! You are my best friend. ZJ and Zoey are the luckiest kids on the planet. They have a dad that's so caring, so playful, so energetic and lively! Whether you're watching cartoons with ZJ on Saturday morning, or making and feeding Zoey's dinner to her... you are always showing them what it's like to be loved and supported! You are the encourager and the lover when either of them need it! Your face lights up when your daughter walks in the room....... not to mention hers does, too. ZJ always wants his daddy. He wants to help "fick it" (fix) with a hammer or mow with Daddy..... he just wants to be by your side. I certainly can't blame either of them. I love you, they love you, and we are all so blessed to have you!
Thanks for all you do everyday.
XOXOXO
Zoey is learning to say her first few words.
She say's uh-oh - on purpose after she's thrown her bottle down or dropped her spoon on purpose.
Mama - she mostly says this in the morning and at night-night. It melts my heart. This morning, she was patting me saying it.
Dadda - she started saying this a couple days ago. This morning, heading to daycare, she was gabbing away in her car seat and then said da-da... plain as day.
Whew! It's weeks like this one that being a working mother is so hard. I am gone all week. I'm in Huntersville, NC. On top of that, I was gone Thursday and Friday of last week in Jackson, MO. We have found that we love video chat, though. Zack and the kids get on each night and we get to tell each other about our day, I get to tell the kids "night-night", and we get to say prayers together. This part of my job is so hard. I hate being away from my family. I very much enjoy having all my baby's (hubby included) under one roof and safe.
Thank you, Zack, for holding down the fort while I'm gone and taking on a HUGE flooring project on top of all that! You're an amazing father and MY BEST FRIEND! I love you for all you do. Please, tell the kids I miss them, give them a big hug and kiss from Mommy. I will be home soon! I miss you all...
I'd like to write a little something to my kids and to my mom today.
Today is Mothers Day. It's such a special day to me. I know that I am so blessed to have you. You two are both my little miracles. You've helped me to be more patient and how to appreciate the world around me. Since having you, I feel like I can slow down and enjoy each moment with you.
ZJ, you are learning so much everyday. Your newest thing is to always say "Thank you, mommy" (or Daddy) everytime you get something you've asked for.
Zoey, you are trying hard to walk. You stand on your own, but just need a little encouragement to walk. I'm here for you honey, you'll get it soon!
Now, to my mom... I appreciate all you've done for me! You've always been there to listen with a non-judgemental ear, support me the way no one else can, and love me unconditionally. I love you. I respect you. I'm so glad you are in my life and we are as close as we are!
Since last time we chatted, Zoey has learned a lot. She's starting to cruise around going up and down the couch, from the couch to the chair, and even standing for 10-20 seconds by herself. She's also picked up the word, "uh-oh" and says it often. She trys to parrot mama and bubba, but mostly it's uh-oh that's clear. She's laughing more now, too. She's ticklish and grunts when you tickle her. She's teething, too... chewing on everything and drooling everywhere. She chases after the dogs and they're constantlly running from her, but she thinks it's hilarious when they lick her fingers. She's trying to eat more things, but she just doesn't have the manual dexterity to put things in her mouth. She'll chew and chew, but you have to place the food in her mouth. She's eaten cheese, bread, puffs, and some potato salad. Of pureed things, she'll eat anything. Her favorite is banana's, though.
ZJ is doing great, too. Potty training is going well. We finally bought a potty seat to go on top of the big potty and he prefers it much better. He sits and reads during potty time. Sometimes he goes and sometimes he doesn't, but he's recognizing that he's gone (and sometimes announces in time before he goes) and that's a GREAT step. He's saying more sentences like, "Mommy go work" and "Sissy go nap" so we're pleased with the progress he's made. He loves to play outside and does almost everyday. He swings, slides, climbs, and plays in the dirt. He's a collector. He'll collect rocks, blocks, cars, balls - it doesn't matter, he just wants as many as he can hold. He's also learning to pick up his toys each night. We've done this since he started walking, but now, when we say it's time to clean up, he'll collect toys and put them away in the bins. He's a great helper. ZJ's favorite food right now is carrots and bananas. He loves bananas anytime and wants carrots each evening for a snack. I'm digging it... healthy snacks are awesome!
That's all for now... until next time, we ask God to bless your family as much as he has ours!
Zack here - so pardon my unfamiliarity with site maintenance. I just wanted to drop a note and let the world know that today marks the day Kimberly Dale was born just a short twenty-something years ago. =) Her kiddos and I wouldn't begin to konw what we'd do without her. She's our nurse, our accountant, friend, mother, wife, and the glue that holds this hectic house together. I love you, bambino.
Now ZJ wants to type his mommy a birthday note: hgr34ttfrfr4fr44frfr4fr44fggfdfgghlkgiutryrtre6tt
How sweet. =D
Happy Birfday to yous
Happy Birfday to yous
Happy Birfday dear Kimberly Dale..........
Happy Birfday to You!!
So - there is a GOD =). When I found out I was pregnant with a baby boy 2.5 years ago, everyone said, "oh, boys are awesome... they love their mommy!" I was so excited... dreaming of my baby boy loving me! Well, then he was born... and he loved me b/c I fed him and changed him and played with him, but he loved his Daddy more! He wanted to be with his Daddy all the time. Now, don't get me wrong, he'd let me rock him before bed and all that jazz, but if it was time to go, he wanted his Daddy to carry him.
I'm happy to announce - that has changed, lol. He now asks for Mommy. He loves me, he wants to be with me, he says, "Mommy, Daddy sissy." Which is code for, Mommy give Sissy to Daddy so I can get in your lap. It's awesome, I must say. He still loves his Daddy and wants to do all kinds of things with him, but if he falls down and gets an owie, it's Mommy to the rescue! I love every minute of it =) I think Zack and I make a great team, and I think ZJ feels the same way!
On the road again, but thankfully back home safe and sound. This weekend we drove up to Oklahoma City, OK to visit Auntie Em, Uncle Craig, and Grandma Sandee! It was not the best of trips, but we're glad we went so Auntie Em and Uncle Craig could meet Zoey and the kiddos could see their Grandma. However... road tripping with two sick kids left little to be desired. ZJ, while feeling much better, was whiney, snotty, and every bit of a two year old. Zoey, while we *thought* she was better, we were mistaken. The sickness she had/has settled in her chest. She didn't eat well, didn't sleep well, started weasing, got a rash all over her body, and her fever came back.
I believe my mommy initiation of a "terrible two-year-old" was this weekend. First, ZJ peed through his diaper right onto my lap at dinner Friday night. Then, at each restaurant we were at, ZJ had to be carried out screaming b/c he didn't know how to act. There were spankings and MANY trips to time-out. The peaks of our weekend was the two times ZJ decided to "go" in the big boy potty!
So - while the trip was "eventful" and nerve-racking, it was something we felt we needed to do. I do vow here and now, though, if my kids are sick (or just getting over a sickness) I will not travel. I will stay home and make sure they are well before getting away from our things, our beds, and our routine.
Poor pitiful babies!!! ZJ came down with a nasty little virus over the weekend. He was running a fever, had an awful wet cough, and his nose was running like crazy. So - we went to the doctor and besides telling me to treat with motrin (for fever) and let it run it's course, he named it a "flu-like illness." So - yesterday we kept ZJ home from daycare for "good measure" - I didn't want him going and playing too hard and getting his temperature back up. Zack stayed home with him since I stayed home on Monday. Around 3 yesterday, Zack got a call from Mrs. Patti... Zoey had 103 degree temp... had to go get her. Now she has the exact same symptoms and we're treating with tylenol and hoping it passes soon. It was bound to happen... we've had EXTREMELY healthy kids, but almost everyone Zack and I work with have been sick this season, I'm sure their little immune systems just couldn't handle it anymore. Both have been really good for being sick. They still sleep good and for the most part they just want some extra love. Both take medicine extremely well and we're thankful for all of that!
Say a little prayer that this passes soon and we can all get back to normal! Currently, ZJ is in the floor watching his favorite cartoon - Miss Spider - and Zoey is scooting around on the floor being a little angel. Mommy and Daddy are about "all spider'd out" but who can resist a little munchkin crawling on your lap saying "foo-foo" with the remote in hand? Foo-foo is code for spider - I have NO IDEA why, but it is!
Whew... we've had a long weekend!!!
First, we went to Tulsa, OK to visit cousin Will, Aunt Lex, and Uncle Jake. It was Will's First Birthday Party and we had a blast! There were so many kids there and all of the children played so well together. Will is getting so big and it's hard to believe he's one! After the party, we came back home... it was nice to sleep in our own beds, but after sleeping in Sunday morning, we got up and headed to Cedar Hill to meet up with Tammy and Jason.
Jason is in on R&R and it was great to see him. He left right after Zoey was born, but the kids were unable to see him since he had some shot that made it unsafe for him to be around them. It was great visit and J looked great... I think he's ready to come home and get out of the desert, but he was in good spirits! From lunch with J-man, we went to my mom's...
Grandma-ma got a new job (within the same company) and had move office's... so she enlisted Z's help and they get her all moved today. Zj played at Grandma-ma's house until they were done and now we're HOME! It's nice to be home... so nice! The kids are napping and I have to start laundry... we have a weekend off, but then we're headed to OKC to visit Emily and Craig (and Grandee will be visiting) - I feel so sorry for the kiddos and thier butts being stuck in car seats for long periods of time, but they did great. We couldn't have wished for better traverlers!
Well, Zoey has a new name. My dad, who comes over weekly, has been completely taken aback by Little Miss Zoey. He's wanted for quite some time for me to have a little "Kimmee" and since we found she was a SHE... he's been giddy! Zoey is certainly growing into her personality and she's all smiles! She has the BIGGEST cheeks (compliments of her Mommy) and with her bubbly smile and no hair, she has such a round face. So, fittingly, my Dad (a.k.a. Papaw) calls her Princess Roundface. At ZJ's birthday party it started to catch on. He said it once in front of the crowd and it spread like wildfire. Everyone loved it and called her that the rest of the day. I think it's awesome to watch my Daddy hold our little girl. I think back on how it must have been to be that small in his arms... how over-the-top happy he was to hold me... and how I'm so very thankful that Zoey Erin and ZJ will know their Papaw! I, for one, would do anything my Papaw would do, eat anything my Papaw would eat, and go anywhere my Papaw would go. I hope Zoey will give her Papaw that same joy!
I love you, Daddy. And to Papaw, ZJ and Zoey love you, too!!!
Wow - so much happened in 2008 it's hard to imagine what will take place in 2009! As I look back on 2008 I'm so very thankful. For those that don't know pregnancy wasn't exactly a "walk in the park" for me. With both my children I was put on bedrest around 26 weeks. I stayed there until 36 weeks and had both my miracles one month early. ZJ (born in 2007) spent three days in NICU and Zoey (born in 2008) came home on schedule with NO problems whatsoever. So, if you wonder... would I do it again? IN A HEARTBEAT! I wouldn't think twice about it. Heck, the ONLY reason we aren't having more children is because I don't want to be selfish. My pregnancy was more risky with Zoey. With ZJ I was on an oral medication twice a day (after staving off preterm labor with mag), but with Zoey, I started on that same oral medication, then had to have a medication "pump" put in my leg so I received medication around the clock. After having Zoey, I wondered what might happen if there was a next time. How many times would I see a positive pregnancy test before I stayed pregnant? After 5 pregnancies and 2 baby's, that's never far from my mind. Would they be able to keep me pregnant? What other measures might have to happen? And GOD FORBID, what if I had a significantly PRE TERM baby??? I wasn't willing to risk it. I know several people that had preemies. Months spent in NICU. Worrying everyday if your baby would survive. I could not be that mommy... wondering if everythign would be ok. I could not be so selfish to make my husband sit by my side wondering if I would be ok while he took care of everything else. So - we made the decision to stop. Nothing's wrong with a family of 4. And for us, it's perfect!
So, in 2009 we look forward to watching our children grow and learn. ZJ will be two this month and Zoey will be one in July. She has many firsts in front of her. We're looking forward to our in-laws moving home so we can visit more. It's important to us for our children to know their grandparents. We look forward to Emily and Craig's wedding... that'll be fun! We look forward to being with one another... We look forward to visiting friends and documenting life. A long road of happiness... that's what I look forward to!
Wow... what a year. ZJ is almost two and has a baby sister that's almost 6 months old. I sat on Christmas day watching my family play and laugh and was so thankful. I'm thankful that God decided Zack and I were deserving enough to have two wonderful children. I'm thankful that even with TWO wonderful children, while challenging, He's given me the tools to be thankful and appreciative.
We decided early on to keep Christmas low-key this year. On Christmas Eve, I put the kids in their Christmas PJ's, put them to bed, and assured ZJ he was a good boy and that Santa would be coming to visit. (I had hoped I didn't give him nightmares.) On Christmas morning, we allowed the kids to sleep in (as we do every morning we're off work). They slept until almost 7:30. We all got up, had monkey bread for breakfast (a new tradition in our household), and for awhile just enjoyed each other's company. ZJ and Zoey's Grandma-ma was there, as was Tammy. Then, after breakfast, we introduced ZJ to his gift that Santa brought. The shiny red tricylce was perfect! A little big, but something he can surely grow in to. Many other gifts were given, but they were all gifts that the kids needed - such as clothes and socks! That was mostly at my request and I'm forever grateful!
We wrapped up Christmas Day with a movie... IRON MAN... good flick, you should watch if you haven't already. I looked around at folks stretched out on couches and the floor and I just smiled! I mean, family IS what it's ALL about. To me, anyway. My hope is one day... one Christmas, we can have a BIG family Christmas. It would be the BEST gift of all to me. To have all of ZJ and Zoey's grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins in ONE place to enjoy ONE big holiday. Not for anyone to stress out, just to relax - watch the magic in all the kids' eyes - and to appreciate what God has given us!
We are so lucky! We love you, ZJ and Zoey. My hope is that one day, you'll read these words and make fun of your parents for being such dorks, but to know you are wanted. You are loved. You are miracles and we, as parents, strive each day to teach you right from wrong, to teach you respect, and to teach you what a loving relationship involves. My hope is that you will know one day that while this is hard work and that we will make mistakes, that we LOVE YOU. Both of you! Merry Christmas!
Well, for Zoey - this marks the first time she's been sick. Both our babies are puney, but I took Zoey to the doctor yesterday and she has an ear infection and a cold. There's nothing they can do for the cold, but she's on amoxicillan for the ear infection. The doctor told me to put a humidifier in her room to help break up the conjestion. She doesn't act like she feels bad, but she sounds awful!
ZJ is all stuffy and has a bad cough, too. For him, it's easy to give him a decongestant and move on. He, too, acts like he feels fine (except at night). He can't breathe well, so falling asleep is much harder. Several times last night we picked him up off the floor from in front of his door and put him back in bed. He finally fell asleep around 9 and was in his bed this morning. He's a nut!
I hope our babies feel better soon. It's so hard when they feel bad.
As of this morning, Zoey is officially rolling back to belly and belly to back. She's rolling everywhere! I just can't believe it! She's getting so big, sooooo fast!
We added some new pictures in "around the house"... you'll see ZJ enjoying a morning with his daddy - they were drinking coffee... ZJ didn't really have coffee in his cup, it was my empty cup, but he had so much fun pretending.
Dear All...
Well, I'm 32 weeks. It's a HUGE milestone and we're so happy to have
made it. Although being on bed rest is not the easiest thing in the
world, I'm glad to know I'm doing the best I can for my baby. After our
doctor visit Monday afternoon, we learned baby Zoey is still doing
fabulous. She measured in just under 4.5 pounds. She did not cooperate
for good pictures, though. Her nose is facing my belly button and the
doctor couldn't even get a good measurement on her head. She also had
the hiccups during the ultrasound, so she was all over the place. My
contractions are remaining steady at 4 per hour (every 15 minutes). My
doctor ordered steroid shots for me. Although there's no real threat of
me giving birth before 36 weeks, she wanted to take the precaution just
in case. So, I'll get a shot today and another tomorrow to help develop
Zoey's lungs. I only have 4 more
HP17 shots, one of which will be given today. And at 36 weeks, 1 day,
Dr. Koster will take out the terbutaline pump. Zack's starting a pool
of when I'll deliver. His bet is on or before July 4th.
ZJ turned 16 months. And boy, he's a handful! Yesterday, he kept
trying to climp up on the couch... I was helping, but not by much. I
looked at Zack and said, "I give him two weeks." It was about 30
minutes later and he was climbing up and down off the couch all on his
own. He was so proud of himself. Each time he got up, he'd look at us,
smile, and clap. I can't believe he's so big! He weighs about 24
pounds. Since I don't lift him much, I'm not used to it... so when I do
(although rare) I get tired quickly! He's talking (his own
language) non-stop. He has inflection, facial expressions, and even
different sounds with m's, n's, p's, d's, etc (much more than blah,
blah, blah). He points and looks back for a response, but we are still
clueless as to what he's actually saying. Zack and I are were not very
consistent with teaching him baby signs, but he does know "all done."
Yesterday, I asked if he was hungry. He quickly ran to his highchair
and tried to climb into it. He obviously understands way more than we
give him credit for! I've been told "it's not a race" and he'll talk
when he's ready. I'm ok with that... I figure he won't be quiet once he
learns. =) Our big boy is also learning to master the fork and spoon.
It's still a work in progress, but he's figuring out how to get the food
in his mouth before dropping it.
Scooping up food is another thing... still trying to learn that one.
My wonderful husband has taught him many things while I've been on bed
rest. One that I'm especially happy for - he's taught him to walk in
and out of daycare while holding daddy's hand. He's doing so good with
it. He's also taught him to "bonk" heads. I'm not so proud of this one
for fear he'll be bonking the other kids at daycare. But, if you ask,
"can you bonk my head," he comes over quickly to give you a gentle
headbutt. Cute, but not so sure we should have taught him that one!
Zack is still hanging in there. We've enlisted help from family and
friends, so he's been able to do more around the house without
constantly watching ZJ. We celebrated our 6 year wedding anniversary
over Memorial Day weekend. Of course we didn't do much, but I did get
the OK to go out to dinner. We got a babysitter and used valet parking
so I didn't have to walk and it was a MUCH needed trip outside the
house. Before that, I only got out for doctor's trips and we went to
the dentist once =) and it's quite sad when you look forward to visiting
the dentist.
This past weekend one of my very best friends threw me a baby shower for
Zoey. I got a lot of cute things. I'm attaching some pictures.
ZJ was the life of the party with my friend's almost 2 year old, Presley
and ZJ loved the balloons. One of my favorite gifts from the shower was
a cute bag with Zoey's name on it and the TINIEST bathing suit I think
I've ever seen. I got many great things I needed and the company was
awesome. I forget how much I miss contact with the outside world. My
fabulous mother in law is finishing up the curtains and paitings for
Zoey's room, once I (and by "I' I mean Zack) have it put together, I'll
send some pictures.
I apologize for the LONG update... but hey, I have nothing better to do
=)
Thanks for keeping us in your prayers.
Kimmee (and Zack, ZJ, and Zoey)
All -
Well, ZJ is 14 months old. He's doing just great. I think he's going
through the terrible 2's at 1, but we're dealing with that. He
certainly has his own personality and a short fuse. He's a great
eater, has one tooth, and can get anywhere he wants to be. He doesn't
talk much - or any, really. He does understand a TON, though. You
ask him to get his milk - he will. You ask him where his belly button
is - he raises his shirt and bares his tummy. You ask him to find
your nose - and he points right to it. You tell him no - and, he
flops on the floor and cries like his life is OVER. So, by no means
am I saying he's quiet, but forming words just aren't happening right
now.
We just returned from our family vacation in San Diego, California.
We were there to visit ZJ's grandparents and to see California - since
Zack and I have never done so. We had a lot of fun. We went to the
beach, we visited the zoo, we ate GREAT seafood, and we hung out with
Grandee and Grumpy.
Baby girl - now known as Zoey Erin - is doing good, too. I'm 23 weeks
pregnant (due in late July) and things are good with only a few speed
bumps along the way. I do my weekly shots and they're not that bad.
I've developed some nice knots from repeat exposure, but Zoey's worth
it. Zack has participated in shot-giving - he's administered two and
he did a FANTASTIC job. He's a great husband.
Zack is doing good too. He got a promotion in November and is happy
to be doing something different and learning something new. He's now
a Project Manager. He's even more happy about the 24'x30' metal
building we're putting in behind our house. This will be his man
place and he will begin rebuilding his Dad's old mustang. He has
plans to teach the kids all about it and learn new things himself.
I'm happy, first that he's happy, but second that we'll have a place
to store all that darn lawn equipment and tools that take up so much
room in the garage. =) And, I get a fence with this building which
means the dogs have a nice place to run and play OUTSIDE.
I still work for Rubbermaid and things are going great. There are
some advancement opportunities on the horizon for me - so everyone say
a prayer and I'll hopefully have good news in just a few months!
Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. I'll update again soon.
Love,
Kim, Zack, ZJ and Zoey Wagner
All -
Well, ZJ is 14 months old. He's doing just great. I think he's going
through the terrible 2's at 1, but we're dealing with that. He
certainly has his own personality and a short fuse. He's a great
eater, has one tooth, and can get anywhere he wants to be. He doesn't
talk much - or any, really. He does understand a TON, though. You
ask him to get his milk - he will. You ask him where his belly button
is - he raises his shirt and bares his tummy. You ask him to find
your nose - and he points right to it. You tell him no - and, he
flops on the floor and cries like his life is OVER. So, by no means
am I saying he's quiet, but forming words just aren't happening right
now.
We just returned from our family vacation in San Diego, California.
We were there to visit ZJ's grandparents and to see California - since
Zack and I have never done so. We had a lot of fun. We went to the
beach, we visited the zoo, we ate GREAT seafood, and we hung out with
Grandee and Grumpy.
Baby girl - now known as Zoey Erin - is doing good, too. I'm 23 weeks
pregnant (due in late July) and things are good with only a few speed
bumps along the way. I do my weekly shots and they're not that bad.
I've developed some nice knots from repeat exposure, but Zoey's worth
it. Zack has participated in shot-giving - he's administered two and
he did a FANTASTIC job. He's a great husband.
Zack is doing good too. He got a promotion in November and is happy
to be doing something different and learning something new. He's now
a Project Manager. He's even more happy about the 24'x30' metal
building we're putting in behind our house. This will be his man
place and he will begin rebuilding his Dad's old mustang. He has
plans to teach the kids all about it and learn new things himself.
I'm happy, first that he's happy, but second that we'll have a place
to store all that darn lawn equipment and tools that take up so much
room in the garage. =) And, I get a fence with this building which
means the dogs have a nice place to run and play OUTSIDE.
I still work for Rubbermaid and things are going great. There are
some advancement opportunities on the horizon for me - so everyone say
a prayer and I'll hopefully have good news in just a few months!
Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. I'll update again soon.
Love,
Kim, Zack, ZJ and Zoey Wagner
Hi all... Zack and I went to the doctor today. I'm officially past the
first trimester at 12w 4d. The baby measured perfect... she even
counted all his/her fingers - there are 10 =) She looked and looked
to see if we could find out the gender, but the cord was between the
baby's legs... so nothing, she did say we should find out next time...
YAY... We did some tests today to check for disorders like down
syndrome and we'll get the results next time we go. Things have been
going so well I decided not to go back until I'm 16 weeks, at which
time, I'll begin my weekly hormone shots. The baby's heart rate was
149 today and he/she was kicking and waving.
So... I know I've told you all about this doctor and how awesome she
is, but we found out today she started her own website. You should
check it out... read some testimonials. It's still a work in progress
and she shared she's going to be adding newborn pictures... to include
ZJ. One of the testimonials is from Zack and I... I assume she got it
off the thank you note I wrote her before leaving the hospital with
ZJ.
Check it out...
www.erinkostermd.com
Love...
Kimmee
The Texas Wagners - Zack, Kimmee, and ZJ
We're doing great. ZJ is getting bigger and bigger, of course. He's
11 months old and I can't believe he'll be one soon. When he turned
10 months, we took him for his first haircut. The hair growing past
his ears was getting to be a little much... I feared people might
begin to think he was a girl. So off we went... to Sharkey's Cuts for
Kids. They have a "Baby's 1st Haircut" package which included a
before and after shot, a certificate of completion, and a locket of
hair. He did extremely well. He got to sit in an F-22 fighter jet
and watch Veggie Tales while the lady quickly and efficiently gave him
a precious "little boy" haircut. He looks sharp... and I must admit,
a tad older.
ZJ is cruising everywhere. He still puts EVERYTHING in his mouth and
doesn't have a single tooth. But, all that, has not slowed him down,
he can move quickly. I found myself on the phone the other day... all
of the sudden, I had lost my baby. He quickly went to the "back" to
find his Daddy, but man he can move. There isn't a thing he can't
pull up on, and he can walk with anything - so long as he's holding
on. He's figured out how to push his high chair around the kitchen.
He's taken a few steps on his own here and there, too. He certainly
has to be in the mood for it, and we've not nailed down what mood that
is or when it comes =). He's still a very happy baby and we've been
very blessed to have a healthy baby all year long. Only typical
coughs and sneezes and one ear infection. And in my book, if you can
remember ALL the times your child has been sick in one year, you're
doing REALLY well!
As for Zack and I, we're doing just great, too. We've enjoyed our
first year with our miracle baby and know there is much more to learn
from him. We do have news, though. I am expecting our second child.
Due in late July, I am 10 weeks. I am seeing a new doctor this go
round and she's taking necessary precautions to help this pregnancy.
We've already seen our "bean" several times and heard that magnificent
heartbeat that still takes my breath away every time I hear it. My
new doctor includes a much longer drive to Presbyterian Hospital of
Plano, but she is so worth it. She is the same doctor who saw me
during my stay at Medical Center of Plano. She has been very
supportive in trying to find ways to make this pregnancy end up with a
healthy (hopefully full-term) baby in the end. I am being seen more
frequently than "normal," but we all know I am certainly not that. I
am taking an oral hormone and will begin weekly injections at week 16.
But, it will all be worth it in the end. I have been extremely ill
(but have medication that helps) and it's been very difficult hiding
this sickness from our loved ones. We wanted to wait until we knew we
had a viable pregnancy before we shared the news this time. Please
keep us in your prayers. We will keep you updated on our expanding
family... and I'll keep the updates coming on ZJ.
Merry Christmas! We love you!
Zack, Kimmee & ZJ Wagner
Ok, I know I already put out ZJ's 8 month update, but this past
weekend, Zack and I had visitors. Our friends from Kentucky that have
11 month old twins came down. We had such a great time and tried to
get as many pictures as possible. They were all trying to go in
different directions, but it was a ton of fun! So, it'll take a
little work on your part, but you can see the updated pictures on ZJ's
website.
If you visit the site, there are two albums you should view. One is
"Brady-Carter-ZJ Visit" and the other is "I'm 8 months." ZJ learned
to pull up on things and I captured that on film too!
Thanks for looking =)
Hi all. Just wanted to drop a note to let everyone know how we're
doing. If you get a chance, please visit ZJ's website. I just updated
it... www.putfile.com/picsofzj
ZJ...is well, growing like a weed! He's starting to laugh more and
more. He loves story time right before bed. As you'll see from the
pictures, he also enjoys BATH time. I would update you on weight and
all, but I don't know. He goes back to the doctor next month, so we'll
know more then. But, I can tell you he's happy and healthy! He still
looks just like Zack. My nephew was over for the 4th and said, "WOW, he
looks just like his dad!" That, coming from a 9 year old! =)
Well, Zack, ZJ, and I wish your families well. You're in our daily
prayers. And, if you haven't heard by now, I am pregnant again!!!
That's right... we're doing it again! It's early on, so we'll keep you
updated. I can tell you the doctors are going to watch me closer this
time. And in case anyone is wondering, my due date is just ONE day off
from ZJ's original due date (2/27/08). The doctor says to plan for baby
#2 to come a bit early, so it's likely ZJ and his new little sibling
will be just a year apart!
Thank you for continued thoughts, prayers, love, and support!
Zack, Kim, and ZJ (oh, and baby #2)
Well, it's almost hard to believe that 8 weeks have gone by since ZJ
joined us in this world. He's doing great and growing like crazy.
He's really learning to explore his world and Zack and I are along for
the ride =)
His "super grandma" (that is his great Grandmother Wagner) has been
staying with us during the week and taking care of him. I think they
have great fun together... and I think it's incredible that ZJ and his
Great Grandmother get to spend so much time together!!!!
Well... I'll keep it short. If you want to view some pictures of ZJ,
follow the link. I took the pictures this morning... after he eats at
6 a.m. he's really alert and ready to play... I REALLY enjoy that time
with him...
God Bless.
Love,
Kimmee, Zack, and ZJ
ZJ's 8 week old
Dear all:
I just thought I'd keep you all up to date. After all your prayers,
love, and support I wanted to let you all know that ZJ and I are doing
great. We are settled in, we have a routine, and he even slept 6 hours
last night. It was GREAT! Baby Zack is a really good baby. We really
can't complain. I fall more in love with him each day and we're really
starting to get to know one another. I can't believe a month has passed
already. He weighs just about 8 pounds and is starting to fit in some
of the newborn clothes we have for him. When the weather is nice, we
take him for walks. ZJ got to spend time with his daddy the other day -
Zack was working on his dad's truck and I put ZJ in the snuggly (Thanks
Jake and Lex!) and we hung out with daddy =) it was fun!
I'm attaching two pictures I took of him today. He was wide awake just
looking around. He's really starting to trace things now and is getting
better at holding his head up by himself. Sort of hard to believe that
he's a month old, yet his due date was just a few days ago.
Thanks again for all your prayers... they paid off!
Love,
Kimmee, Zack, and ZJ
Dear All:
Well, I know most of you have heard and probably have seen the
pictures, but ZJ (Zachary Daniel Wagner Junior) was born Sunday,
January 28th. He weighed in at 6 lbs 8.2 oz (bigger than all the
nurses and doctors had suspected). I think he's just perfect. He was
born at 7:09 p.m. and went straight to the NICU for observation. He
did so well, he did not need oxygen and thrived from time of arrival.
He did have a feeding tube for a short time, but I was able to nurse
and supplement with the bottle by day 2. I was released from the
hospital yesterday evening and ZJ this morning at 11. Zack and I
stayed at the hospital last night with him (we were able to rent the
room and keep with us) and we all came home today.
So now... well, ZJ is sleeping, which means I should be, but I just
couldn't wait to let you all know we're doing fine. I'm sure it will
take some time to adjust, but we look forward to all that's to come.
We will add pictures to this website as we get/take them. Thank you
all for your thoughts and prayers. We got exactly what we wanted... a
healthy baby... it was worth the wait, but I am glad he's here now.
Thanks again!
Love,
Dear All:
I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas with your families. Zack and I
made the best of being in the hospital. We had lots of visitors and I
got turkey dinner, too. We write now, with great news!
We had our 31 week ultrasound today and all looked great. I've been
stable for quite some time now. The doctor informed us we will be
discharged on Sunday, December 31st. Just 5 more days!!! That is,
however, if I stay stable, but she has no doubts. She is releasing back
to my original doctors - I will see them weekly. I will continue the
oral medication twice daily until 34 or 35 weeks. She is also sending
us with a two dose prescription for terbutaline for any "break through"
contractions. She did not measure the baby today, but he's doing
wonderful. When it is "time" for baby Zack to meet us, I will be
delivering him at Lake Point in Rowlett. Obviously, I will continue bed
rest while at home and it will still be a waiting game, but Zack will be
closer and we're all confident I can make it until they take me off the
medication.
It's hard for me to believe that ZJ will be here soon. I'm anxious,
cautious, and excited to go home. I have mixed emotions as you can
tell. I have grown very fond of the staff here, Dr. Koster, and the
constant care, but I know Dr. Koster knows what's best and I feel
confident with her decision. We will write again to update...
possibly writing from home.
I'm attaching my 31 week profile picture... seems to me like I grew a
lot this week. Thank you for your continued prayers, love, and support!
This has been an emotional roller-coaster, but ZJ is healthy and that
was the goal!!!
Love to all...
Kim, Zack, and ZJ
Dear All:
First, thank you for your prayers and support! We've had a fairly
stable week, although it's been rougher than some of the others.
All about baby Zack... I had my 30 week ultrasound today and he's doing
great. His brain, kidneys and heart all look wonderful. He measured a
whopping 4 lbs 3 oz, which is BIG! He's putting on a little under 1 lb
every 2 weeks. We got some funny pictures of him today, he was very
active and decided to put his foot in his mouth while we were watching.
Most kids suck their thumbs... not ours... he sucks his toes. It was
really cute to watch and he kept making "pouty" faces. All in all, ZJ
is doing wonderfully - we couldn't ask for more! He moves around a
lot... has taken my breath away more than a few times, but it's still a
miraculous thing to feel.
All about mommy... I'm doing good, too. I'm excited about the future
(and getting anxious). Tonight is another "Ladies in Waiting" outing, so
it'll be fun. All that said, I did have a rough weekend. My
contractions started up again (fairly frequent) Friday. Zack was here,
I was put on the monitors and given a terbutaline shot Friday afternoon.
Saturday wasn't great, but no shots. Sunday was a day of ups and
downs... again, I was having quite a few contractions, but it was hard
for me to judge when to call the nurses. I tried doing all the things
nurses mention to be good (drink lots and rest), but it seemed they just
wouldn't go away. I didn't want another shot, but woke up at 2:45 a.m.
(Sunday night/Monday morning) with contractions.
They put me on the monitors and by 3:30 a.m. the nurse greeted me with
shot in hand. Since then, I've been pretty stable. Yesterday's
monitoring didn't go well and had to call the nurse to be "watched" an
additional time. Again, though, no shots thankfully. Yesterday evening
was good, I still got to go out (hadn't been out since last
Wednesday)... Zack and I had dinner at Fruitlatti here in the hospital.
Today's monitoring was indifferent. Still having contractions, but
they're not intense enough to have a shot. The Dr made me feel good...
yesterday the nurse called to ask her opinion of my contractions, Dr.
Koster said, "Kim will let you know if it's bad/painful enough to
justify a shot." After talking further with the doctor today, she is
leaning toward releasing me to home at 32 weeks (not back to my original
doctors). Her fear, though, is I won't know when it's bad enough to
come back. She said between 35-37 weeks they would discontinue the
procardia and allow me to deliver when my body feels like it. It's
still TBD whether that delivery will happen here or at Lake Point. Lake
Point is a Level 2 nursery (I originally thought Level 1) and Dr. Koster
(my doctor now) said she would want to contact them first to verify they
can handle ZJ before releasing me there. I'd really love for Dr. Koster
to deliver me, but it's a delicate balance with the drive and how
quickly I could possibly progress. Obviously, we'll let you know more
as we find out more.
All about daddy... well, first he's thankful this is his last week of
work until January 3rd. He's exhuasted, but he doesn't tell me that.
He waits on me hand and foot. He has stayed with me every night since
I've arrived. For those keeping count, that's been since November 20th,
we're working on our 5th week. He really has a good sense of humor
about it all and the nurses really like him. The nutrition people like
him b/c he takes my tray when I'm done and they don't have to come back
and get it. I think he's enjoying the free (insurance paid, I'm sure,
lol) coffee, hot chocolate and ice cream. He did purchase a toll tag,
which will help with the cost of commuting. His
7 days off from work will help a ton, too. If I do get to go home, we
both are very thankful he'll be around for a few days to get me settled.
He plans to spend his time off here with me.
Christmas will be spent in the hospital, as will New Years, but we're
fine with that! Zack's going to bring me Christmas dinner and our
family will come visit, too! Heck, you never know, maybe Zack and I
will actually stay awake to ring in the New Year this year. (Last year
we were awake, but missed the countdown playing blackjack with some
friends, LOL). We're very hopeful that baby Zack will be a 2007 baby.
I realize a lot can happen in 2 weeks, but everyday is different.
Again, I couldn't be more pleased with my care here. The nurses and
staff are great. We can't thank you all enough for your love and
support! I'm attaching a picture of me from Sunday. Obviously with ZJ
growing, so is my belly. I had to document making it to the big 3-0...
it's a big step. I was already up, so don't worry, and I laid down
immediately after the picture was taken.
I will update again in a week, but that will be AFTER Christmas (can you
believe it). Merry Christmas to all from me, Zack and ZJ. Please be
safe and take time to enjoy your life. This situation has reminded me
the "gift of life" is just that. It's miraculous and wonderful.
God Bless You and Your Families!
Kimmee, Zack & ZJ
Dear All:
Well, no news is good news! I had another ultrasound yesterday. Baby
Zack is still big and healthy. He was making all sorts of faces and I
got some good pictures of him. I have had a very stable week. I only
get a few contractions an hour and haven't had any shots of
terbutaline. The doctor said "only 3 more weeks," so it looks like
I'll be here through Christmas and New Year's for sure, which is fine
by me. A lot can happen 3 weeks. The doctor also said this is an
important three weeks with lots of development going on.
As for me... I'm doing well. I get to "go out" every couple days for
20 minutes. Zack pushes me around, I've been outside to a little
garden here, we went to Fruitlati for dinner here, oooh and awww at
the nursery and just wander the hallways. I got a very good Sunday
(the 10th). It started with my mom bringing us breakfast...then I was
surprised that my two cousins and aunt came by. We spent a couple
hours hanging out... thye brought be some smell good stuff, puzzles,
and a pack for bathing baby when he gets here. Sunday evening I got
another huge surprise. Elizabeth and Lauren (two of my work buddies)
through me a shower on behalf of Vistawall. They got me my stroller
and car seat, the bouncy chair, monitor, excersaucer, etc. Elizabeth
and Lauren had to throw in some other stuff like a couple preemie
outfits and this really neat sponge bath thing (sorry, not sure what
it's called, but it's neat)! They stayed for awhile to visit and we
had a good time!
Well, my first goal was 28 weeks... I made it! My next goal was to
see the 30's... I'm getting so close.
Zack's doing well. He's still staying with me here, but I think he's
got a pretty good routine down. It's a long drive back and forth to
work, but he's only got a week and a half left of work and he'll be
off the rest of the year. He's been in good spirits and he still
fetches me all the things I need. He gives all the nurses a hard
time, but that's Zack. =)
Mentally, I think we're all hanging in there very well. With the
addition of my nights out... it's really not bad. I know everyone is
still praying for us and we appreciate it. God is taking care of us.
Thanks for sending those messages to Him. Your thoughts and prayers
mean more to us than words can explain.
Love,
Kimmee & Zack (and ZJ)
Dear all:
As of today, I'm 28 weeks 3 days. The doctor's are very happy with my
progress (or lack there of). I had an ultrasound today... ZJ measured
3 lbs 7 oz. As the doctor said, he's a big baby. She even teased
that I might WANT to deliver early. My contractions are few and far
between now. I only have 3 or so an hour. I will stay in the
hospital until 30-32 weeks. At which time they'll reassess. The
doctors (and Zack and I) feel much comfortable being here with the
Level 3 NICU. As far as me progressing physically, they were very
happy with the outcome. She checked my cervix (length, not dilation)
and said it was shortening, but still looked good for 28 weeks. I'm
still on procardia twice daily. I've only had the terbutaline shot
once, so we're happy for that.
As for ZJ... he's big and active. He kept his mommy up for about an
hour this morning just moving around... after a not so good night
sleep on my part (apparently good on his) he was full speed ahead this
morning. Although he's starting to get big and it gets uncomfortable
when he moves "BIG" it's reassuring when he does. As many of you have
said, this is practice for when he's here and I don't get a "full"
night of sleep for a very long time =)
As for me... I'm good. I have a ton of stuff to choose from.
Scrapbooking, reading, beading, writing thank you's, watching TV,
movies, puzzles, etc. And of course, we have to fit in eating and
online blackjack...as well as keeping up with emails. Last night I
was released to go to "Ladies in Waiting." The Junior League of Plano
sponsors this event. It's the first and third Tuesday of the month.
They do dinner and a craft. Last night we had pizza and decorated
onesies with iron-on decals. It's 2 hours of out of the room social
time... it was fun and nice to get out. There were only 3 of us there
last night. The other two were having girls, so I got to hog all the
boy stuff. =) Today, I was released to begin "wheelchair walks."
This is where Zack can push me around for a bit in the evenings ...
again, just seeing the outside of this room will be nice. My room,
however, is very homey. I have a small Christmas tree, many flowers,
and some stuffed animals. It's nice. 99% of the nurses have been
wonderful. I'm only slightly bitter b/c today's nurse was not great,
but I have to remember I've not had a bad one yet, so it was due to
come. Mentally, I'm great. Really. I have some ups and downs, but
I'd be worse off at home, I think. I've started to fill out ZJ's baby
book/journal. It's not near as bad as I would have expected. I know
I've said it several times... and maybe I just need to say it to
remind myself, but this is a VERY SMALL price to pay for a healthy
baby. We've waited along time for this (and will continue to wait)
and I want to do whatever I can to ensure ZJ greets us safe and sound.
As for Zack... well, I can certainly let him speak for himself, but I
have to say he's been absolutely WONDERFUL! He's stayed here every
night with me. He's doing my laundry, gives me foot and back rubs,
refills my water, gets me hot tea, and is basically at my beckoned
call anytime! His sleeping quarters are not the best, but he's been a
trooper. He's working during the day and staying here at night. It's
certainly not easy, but he too is making the best of it. I think I
have the best husband ever =)
Thank you all for your continued thoughts and prayers. God works
wonders! We will continue to keep you updated. I'll have weekly
ultrasounds, but they'll only measure him every two weeks. He gained
nearly a pound in the last two weeks and I think that's just GREAT!
Thanks again for all you've done!
Love,
Kimmee and Zack (and baby Zack, too)
Great site! Working out much better than the last prospect.
Love you!!!