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To close out May, my parents came up for my birthday.  The kids really enjoyed seeing Grammy Connie and Papa Steve.  Abby was stuck like glue to my mom!  Poor lady couldn't even go to the restroom alone!  Desi and Justin stopped by for dinner and then we went to a movie since we had babysitters!  It was a late movie, so the kids were already asleep when we left.  Not too bad for birthday #36!  The bad thing is, my allergies decided to kick it into high gear! 

While we had access to my parent's truck (Sean's is still not running), dad and I went to pick up  Abby's big girl bed.  She's needed one for a while, but we just haven't had the means to transport it.  A couple of months ago, I got a Groupon for a local mattress store where I got $200 worth for $50!  I thought that was an exceptional deal!  And Abby loves her big girl bed.  Since her old bed is a lifetime crib, we moved it into TJ's room.  So, we've got a shuffle going on trying to clean everything up.

Mom and dad brought some really warm weather with them, too!  IT got up into the 90's over the holiday weekend.  I got the kids a sprinker, which Abby loves.  But TJ doesn't like the grass at all!  Oh well!

My parents went home on Sunday.  Thankfully, I was able to take Monday off because it was a busy, busy week!  I went to Abby's parent teacher conference on Tuesday.  She's doing well in her school work.  The only thing that the teacher said was that she can be bossy sometimes.  Wonder where she gets that?!?!?!  So, we will be working on that.

Then Wednesday night we had the dress rehearsal for Abby's dance recital.  Wow!  This is the first time I've done anything like this. I didn't take dance when I was younger, but I did a lot of  musical, show choir type stuff in high school.  There were tons of kids!!!  But they did really well!  I was not as prepared as I shouold have been, but I left from work and was lucky to have all of her costume with us!  So, I did get some video.  Now, I just need to figure out how to get it uploaded. As soon as I get that done, I will post it.

Thursday was TJ's eye apt.  I had an off-site for work, so Sean had to take him.  this was the first time I had not been with him.  I was a little sad.  But Sean said he did great!  They had to dialate his eyes on this trip.  They did a 3-D test, which he passed.  The Dr. said that his vision was fine.  It didn't look like he would even need glasses.  So, he has Horner's Syndrome, we don't know why, but it doesn't look like it affects him much.  YAY!  This was also the last time we would get to see Dr. Bonsall.  He's moving to WV to another hospital.  But they told Sean that his replacement is from DC and that she has even more experience.  That's great and all, but I have totally gotten used to Dr. Bonsall and will miss him terribly.  Children's is a great hospital.  But hope you never need to find that out!!!!! (Ironically, the off-site meeting I had was at a local plastics plant that was giving a tour to Children's hospital due to having 8 years without a loss-time accident.  Children's wanted to find out how they managed that.  It was amazing to be sitting in a room with surgeons, VP's, research analysts, etc. who are working to make their hospital a safer place for their employees and patients.  It was very surreal.  We were there for the same reason, but on a much, much smaller scale.  But we were lucky to get to be allowed to meet at the same time with them.) 

And finally, Abby had her very first dance recital today.   They did great!  I got a few pictures.  The place was packed!!!!  Every seat in the high school auditorium was filled.  The school was up on the other side of Cincy, and since we didn't have a babysitter, Sean didn't go.  It would have just been topo much for TJ.  So again, the guys got to hang out without us.  Next up- packing for CA!!!!  When we return, TJ will start school with Abby at Goddard.  I am going to miss  Mrs. Kelly, but I really think it is time for TJ to move on.  Oh summer!  Here we come!  (Also, Abby is old enough now to go on actual field trips. SO, this summer she will be getting to ride a real school bus and go on field trips!  I am going to go with her on a few.  how exciting!)

Although May is not over, I thought I would get started on this post early.  May has seen the weather warm up, but we still have weeks and weeks of what seems like unending RAIN!!!

We've been spending time at the park, on the back deck, and generally being a family.  Abby is learning to tie her shoes.  She also wanted to try curly hair, so I got some of those old-timey foam rollers.  They worked, but the curl didn't last too long.  TJ is eating really well with a fork.  He even went potty on th ebig boy potty last weekend, although I think it was just a fluke.  Abby had her first dance recital rehearsal (with another rehearsal in a week, and the performance in June). We had Zoo night last weekend (a gift from my work).  Abby and TJ both did so well.  TJ loves the train, of course!  And they both got to ride the carousel.  TJ was too little last time.  Abby tried to sleep oout in the tent on the back deck with daddy that night, but they came in because the frogs were too loud.  So, we tried it again this weekend.  Success! Abby loves "camping".  I got them a small play camping pop-up "tent" with accessories (lamp, cook stove, flask) at Costco yesterday.  This way, TJ can play "camping" as well!  (Too cute, and great price at $25, I might add.)

While Abby and I were at her recital rehearsal, TJ and daddy had some quality man time.  TJ helped Sean with his project of beer making.  Don't worry- he's just trying to build a mash ton (sp?) and TJ helped.

We also got to see some old friends last weekend at Tommy's graduation party.  (Congrats, Tommy!)  Dick Thompson is one of our old Gap buddies who we haven't seen since our wedding.  He came up from Nashville for the party with his wife and two kids who are around our kids ages.  It was wonderful to see them again! 

Today, the kids and I went to the butterfly show at Krohn Conservatory.  It was a BEAUTIFUL day for it!  The sun was shining, slight breeze, and not too hot.  Both kids did really well and seemed to enjoy it!  TJ is always the trooper since he was kinda stuck in the stroller the whole time- but no complaints!  This was a test for Abby since she has been a bit of a challenge here lately.  I am hoping it is the age.  Or maybe she's picking up "attitude" from her friends at school.  Whatever it is, it needs to end!  So, I let her know that our trip to the butterfly show today was test, and if she didn't pass it, then we would have to re-evaluate our trip to Disney next month.  Needless to say, she was an angel!

And yes, we are gearing up for our trip to CA next month!  I need to start a packing list.  I got each kid their own backpack for the plane ride, so they can have some of their own stuff with them.  This will be interesting....more to come!

 

 

I am so lucky!  For all the reasons that are typical as well as all those little things that you take for granted.  My family loves me, and although we don't always show it or say it enough, I know it!

Sean gave me flowers and a basket of "home spa" goodies on Saturday.  On Sunday, the kids gave me a Cat in the Hat game so we could spend some quality time together.  It was a blast!

April seemed to go by so fast!  We were so glad that the weather started to warm up, but most of April was rainy.  We have been spending a lot more time out on the deck.

Abby had a very fun birthday party in April.  It was a tea party.  I had no idea that there were companies that will come into your home, bring the food, tea sets/place settings, a craft, and all the accessories.  It was a blast!

I had to work for a little on Easter, but it wasn't too bad.  The kids dyed some eggs, and they both had baskets on Easter morning.

March, 2011

 

Wow.  March is a busy month.  First, Sean’s birthday.  Then Chris, his brother’s birthday.  Then Abby’s birthday.  Then Megan’s birthday!

 

Sean was sick for his birthday.  He had been sick the entire week before.  Poor guy.  We got him a bin full of gardening stuff, including a “grow your own Sequoia!”  He also got a book about Lincoln, Ken Burn’s PBS documentary on the Civil War, and several volumes of Shelby Foote’s books about the Civil War.  (We spent several nights watching the documentary…amazing!  Just amazing!)

 

TJ has been growing like a weed.  He’s taller and leaner now.  He throws a ball really well and can climb up on the couch (or really anything).  We moved him into a booster seat instead of the high chair.  We brought our coffee table back in, but took it back out after two really bad falls into it.  (Poor kid is bruised up.  Should have known that boys were more danger-prone!) He’s talking a lot more now, too.  He likes to sing and dance.  And generally as long as he has been fed, he is happy.  But watch out!  If he gets hungry- you need to feed him!

 

Abby turned four on Friday, 3/18.  I had gotten her a butterfly balloon Thursday night along with a special birthday plate (again, a yearly ritual) which she saw first thing Friday morning.  We had a special crabby patty (aka cheeseburger) that night for dinner and opened all of the family presents.  Wow!  The next morning we had her party at a local inflatables place.  We invited all of the kids in her class as well as lots of our friends.  There were 18 kids that came.  Everyone seemed to have a BLAST!  But I was a little shocked at the number of gifts.  We actually ran out of time to open them and had to take them home with us after eating pizza and cupcakes (which stained all of their faces/mouths).  Abby and TJ passed out, then we got to open her gifts.  I am still amazed!  (We have several gifts put up in the top of her closet unwrapped, but unopened.  We may get them out on a rainy day or for a special treat! Wow.)

 

Also, we are planning to get Abby a “big girl bed.” Pictures will surely be posted when we do!

 

(And we’ve had lots of fish deaths in the last month…four, actually.)

 

And more travel for Sean.  This time, he had to go to Canada.  That was a rough week for me.  Work was a pain in my behind…and we had the kids check-ups.  I was amazed that Abby got FIVE shots! TJ only had one- his last until he turns 4.  Her poor arms are all red and hurt.  (And she won’t let me take the band aids off!!)

 

Stats for TJ:  32 ¾ inches tall (85%) and 29 lbs (85%)

Stats for Abby: 40 inches tall (50%) and 35.5 lbs (55-60%)

February, 2011

 

February was pretty laid back. Sick kids, ear infections, sick mommy, some more snow.  But there was Valentine’s Day!!!!  Abby had her Valentine’s party for school which they have a local senior center.  There is a DJ (Sean’s boss, actually), and lots of dancing!!  Abby loves this party.  So, of course we went! And we had a new red dress to wear to it (which I got at a consignment store for $8.00!).  Abby got a valentine from her friend Tarek.  He is super sweet.  And they all danced until they almost passed out.  We even danced with Bob, the DJ.  Abby now refers to him as daddy’s Bob.

 

TJ had another eye appointment.  Things still seem fine.  We need to go back in June.  Bad thing is our eye doctor is taking a director position at another hospital in another state.  He’s leaving us!!!!!  I am so sad about this.  You get used to someone, ya know!

 

And more travel for Sean.  (Luckily this trip is to Gallatin, so he got to see my folks.  Love this man!  He went to see MY folks without me!  How sweet!)

 

And I got Abby’s birthday party location booked…..my how time is flying!

January, 2011

 

New Year’s was simple.  We watched the parade. TJ wasn’t really paying attention, but when the Cal Poly float went by he started cheering and waving his arms.  Guess he likes it!

 

January weather is unpredictable!  I don’t like snow, but I hate (and I do mean HATE) ice.  We got a little “dusting” one Friday afternoon that turned to ice when it hit the pavement.  I didn’t realize what was going on until I left work.  So, there were tons of wrecks and crazy near-misses.  But a normally 30 minute commute home ended up taking about 3 hrs.  With a cranky, hungry TJ in the back seat who had lost his binky within the first 10 minutes!  AAARRGHH!  But we made it home ok.  Thankfully!

Back in September I signed up to take the GRE to get into grad school.  Well, to be honest, I had forgotten all about it between work, the holidays, and just living.  So, when I realized the test date had arrived, I had done absolutely no prep for it.  The cost of the test was about $165, and I didn’t want to waste it.  So,  I went anyway.  With no test prep.  It was harder than I would have liked, but not too bad.  I did fairly well considering.  I think I hit the average on the nose.  Enough to get me in, I think.  Whoo hoo!!!

 

And Sean has started travelling for work again.  Why does it have to snow 6 inches while he’s gone?  Why?

 

And my little Abby is lucky enough to have lots of great friends at school.  So, we get to go to lots of birthday parties!  This month, was Sofia’s birthday.  It was at Silverlake, a gym/pool/family place with bounce houses and swimming!  Abby was in the water all by herself.  I didn’t plan on getting in around a lot of people I didn’t know.  Plus, none of the other parents got in.  But I was impressed with her for getting in without me.  Growing up so fast!

December, 2010

 

 

Usually December is one of my favorite months.  I have always loved Christmas- the music, shopping, putting up the tree.  But this year was really hard for me.  I had gotten spoiled last year when I was unemployed.  I mean, I am thankful that I have a job that I enjoy.  But I really missed spending all that time with the kids- singing and dancing to Christmas music, making treats and gifts, and doing all the fun stuff like that.  It was difficult trying to fit in all the things I wanted to do in the amount of time that I had, which was usually just one weekend day a week!

 

However, we did get to do some fun things in December:

·   Museum Center-trains, trains, trains!  Abby got to ride the train about 5 times!  Loved it!  TJ enjoyed it, too.  Justin and Desi came out to help.  And….Abby got her picture taken with a REAL ballerina!!  From the Nutcracker!!!  We also went thru the cave section which Abby really enjoyed.  (She went thru twice.) 

·   Goddard Christmas Party- Abby got her picture taken with Santa and Mrs. Clause.

·   Cincinnati Zoo’s Festival of Lights- cold night, grouchy kids.  Oh well.

·   Nutcracker ballet- this has become a ritual for us.  Abby did really well.  She was a little more prepared for it this time.  It was a mommy/daughter day!  She was really interested in the orchestra.  Our seats were amazing!  5 rows back from the orchestra pit.  After the ballet was over, we had lunch and went to the aquarium.  Perfect time to go…no one was there!  We had our picture made with scuba Santa!

 

Christmas itself was nice and uneventful!  My parents came up with Alex.  Desi and Justin came over on Christmas eve and we opened family presents.  Everyone seemed to enjoy their gifts.  We opened up Santa’s presents on Christmas morning after breakfast.  It is nice that Abby is still patient enough to wait on us. The kids got tons of wonderful gifts.  We are so very blessed.

November, 2010 (Part Two)

 

Once we got over the emotional rollercoaster of the MRI, it was almost time for Thanksgiving! 

 

In the meantime, things had really picked up at work.  We were trying to get ready for our first peak holiday season.  So, that meant lots of overtime.  I hate working so much during such a wonderful time of year, but alas, since I am the Training Coordinator, not much can be done about that.  However, I am grateful that I didn’t have to put in the hours that the rest of the supervisors did- they worked six 12 hour days!  Ouch!

 

The night before Thanksgiving, mom and dad drove up from TN.  On Thanksgiving day, Justin and Desi came over.  We had a BLAST!  It was such a relaxing and enjoyable day!

 

Also, at some point TJ began walking.  He had been “cruising” for a while, but started walking pretty well in November.  The bad part is that I didn’t document any of it.  I don’t remember what day, or anything!  How sad is that!?!?!?  I hope he doesn’t ever ask!

November, 2010 (Part One)

November was full of emotion for us.   TJ has been going to the ophthalmologist since he was 3 months old.  We had another regularly scheduled eye apt.  When we this time, the doctor decided we should do another test to either confirm or deny that TJ has Horner’s Syndrome.  So, we went to Cincinnati Children’s to have cocaine eye drops placed in his eyes.  The receptors in your brain respond differently to the chemical in cocaine.  Those drops were really crazy difficult to get.  They had to special order them.  And they wouldn’t make them until we actually got there.  The doctor joked that he could have gotten it easier and faster if he had just gone down to the corner. Hahahaha.  He’s a really good doctor.  I totally trust him.  Well, the results were not what I expected.  I thought that his eyes would respond.  But nope.  The one eye responded almost immediately.  But the other eye, his left eye, did not change at all.  Which means he has Horner’s.  So, the doctor suggested an MRI to rule out any neurological issues.  So, they were really quick in scheduling the MRI.  We went in on Saturday, November 13^th, just 3 days later.  It was early.  Really early.  Thankfully, Justin and Desi spent the night so that we wouldn’t have to get Abby up.  The hard part was TJ couldn’t have anything to eat or drink that morning.  By the time we got to Children’s he was a little cranky.  The details of that morning are kinda blurry now.  I just remember how helpless I felt.  (And also thankful that our family was not touched by some of the horrible things that some of the children at the hospital were there for.)  They gave TJ some gas to put him out.  Sean was holding him.  I have only seen my husband cry twice.  This was the second.  SCARY!  TJ just went limp.  I will say that the doctors and nurses were absolutely wonderful!  Excellent!  At that point, we left to go to the waiting area.  The MRI took about an hour and half.  When we were finally called back, he was in the recovery room.  That was scary, too!  He was pale and still.  And you could tell that he was cold.  They brought him out and he woke up with no problem.  They gave him graham crackers and water.  We had no idea that he would like the crackers so much!  He was still a little groggy, but OK.  (And flirting with the nurses!)  He didn’t even flinch when they took the IV out!!!  They told us to keep him quiet and still for the rest of the day.  Yeah, right!  By the time we got home, he was back to his normal self.  He acted as though nothing had happened.  Sean and I were exhausted, but grateful.  They wouldn’t have the MRI reading done until Monday or Tuesday, so we had to wait.  That was not fun, but we were sure that nothing was wrong.  I called on Monday, and they gave the results: nothing out of the normal.  No masses.  No cancer.  Relief.

October 2010

Well, October was loads of fun!  Halloween is one of my favorite holidays.  And fall is just beautiful.  Since our summer and fall was unusually hot and dry, the leaves didn’t turn beautiful colors like they did the year before.  But it was still a beautiful time.  We were able to do lots of fun stuff even though I was working crazy hours.  (Trying to get a start-up retail-oriented operation ready for Christmas season with employees who have only been working for a few weeks…..crazy for the training coordinator- ME!)

First of all, Abby got to go to her first high school football game.  I haven’t been to one in years!  TJ stayed home with daddy since he wasn’t feeling too good.  It was the perfect football weather, too!  Crisp and clear!  We didn’t stay for the whole game.  We made the mistake of sitting in the area next to where the band sits.  LOUD!  But Abby was very interested in the instruments.  And somehow, she never even noticed the cheerleaders.  She didn’t really “watch” the game, but she seemed to enjoy it.  Maybe it was because Aunt Desi and Uncle Justin were there?!?!?  She just loves those two tons!

Next up: Hall-zoo-ween!  We took advantage of the warm fall weather and made a trip to the zoo.  Unfortunately, so did everyone else.  And I didn’t realize that it was costume day, so there were lots of kids there in costume.  Abby really enjoyed the bears eating a pumpkin!

And you can’t forget the pumpkin patch/petting zoo/hayride!  Desi and Justin went with us and stayed for dinner, too!  We made the mistake of going rather late.  It was almost closing time.  But we still got to pet lots of goats and sheep, take a hayride, and pick out a pumpkin!  TJ seemed to really like the animals.  As a side note- uncle Justin got him a plastic machete and raccoon skin cap, so there were some Kodak moments before the excursion.  (The hat was more of gag gift for Sean since we have had lots of problems with raccoons eating our dog food.  Sean had to buy and modify a deck box to keep the dog food in.  Those things are waaayyy smarter than we give them credit for.  We practically had to lock it!)

Abby was rather indecisive regarding what she wanted to be for Halloween.  First, it was Indiana Jones, then it was Harry Potter, then a princess….  So, she was a princess with crown and all for the trick-or-treating at a local shopping area.  Then on Halloween night, she was Hermione.  We carved pumpkins Halloween night as well.  Sean is a master carver.  Abby wasn’t too interested, but TJ sure was!  He liked digging into it and pulling the “guts” out.  TJ and Sean dressed alike for Halloween.  They both had red flannel shirts on.  I guess you could say that they were rednecks.  They handed out candy while Abby and I went trick-or-treating around the neighborhood.  We just went up to a few houses.  Most people sit out in their driveways with fire pits which makes it really nice.  By dark, most trick-or-treaters had left.  I don’t think we actually had anyone stop by after we went inside.  All-in-all, it was a really cool Halloween!  Next year should be interesting since both will probably be going….

Today is January 20, 2011 and a snow day.  So, I am taking this opportunity to catch up on my blogging.  Well, to my utter shock, it has been five months since my last post!  What?!?!?  Where did the time go?  Since I have so much to catch up on, I will try to do this in smaller sections by month or event.

Aug/Sept 2010

Sean’s parent drove out to see us at the end of August.  It was wonderful to see them, but I had to work pretty much the whole time!  But it was a great to see them with the kids.  Abby just loves her Grammy and Pop Pop! They were here for Pop Pop’s birthday, so we went to Mitchell’s and had some wonderful food!  Sean and the kids got to go to Jungle Jim’s and Costco to prepare for TJ’s birthday party. 

We had TJ’s birthday party on the 4^th.  My parents and brother, Alex, came up from TN, Desi and Justin, our favorite babysitter, Erin, as well as our friends Amy and Tommy and their kids Jack and Caroline were there.  It was a simple party with hot dogs and chips.  I made TJ his own personal-sized cake like I did for Abby.  But TJ got a white cake with real frosting instead of the made from scratch carrot cake that Abby got.  I simply ran out of time!  But I did buy a star-shaped cake pan which was kinda cool.  One of our dear friends let us borrow her bounce house which filled our entire front yard!  The kids loved it!  TJ was really interested in his cake and tried to eat it like a hamburger.  But it was just too big, and it broke.  By 6pm he was passed out on the living room floor.  Poor guy!  But it was a wonderful party with lots of love and friends!His actual birthday fell on Labor Day, which I took from work.  He opened most of his presents that morning.  It was interesting trying to keep Abby from opening them.  She didn’t quite understand that they weren’t for her.

Unfortunately, Grammy and Pop Pop had to go home.  They had been away for several weeks.  And we all know that nothing is quite like your own bed!  We hated to see them go, but understood that they were ready to be home.

The remainder of September was still fun.  Abby and Daddy went camping in the big tent out in the back yard.  Sean made a camp fire, roasted marshmallows, and everything!  They stayed out there all night!  I was so proud of Abby!  Sean had inflated the two twin mattresses, so it wasn’t too rough. (But if you ask him, it was still pretty bad.)  The next morning, Sean made campfire coffee and hot chocolate for Abby.  He made eggs and bacon as well!  Sean said that he didn’t sleep all that well.   He could hear all the wild animals walking through the area.  But he said that Abby did really well.  Again, so proud!  She’s growing up too fast.

Life for us shifted into high gear a few weeks ago....I went back to work full time.  It happened so quickly that I didn't have time to worry about it.  We have since been working out the kinks and getting into a routine.  My new position is Training Coordinator for HK Logistics.  We are a sort facility for Amazon.  It is a new operation that started back in May.  So, I have been very busy at work.  I went from working zero hours outside the home to 55-60 a week.  It has been an adjustment to say the least.  The biggest adjustment was for TJ who hasn't known any other caregiver than Sean and I.  So, the first few weeks have been harder on him.  But by the end of week three he seemed to have gotten over any separation anxiety.  Whew!  However, I am still planning on going back to school in the spring.  So, this may just be a short term solution.

But prior to me going back to work, we were still in full summer mode: swimming, playing in the sprinklers, Abby "camping out" in the tent with daddy on the back deck (all night I might add), trips to the library, picnics at the park, etc. I have to admit that I will and do miss all that time with my kiddos.  But I am thankful for the opportunity that I got.  I will also admit that I like my job a lot.  (Not the hours so much, but hey.)

TJ is growing like a weed.  He's just getting taller.  Still in size 4 diapers since like 4 months old!  He is pretty much eating table food.  He LOVES sweet potato.  He is almost ready to walk...almost.  He loves his sister, and he loves to "chase" her around.  Abby is very tolerant of him as well.  (Most of the time, at least.)  I am very blessed.  VERY.

I finally downloaded all the pictures that were on my phone.....some are really old.  Check 'em out!

I cannot complain with boredom!  We have been keeping fairly busy.  We went to the Zoo with Amy, Jack, and Caroline Bowman.  Abby really loves Jack!  They did really well for such a hot, muggy day!  The Zoo updated the kids section and has added quite a few more zoo keepers walking around with animals.  I was totally impressed.  Abby got to pet/touch a bird (can't remember type- just that it was black), feed an alpaca, touch a snake (I know!), and turtle (one of the zoo keepers was two steps behind all the kids with hand sanitizer...it was funny to watch him try to get each kid's hands clean after touching the turtle!)

We also went with the Bowman's on Friday to a local place called Jump Zone where they have 7 or so HUGE infatables to jump in or slide down.  I had never been, but I guarantee we will be back.  The price was kinda steep at $9/kid (no charge for babies or adults) since we just stayed maybe an hour and a half.  But Abby, Jack, Caroline, and even TJ were able to have a fun time.

Yesterday we went to the pool with Justin and Desi since we haven't been in a while and Daddy was roofing for Habitat for Humanity  (work-related).  Abby and TJ both just love the water!  Abby is so much more independent this year in the water.  And TJ...well TJ is just my happy, go-with-the-flow guy!  We had lunch and headed home for a nap.  TJ slept for 3 hours!  Wow!  After Sean got a shower and a backrub (He and his co-workers hauled an entire pallet of shingles up to the roof before they could begin roofing!  He's such a great guy!) we headed out to our local Florence Freedom ball park to watch a baseball game.  (I was worried that Abby would be disappointed.  She thought we were going to a football game.  Looks like we will be spending some time this fall at some High School football games.)  It was still hot, but there was a nice breeze.  Abby was too excited to eat.  But I think she really liked going.  She really liked the big mascots!  (I will have to upload those photos from my phone when I get a chance.)  There is a playground area for the kids, lots of family-friendly activities, and food.  We ended up leaving around 9:00 pm or so.  Big day!  Abby went right to sleep...with the little "Belle" doll that aunt Desi/unlce Justin got her.  (Belle is one of the mascots...a pink eagle?)

Needless to say, we are taking it easy today.  (Although I did mow the grass today since Sean is still a little sore from roofing.  I have to admit...I haven't mowed our grass since before I found out I was pregnant with Abby.  It has been a while!  And I have the blisters to prove it!  But I did it all with the push mower, not the riding mower.  I just didn't want to stop once I started.)

Fuinger guard- The last time we took Abby to the dentist, he mentioned that we still have a little time to reverse the damage caused by Abby sucking on her fingers.  I have tried so many things...bitter nail polish, treats/praise, candy/suckers/gum, pickle juice, lemon juice, bandages, mittens/gloves.  Nothing seems to work.  So, we broke down and got the silicone finger guard.  (A gift from Grammy, but we won't tell Abby that.)  I think we are on day #6.  So far, it is working really well.  I can tell a difference already.  It is a "new" thing to Abby, so the first few days she asked for us to put it on.  We don't send her to school in it, and she only went to bed with it on one night.  She woke up around 12:30 crying for us to take it off.  But she would rather not wear it.  So it is a good deterrant (sp?).  She knows that if I see her sucking on her fingers, I will put it on her.  She even does really well in the car!  I am so thankful!  The makers said it takes about 4 weeks. Hoping that this continues to work as well as it has been!

In the world of me- I finally got my hair cut.  It has been a couple of weeks now.  I took a picture in with an example of how I wanted it cut, but they cut it waaaayyy shorter than the picture.  It looks good, just shorter than I wanted.  And I have bangs.  Still getting used to it.

Also, I applied to Northern Kentucky University.  I am hoping to get my Masters in Education/Teaching over the next few years.  I won't be able to join that program until next fall, but that gives me time to take all the tests, get the letters of recommendation, take any pre-requisites, etc.  I figure now is as good of a time as any.  We'll see!

TJ is growing up so fast.  He's turning into a little boy right in front of our eyes!  Since my post back in June, he began crawling "properly" as well as pulling himself up and "cruising."  He is so tall that we have to move things out of his reach now.  He is still thinning out...just getting longer!  He has tooth #6, and has been eating a lot more table food.  I have to admit that I am a bit lazy when it comes to feeding him.  He's been on the pre-made Gerber baby food for a while now.  But I am working on feeding him a more diverse diet.  One thing that we discovered that he really likes (no surprise) is ice cream.  So now, if you come to the couch with a bowl, he will be right there with his mouth open for some!  (Don't worry.  We don't give him much.)

And I wanted to share one last story that I forgot to add in my last post:  When we went to the Air Force Museum, there were a lot of exhibits that shouldn't be touched.  And for those of you who know, Abby loves buttons.  She just can't help herself!  There were some touch screen computers in front of some of the exhibits where you can touch/select a certain aircraft and drill down to find out specific info regarding missions/etc.  We knew that she would like that, but what we didn't know was how well she would navigate it.  There were "NEXT" and "BACK" buttons on the bottom (with arrows pointing forward and back).  She could touch a picture, move through several screens, and then get back to the begining.  Sean and I kinda tested her by asking her to do it again while we watched....in awe I might add!  She was quick and knew what she was doing and where she was going.  Man! I feel OLD!  I don't think I even touched a computer before 3rd grade when we got to play "Oregon Trail." 

There were also a few planes that you could get into.  I can't remember what type of plane it was (Sean would know). As soon as he put her into it, Abby drew her arms up to her chest and wouldn't touch anything.  He said she was scared that she would actually make something happen!  Eventually, he convinced her that it was ok, that she could touch the buttons!  How funny is that?!?!?! 

 

I don't even know where to begin! First of all, Sean's sister and her family came out for a visit.  ALL THE WAY FROM COLORADO!  We had such fun just hanging out.  Abby liked having a
"big brother" for a while.  (She was Ian's shadow most of the time.) We went to the Aquarium, Wright Patterson AF Museum in Dayton, took walks, went to the park, played in the pool, and had an all-around good time.

We also have had some not-so-good experiences with raccoons getting into the dog food.  There were 6 out there one night!  Those suckers are smart and mean!

Next up: planning TJ's first birthday!

It is hard to believe that TJ is 9 months old already!!!  We went to the Dr. on Tuesday for his check-up.  Here are his stats:  weight is 24 lbs (92%) height is 30 inches (95%) and head is 90%.  So, he is proportional still.  And...HE IS SLIMMING DOWN!!!  He is finally on the charts for weight!!  (Dr. said it was between 90-92%.)  He didn't get any shots this time, but will get 3 next time.  All in all, he's doing well.  He just started trying to pull himself up this week.  He really likes that and hates when he can't do it on his own.  He gets really fussy/cranky.  So, I see walking in our very near future!

Here's what has been going on:

• TJ is getting better at getting to a sitting position by himself.  He still doesn't crawl in the conventional way, but he can move rather quickly!  He gets into everything!  I had forgotten that they can see the tiniest thing on the floor.  He likes to pull the carpet fibers out where it ends by the back door, too.  And last night he was "chasing" Abby around the living room.  When he would get tired, he would just roll over, take a second to catch his breath and continue on.  It was over before I could get the camera or video camera!  He is also eating more solid finger food.  He now has two bottom teeth and two top teeth.  And it looks like his runny nose/cough is almost gone!! YAY!!!
  
• We also went to the pool last Sunday for the first time this season.  Abby acted like she has been swimming all winter! She even jumped in (going all the way under) with just her floaties on.  (Don't worry, we were never too far from her.)  But I was really proud of her!  And TJ LOVED it!!  As soon as we got him in the floatie, he started kicking and splashing.  And all he little kids loved him, too!  The floatie has the shade on it, we had sunscreen on him, but I was still worried that he would get burned.  But thankfully, he didn't.  Both kids were wiped out afterward.  I am still trying to figure out how to get Abby into swim lessons this summer.  Since she has school, some days just won't work.  And I don't want to do weekends or nights since those are when we get to spend some time w/ Daddy!  Oh well!  We will figure something out.
• And we have been harvesting already.  So far, one blueberry and a few tiny strawberries.  Sean is on a mission to get the birds who keep eating our berries.  We also have a bunch of peas that we will eat tonight.  And my folks are bringing us some potatoes and turnips/greens from their garden down in TN.
• Sean has been hard at work painting this week.  He almost has it all done except for two walls in the kitchen and some of the trim.  It looks really nice!  (By the way, I got two blue candles from two of my best friends for my birthday.  They are almost the same color/scent and go perfectly with the new bathroom color downstairs!!!  How cool!)
• Last weekend my folks came up from TN for my birthday.  It is always nice to see them and see them with my kids!  And my birthday was nice.  Thank you to all who made it so special!
  
• Abby has graduated to the next level of dance class.  So, we got her some tap shoes yesterday.  I couldn't get them off of her, so I had to let her wear them to the car.  She did let me change them before we got to the park.  She didn't want to get them dirty.
• And finally, I still don't have a job.  In fact, no one has really even called me.  I am now a little depressed that either a) I am not qualified or b) over-qualified.  So, I decided to join a mom's group here in NKY.  I found them on meetup.com.  I am fairly outgoing, but walking up to a group of women that you don't know (but who know each other) is a little daunting.  We met at the park yesterday to let the kids run around.  It was a nice, hot day with a lovely breeze.  And the park that we went to was super cool!  I had never been since it is kinda out of the way for me.  The other mothers were nice, and Abby found a little friend who is almost 4.  His name is Gunnar.  When Sean asked her about him, she said his name was "Shooter."  I find that funny that she can associate those two things already.  It is amazing how the brain works!
  

Well, there went MAY!  Whadda ya know....ya blink twice and it's gone!  We've just been trying to keep up with the daily grind.  Sean has 4 more weeks of school this quarter, and then he starts his summer classes.   He has the first week of June off so we can paint the entire downstairs area.  We were unsuccessful in matching the colors that came with the house, so we're just going to start over.  I am not looking forward to the mess.  I know it is only temporary. But if you know me at all, you know that when something is out of place, I go a little nuts.  Just ask Sean about missing binkies! (pacifiers)  We are going to paint the living/dining and the kitchen/hall all the same color.  I am hoping that will help make the kitchen seem bigger.  The original owners didn't do a great job with the actual painting anyway, so we get to do a lot of fixing.  Sean already painted the main floor bathroom a nice, beachy blue/grey.  He found a gallon of paint at Lowe's that was a return for $5!!!! It was almost EXACTLY the same color we had decided upon!   It looks so much bigger!  But we will have to paint ALL the trim since they messed up so bad the first time around.  There were paint runs, drips, etc. I don't think they taped ANYTHING.  Nor did they remove stuff like outlets, light switches, mirrors, or toilets.  And we have picked a very neutral color in hopes that we can replace the counters some day.

TJ is VERY mobile now.  He is fast, too!  Baby-proofing was so much easier when Abby was little since we didn't have a 3 year old to drop toys, food, etc.  He is also getting another tooth.  This one is an upper front.  I don't remember Abby being this affected by teething, but TJ really seems to be in pain.  Drool, yes.  Chewing, yes.  But TJ has the runny nose thing, too.  I'm sure I just blocked all that out.  There's a reason we forget all that stuff, huh?

Abby is...well...Abby.  She's three.  I have to keep telling myself that.  I really do expect a lot out of her.  I think I expect too much sometimes.  But she is a sweetie (most of the time, anyway).  She has gotten really physical here lately.  Not sure if it is the kids at school and how they interact.  She's not trying to hurt, but I think she just doesn't realize that she is getting bigger and is pretty strong. 

Abby and I went to the ballet last Sunday at Northern KY University, which is right down the road.  The theater was smaller than the one downtown, but it was nice.  She really wanted to get on stage!!  I mean, really.  She did pretty good until the very end.  We left a little early.  Mommy should have known better than to mess with nap time.  The ballet was from 2-4, so Abby didn't really get a nap.  She fell asleep in the car for the 20 min. ride home.  And she wore her tutu.  What a cutie!  One of the main characters came out on stage before the show to explain what some of the gestures were that they would be using.  I thought that was cool since there were so many kids there!  But Abby, my little sponge, just soaked everything up.

We've also been working on helping out around the house a little.  Abby makes her bed in the morning and helps set the table, etc.  I think I may start some sort of reward system for treats at the end of the week.  Just not sure.  Every kid is different.  Every family is different.  It may or may not work.  We'll see.  Ideas are welcome.  She's also had a rough week with the overnight bed wetting.  She had three in a row where she leaked thru her pull-up.  But last night she woke us up at 12:30 so she could go pee.  And she woke up dry!  Yay!  I will gladly get up for 5 minutes rather than do laundry EVERY day! 

We also got a box of treats from Grammy and Pop Pop's trip thru the Panama Canal!  The kids really liked the inflatable ship!  And I love, love, love the necklace/earrings that I got from them for my B-day!

And finally, I have had a very profitable week.  I had contacted McNeil pharmaceuticals regarding the Tylenol/Benadryl/Motrin recall and they sent me a rebate check!!! And the pump in Abby's play sink broke.  So, I called Step 2 to see if I could order a replacement.  But since it was still under warranty, they sent it FedEx for free!!!! It got here in 3 days!  I am amazed!  Those are the reasons people stick with a certain company- the customer service!

We've just been enjoying the weather and having dad home more often.  (He has to use his vaction by July or he looses it.  So he has been taking days here and there.)  We decided to have a picnic on the back deck a few Fridays ago.  (Thanks to aunt Trudy for the picnic basket as a wedding present!!  Abby LOVED it and all the dishes and blanket!!) 

On the Thursday before, I had to take TJ to the doctor since he had a cold and pinkeye.  The drops they gave worked wonders.  But he still has an occasional cough.  He never had a fever. 

Abby woke up that Friday night (after the picnic) with a fever of 102 degrees. And it never really went down.  We gave her the Motrin, then the Tylenol, lukewarm baths, lots of fluids, rest....I even called the pediatrician's office on Sat. morning and spoke w/ a nurse. (They close at noon and it was 11:52!)  Eventually it got up to 103 and I began to panic.  But what did it in for me was the rash.  Red like a sunburn all over her.  (Little did I know that it was Scarlet Fever.)  So, we called the Pediatrician on call, and he said she should be fine until the morning and he would meet us at the office.  He tested her for strep, but I think that was just a formality because as soon as he saw the rash he said she had it.  He said that she must have a really high threshold for pain since she wasn't complaining with a sore throat.  (This is not the first time we've heard such a thing!)  Thankfully, the medicine has worked.  And I am so thankful that we have such amazing doctors!! He saved me a trip to the ER!

 

It seems like yesterday was Easter!  What happened to April, huh? 

Here are just a few updates:

- TJ discovered that he DOES NOT like grass.  He can say Dada.  It sounds like he can say pop pop as well.  But he doesn't do that all that often.  And no, he doesn't say mama.  He is moving around really well now.  But it isn't really crawling.   

- Sean's getting in the school groove.  It takes some time away from us, but it is for a good cause.  So, I am not complaining.

- Abby cracked her first egg the other day when we made cookies.  I was really surprised at how well she did it.  (She must take after Sean!)

- I haven't heard back from the job that I applied for that I really, really want.  But I am hoping and praying that they call me!  It seems like it would be perfect for me.

- Abby is in full three-year-old mode!  One minute she is a happy, sweet kid.  And the next she is throwing a fit, not listening, or just oozing with attitude! 

- TJ has two teeth that have popped thru.  He is eating really well (surprise, surprise!) and we reduced his bottles down to three per day.  Then he started waking up at night to eat, so I added some more back in. He's getting 8 oz. bottles instead of 6 oz.  And now he's sleeping better.

- We went back to the aquarium on Saturday to meet up with one of my friends from TBA and her 3 year old, Xander.  It was just me and the kids while Sean did homework.  I haven't been to the aquarium on a rainy weekend and didn't realize how busy it would be.  But Abby did great and I got a workout carrying TJ in the front pack.  I have to say I am impressed with myself for being able to take both kids, no diaper bag or ANY bag for that matter, and take Abby to the potty with TJ still strapped to me!  At one point, though, Abby said that she wanted to get in the water with the sharks.  The divers cleaning the glass were fun!  They played pat-a-cake with Abby and peek-a-boo with TJ.

-We have baby Robins in a nest that Sean had to move.  They were in the eve of the garage, but that just wasn't safe.  So Sean moved them to the tree in front and even rigged up a shelf for them.  And the momma Robin found them. (I took two pictures really quick while Sean showed Abby.  They are so tiny!)

 

Up next is a trip to TN.  I haven't been in almost a year, so it is time.  We will be taking the dogs with us since it would cost over $300 to board them for a long weeknd. 

Here are some updates and happenings that I just haven't had the time to write down (so to speak).  There are a few, so I'll break 'em down by person.

Grammy and Pop Pop Perrigo:

*Came up for a visit a few weeks ago.  Those trips seem to be so short!  And I didn't get as many photos as I would have liked.  But oh well!

*They brought Sean and I our birthday present...a roomba!  I love that it vacuums for me! 

Sean (AKA Daddy):
*Started school this week!  I am so very proud of him!  He is taking two classes (one is psychology) this quarter.  I have to tell you that I don't miss homework!

*Has started working on the yard and garden.  We've been starting some plants from seed.  It was warm enough a week ago to keep them outside, but this week has been much cooler (in the 30's) which means bringing them back in for the night.

*Just got new tires and rims for his truck today!  Now, we can begin the cleanout!!!  (We will be making lots of trips to the dump!!!)

Abby:

*Has started watching more grown-up movies that I can tolerate.  I am just glad that we have several movies to chose from.  She just discovered Star Wars and The Blues Brothers.  One of the funniest things is that she will sing "Stand By Your Man" over and over and over.  Well, just that one line.... She also likes dancing with them in the church scene.

*As any of you with kids know, they love being outside.  Abby is no different.  When it was warmer last week, we spent most of our time out on the deck, taking walks, or at the park.

*And it is that time again.  Abby is moving up to the Pre-School class over the next few weeks.  She officially transitions in May.  I am still working with her (albeit, not as I should) on her alphabet, but she has the counting thing down.  I am really impressed with her.

*And I don't want to jinx myself, but Abby has been dry both naps and over night for the last month or so.  Like Aunt Kate, I keep using the same pull-ups over and over just in case.

*Sean made Lamb on the Saturday before Easter.  I didn't expect Abby to eat it, but she did!  I was really happy that she did.  She has been very picky lately.  To the point where she doesn't really eat much at dinner.  We haven't been making anything special just for her, so if she doesn't eat it, then she doesn't eat.  And she will like something one week and then not eat it the next.  I know..she's a female.  (Sean reminds me of this all the time.)  

TJ:

*We took TJ to the Zoo last Friday (Good Friday)- his first trip.  What madness!  I knew that it would be busy, but OH BOY!  It was packed by 10 am.  When we left at 2 pm, there was a "line" (and I use that word loosely) several hundred people long. So glad we got there early.  It was beautiful weather and the kids were great!

*He is almost crawling....almost.  He can get around pretty well by rolling, scooting, and turning.  It is just a matter of time...
*And we do have two teeth poking thru.  The two bottom front are coming in.  He is drooling like mad and wants to chew on everything.  He gets kinda cranky, but once you give him some Oragel, he's back to his happy self.

*He is also eating more babyfood and less bottle.  And as if you didn't know, he eats everything.  He hasn'y rejected anything.  Carrots, however, didn't treat him so well.  And since he is teething, we just started giving him those teether biscuits.  He loves those.  But I have to really watch to make sure he doesn't get small pieces that may fall off the soggy end.

*Since he is moving around more, he has been "exploring" his crib.  He looked like he wanted to pull himself up, so I lowered it two notches.  I also took the bumper pad out since I cought him chewing on it.  Thank you auntie Karen for sending it our way!  It was perfect in his room! 

Me:

*I've been working on being more creative.  So, I pulled out the sewing machine.  I needed to hem the curtains that go on the windows flanking the front door.  Done.  Then I just started using up scrap material that I had.  (I admit that I am a sucker for the remnants bin out Hobby Lobby.) I had picked up a few things when I went in a while back.  I made my friend Amanda a fake "Taggie" blanket for Corrine (or is it Corinne? I never can remember.  Sorry Amanda!)  I didn't get a picture of that before sending to her, but I was pretty impressed with myself.  Since then, I have made another blanket for Abby (very simple- I found some blanket binding on clearance for $2.50 that was Finding Nemo themed), a skirt for Abby from some leftover material from our wedding, a purse/bag for Abby using some material from my Valentine's Day flowers that she was particularly smitten with (don't know why...it is this horrible gold stuff!), and two bibs for TJ, as well as a tote bag/purse for me with a smaller bag made from the same material.  Really, I am just practicing.  My machine is not fancy at all.  But it was only $90, so it is a basic model for me to start using.  I bought a dress pattern, but I am not sure I am ready for that.  We'll see!

 

Somewhere along the way Abby has learned what the stoplight colors mean.  So, whenever we are stopped at a red light, she says "Stop mom! Red light!"  Then, she'll let me know when it turns green.  The problem is when I want to make a right on red.  Most of our intersections allow that, but Abby says "No! Mom, it's a red light!!!"  Try explaining that to your 3 year old!  I imagine the conversation something like this:  "Well, you see...sometimes it is OK to turn right on red...unless there is a sign stating that you can't...but you can't turn left on red...but....well this time it has a green arrow and...."  She also has started to comment on how fast we're driving.  "We're going pretty fast, aren't we?"  Nice.  Everyone's a critic!

Well, I have a 3 year-old!  And she is a funny little girl!  It seems that she changes so fast!  If you blink, you'll miss it!  I actually got a "whatever" the other day from her.  She didn't say it in a mean way, but it was shocking none the less!   She went to school with some non-chocolate cupcakes on Thursday (one of the kids is allergic to chocolate!) and we opened presents that night.  Again, we have such wonderful friends and family!  She loved ALL of her  presents!  She has also graduated from her booster seat.  Her legs were getting so long, her knees were bumping the apron of the table.

I took TJ and Abby to their pediatrician on Friday for their 6 mo and  3 yr check-ups.  Here are the stats:

TJ

Weight- 22 lbs 10 oz  (100% +)

Length- 28.5 inches (95-100%)

I didn't write down his head measurement, but it was 95-100% as well.  So, he is still proportional.  The doctor wasn't worried.  And he has slowed down on his weight gain.

Abby

Weight- 30.8 lbs (50%)

Height- 37 inches (50%)

Both kids did great with me at the Doctor's.  I have taken them together before, but this was the first time that they both got shots and I was alone!  Abby got one and TJ got 3 and an oral.  Abby didn't cry at all- she just kinda looked at the nurse like, "why did you do that?!"  And TJ just cried for a moment and then went back to being happy baby.  The doctor even said something about how content he is.  The doctor was very impressed that Abby was potty trained and with her verbal skills (AKA, she talks a lot!). 

 

My parents are here for a visit, so I will post more pictures later...

The Dr's office called today with the results of the urinalysis (sp?).  All is well. Both tests were negative.  (As I thought.)  Still breathing a sigh of relief.

And "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" to uncle Chris today.

Today, I did something that I haven't done before...I took BOTH kids to the aquarium...alone.  I've taken them to the library, grocery, out to lunch, and to Target by myself.  But this was the first time to the aquarium.  And since I thought that they didn't allow strollers until after 3:00 pm, I put TJ in the front pack and just held Abby's hand.  (Turns out there were TONS of people with strollers!  Aaarrgghh!!!)  Abby did really well listening to me.  I just couldn't really pick her up to see some of the fish.  I tried.  And this was the first time since October that I've had TJ in the front pack.  He's A LOT heavier and is able to face forward.  By the end, my back was killing me!  There is a scale in one section of the aquarium that compares your weight to that of sharks....Abby only weighs 32 lbs!  I think she LOST weight over the winter!!!  We'll find out on Friday what the Dr's office scale says.  I take both of them- TJ for his 6 mo. and Abby for her 3 yr.  I bet he weighs 24 lbs now!  But he is thinning out a little since he moves around a lot more.  Pretty soon and he'll be crawling. 

And no pics since it was just me....and my wonderful kids!

Well, it has been an interesting morning.  The eye exam went well.  TJ was such a good kid.  (He did spit up all over me, but oh well!)  They said he was such a smiling happy baby!  (Like I didn't know that already!)  But the Dr. was a lot more concerned than last time.  He was asking questions about TJ's delivery- if we had to use forceps, was it difficult, ect.  He then started asking questions like "when he gets angry or upset does he sweat on only one side of his face/head?"  Umm...well...he doesn't really ever get that upset.  And I haven't noticed it.  So, the Dr. suggested a simple urine test to rule out Horner's Syndrome.  No problem.  I didn't ask too many questions about Horner's while in the office.  He was hesitant to order the urine test, but I asked him to go ahead if it would rule out the syndrome.  So, off we went to the other side of the building to get a bag taped to TJ's genitals.   While waiting for the nurse, I got to witness a phlebotomist (sp?) trying to take blood from a 6-9 mo old girl.  That was not fun to witness!!!  I am so thankful that both of my kids are healthy!  Once he was all set up, we went down the street to Bed, Bath and Beyond and waited for some pee.  (I was looking for a cupcake holder since I plan on taking some to school for Abby's B-day next week.  And I found one that holds 24.  Yay!)  Meanwhile, I called Sean to let him know what was going on.  So, we go back to the Dr. to deliver the urine sample.  Poor TJ!!!  I didn't realize how sticky that tape was!!!  OUCH!  But like always, he was a trooper!   On the way to the car, Sean calls back to check on us.  And he tells me NOT to go online to look up Horner's Syndrome.  I had gotten some information from the nurse, but I didn't probe too much.  To be honest, I cannot afford the worry right now!  And Sean confirmed that.  He said that it was bad.  Just don't research it, he says.  I will worry if it comes back positive, but I don't think it is Horner's.  (Praying that it isn't.)

The Dr. said he would call us with the results which take "a couple of weeks."  We made another apt. in June- 3 more months- to check on  his progress.

Well, the Unemployment Office didn't help me with the funding for the Medical Coding classes.  They said that the market was "saturated" and that there were a lot of people looking for those jobs and unable to find them.  Whatever!  So, I won't be spending $2500 of our own money for a very specific training when I am not 100% sure of a job.  Oh well. 

I am ready for spring.  (Just not the tornado stuff that comes with it!)  I really need to get me and the kids O-U-T of the house!  Everyone seems to be well, except for the occasional cough from one or both of the kids.  And we're in full birthday prep mode!  We have so many birthdays coming up soon!  I am trying to get as many presents as possible before my unemployment runs out.  (Love my husband- he is the best!!  But 90% of all gifts given since we've been married have been purchased by me.  He probably doesn't even know what you got.  But aren't all men like this?)  I really thought that I would have a job by now!  But, alas, I don't.  I go to the unemployment office on Tuesday to see if they can help me with funding for school.  I may try to do some part-time work in order to keep Abby in school.  Plus, I still have my student loans to re-pay.  I just can't ask Sean to pay for that.  I just can't....so, I need a job!  One of my dear friends has just embarked on a new career with medical coding.  Apparently a lot of people do this from home.  So, I may try to do that.  (Since she's already got her foot in the door, I am hoping that she can get me in, too!)  Working from home will allow me to have more time with the kids and more flexibility (Dr's appts, etc.).  Plus, I wouldn't have to buy new clothes or food for lunch.  And..this is the kicker...no office drama!!!  I really don't look forward to heading back into a typical "work" environment.  So, please pray that this works out for me.

Snow, snow and more snow.  I am ready for spring.  We got Abby out in the snow today since she is feeling better.  We weren't out too long.  But there are some snow pictures to prove how much snow we got.  The bad part about being at the end of a cul-de-sac is that the plow pushes everything into your yard. We have an 7-8 foot tall snow mound!!!

 

Now the rest of us are sick and Abby is feeling better.  (Funny how that works!)  TJ has a nasty little cough and runny nose.  We've been trying to keep his fever down and nose cleaned out.  We had a rough night two nights ago where he was getting up every hour, so we just brought him into bed with us.  But last night we got the co-sleeper out and set it back up in our room.  What a difference!  We were able to use the incline wedge since the co-sleeper is more narrow than his crib.  (He would just roll off of it in his crib!)  Plus, I was able to get to him easier.  It was better for all of us.  We all got more sleep.

But since Abby is feeling better, we decided to go to her school's Valentine's party on Saturday.  It was a BLAST!  There were a ton of people there.  And they had a DJ!!!!  Suprprisingly enough, it was Sean's boss!!!  (He does karaoke, too!)  We got to see my old boss, too.  His daughter used to go to Abby's school but is now in kindergarten.  The kids had a great time dancing.  We should have parties this good!!!  There was a mosh pit of 3 yr olds!!!  I took the camera, but unfortunately the battery was dying and I didn't get that many pictures.  And the ones I did get were not great since it is not a high speed camera.  The kids were moving...a lot.  I think my favorite part was watching them do the "Hokey Pokey."

 

There seems to be a lot going on all the time.  I often wonder how/when I would do all the laundry and cleaning if I were working a full-time job out of the house.  I mean seriously.  And I can't even claim that the house is all that clean.  But I did go to one of the local colleges to see about getting my MBA.  Not a problem getting registered, but the cost is just too much for me to add on when I am not sure if it would be a benefit.  It's hard to say when the job market will rebound since it is so pitiful right now.  I was a little bummed when I left their office.  There just aren't really that many grants for graduate students.  However, I did stop by the Unemployment office for my 6 week review and got some information about possibly getting some money for "dislocated workers."  Since I left the automotive industry, I would be changing my career path...and so, I may get some funding!!!!  I go on March 3 to an information meeting.  Also, if that works out, I may just go ahead and go back to school to get my teaching cert.  That would be more reliable than a generic MBA, but the MBA would be more versatile.  Who knows!  But I am hopeful.  Teaching would be nice once the kids are in school to have a similar schedule, etc.

Also, last weekend Abby woke up throwing up.  Not sure what it was this time.  No OD on blueberries.  She was sick all night and all day Sat/Sun.  Then, this weekend she got sick again.  Only this time it is a cold/cough.  I guess we should consider ourselves lucky that she is doing this on weekends instead of during the week.  It's just that time of year!!!  It was kinda funny on Saturday when Abby couldn't talk.  She didn't like that much.  We tried to tell her to whisper, but she just kept saying we needed to take her to the Dr.  Unfortunately, there's not a lot of medicine that a 2-yr-old can take.  We'll see how she does today.  And there are things that we as adults take for granted- like being able to blow our noses!  It has been challenging teaching her how to do that.  She's doing pretty good, but her nose is so congested it doesn't really help much.  And when we give her motrin, she feels better.  But then she wants to run around and be a kid.  It's difficult to keep a 2-yr-old (almost 3-yr-old) mellow!!! (But this is not news for those of you who have gone thru this already, I know!)

It has been interesting when she's not feeling well.  She gets really jealous when we hold TJ.  She's not mean to him or anything, but she tells us to put him down- that she wants to cuddle!!!  I can understand that.  She really does love her baby brother, and he loves her!  He loves it when she talks to him.  She is also a really great cheerleader.  We've been giving TJ a lot of floor time to encourage him to roll over.  He has rolled over from his belly to his back.  He can get up onto his side from his back, but he gets stuck there.  He's done it a few times when we let him "push off" of our hands.  He really wants to roll over and it frustrates him.  Also, he must be going thru a growth spurt since he's been waking up in the middle of the night to eat.  Just a few times.  Then I realized what was going on and upped his formula/cereal intake during the day.  That seems to take care of it.  He's doing really well eating the cereal by itself.  I haven't gotten any pictures of that yet but will soon.

I went back to the hospital for my x-ray to determine if my tubes were completely closed off.  Looks like they are, thankfully.  But the radiologist has to review the pictures and give an official response.  Apparently, the coils could be placed too far into the tubes. 

And one last little funny thing about Abby:  she has re-named the Mythbusters, "Kaboom!"  We were watching it when my parents came up for a visit last month.  (Ya know, instead of the kid shows that we would normally be watching.)  She was really interested in the explosions and blowing stuff up.  So, we DVR'd a few episodes for when mom and dad need a break from cartoons.  Mythbusters is a nice alternative, really.

And one night a few weeks ago, Luna got out and ran away.  At least for the night.  But we didn't know that at the time.  We've had issues with Luna running away before, so we chain her up when she's out.  We feed Sophie and Luna out on the deck.  The gate was closed, but apparently Luna was able to open it, pry the fence open and get out.  By the time we realized she was gone, it was dark and beginning to snow.  Sean drove/walked around for 2 hours looking for her.  Do you know how difficult it is to see a BLACK dog at night?!?!?!?!  By 10:30 we called it a night.  We left the porch lights on in case she made her way back.  I was concerned that one of the following would happen: 1) hit by a car, 2) fall in the almost frozen creek, 3) freeze to death, 4) get eaten by the coyote we saw just that morning in our back yard, or 5) get shot by some redneck since she is a pit bull mix.  (People can be so mean!)  Luckily, when I went out in the morning to let Sophie out, Luna came up the stairs.  She had come back and spent the night in their dog house under the deck.  Who knows when she came back!!! It made for a long, sleepless night.  Sophie didn't sleep well either.  She stayed by the front door looking for Luna until I made her come upstairs and go to bed.  Luna was very tired and her paws were raw.  I wish that we had a GPS for her.  They make them for dogs like her who run off, but they are expensive.  But it would be interesting to see where she went and how far away.  Thankfully, she has been fixed.  And thankfully she came home.  I do love my dogs.

There are lots of fun things coming up.  First, we have Valentine's Day, then uncle Chris' birthday, daddy's birthday, and then Abby and cousin Megan's birthdays!!!  Hopefully, we will have SPRING here by then.  After that, we have Abby's 3 yr check-up, TJ's 6 month check-up, and TJ's follow-up visit with the Opthamologist.  Since it has been so crazy here between weather and errands, I haven't had a full 3 days at the gym in a row since before Christmas.  So, I am hoping to get back into the routine. 

It has been a while since my last post.  So, here are few updates:

• Today at school Abby tried to pee like one of the boys in her class.  The teachers thought it was hilarious.  They caught her before she actually peed.
• The musical "Cats" is coming to town, and they keep playing commercials for it during our morning news ritual.  So, whenever Abby sees it she says, "I want to go see Cats!"  I checked it out and no cheap kids performances- all showings go through TicketMaster as well!
  
• TJ is almost rolling over...almost...any day now.
• TJ is also learning to play "fetch" with us.  He will throw a toy, and we go get it.  Over and over and over again.
• We saw a coyote in the back yard...we can add that one to the list.  Sorry, no pictures.  It was too fast for us.
• We listen to public radio on the way to school on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday.  Abby calls the classical music "ballerina music".
• When TJ has his "Tummy Time," we usually put a blanket or sheet on floor and put some of his toys down in front of him to give him something to look at and reach for.  However, if it out of his reach, he tried desperately to "crawl" to it.  I'm not saying that he can crawl yet.  But he is trying.  And after a few failed attempts at that, he grabs the blanket and pulls the toys to him.  Oh yeah.  "If I can't go to them, I'll make them come to me."
• We almost had a flea problem.  I won't go into details.  Let's just say it wasn't from our dogs and had to do with me trying to be thrifty.  So, lots of laundry, dog baths (just in case), carpet spray, and lots and lots of vacuuming later, I think we're in the clear.  I don't think there was ever a problem, but I am super paranoid about that stuff.  No one got bit but me.  And I only found 4 fleas that were alive.  Found some dead ones in the dryer lint trap, though.  (If you want details, give me a call.)
• TJ got a "big boy" car seat.  I have to admit that I miss the carrier.  It was very handy at the grocery, etc.  But he was simply too long for it and almost too heavy.
• TJ really is just a super happy baby.  I know I keep saying that.  But he continues to amaze me.  For instance, when he wakes up in the morning, he'll just lay there and "talk."  Even if he has a poopy diaper!  And he likes to have conversations with you.  He loves his big sis!
• My parents came up a couple of weekends ago.  Winter is a difficult time to try to plan travel.  But they made it here and back safely.
• Abby is still talking about Dr. Bert and how he made her teeth shiny.  She's doing a great job of brushing her teeth.
• Abby is also doing a great job with the potty training.  We are working on overnight dry diapers/pull-ups.  She doesn't use anything during naps at school, but I still put a pull-up on her at home.  I simply don't want the laundry if there is an accident.
• And finally, I go back to the Dr. next week to see if my tubes are closed up completely from my "procedure."  Hoping so!  Otherwise, I will have to go back for another X-ray in 3 more months.
  

Well, we got the first real snow of the year.  As of 6:00 pm it is still falling.  Who knows how much we will end up with.  I think it will top out at 5 inches.  We'll see.

Sean worked from home today but took a break to take Abby out to shovel.  He had gotten her a small shovel right before Christmas.  And today she got to use it.  (Pictures in the Jan 2010 album.)

I also uploaded a few random shots taken over the last few days as well as the photos that were on Abby's new kid-tough camera (those are on the Abigail page under "Pictures by Abby 2".).  Enjoy!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

We had a very mellow New Year.  I didn't stay up to "ring in the new year." I am getting too old for all that.  Plus, we had a rough week with Abby.  Tuesday she either ate too many blueberries or they were bad.  She was sick all Tuesday afternoon and night.  She seemed better on Wednesday, but wouldn't eat anything.  She got sick again on Thursday morning, so we just hung out and took it easy. 

Sean made home-made tamales on Friday.  They were amazing!  And now we have a new "New Year's" tradition!!!  While we were waiting for the tamales to steam, we got some video of our newest Sullivan laughing.  Check out the video above.  Sean compressed it, so the quality isn't that great, but it is still pretty funny.

And today Abby went on her first trip to the dentist.  I had forgotten that I made the appt. since I made it waaayyyy back in Oct or Nov.  Luckily, they called on Friday to remind me.  So, I didn't have time to get any books or anything.  When I mentioned it to her, she started talking about Rudolph.  It took me a minute to make the connection.  For those of you who don't know, Hermie (sp?) is the misfit elf in "Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer" who wants to be a dentist instead of an elf.  OK.  So, I pretty much gave up after that....funny kid!  I did try to prepare her for what was going to happen by telling her that the dentist was going to look in her mouth, make her teeth shiny and bright, and make sure her smile stayed beautiful!  She was actually excited to go see the dentist this morning.  And the Dr. was super nice!  I really liked him and his assistants.  They were great!  He had me put Abby in the chair.  (I thought they would have her sit in my lap...goes to show what I know!)  She was excellent.  She answered their questions and did what she was told.  He scraped and checked for cavities with the pokie thing that I hate.  And he even cleaned her teeth with the spinning dental tool thingy.  (I have NO IDEA what the proper names of any of those tools are.  Sorry!)  He showed her what it was and that it wouldn't hurt by testing it on her finger.  Again, she did great!

He did give me some advise about the finger-sucking issue.  Plus, he told Abby that he had a rule that big sisters were not allowed to suck their fingers.  (Love this man!)  He did say that there was some slight mis-alignment due to the finger sucking.  So, we will need to work on that some more.  I did buy some "no-bite" fingernail polish yesterday in an attempt to ween her off of the sucking.  It looks like it will help.  It was only $4.  There was some stuff that I found online that was $35.  I may have to get that if this doesn't work.

She got to pick out her own princess toothbrush and even got a small tube of big-kid toothpaste (we've been using the flouride-free stuff that is safe to swallow).  When we got home, we had some lunch after which she wanted to brush her teeth!  I think she just wanted to use her new princess tootbrush.  But she did say that she like the dentist and wanted to go back to see him!  (YAY!!!!!)

So for all of you with kids who wanted to know how this first trip to the dentist went, here are some notes and suggestions:

• First of all- you know your kid best.  If they are ready, go for it!  We needed to get Abby's teeth checked out due to the finger-sucking issue.  But this was the perfect age for her to go.  She was old enough to be able to follow directions, but young enough to not be scared. (Plus, she is aware of the authority figure, so hopefully she will listen to him!)
• Sometimes we are more worried than they are...again, you know your kid best.  If you think your kid will need the books and tons of time to "prepare" them, then do it.  But it may not be necessary.
• The dentist suggested that after breakfast we let Abby brush her own teeth all alone.  But that we needed to make sure that the bedtime brushing was thorough-meaning that we needed to do it.  Some kids will need help until they are 7 or 8.
• We chose a pediatric dentist.  I like that they had murals of different kid-friendly stuff on the walls (we had the space room).  It was a kid-friendly atmosphere.  Plus, they are used to dealing with kids.  If your insurance has one in-network, I suggest it.  Our experience was great.

I'm not trying to be a know-it-all.  Promise.  I just thought I would pass along my experiences to those of you who haven't gone thru it yet.  Advise can be taken or ignored. (I'll never know!)

 

 

Oh what fun!!!!

We have had a few visitors this week which has made for a wonderful Christmas.  Plus, Abby is in full Christmas mode this year, which makes it even that much more fun!

On Wednesday, my cousin Hannah and her boyfriend drove down from Akron while my brother Justin drove up from Nashville and met at our house.  This was the first time I met Hannah's man, John.  (Loved him!!!!)  We got some Chinese and just hung out.  Hannah is an art major (Junior) and brought some of her artwork for me to chose from!  It was amazing to see so much talent.  (I can barely color in the lines!)  I can't wait to get some frames for the two pieces I chose.  That also means that I will have to move something since these are REAL and deserve to be seen.  It was great to just hang out with the young 'uns!!!

Unfortunately, Hannah and John had to head back to Akron for all the Christmas Eve festivities, but Justin stayed with us for a few days, including Christmas!!!  Christmas morning is still pretty mellow...Abby isn't quite at the point where she will get up early and start opening gifts.  We got up at regular time and had breakfast.  I think we started opening presents around 10:00 am or so.  Abby did so much better this year than last.  Last year, she opened the first present and then stopped.  She wanted to play with that toy and that was it!  This year she did great opening each gift and even posing for the camera (operated by uncle Justin).  She does have a little of my OCD, though.  She opened everything at the seams, didn't really rip anything, and tried to get all the tape off of the box or package. 

I am in awe of the amount of presents.  We have some amazing friends and family.  The only things I purchased were some stocking stuffers.  I did wrap 3 gifts that I went shopping in our basement for.  Let me explain:  I am one of those "can't pass up a good deal" people.  (I am recovering, though.  HOARDERS!!!)  So, back in 2003 after Christmas, I snatched up several Craftsman tool toys at like 75% off.  She has had the wrench, hammer, nails, screwdrivers, and tool belt for a while now, but she was too young for the other stuff.  And I forgot I had them in the basement.  But in one of my cleanout efforts, I found them and thought she would be old enough to use them.  So, I wrapped them up right after we got the tree up so that there would be presents under it.  That is where the circular saw, chain saw, flashlight, and power drill came from.  And she loves them.

There were two main themes for this year's Christmas for Abby: 1) The Polar Express and 2) The Nutcracker.  So, "Santa" brought her a bell like in The Polar Express.  That was the first gift that she opened and it barely left her side.  SHE LOVED IT!!!!  There are a ton of pictures of her and the bell!!!  And Grammy and Pop Pop sent her ballet slippers, ballerina Barbie, and a DVD of The Nutcracker!!! She's already watched the DVD and keeps twirling the Barbie.

Aunt Desi got her a camera of her very own!  She's already taken over 70 pictures.  It's a kid tough camera, so we don't have to worry about her breaking it.  When I can pry that away from her, I will try to download those and see what she's been taking pictures of!! 

Thanks to all my friends and family who made this holiday so very special!! I wish we were all closer!

What a busy week!  (Busier than normal, at least...)

First of all, it is the week before Christmas.  Can't believe it's here already, can you?  I finally got all the packages mailed, teachers gifts given, and cards sent.  I didn't buy anything for the kids other than stocking stuffers, but magically there are a ton of presents under the tree!!!  We have such wonderful friends and family who love us and our kids!  We've been trying to keep Abby out of the presents.  She's gotten better.  I keep telling her that we get to open them on Christmas morning, but she thinks every morning is Christmas.  So, I got her some special Christmas Eve pajamas so she will know that when she wears them, the next morning is Christmas.  We'll see if that helps.  (Plus, it will make for cute pictures on Christmas day!)

Thursday we went downtown to see the Cincinnati Ballet perform the Nutcracker.  This was my first attempt to get all of us up, dressed, fed, and out the door by a certain time.  I think I did pretty well by being only 15 min late...and really I wasn't late.  I was trying to be out the door by 8:15 and ended up leaving at 8:30.  Not too bad, huh?  Sean couldn't take off work, so we had Mr. Kelly who used to watch Abby watch TJ.  I had to go to the other side of town to drop him off, get downtown, find a parking garage, and get to our seats by 10:15.  We managed to get there by 10:10 I think.  Plenty of time.

There were tons of school groups, but since we were what they called a "small group," we got really good seats.  And I do mean really good seats.  We were 4th row almost center.  The program lasted 2 hours with an intermission.  There were some pyrotechnic-type stage props where the cannon fires and guns go off.  Those were really cool.  Abby will tell you that they scared her, but really they were just loud.  She did so well.  She sat in aunt Desi's lap for the 90% of the show.  The last 20 minutes she sat in my lap.  She was kinda getting squirmy, but so was I.  There's only so much twirling and dancing that I can take in one sitting.  Since this was just a dress rehersal, the orchestra was not there.  I was a little disappointed in that, but I completely understand.  The sets were amazing!  And there were quite a few child dancers.  All in all, it was a great performance.  There were a lot of kids there (school groups and families), so it was a very relaxed atmosphere.  During the intermission, Abby got up to stretch her legs. And she started twirling.  (I think the poofy skirt is partially to blame.)  One of the ushers told her that she was really good at it.  She should be on stage!  It was wonderful to watch her watch them dance.  She would look over at me and smile.  (Heart melting!!!)  And she would clap when she was supposed to, and she didn't make any noises.  She was very well bahaved.  (Better than some of the older kids that were there!)  

We got back to town around 2:00 after stopping for a very informal lunch.  TJ did great at Mrs. Kelly's.  I wasn't worried at all!  He's such a happy, easy-going baby.  And since I know Mrs. Kelly so well, I had no problem leaving him with her.  Bonus- he got to be around older kids other than his sister.  Mrs. Kelly said that they loved having a baby around and just talked to him and kept him entertained.

Since the performance was on a Thursday, Abby missed school and dance class.  But her teachers said that she should come in on Friday since they were having their Christmas party.  Yay!!!  Apparently, they had a blast since they didn't take naps.  Plus, she kept talking about the "party."

And finally, I had been wanting to take her to the Zoo for their annual Festival of Lights. Even though it gets dark earlier than it used to, it is also colder.  And so, it has been challenging planning a trip when it is not too cold, rainy, snowy, etc.  Well, we ended up going Friday night.  I got tickets for Abby and Sean to go see the 4-D movie of the Polar Express, which she is infatuated with at the moment.  (TJ and I stayed in the heated lobby while they watched.)  Apparently, the seats move, they have wind/snow machines, and they pump in "smells" like hot chocolate and pine.  But like her cousin, Megan, she wouldn't wear the glasses.  

She got to ride the carousel, see Gingy (the gingerbread man) and his mother (a gingerbread woman), tons of lights, and the reindeer.  (While checking out the reindeer, she got to see one poop. Yep.  On a completely different note: we are going on 3 full weeks of pooping in the potty.  I've gooten treats like stickers, $1 bags, etc.  That helps.  But I have also been adding fiber to her drinks.  Not sure if that is helping, but it's not hurting, either.  Thanks Kate, for the suggestion.)  There were a ton of people there- as to be expected on the Friday before Christmas.  That and we were expecting snow on Saturday with plunging temps.  We waited in line (forever, it seemed) for the train ride thru the zoo.  Sean and TJ waited that one out.  After that, we got out of there.  Still, it was nice and free since we are members.

 

The holidays seem to FLY by!  Sean got a tree, we got it decorated (Abby helped), and outside lights are up! (But the wind storm this past week took some of it down.) 

We're headed to the Cincinnati Ballet's performance of the Nutcracker on Thursday!!! I can't wait.  I really do hope that Abby enjoys it.  We are missing dance class that day for this performance.  (I forgot about that when buying tickets.)  Speaking of dance class, they are having a recital in May that they are already recruiting for.  I have several concerns about that.  First, is Abby ready?  Second, am I ready?  The performance and dress rehersal are in Cincinnati somewhere.  I just don't think that I am ready for all that driving, etc.  Third, COST$$$$!!!  There is registration fee, costume fee of $50 or so, plus, we would have to pay $12 a ticket just to see her perform.  Is this typical?  I just can't justify it at this time.  I really didn't want to be that mom who takes her kids to 3 different practices every night.  Almost all of my mother friends here do that: acting class, soccer, peewee football, karate, gymnastics, tap, jazz, ballet, tumbling, cheer, etc.  And I am not ready to start that.

Good news!  My $53.00 glider finally came in.  We got it assembled (who knew it came in a box?!?!?!?) and got it in TJ's room.  I LOVE IT!!! 

I also got to have lunch with some of my good friends that I haven't seen since TJ's baby shower.  Friends really do make the world a better place!

I have been dilligent about going to the gym.  I try to go 3x a week when Abby is in school.  I think the next two weeks will be short since we have the Nutcracker then Christmas.  But, maybe I can swing a Sat or Sun workout in there.  

TJ is just the happiest baby!  I love that he is awake more.  He's such a people person.  But catching all those smiles on film is difficult!!!!

Abby has been watching tons of Christmas programs.  Her favorite right now is "The Polar Express."  I have three presents under the tree that she just can't wait to unwrap!  I have to keep an eye on her or she will.  She hasn't quite figured out that Christmas DAY is when we open all the presents.  We have an advent calendar which we hoped would help, but we still have to remind her.  I just love her enthusiasm, though.  And she is still too young to be materialistic from the standpoint of ASKING for anything.  Hopefully, we can keep her like that.  (But who am I kidding?!?!?!?)

Today Desi and I took the kids to the Cincinnati Museum Center to see Holiday Junction- a huge model train display!!!  We paid for the whole museum so we ended up going thru the WWII section, the miniature models of Cincinnati over the years (very cool), part of the natural history museum, the mummy exhibit (the rotating exhibit), and the children's exploration section.  That was probably the most fun.  We go there at 10:00 and ended up leaving around 12:45 since we were all hungry.  But we could have stayed so much longer.  I am debating whether or not to buy the family membership. It was a ton of fun!

***Pictures have been added on the family pics tab, but I must have messed up a setting on my camera since they all turned out grainy and blurry.  Sorry!  Hoping that Desi got some better ones!***

So, we continue to get visitors of the "wild" kind.  Today there was a goose (Sean thinks it is a gander) in our yard.  And no, he didn't shoot it.  Not that he didn't mention it.  It did "talk " to us, though.

Let's recap all the wildlife that we have (in no specific order):

Goose

Bullfrogs and smaller frogs

Hawk

Deer

Possum

Racoon

Turtles

Snakes

Wild Turkeys

Egrets (pond and creek)

Beaver or otter (pond)

Ducks (pond)

and the many dogs/cats/birds/bugs/mice

 

Wonder what's next...

TJ is getting bigger every day it seems.  I can't keep him in clothes!  He's starting to laugh and smile even more, too!  He's such a happy baby.  I dare not even mention it in case I jinx myself, but since he's been in his room, he sleeps thru the night.  We try to give him one last feeding around 10:00 or 10:30 and he sleeps until 7:00 or 7:30.  And when he wakes up, he just chills out "talking" until we come get him.  NICE, huh?!?!?!?  We go to the opthamologist next week...I will give updates then. 

Abby continues to make me earn my "MOM" badge.  She's so independent and strong-willed!  We've been watching the Nutcracker almost every day, so we got her a ballerina tutu.  She's spinning and twirling like the real thing!  (New album added on her tab.)  I can't wait to take her to the live performance!  And she's taking after her father in other ways as well as camping (as in the previous journal entry)...she's becoming quite the photographer.  I have an old 3.5 megapixel camera that she is allowed to use.  And she's getting pretty good.  She's been playing with it since summer.  There is a new album on her page where you can see her work.  Some are of me in my VERY pregnant state, so no comments on my HUGE belly!!!  But we are proud of her skills. It is interesting to see things from her perspective.

I went to the Dr. on Wed. for my post-op visit.  Everything looks good, but I will have to wait until my X-ray in Jan. to verify "closure."  He did have the pathology back on the extra-thick lining that he had to scrape away.  Everything came back fine- no cancer and nothing that looked abnormal.

Thanksgiving has been very calm.  Abby watched the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade.  She's getting to such a cool age where we can DO more stuff.  I think she really liked it, so I would love to be able to go up there next year and visit with our wonderful NY friends.  (And I think Sean's cousin Karissa would like to go, too!)  Next, Abby and I painted our nails, made cookies, and got ready for TURKEY!!!

One final note- I have to brag!!!  I don't usually go out shopping on Black Friday, but I did get up waaayyy early this morning to be at Babies R Us at 5:00 am when they opened.  They had some glider rockers and ottomans on sale 50% off!!!!  A chair that was normally $399 was on sale for $149.99!!! And to beat that, I had a $5.00 coupon and a $100.00 gift certificate (a baby present from a VERY generous friend!!!) which brought my out-of-pocket down to $53.00!!!!!  I got a $300 chair for $53!!! I was home by 5:45 and even got to sleep some more!! Whew!!!  However, I will mention that there were a ton of crazy people out!!!  I had to drive by Best Buy and there were people in tents camped out.  The two girls in front of me in line at Babies R Us said that people were camped out as of 9:00pm last night for Old Navy's sale.  But there was a 1 hr wait to get into the store and 2 hr wait to check out.  I am not that kind of shopper!!!!!  (But yes, I was 3rd in line at Babies R Us.  Luckily, the store manager let us wait in the foyer area where it was heated.  It got pretty cold last night here.  And by the time the doors opened, there were 50 or so people behind me.)

Abby has camping fever...so much so that Sean got the tent out and set it up on the back porch.  She actually took her nap out there that day.  She would not come out of the tent except to use the potty.  We had to convince her that we would let her sleep in it that night but that we had to bring it inside.  The tent is not a cold weather tent and neither are the sleeping bags that we have.  So, Sean will need to acquire some of the cold-weather gear if he wants to actually go camping this winter.  Anyway, he did bring it inside (for weather and deer hunter purposes, but that's another story entirely!).  And he, Abby, and Sophie slept in the tent in the living room.  Needless to say, Sean's back wasn't feeling so great that next morning.  And Sophie ended up on the couch at some point- it's more comfortable than the floor!

TJ is growing up right before our eyes.  He's awake a lot more now, sleeping thru the night, and "talking" more to us.  He's also the master of smiles and giggles.  He loves it when you talk to him.  We go to the opthamologist on Dec. 3 and then not back to the pediatrician until Jan.  His eye has good days and not-so-good days.  But it seems like the eye itself works like normal, but the eyelid is not as strong as it should be.  I am looking forward to what the Dr. says.  The pediatrician said that we could start adding some rice cereal to his milk.  So, we've been adding just a teaspoon or so to 2 bottles each day.  That has really helped to keep his total ounces down. 

I go back to the Ob/Gyn next week for my post-op appt.  Everything seems to be just fine.  No real pain- just some cramping.  Really hoping that the tubes are sealed up.  I really don't want another Depo shot.

And finally, we went to the Library this week for the first time.  I know!  I know! Bad Mommy!  But I wanted to find a copy of Baryshnikov's performance in the Nutcracker.  I didn't want to buy it since I wasn't sure if Abby would actually watch it.  And the reason I wanted her to see it in the first place is because I ordered tickets to see the Cincinnati Ballet perform it in December.  They have two full dress rehersals at 10:30am before their first night performance.  And those tickets were a lot cheaper.  I think those performances are mainly for school groups and such.  But I thought it sounded like a good way to introduce her to the theatre/ballet without 1) spending a fortune for something that I am not sure she would sit thru, and 2) annoying people who paid $70 per ticket in case she makes too much noise.  The library had the DVD and she watched it twice that day.  She has watched it twice since then.  Now granted, she was at home and didn't sit on the couch riveted to the TV, but I have hope that when she gets to the theatre, that she will be excited to see the performance.  She is taking a begining dance class, so she relates what they are doing to what she is learning.  She kept saying that they were dancing on their tippie-toes.  And she kept spinning all night Monday night.  I think it may help that we will get all dressed up to go to the show.  (I found a really cute skirt and sweater at The Children's Place for next to nothing!)

As a side note- I plan on visiting the Library more often.  They have a ton of CD's and DVD's and books on CD(as well as books).  I also plan on donating some CD's and DVD's of our own that we don't like or watch.  I would rather it go to someplace like the library than sit in our house cluttering up our space!  And they have an entire Kids section that is AMAZING!  Plus, I think I need to let Abby run around more and learn to listen to me.  As well as me learn to let go....that's the hard part.  But before I know it, she will be in school and I will have to let go!  Let's just say this is all practice for the future!  

 

Time just keeps slipping away!

TJ and I spend our days hanging out and doing housework.  On the days that Abby is home, we pretty much do the same.  He's getting so big and growing up so fast.  He is laughing and smiling, "talking" to us, and trying to push up onto his feet.  (I think he just wants to be mobile so he can run from his sister...or maybe chase her...not sure which.)

My parents and Justin came up last weekend.  It was nice to see everyone. Had a blast with my brother!  We've been spending some nights by the fire pit.  Sean has gotten a campfire popcorn popper that works really well!!  (Not sure what the proper name is...)

Abby is busy being Abby.  She keeps us on our toes.  The other day we had noodles for lunch.  I am not sure how or why she did it, but she ended up with a noodle in her nose.  I thought I got it all out, but apparently I didn't.  Later that night when Abby and Sean were playing (and Abby laughing really hard), another noodle came out her nose.  That thing had to be about an inch long!!! Not sure where she was hiding it!  Oh well!

And finally, I had my "procedure" done yesterday.  I won't go into all the details, but let's just say it was all sorts of fun!  I go back the day before Thanksgiving for my post-op and then in Jan to have an X-ray to determine if the tubes are closed off. 

So, Abby got dressed up and went around to 4 of our neighbors and actually "Trick-or-Treated" this year.  It was colder than I expected, so we cut it short.  Also, there weren't as many kids this year.  And more older kids who were rude.  Oh well. 

The pumpkins were grown in Sean's garden.  We carved them Friday night.  Then, I got to go out with a friend and see a movie!  It didn't start until 9:55, so I was able to get Sean set up for the night and Abby in bed.  She didn't even know I was gone.

TJ is getting bigger and stronger every day.  We got Abby's old excersaucer cleaned up and put him in it.  I don't think it is meant for an 8 week old, but he seems to like it.  He can pretty much hold up his head, but we pad the area behind him to help out.  We go back to the Dr. on Friday for his two month check-up.  And I get to take him and Abby by myself.  And he get shots.  What fun!!!!  (I'm taking wagers as to his weight.  He's huge!  And long!  I think he's close to 17 pounds.  Seriously.)

My mom and dad are planning to come up next weekend for a little visit.  They haven't seen him since the day after we brought him home. So, they are in for a surprise since he is 10 pounds heavier now!

I had a few visitors this week as well.  My aunt and uncle were heading up to Ohio and stopped by for lunch on Thursday.  (This is the 1/2 way point.)  They just stayed long enough to stretch out and eat, but it was great to see them!!!

Then, on Friday, one of my old friends from Gap days stopped by for a few hours.  It was nice to catch up!

Things have been moving along here. 

Abby has been testing me like never before.  I just don't know how to make her listen.  She's not a bad kid, but there are times I wonder...  Last Sunday was a mess.  Most of you have already heard it already, so I won't repeat it all.  Let's just say that the fish, rocking chair, and CD player survived- but she thinks that the CD player and rocking chair are broken.  The chair is in TJ's room right now.  We were hoping that the repurcussions of her actions would help her understand that she did something wrong.  I think it has worked.  She will ask to rock with daddy, and I have to tell her that she doesn't have a rocking chair.  She just says, "Oh yeah- it's broken."  But when she wants to listen to music and I say that it is broken, she says "I broke it.  I poured water on it."  So, hopefully it will work.  Aparently, I kept saying, "I just dont understand" because she kept saying that for several days as well as several sporadic "I'm sorry's".  We'll move the rocking chair back by the time my parents come up for a visit in a few weeks.  (Personally, I miss rocking with her!)  And she is not allowed anywhere near the fish tank.  She is no longer allowed to feed him.

TJ is growing quickly.  He's staying awake for longer periods of time.  He's trying to roll over.  He likes to "stand up."  (He's really strong!)  And he's still pretty mellow- except when he's hungry!  And oh boy!  We go back to the pediatrician on 11/6 for his 2-month check up.  I'm sure he'll still be off the charts for weight.  He's all cheeks!  And I finally got his announcements made and sent!  Yay for me!

I am hoping to go to the pumpkin patch this weekend.  We didn't go last Sunday as I had planned since we didn't want to confuse Abby by punishing her and then going someplace fun.  I will try to take a ton of pics.

Speaking of pictures:  I took several fall tree pictures and added a new tab with those.  I am NOT a good photographer, but I didn't want to miss all the colors.

So far we have all pretty much managed to stay well.  Sean and I got out regular flu shots this week.  I have never had one.  Abby has had hers.  But I still don't know about the H1N1.  Not sure if we can even get one.  They are so limited and only go to the doctors here in KY- they aren't doing clinics like up in OH.

 

Well, we are working on getting into the groove of things. 

• We no longer have any houseguests. (Including the spiders, Judy.  It looks like they left....hopefully!!!) 
• The weather is officially COLD!!!! The leaves are changing color and are BEAUTIFUL! 
• Desi and I are working on Abby's Halloween costume.  She's going to be a mummy since TJ will be either a skeleton or pumpkin.  So, we thought we would have more "traditional" costumes this year.  Not sure what we're doing or where we're going.  It may be interesting since Halloween is on a Sat. this year.
• TJ is growing..to the point where he is "off the charts."  We're working on getting him on a feeding schedule.  This will help with nighttime feedings hopefully.  He is eating every four hours right now.  Sometimes he will go 5 hours, so I am hoping to stretch the feeding out over the next few weeks.  We are thinking of moving him to his room in the next month or so.  Right now, he is still in the co-sleeper next to our bed.
• Sean set up TJ's very own fish tank over the weekend.  Abby has her own and now TJ has his with 4 tetras.  We still need to get a recliner for his room in order to make it complete. 
• TJ still has one eye that he doesn't like to open.  The Dr. said that should keep improving.  But I made an apt. with an opthamologist (sp?) anyway.  The first available apt. wasn't until Dec. 3, so I'm glad I called when I did.  Also, the Dr. said he had a slight heart murmur.  I guess that's pretty normal, but that is still kinda scary to hear as a mother. 
• Abby is really enjoying her dance class at school.  I think this will really be good for her.  She is also learning a lot of sign language.  Sean knows some, but I don't.  So, I need to get on the ball with that!  It's amazing what they can learn!!!

Well, I tried to post one day a few weeks ago...but I must have hit the "back" button and it wiped out my entire post.  I won't be trying to re-do what I had done before...plus there are new things to mention!

Baby Shower:

My wonderful friends threw a shower for me on 9/12.  I took Abby with me while Sean and TJ hung out at home.  It was a fantastic shower!!! We had so much fun!!! And I got a ton of cute boy clothes!!!  I am so thankful for all my great friends!

Colds:

We were hoping that the cold that Abby came home with on 9/9 would avoid TJ, but it didn't.  We ended up taking him to the Dr. who told us to just keep doing what we're doing...elevate his head, saline for the nose, and vaporizor.  It is better, but he still has moments when it seems like he can't breathe.  We go back for his one month visit on 10/8, so I'll check with the Dr. about all my "worries" then.  You would think that after having one, you wouldn't be so worried with the second one.  But that is just not the case...

Visits:

Sean's parents drove out for a little visit.  It never seems to be long enough.  Although I am sure that they are soooo ready to get back to their own bed and some peace and quiet!!!  (Abby can be a handfull!!!)  I will post some pictures soon!

Aunt Karen is currently in transit to come out for a few day visit as well.  I'm sure we will take a few pictures to share as well!!

Etc.

We are in a pretty good routine at home.  Sean goes back to work on Monday after being off to visit with his mom and dad.  I am sure he's not looking forward to that...but he may be ready to get back in the groove.  TJ's newborn screen #2 came back normal, Thankfully!  He has put on the weight though.  When we went back in, he had already gained 2 pounds!  I still joke that he was early because he wasn't getting enough to eat!

  

WARNING:  There may be some details regarding labor and delivery that some of you may not want to read.  Just thought I would forewarn you!!!

 

Labor:

So, I'll backtrack 9 days or so to Saturday, Sept. 5.  We had planned on my mom and dad coming up for the long weekend for several weeks to help up finish up the baby's room and move a few things into the basement.  When I woke up that morning, I noticed some pink "stuff" when I went to the restroom.  (I warned you!!!)  I thought that I had lost my mucus plug.  With Abby, I went into labor just a few days later.  So, I was a little worried.  I think I actually got weepy and said, "I'm not ready."  (Not that you ever are.)

Throughout the day I had some "leakage" of more of the pink stuff.  Mom and dad arrived around 11:00 am, and we got to work moving some furniture, etc.  Around 1:00 pm, I stood up and felt a rush of fluid.  OK, so I really did not know if my water broke or if I had just peed in my pants.  They had to break my water at the hospital when I went into labor with Abby, so I had nothing to compare it to.  I just continued on about my business including a trip to Target for some last minute things for the basement.  While I was there, I picked up some bottles and things.  I had already picked up some formula and diapers earlier in the week- just in case.  (Guess it's a good thing I did.)

When I got home, I made dinner (lasagne).  We ate around 7:00 pm or so.  I guess that's when I started having contractions.  I started timing them, but they were really eratic.  From 35 minutes to 1 hr to 25 minutes.  We called the Dr. around 9:00.  He said that if it was false labor, a bath would stop the contractions.  I had taken a shower while the lasagne was cooking (again, just in case), so I didn't really want to try that.  Oddly enough, my contractions got really regular at that point.  And they were 4 minutes apart!!!!  At 9:45 or so, we left for the hospital.  Meanwhile, Sean and my dad found the carseat, sterilizer, pack and play, bags of bottles, and other items that we were waiting to dig out of the basement.

I think Sean really thought it was false labor.  I had packed a few things after my contractions started to actually hurt, but Sean didn't.  We got to the hospital around 10:00 pm.  The nurses in triage wanted to verify that my water had actually broken, so that needed a few tests which took FOREVER!!  When they examined me, I was only dialated to 2!!!!.  I think I cried.  I really thought I was farther along since the contractions hurt so bad.  The nurses were few and  far between.  Apparently, there was a full moon that night and all the triage rooms were occupied.  Also, a woman came in dialted to 8 with her bag bulging, so they all ran to help her and make sure she didn't deliver in the hall.

I had been begging (and I do mean begging) for an epidural for a while,  but they had to do bloodwork to check my platelets or something.  That took 20 minutes... 20 LONG minutes.  I got into a room at 11:30 pm and the anestheseologist finally arrived to administer the epidural.  I have no idea how long that took.  They checked me right before and I had dialted to 7.  The Dr. on call had arrived and was joking around.  (Well, he was joking around with Sean.  I was in no mood!!!!)  Apparently, he asked if I was ready to have this kid naturally, to which I screamed NO!  They made Sean leave while giving me the epidural.  He was going to go to the car to get the bag, but the nurse told him no stay close since I was progressing quickly.  And it is a good thing.  As I was swinging my lags back into the bed, I felt the need to push.  The Dr. and nurses were telling me not to push yet.  They were trying to get me and the room ready.  They were rushing around like you wouldn't believe.  When they checked me at 12:24, I was complete.  And seven minutes (that's 7 minutes!!!) later, Thomas James Sullivan was born!!!  The nurses were amazed.  I think I pushed 3 times thru two contractions. I looked at the nurse and asked if I even needed the epidural.  I almost made it without any drugs!!! ALMOST!!!

Even at 37 weeks, he came out pefectly healthy!  Thankfully, there were no problems.  His biliruben was a little elevated, but other than that, we were good.  We had to take him back later in the week for a 2nd check which came back that things were improving.

Thankfully, little man was easy on mom.  I didn't have any tears or require any stitches, so recovery has been amazing compared to the previous delivery.

Sorry for the long post.  I will update more soon on Abby's response, my baby shower (post baby) and how we are adjusting. 

I added some pictures and will update this as soon as I can, but for now, this will have to do.

 

Thomas James Sullivan

6 lbs 15 oz

20 3/4 inches

born at 12:31 am on Sunday 9/6/09

Friday update:

Abby and I met my friend from work (Lisa) today for lunch.  She has a son two weeks older than Abby.  So much fun to watch those two together!!!  They were both great, played, had a blast, and ate (a little).  We decided on a Chinese buffet since that would be easy and have lots of options.  Plus, it is a little more laid back than a real restaraunt.  I think I see lots of play dates in our future!!! 

But we had a date with Desi and her friend, Verne, who works on the big FedEx trucks.  For those who don't know, Abby is infatuated with trains, planes, Jeeps, and Big Trucks.  We thought this would be a fun experience for her to get to see one up close.  She was a little intimidated by it's size.  I'll be honest- so was I.  I have been around trucks quite a bit (especially working in Receiving w/ Gap).  But I had never been inside of one.  It had the cab with the bed.  There is  A LOT more room in there than I thought.  Not too shabby!  Abby got to pull the cord and make the horn sound.  (I think that kinda scared her.  It was really loud!!)  But she had a field day pushing all the buttons!!!  It was just a quick trip, but well worth it.  She hasn't stopped talking about the big truck.  Well, she is asleep now, so I guess we'll see what she says when she gets up!

 

Pregnancy/Basement update:

3 weeks (officially) left.  We'll see what the little man thinks of that.  I went to the Dr. on Thursday.  No weight gain.  I kinda expected that since I haven't really been able to eat for the last week.  The acid reflux is killing me.  I have been taking Zantac, eating small meals, not eating near bedtime, etc.  All the stuff they tell you to do.  But nothing seems to help.  And the Dr. wouldn't prescribe anything.  I guess I will just suffer thru the next few weeks.  I'll be OK.  Belly still measures right on.  He is in the right position.  And he's still moving around a lot.  He had hiccups the other night that kinda frightened me since they were so powerful.  I think the whole house was moving! 

My mom and dad are coming up for the weekend to help us get the baby's room ready.  There is still some furniture that needs to be moved to the basement.  And I can't help Sean with that. Sean has pretty much finished the basement.  I think there are a few final little things that need to be done like baseboards, hang the mirror in the bathroom, etc.  But it looks great!!!  I'll post some pictures when we get it all put together this weekend. 

Well, summer is almost over.  We had a few weeks of hot, humid weather.  But nothing too bad.  I don't think it has gotten over 95 degrees.  And I am not complaining.  It looks like we may be trending cooler next week, so Abby and I tried to get one last trip to the zoo and pool in on Wednesday.  It was a short trip since we got a late start.  But it is always nice to go walk around and get out of the house for a little bit.

And the pool was nice- this time I remembered the camera.  Abby made friends with a 4-yr old girl, Rachel.  They played really well together.  It's amazing to see how much they will change in just a few more months.  Rachel was very patient with her since Abby is going thru a "mine" phase and is getting very bossy.  "Rachel get in the water...Rachel throw me the ball, etc."

Abby has transitioned to the Toddler II class at pre-school.  The entire class went together, which is good.  She's still with all her friends.  But there are three new teachers.  So far, she seems to really like it.  They all do.  I think it is due to the new and different toys that are in this room.  She's still doing well with the potty training thing.  We still have to work on #2.  But most days, she's going to school and home in the same big girl undies.  (Who would have thought I would devote so much time and energy into posting about potty training?!?!?!?!?  Sorry!) 

I finally got to have lunch with some of my old co-workers this week!  It was really nice to see them all and catch up a little bit.  I miss them- but not work.  I do miss the schedule of getting up, getting ready, and going to work for the social aspect.  But I do not miss the stress of actually working.  (That may be a problem when I need to go back to work, huh?)

My last Dr. appt went well.  I have now gained a total of 8 pounds!!!  However, I will tell you that I must have lost weight somewhere else, because this belly is HUGE!!!  I promise to take a picture or two soon for all those who are requesting it.  I have apx 4 weeks left.  And the pressure is on.  I mean litterally.  I forgot about the pressure of the baby's head.  He has slowed down with his crazy movements, but still kicks all the time.  I go back to the Dr. next Thursday for my group B strep test and all sorts of other "fun" stuff.  Then, it is every week.

Sean is praying that this kid is late like Abby was.  He is still working away on the basement.  It looks really good and is moving right along.  Drywall and ceiling are done, and the toilet, baseboards, and flooring are installed in the bathroom.  Now we just need to paint and install the flooring in the rest of the basement before we can move in.  He's done such a great job.  There are some cute pictures of Abby being daddy's little helper one afternoon.  She loves tools.  I finally got the crib assembled which took some trial and error since there were no instructions and this one has the drop side.  Abby's didn't have that, so I had nothing to really compare it to.  But while it was being assembled, she had her own little tool belt on with her wrenches and hammer helping out.  I want her to be independent and be able to do things on her own, but that independence will bite me in the rear eventually.  (Right, mom?  Payback is a pain, huh?)  Luckily, we have not had any real meltdowns in the last two weeks.  I've been trying to keep more on a schedule which helps.  She will be going to school three days a week starting next week.  I think that will help as well.  I also signed her up for dance class for 45 min. a week.  The great thing about it is that it is during school and the instructors come to the school!!! I don't have to take her anywhere!!!!  Yay!!!! But I thought it would be nice to have some scheduled exercise.  Plus, it will help with balance and coordination.

Sean has also tried his hand at making his own beer.  He tried making wine while I was pregnant with Abby.  I think the beer will turn out better.

Abby has hit the Terrible Two's in full swing.  Not sure that the mood swings are normal for boys (I am praying that they aren't), but this is getting old.  It has only been going on a few weeks now, but it is getting old fast.  I think that we have had a lot of changes going on in the last few weeks and will continue to have some changes over the next few months.  So, maybe once things settle down a little, we will get our sweet Abby back for good and not just for 10 minutes at a time.

Justin came up for a quick visit and to relieve us of the spare bed from the baby's room.  (Thanks!)  Abby LOVES her uncle Justin!  She kept asking where her Justin was.  And she made him take her to the potty.  She didn't want me or Sean to do it...nope...she wanted Justin.  Poor guy didn't know what he was getting into did he? 

I go back to the Dr. on Thursday and will give an update then.

Oh yeah, and it's football season!!  Abby loves football.  I am looking forward to this season.

Abby Update:

• The girl is amazing!  She hasn't looked back as far as potty training.  We are pretty much in big girl undies all day.  We still continue to put her in a diaper at night.  She is telling us in time almost all the time now.  We only had two accidents last week.  As far as the poo goes, though, it's a litte tougher.  I still thinks she wants to hold it in.  She's gone in her potty twice now.  (And once accidentally in the pool.  Oh well!)  We'll get there.  She's refusing a diaper except at bedtime.  (And we have a whole new box from Costco.) 
• She's also learned to snap her fingers.  Which she thinks is pretty cool!
• We went to a friend's daughter's 3rd birthday party last weekend.  It was a pool party.  They have a water slide into the pool.  It's not too tall- mayber 4.5-5 feet up.  But Abby saw all the big kids sliding on it, so she wanted to.  Our friend Camille took her up to the top and dropped her down while I caught her.  She went under (how can you not!) but recovered quickly and wanted to do it again!  I didn't get any pictures since Sean stayed home to dry wall.  If Camille got any, she'll make sure we get a copy!
• Just a funny thing- Abby really loves the movie Toy Story.  So, I got her two little Woody and Buzz stuffed dolls.  She really likes them.  But, she makes them hug and kiss.  This drives Sean CRAZY!!!!  She doesn't realize that they are both "male" dolls.  It's kinda cute.  And she doesn't do it all the time.  But when she does...Sean just shakes his head. 
• And finally, we changed Abby's crib into the toddler bed that it converts to.  She is really excited about it.  And so far, she's done a really good job with it.  I was worried she would get up in the morning and try to feed the fish or something.  But so far, we're good.  (It's only been two nights!)

Pregnancy update:

• Went to the doctor last Wed. and had gained 5 pounds.  I knew I had gained.  The kid is getting big!
• I'm starting to "waddle".  And eating is harder.  It takes me a while to eat.  And I have heartburn like I've never had in my life.  NEVER.  Not even with Abby was it this bad.  So, my thinking is this:  if she had a ton of hair and no heartburn, and I have a ton of hearburn with this one, does that mean he's going to have no hair?  Or MORE hair?!?!?!
• He's a kicker and mover.  Always moving.  I can't remember Abby moving this much.  But she probably did.
• Still not sure what we'll name him.  But he will have a name- promise!
• I go back to the Dr. in two weeks!  What fun!

Unemployment:

• KY requires everyone on unemployment insurance to have a one-on-one review with an officer every 6 weeks.  On the surface, that makes a lot of sense to me.  But no matter when you go, there will a wait.  Luckily, there is an office close by that is clean, etc.  There is one closer to downtown, but I've heard horror stories about it's "clientelle."
• So, I had to go in for the first time last week.  Got there at 7:45.  They open at 8:00.  There were 35 people in front of me in line.  The first one had gotten there at 6:30!!!!  But he was out by 8:30, so....You're gonna wait at least two hours no matter what!
• It wasn't bad, really.  But as with most government run programs, it could use some help.  The office workers are really over worked.  I feel bad for them.  KY has one of the highest unemployment rates.  I think it is over 10% now.  So, they are doing their best.  They need more people, but they can't even hire since most of the governments are having to cut jobs- like police (don't even get me started!!!).
• So, I get to go back right before my due date.  What fun!

Zoo:

• We've had some cool, rainy weather so when it was nice last Monday, Abby, Desi and I went to the zoo.  No stroller this time since I had help.  That was nice! 
• We went to the Cheeta Encounter for the first time.  It was a lot of fun!  Got some pretty good shots of the Cheeta in mid-air with my new camera (it's waterproof!). 

Yard Sale:

• Since the construction in the basement is blocking what I needed to get to, I just decided I would have to clean that stuff out AFTER the baby gets here.  So, we had the yardsale yesterday.  It was one of the hottest days yet.  But sunny! 
• It was a tough reminder that I HATE yardsales.  We made more money than I expected, but I still had three car loads full of stuff for Goodwill.
• We tried to stay in the shade, but I still got sunburned.  I put sun screen on, but it was already too late.  I am a lobster!  Just my chest/shoulders/back.  I had a hat on and sunglasses, so my face was spared.  And I had a headache for the rest of the night from sun glare. 
• It was busy!  And entertaining.  There were a lot of "interesting" people who stopped by.  Luckily, we set up in a friend's parking lot on a busy highway, so there was a lot of traffic.  We didn't advertise at all.  At one point there were 8 carloads of people there.
• So, I doubt I will have another one-EVER.  The goal is to stop bringing stuff into the house and clear out what we don't use or need.  

Basement Renovation:

• Sean is working really hard to get the basement done before the baby get here.  He is about 50% done with the drywall.  Then we will have to paint, install the flooring, and finish the bathroom plumbing (not sure of the order of those things).  Then, we just have to move ther furniture back in.
• And then, we can begin painting and set up the boy's room.  It will all come together.  But it will be a busy 6 weeks!!!

Sean's Pickles:

• And one last note- Sean's garden has produced a lot of cucumbers.  A LOT!!!  Which is good.  He made a few jars of pickes that were just wonderful!  And then he fried some up for me.  (There's a restaurant back in TN that has the BEST fried pickles!!)  So yummy!!!!  He's a great cook!  And everything else!

So, Abby has pretty much potty trained herself.  Last weekend she just started telling us BEFORE she had to go to the bathroom.  I have gotten her a few big girl undies.  She made it two days this week at school in the big girl undies as well as the rest of the week at home.  We have even gone out in public in big girl undies.  We went to the bathroom at a restaraunt and used it successfully!  (I bought sticky covers for public restrooms!)  We have had our share of accidents, but I am really pround of her.  We still put her in diapers at nap time and bed time.  Nap time may not be needed much longer.  Today, she had on a diaper and told us she had to go, so that's looking good.  #2 is not going as well.  I think she's holding it in.  (It's been a few days.)  We're trying...She has not needed any rewards or motivation, but we may have to do that with the poo process.

 

Note:  I don't have any pictures of the veggies.  Sorry.  I will try to get some and upload them as soon as I can.

 

Sean's Garden Update:

We have harvested lots of goodies from Sean's garden including: strawberries, grape tomatoes, squash, a jalepeno, and lots of cucumbers.  Sean is pickling some of the cucumbers.  Can't wait to try those!  We also have eggplant, blueberries, grapes, beans, watermelon, and pumpkins still growing!!!  The birds tend to get the berries and grapes.  But the cucumbers are thriving!  This is a good thing since Abby will eat almost a whole one each night.

 

Hawk of some kind:

On July 4th we noticed a hawk hanging out in our back yard area.  For those who have not been to the house, we have an acre that backs up to a wooded area with a creek, etc. 
Well, the hawk is still hanging around.  Sean did get a few good pictures of it in flight, but I can't seem to be able to download from the card.  (It just doesn't like me!)  He was sitting on one of the posts in our immediate back yard not even 25 feet from our back door.  I have been trying to determine what kind of hawk.  There are several that it could be: Broad Winged Hawk, Cooper's Hawk, or Sharp-shinned Hawk.  I personally think it is the Sharp-shinned due to the call it makes (check out this website to listen: Whatbird.com.)  Anyway, it is really amazing to watch it.  He almost got a rabbit the other day.  I have never been much of a bird watcher, but this guy is a pretty cool bird of prey.

 

Abby:

Abby and I met up with some friends of mine from a previous job for lunch.  My friend Rhonda brought her daughter, Stella, who is 7 and her step-grandson, Cary, who is 12.  After lunch, we went swimming.  It was a little cold and overcast at times, but the kids didn't mind.  Abby and Cary were best buds immediately!!!  He pulled, pushed, and tossed her around that pool for quite a while.  Apparently, he has a 3 yr old brother.  He was great with her.  He pretty much taught her how to swim independently (but still with arm floaties).  She gained a lot of confidence today.  I already knew that she was a quick learner, but having the other "big kids" there just sped things along! 

• She learned to flip over from her stomach to back and then back again. 
• She jumped off the step and went completely under a few times.  In the past, this has upset her, but in front of the "big kids" she shook it off and kept playing. 
• She would swim to Cary on her own.  (And demanded on more than one occasion for him to get back in the pool!  The poor kid must have been exhausted after keeping her entertained for about two hours!!!  Again, I am not sure who impressed me more- Cary or Abby!)
• And she improved her floating.  

The down side to all this fun was that we missed our normal nap time.  She did fall asleep in the car on the ride home, but that was only 30 minutes.  So, we had some rough moments until bedtime.  But she will recover and so will I.  It was worth it!!! 

 

Yard Sale Delay:

I broke down and got a storage unit for a few weeks to clear out some of the stuff that I want to sell or get rid of.  It helps to have one area that I can dump it all.  Unfortunately, time is slipping away from me.  I probably won't get to have the sale until 2nd weekend in Aug.  Oh well.

 

Basement Remodel:

Sean is dilligently working on the basement.  He has completed framing, insulation, rough plumbing, rough electric, and installed sub floor in the soon-to-be bathroom.  I think he wants to try to drywall next week while he is off work.  YAY!!!  It will be quieter and more comfortable for any guests once we get it done.  And seeing as we won't have a spare bedroom, it will be a necessity. 

Pregnancy Update:

I went back to the Dr. today for my 29th week check-in.  All looks good.  I had my glucose test last week which came back normal.  Really good!!!  Blood pressure was good, and I had lost 1/2 pound.  Upon hearing that news, I was really interested in the weight thing.  So, I asked what my starting weight was.  They had two weights for me: one from my "yearly" and one from my first OB appt.  If you go by my "yearly" weight, I have gained a total of 2.5 pounds.  If you go off my first OB appt weight, I have lost 1.0 pound.  Either way, that was interesting news for me.  I feel huge.  I am definately bigger.  At least my belly is.  It measures right on the money and the Dr. didn't say anything about my weight, so I am not worried.  (In fact, I am kinda happy since I know that you can gain a pound a week in your last trimester.)  I go back in three weeks.  I'm supposed to do kick counts now, but don't really see the need since this one moves more than he is still.  I think he will be a soccer player for sure!

**This next paragraph may have TMI for some readers.  My apologies.**

And finally, I asked about getting my tubes tied after delivery since this will be it for us.  One of each is more than I ever hoped for!!!  The Dr. informed me that since St. Elizabeth is a Catholic hospital, they cannot perform that procedure.  WHAT?!?!?!?  What I am I supposed to do?  I wasn't raised Catholic, so this feels kinda like they are taking my options away.  He did suggest a vasectomy, though.  (I thought this was funny coming from a man!)  But he also mentioned a new procedure that they are allowed to perform in the office.  I think it is called Essure.  They put what looks like little springs in the falopian tubes.  Your body grows around these tubes or stints and blocks the egg from leaving.  This is a permanent procedure.  My question is: if they can't do one, why can they do the other?  Now, I just need to see if our insurance will cover it. 

 

Abby Update:

Abby is still in princess mode, but will now actually watch movies like "A Bug's Life" and "Toy Story."  She likes what she likes.  For example, "O Brother, Where Art Thou" was on TV a few weeks ago, and she really liked the song, "Didn't Leave No Body But the Baby."  (She calls it "Go to Sleep Little Baby".)  I have that soundtrack and thought she might like to hear the song again.  Well, she did.  Over and over and over and over.  It is in the car cd player.  As soon as you step out the door to go to the car she asks to hear the song.  She'll ask that you turn up the volume.  It's weird.  There is one other song that she likes from that soundtrack, "Down to the River to Pray."  It is also an a cappella song sung by women, so I think that may be why she likes it too.   She will actually "sing" both songs (but only when she feels like it- never on demand).  But don't worry- she likes all kinds of music.  She really likes Van Halen, too.  I also got her the soundtrack to the Tinker Bell movie.  (I think more for me, honestly.)  It is rather Celtic sounding.  There is one song on there that she likes and will listen to over an over.  

 

Washington, D.C. Trip:

Our DC trip was amazing!  I will not be able to recount all the wonderful and exciting moments in this one entry.  Here are a few points:

• We left on Tuesday, 7/7.  Abby did GREAT on the plane.  It was only a one hour flight into Reagan.  NICE!!!  Since we weren't going to need a car (the Metro runs from the airport to about a block away from our hotel), we didn't want to take Abby's car seat.  So, we bought an FAA approved strap for her to use on the plane.  This thing is wonderful!!!! It fits into a bag and weighs next to nothing!!!
• Abby was really excited to ride on the train.  She did great on her first Metro ride!!!  She's still talking about the train!
• The weather was perfect!!!  (In fact, the weather was perfect the ENTIRE time!)  We dropped off our luggage an headed to Union Station to get some food.  Passed by the Capitol en route.  After that, we went to the Air and Space Museum. 
• I got Abby a disposable Disney Princess camera for this trip since she is always asking to take pictures with our camera.  This proved to be a great idea.  Not sure how those pictures will turn out, if at all.  But that's OK since she was excited to have her own camera.  And she did pretty good understanding the how the flash worked.  She even turned the camera on its side like mommy and daddy do to make a "portrait" picture.  But she didn't understand the winding part since our digital cameras don't have to do that.
• Day 2- Started out at the Natural History Museum.  Abby really liked the big elephant in the entry. We then went to lunch on the other side of the National Archives, which we didn't get to go into since the line to get in was wrapped around the building.  But we did get to see the Navy Memorial.  Alex will be happy to know that Abby made us go into the Navy museum.  Made us.  There's no way she could have known what it was.  Ask Sean.  It was weird.  She just kept saying, "go in, go in."
• After lunch, Abby and I headed back to the hotel for her nap while Sean and Desi went to Arlington.  The nap was a great idea for all of us.  It kept her on her schedule and happy.  Plus, it gave the pregnant woman time to rest.
• Sean and Desi didn't get to see the changing of the guard at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, but there were three funerals in process while they were there.  Unfortunately, they also got to witness some of our American youth being disrespectful.  Who is going to teach these kids about respect?  They were sitting on a tombstone and asked Sean to take their picture!!!  (I don't have words to describe!)  They weren't exactly kids, either.  Sean said they were probably 20 or so.  How sad!!! I know that is not necessarily representative of all kids, but it still makes me wonder ya know?!?!
• After they got back, we got ready for dinner.  Sean made reservations at our favorite restaurant in DC, the Oceanaire.  They have the best crab cakes I have ever had!!!  Abby got to wear her princess dress. 
• After dinner, we decided to try to see the White House, WWII Memorial, Reflecting Pool/Lincoln Memorial and mall area since there was still daylight left.  By the time we got to the Lincoln Memorial, it was 9:30 and getting pretty dark.  We hiked back to the hotel and crashed.  At least Desi got to see some of it.  It was way too dark to see the Vietnam War Memorial.
• Day 3- When we decided to take this trip, Sean contacted our state representative, Geoff Davis, to see if we could get a tour of the Capitol.  Luckily, we were able to arrange that for 9:30 on Thursday morning.  Our rep was a super nice guy who came out and met with us.  There were three families including ours.  The other two had kids between 7-12 yrs old.  There were a total of 13 of us in our group.  One of the interns was our tour guide.  The really cool thing is that we didn't have to wait in any lines!!!  And there were lots of lines!  We started out in a large theatre to watch a short video about the history of America and its capitol.  There were probably 200 people in this theatre.  The video lasted about 20 minutes.  When that was over, a guide told us that we would probably have to watch the video again since there was an incident in the rotunda and they were trying to get that resolved.  After watching the video again, they came back to say that protesters were there and threatening violence and that the police were on their way.  Afterward, we found out that it was AIDS protesters and that apx 27 people were arrested.  Luckily for us, our intern called our rep who left the house chamber to come get us.  He took us behind the scenes- thru a TON of security- and into the House of Representatives.  Since they were in session, it was crazy busy!!!  When you watch C-Span, you don't ever hear all the conversations going on in the background.  Davis took the four older kids (not Abby) down onto the floor to place a few of his votes.  Oh to be those kids!!! I hope they realize what happened!!! It was so cool!  Geoff Davis was really down to earth and very friendly.  (BTW- Pelosi was in there!  I think the kids got to meet her!)
• Again, Abby and I went back to the hotel to nap while Desi and Sean went to the Holocaust Museum which is not a place for really young kids.
• When they got back, we headed out to the American History Museum.  At this point, we were all exhausted.  Abby told Sean that her feet hurt, so she took off her shoes and socks.  Poor kid! We took the small stroller, but a lot of the museums did not allow them.  So, she walked quite a bit.  Sean carried her on his shoulders when he could.   
• She did exceptionally well on this trip.  I can't brag on her enough.  She never complained, listened to us, followed direction, and hung out with us the whole time!!!  I am so pround of her!!!  She was amazing!  We are so blessed.  And I am blessed to have such good friends.  Desi helped us a lot.  Abby loves her!
• We got back on Friday, thouroughly exhausted.  But it was worth it.  Desi had a good time and so did we.  Now, back to the daily grind!

 

The weathermen have been questionable here lately- calling for rain and no rain, calling for sunny skies and being wrong again.  We did get a few days of relief where is got down right cool.  We were able to turn the AC off and be really comfortable.  This is really nice for me, but kinda puts a damper on all the pool activities when it drops down to the 60's at night.  As a result of the weather, Abby has a runny nose.  Yuck!

Abby is still on her princess and fairy kick!  Grammy Sullivan sent her a cute tiara and earrings to help her inner princess come out!!!

And Grammy Perrigo sent some dresses to make up for the fact that little brother keeps getting new outfits.  (Like she needed the excuse!)

We went to the mall today since I was in the area.  I wanted to take her to the Disney Store and see what we could find.  But, we really didn't buy anything.  We did, however, ride the carousel- TWICE!  She would NOT get on any of the moving animals.  She really liked watching them, but refused with screams to be put on one.  Oh well!  What do you expect, mom?!?!?!

And so it goes...

Sean and I have agreed on the colors for the baby's room.  There will be 3 tan walls and one blue accent wall.  I am desperatly trying to clean that room out.  I am thinking that I will need to rent a storage unit for the month until I can have a yard sale.  Whatever doesn't sell will be going to Goodwill.  But there is a ton of stuff that I have accumulated over the years that needs to go.  Lives change.  I don't entertain like I used to, so all the serving dishes will need to go.  Along with the books, clothes, and CRAP that we hold on to for no good reason.  

Sean is moving right along with the basement, too!  We will have some drywall delivered in a few weeks, we have the flooring, and have picked out a color for the walls.  So I am hoping that by sometime in August, we will be done with 1/2 the basement (and the crap that is in the other 1/2 may be gone in the yard sale or in use soon by kidd-o #2!!!)

 

BTW- still loving this "unemployed" thing! 

More summer fun!! And some not-so-fun.

On a trip to Costco, some rather small pebbles cracked my windshield.  It grew to over 5 inches before the return.  So, we got a new windshield this week.  Luckily, we have comprehensive insurance, so there was no deductible.  And the glass folks came to our house and did it the next day!!  Yay!

Sean got Abby a pool for those really hot days.  Which we had on Friday.  It was the first of the really hot days.  It got up to 94 with a heat index of 102!  I have to admit that I was sweltering!  We have officially turned on the AC for the season.  It's so much easier to sleep that way!

I took Abby to the doctor on Friday.  She has this dry skin around her eye like she's been crying too much.  There's also a spot over her other eye, in the corners of her arms, and one on her shoulder.  So, off to the doctor we went!  He said it looks like it could be seborhea (sp?) or ezema (sp?).  We're trying to keep her lotioned up and creme on the spots.  We'll see if that works.  The only patches that bother her are her arms.  She doesn't really itch at the rest.

Abby has discovered princesses.  She already knew about Princess Fiona from Shrek.  But she has now moved on to Cinderella.  (BTW- it's really funny to hear her try to pronounce that!)  And even TinkerBell!!!  If the movie or TV show doesn't have a princess, she asks where the princess is.  Is this normal?  Should my 2 yr-old know this?  Yikes! 

And Abby and I went back to the pool again today.  She is learning so much so fast!  She's floating on her own, using the kickboard and kicking to move, and jumping into the pool (well, into my arms in the pool).  I am really proud of her.  We took pictures at the pool today, but something is wrong with the card.  So, Sean will have to help get that fixed before I can download them.  There are some really good shots of her with aunt Desi!  I rarely take my hands off of her.  But I know she needs to learn to float on her own.  She's so independent!

Unfortunately, Sean married a WHITE girl.  I put SPF 45 on me and SPF 50 on Abby.  Guess who got burned again?!?!?!?  Abby has some "tan lines" which are still not good, but better than I got.  It is not bad, but still not good for ya!  I think I wil try to get the spray stuff for next time.  That seems like it may be easier.  Oh well.

Today Abby and I ventured out for our first day of  our summer together.  First we went to the zoo.  Thankfully, it was not as crowded as last time.  But it was challenging at times with a determined two-year-old and only me.  Having Daddy with us really helps.  But there were a lot of moms with their kids(s) there.  And a lot of grandparents with the grandkids.  (I am still amazed at what single parents go thru on a daily basis!!!)  One of the good things about going during the week was that we got to ride the train this time.  Abby loves the train.  We rode it twice.  Since we're members, we get unlimited rides.  Nice.  We got there around 10:00 am and left around 12:30 pm.  Not too bad, really.  And Abby got to pet a snake.  It was a black Rat Snake named Ebony.  She wouldn't pet it until I did.  I was really proud of her. (This doesn't mean that I like snakes.  I just don't want her to be terrified of them.)

After a short nap in the car on the way back to KY, we stopped by aunt Desi's pool for a while.  This was the first time in the pool since last summer.  Oh my!   I was worried that Abby wouldn't want to get in or that she may have a fear of it.  But I should have known better.  She practically jumped in.  She didn't want me to hold on to her but quickly figured out how important I was when she went under a few times!  We did learn to spit the water out today as well as how to kick.  We had lots of floaties and kick boards.  She didn't want to share her floatie from last year (which she is now too big for) with another little girl.  This sharing thing will have to change- and soon!  She didn't throw a fit or anything.  But she gave me a dirty little look when I gave her float to the other mother.  She just kept saying, "my float."  But she eventually got over it.  The other little girl who was almost two DID NOT like the water!  I thought the float would help, but she didn't want in that either.  Oh well.  Glad that Abby likes the water.  I had to drag her out when I could see that she was moments away from passing out from exhaustion.  I figured she would sleep all the way back to our house, but she didn't.  She's passed out now.  But it was a big first day of summer.  And they all won't be like this.  But the rest of the week is supposed to be rainy, so I thought I would try to get a few things in early on.

 

• And no new pictures.  I didn't even take the camera since it was just Abby and me.
• Also, I made sure that Abby had sunscreen.  BUt I didn't put any on me until we got to the pool.  Guess I thought that there was more shade at the zoo 'cause I have distinctive shirt lines.  Live and learn.

Thursday, Sean and I celebrated our 4th wedding anniversary.  We had one of our "special" dinners at home- crab cakes and asparagus (sp?).  He got a tiny bottle of champagne, but I only had a sip (or two).  It was nice.  But Friday Sean had the day off, so we took Abby to daycare, stopped by the store to pick up a fan for her room (she has a ceiling fan, but that does not do the trick on the muggy nights) and found a cute little chair with an umbrella attached for our pool days.  It has been unseasonably cool here.  We haven't had to use the air conditioner yet.  I am EXTREMELY thankful for that and only hope that it holds out until Sept.  I know better, but I can still dream, right?

After that, we went to the movies.  Together.  For the first time since Abby has been born.  I think the last movie we saw in the theater was Night at the Museum (the first one).  So we had some gift certificates for two tickets, two drinks, and a large popcorn that we had gotten for Christmas two years ago.  We used those and had ourselves a FREE date.  It was during the middle of the day, but who cares!!! We went to see Start Trek.  And I loved it!!! I am not a Trekkie, but that has to be one of the best movies ever!!!  I am really glad we chose to see that one.  About 1/3 of the way thru it the movie stops, the lights come one, the sirens sound and an announcer comes over the intercom that there has been an emergency in the theater and that we all need to evacuate.  There were only about 10 people in our movie.  We all kinda looked at each other and got up.  By the time we got to the lobby, we discovered that it must have been a mistake.  Oh well.  At least it was not right in the middle of something really important.  They started it back up and all was well.  Made for an interesting day!

I had gotten Sean a CD for our anniversary.  He had the CD, but it was all scratched up.  He's been wanting it for a while, so I was really excited to give it to him.  I think he really liked it.  He opened it right away and put it in the CD player.  Well, Abby really liked it too!  (Van Halen- 1984.)  We got her on video dancing to it.  Karen, you will have to help me upload that.  I haven't figured that out and am not sure about the whole You Tube thing.  It was hilarious!! 

And finally, last Wednesday was my last day at work.  I was trying to get out of there without any excitement.  And there wasn't, really.  But my dept. got me some flowers and took me to lunch.  It was nice.  The good thing is that I am not really going anywhere and can still keep in touch with everyone.  It was sweet!  So now begins another chapter in my life. 

 

I had another appt. yesterday.  All was good.  Heartbeat was nice and strong.  Met the new Dr.  She is the first female associate- and I really like her!!!  Very nice!  I had only gained 1/2 pound, too!!!! I know, I know.  People keep telling me that pregnant women are supposed to gain weight.  But since I have struggled all my life with it, gaining as few "extra" pounds as possible is my goal.  I gained 45 with Abby but lost most of it rather quickly.  That's not to say that my body returned to its pre-pregnancy state.  But the weight came off.  I am hoping the same happens this time.  I know the last trimester is when you gain it all, so I'm trying to hold out!!!  But please don't get me wrong- I EAT!!!  Lunch is usually my biggest meal.  And when I eat- watch out!

 

I go back on 7/6 to take the diabetes glucose test and pre-register at the hospital.  Then my next appt is 7/14.  I think after that it will be every two weeks.  Oh joy!

We've been busy since our "vacation."  The first full week back to work was...long.  But we made it thru.  Abby has been clingy with both Sean and I when we drop her off at school.  That makes it difficult.  I worry about changing her schedule too much.  In another week she will drop down to two days a week.  I know it is good for her, but that is all I can afford without my typical paycheck.  But we have lots of fun stuff planned for the summer. 

I am thinking of doing some swim safety lessons for her.   Since we will be spending so much time at the pool, I think it would be wise to have her know some basic floating/swimming techniques.  Also, my friend Desi and I are going to get re-certified for First Aid/CPR soon.  We have an EMT friend who lives a couple of streets over from me who will do it for us.  We both got certified last year at work, but it is always good to have a refresher.  Plus, we'll get one-on-one attention.  I don't know about you, but every time I've had one of those classes, whether it be high school, college, or work, my attention is poor.

My friend, Yuki, from work gave us her crib and I bought a changing table today that sort-of matches it (same wood tone).  But, we have to clean out the spare bedroom in order to set it all up.  I plan to have a yard sale at the end of June to get rid of some "junk" that needs to go- including the full size mattress and box springs from the spare bed room (AKA the baby's room).  I hate having yard sales, but it may be a good way to get rid of some stuff and make some money too.

We are also planning a tip to DC in July for a couple of days. Technically, it is after my "do not travel" date, but only by a few days.  The flight is only an hour and there are lots of good hospitals there if anything happens.  I am so excited. I LOVE DC!!!!  So, that will be my last trip before the baby.

I have a week left of work.  I am hoping that I can make Tuesday my last day.  I've handed off everything that I can.  It makes for a long day when you don't have anything to do.  So, I hope to have all loose ends tied up on Tuesday and get out a little early.  We'll see.  My boss will be in Canada on Tuesday and Wednesday, so I may be stuck until Thursday.  Hopefully, we can agree to something on Monday while he's still in town.

And finally, and explaination of the pictures above:  for those who remember last summer's HUGE turtle that was eating Sean's grapes- we think it was a female.  She's still hanging out in the pond out back.  When the water is clear, you can see her swimming. Well, it looks like she had babies!!! Sean found that little guy on Thursday.  Don't worry- he took him down to the pond.  He was so tiny!  (At least compared to his momma!!!)

And the other pictures are Abby "helping" mommy make blueberry muffins-one of Abby's favorites!!!  She does really well with the stirring.  She just doesn't understand the baking part.  She wants her muffins now!!!   

 

I finally scanned the ultrasound pictures and added a new tab for Baby Boy Sullivan.  I didn't put the picture of his "stuff" up on the main page, but it is on his tab.

Also, Abby's school pictures came in.  Grandparents your copies are on their way to you.

Well, I did it!!  I made the 4 hour trek to middle TN alone with Abby!!! She was great!  It didn't hurt that Sean got us a portable DVD player so she could watch Shrek in the car- which she did twice on the way down and twice on the way back.  We stopped at a rest stop on the way down.  Abby was such a good girl.  She held my hand the whole time.  I was worried, but we did it.  We walked around for a while and looked at all the dogs that people bring with them on trips.  Also, there were a few horse trailers in the back, so we got to see some "horsies."

The trip was nice, but we cut it a little short.  My allergies about killed me!!!  I actually had to take benadryl every six hours.  And even then, it was horrible.  Abby did really well with all the new people- she met my uncle Ron and aunt Sandy, aunt Carol, and was re-introduced to uncle Carney, aunt Vicky, and cousin Jamie.  We played a lot with my brothers and of course, the grandparents.  But by Sunday night, she was done.  So we came home a day early.

(Note- the pictures above are from when uncle Justin took us to feed the geese.  That was an experience!  They were chasing us when we had bread, but would run from us when we didn't!  Fickle little birds!)

Since I had already told Goddard that we wouldn't be at school on Tuesday, I decided to take Abby to the aquarium with aunt Desi.  Again, she was such a good girl!  But next time I will call first to see if there are any school groups attending.  There were at least two school groups there with WILD children running and screaming all over the place.  And these were middle school age kids!  I don't know where the chaperones were, but they weren't doing their job!!!

And last but not least- IT'S A BOY!!!!!  We are so excited.  This is the last kid for us, so I am really happy that we will have one of each.  Everything looks good.  He's around the 60% from what they can tell.  Spine, heart, kidneys all look good.  I will try to scan the ultrasound pictures soon.

We went to the zoo on Sunday since it was going to be nice.  It turned out rather cool, so I'm glad we took Abby's sweatshirt.  There were a ton of people there.  The construction that they were doing last year paid off. The place looks really nice with a brand new entrance that is much easier and waayyy prettier.  We went ahead and got season passes so we can go whenever we like.  Which is good since Abby was wiped out and a little cranky by 1:00, her normal nap time. It makes leaving all the easier when you know that you can still get your money's worth.  She really liked the giraffe's.  We had to go back for a 2nd look!!!

There were tons of people, but the thing that got me all worked up was a woman in the small two stall, one changing station restroom in the children's zoo section who went into a stall and started smoking!!!! SMOKING IN THE GIRLS ROOM!!!  The whole zoo is smoke free with signs everwhere!!!  Was she so desperate that she had to have one in the smallest enclosed area with kids around?!?!?!?!  Did she think no one would notice?  It was just nuts!

Whew!  But anyway..we did have fun after all. 

In other news, Abby has been driving Sean and I nuts with the "Muppets" thing.  She always wants to watch the Muppets.  Always.  And we have 3 seasons, but we have seen EVERY episode a million times.  She also asks for WALL-E, but that's not the movie mommy can watch every night.  Don't get me wrong- it's a great movie for a kid who can't understand all the social and environmental messages.  But for me, it is too much to handle on a daily basis.  I've been trying other animated shows/movies like Sleeping Beauty, Toy Story, etc.  But we finally found one that she likes- Shrek.  Now she asks for "Shrek".  This has only been going on about a week, so ask me again in a few more weeks if I can tolerate Shrek.  Thankfully, Grammy sent an Abby and Elmo in Wonderland movie which we have watched 6 times since Saturday!  And we (meaning Abby) don't watch ANY movie entirely.  She gets bored after a while and goes off to play.  But don't turn it off!!!  She likes the option of stopping what she's doing to go back to watching whenever she likes.  Oh boy!

Abby is proving to be quite the little girl.  She really likes going shopping with Mommy.  She will even clean up all her toys so she can go with me.  We don't do anything more than go to Target and Kroger, but she loves getting out.  "Shopping!"  She even asked if we could go shopping tonight.  OH BOY!

And finally, I go back to have an ultrasound on Thursday to determine (hopefully) the gender of the baby. 

 

I had my 20 week appt. on Friday.  Dr. said that everything looked good.  I had only gained 3 pounds, but I figure that canceled out the 3 I lost last time.  Blood pressure was good, heartbeat was good, and I measured right on the money. So, I get to go back in 2 weeks for an ultrasound and then in a month for my next appt.  I have to register at the hospital soon, which seems kinda early.  But they said by week 24, so....

We've had a good weekend.  Nice weather.  Abby and I went out shopping yesterday while daddy was doing some plumbing.  He's begining to get the basement ready to finish.  So, he's trying to do the plumbing for the 1/2 bath.  (AKA a new sink and new toilet.)  I figured that was my Mother's Day present, but he actually suprised me with flowers, a gift card and a card.  The card was one of my favorites- it even got space on this website! (If you can't read it, he signs it "Sorry!  I know it will be a while before you can have one.")  Abby got me a card and made me a bookmark at school!  I have a great family!!!! 

My manager and I decided on a separation date of June 12.  That will give me apx 9 weeks of training my replacement.  He is catching on quickly, so I am not sure if I will need to stay until then.  This is an extension that my upper management and HR negotiated since the separation date for most of the other folks is May 8.  Anyway, I am begining my summer prep work and look forward to not having to get dressed up during the summer!

I go back to the Dr. on Friday for my monthly check-up.  I will have to schedule an apt. with the ultrasound tech in the next few weeks to find out the gender of the baby.  I think Sean will find out with me this time.  I saved a ton of Abby's stuff that was gender neutral from birth to 6 months.  After that, I saved pretty much everthing!  So, we need to begin going thru all of that and either wash it, or give the girl stuff away.  (I'm still hoping for a boy.  Sean says he's re-enlisting if it is a girl!!!) 

Sean got himself a small Ford Ranger with his bonus money.  It's not the Toyota Tundra that he originally wanted.  But this one is paid for and will haul stuff just as well.  I'm glad we have something to take to IKEA!!!  But Sean will have to drive it.  It is a manual transmission.  I learned on that waaaayyy back in the day, but haven't driven one since. So, Sean will have to suck it up and go to IKEA with me.  It's only a two-seater, so Abby can't go with.

I forgot to mention in the previous posting that my brother, Justin, came up to visit a couple of weekends ago.  We had a blast!! We didn't do anything exciting.  It was just nice to chill.  Abby and he played the entire weekend. She keeps asking where Justy is.  I cannot for the life of me get her to say Justin- it comes out "Justy."  But then again, she can't say swing either.  It comes out "swink." 

And finally, Abby got her toenails painted for the first time this weekend.  I don't think Sean was too happy about that, but it is a really light pinish-orange.  Not too dark at all.  She's such a girl!

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 New pictures of Abby playing dress up have been added!  Including a shot of her newly painted toes!  Check out the gloves!

We've had some weird weather- cold one day and beautiful the next.  Then back to cold and rainy.  But this past weekend was amazing- 83 and breezy!

We went to the Goddard family picnic over the weekend where we played and played!  I held a friend's 5 month old while we were there.  Abby loves the baby and didn't seem jealous at all while I held her.  Granted, she had a bag of chips which she doesn't get to eat often and she was right next to me.  Still, I am hoping that she's not too bad when the new baby gets here.  (BTW- I am WAAAAYYYY out of practice! 

Abby is loving school.  We recently found out that she can count to 13  (I think this is due to the fact that we've been counting out 13 steps for the last two years).  She doesn't really know what the numbers are, but she knows the difference between numbers and letters. 

I decided to take the buy-out at work.  My last day will be June 12.  I plan on keeping Abby in school 2 days as week thru the summer and then go to 3 days in September in preparation for the new baby.  I just couldn't imagine taking her out of school.  She loves her teachers and her friends there.  Plus, that will give me some time to go to the Dr. and do some prep for baby #2 (like cleaning out his/her room!!!!).

We have lots planned for the summer including a trip to TN to see aunts and uncles that haven't met Abby yet. (I know!  We're rotten, aren't we?)  Trips to the aquarium, zoo, museum center, and most of all- aunt Desi's pool!!!  I figure the floating will be good for me, too. 

It will take some adjusting, but hopefully I will get used to life without a paying job.  This is the only opportunity that I will have like this, so I'm gonna take it!  (I may need some moral support once my separation money runs out, though.)

It seems like I just don't have any time anymore.  So, the updates will have to be what they are....late!

Abby had her 2 year check-up:  No shots, 50% for weight and height, no autism (I could have told them that!), and pretty much normal.  I didn't write any stats down.  It was not one of our best trips ever.  First of all, I was running late.  I tried to get one of the latest apts possible so I wouldn't have to miss too much work.  But you know how it is when you're trying to leave work...everyone wants something RIGHT THEN!!!  When I picked her up, they were having snack time.  Luckily, they just poured some of the crackers into a cup and sent them with us.  They said she had just been changed so she should be fine for a while.  We got to the Dr. right on time.  But guess what?!?!?!?  Little miss thing took a big ole' dump!!!!  And guess who forgot to bring the diaper bag in since we were in such a rush?  And of course they don't keep diapers or wipes, so I had to improvise.  And since you aren't allowed to throw anything in their trash, I got to carry around a little plastic bag of pooh until we got home!!!  AAAARRRGGHHH!  But that's not all....the nurse came in and did all the prelim stuff, we got Abby undressed...and then we waited.  FOR 30 MINUTES!!!!  Ever try to keep a naked, stinky 2 year old occupied with no toys for 30 minutes?  We did it, but oh boy!!!  Apparently one of the other doctors was out sick.  It was all ok, but jeez!

 

I go back to the OB on Friday.  I am at 15 weeks now, so we're well into 2nd trimester!

 

Abby and I had a "first" for both of us yesterday- our first Rugby game.  My friend Desi's boyfriend (Scott) plays on a real Rugby team and they were playing locally yesterday.  So, Abby and I stopped in for a few!  The day started off kinda cool, but it warmed up as the day went on. And it was sunny, so we were fine.  We got to the game late and ended up leaving early.  There were a lot of kids there for Abby to play with.  One of Scott's friends has two kids who are 3 and 4.  The 4 year old, Trevor, was trying to teach Abby how to play soccer.  It was too cute!  He was so patient with her!  But all the kids kept wanting to climb up and down the bleachers.  I know I am an over-protective parent, but several flights of metal bleachers would hurt.  Abby just wouldn't listen, not to mention we missed her nap.  So, we ducked out.  But when we left, Scott's team was winning!

 

There are no new pictures, but we'll have some soon.

Abby had a wonderful birthday.  She was still getting over a cold, so we didn't go anywhere.  Not to mention, I had bronchitis and it was still kinda cold and rainy.  We will more than make up for it this summer.  She made out like a bandit with all her toys, clothes, and fun stuff!  Thanks to Karen for the bag of goodies!! She loves the flash cards and keeps putting things into and out of the purse.  We kept finding things we didn't know were in there!!!  And thanks to Ian and Megan for all the cool stuff like playdoh and some cool summer clothes.  Grammy and Pop Pop sent a ton of goodies:  a movie, clothes, and WAL-E and EVE stuffed robots!!!  Grandma and Papa Perrigo brought a doctor's kit (she'll give you shot if you sit still long enoough!!!) and a Barbie.  Sean got a gift all on his very own- and what a gift!!!  It is one of those Step 2 play kitchens.  This has a pump that pumps water from the bottom of the sink out the faucet!!!  Anyone who has ever played with a 2-year-old knows how much they love water.  Add that to the fact that this is more of an outside toy makes this a slam-dunk!!!!  I have to drag Abby away from it.  It came with all sorts of dishes and water-type accessories. (Pictures are on the pictures page under "Birthday".)

I have also been trying to load up on outside stuff to do for her.  Just yesterday I got her a lawn mower that blows bubbles and a bouncy thing.  She also loves the chalk that Karen got her, but since that gets messy, we use it mainly outside too.  We still have the sand and kiddie pool from last year, but any suggestions for keeping a 2-year-old busy outside would be well appreciated.

She has been playing a lot with the little boys in our cul-de-sac.  Cole is 2 1/2 and is destined to be a race car driver.  As I am sure I have mentioned before- this kid can drive better than me!  He was out with his John Dere the other day and it has a bench seat so two can ride.  Abby really wanted on.  Cole's dad (also a Sean) made him let her ride.  Cole is a good kid.  He just kinda looked at his dad like, "Do I have to?  She's a girl!  So Abby rode around with Cole for like 30-45 minutes.  He would pat on the seat and she'd hop in and hold on!!!  This is all OK for now, but when he's 16, I may not feel the same about this situation!  Sorry, no pictures of this.  I'll try next time!

Well, I had my first appt. with the OB doctor yesterday.  Everything looks fine.  Heartbeat is good, blood pressure is good (can't believe that with all the stress here lately!), and size is good (I even lost 3 pounds!).  I'll try to keep this updated for everyone.  I said TRY.

 

Abby has been a handfull here lately.  She is still refusing to sleep thru the night. This HAS to change before the baby arrives!!  She has been sick with a fever and coughing.  She might have a sore throat and ear infection, but she can't tell me so I don't really know.  I don't think it is bad enough to take her to the Dr.  BUt she is still really doing well in school and is excited about the weather warming up.  (So am I!!!)

 

My parents are coming into town for the weekend to celebrate Abby's 2-yr birthday a little early.  Her B-day isn't until the 18th.  We aren't really having a party.  I can't bear to think that I would have to clean the house.  Not now.  I'll post some pictures of the fun.  (There will still be presents and cake and probably a friend or two of mine.)

 

In other news, my employer is offering a buy-out for employees to leave.  On one hand, this is really bad timing for me.  On the other hand, it is really good timing for me. The fear is that the automotive industry will continue to nosedive and they will let people go anyway.  This may be a blessing in disguise. I have a few weeks to decide (with Sean's input, of course!).  But this is a big decision.  I haven't been without work since right after I got married and moved up here.  It is a scary situation especially with the economy and me being pregnant.  I probably wouldn't go back to work until next year- that's IF I can find a job.  So...lots to think about and calculate.  Any thoughts or advise will be greatly appreciated.

 

 

It has been way too long since the last post.  Luckily, the snow left.  It is still cold, but I'm hoping that spring is just around the corner.

My parents came up for Valentine's weekend.  It was nice to see them, but they also babysat so Sean and I could go out to dinner.  It was really nice.

They also brought with them some of Abby's Christmas presents from Uncle Justin and Aunt Layla.  Abby has been having a blast with the lifesize Barbie.

In other news, we're having baby #2.  I didn't figure out I was pregnant until about 8 weeks into it.  But we seem to be doing fine now.  I am 10 weeks now.  I'll try to do better about keeping this updated, but I am not making any promises.

Tuesday we got snow.  Then Wednesday we got more snow.  There was apx. 6 inches in our front yard when it began to rain.  Well, sleet really.  That added about 3/4 to 1 inch of ice on top of the snow.  Then guess what?  It snowed some more.  Another 4 inches on top of all of that!!!!  CRAZY!  Needless to say, we didn't go to work.  Luckily, we had power the whole time and had the car in the garage.  And have I mentioned that I love my husband?!?!?!  A few years ago he got a small snow blower.  It came in really handy this week.

So, Abby got to play in the snow for a while.  Since we don't get this kind of weather all the time, I didn't have a snow suit for her.  But we bundled her up really well.  She enjoyed playing in the snow!!!  And she had to have the blinds open on one of the windows just so she could watch it snowing.

Also, I started a list of words and phrases that she knows and uses, but that list is growing every day.  And she knows words that we didn't know that she knew.  For example today she and Sean were watching a PBS painting show (don't ask, I don't know why).  She looked at the TV and said, "art."  OK.  That's not a word that we use everyday.  Apparently she said this several times.  I missed this whole thing since I was taking a shower.  She's also learning the ABC song.  She likes to sing it over and over and over.  She gets some of the letters and the final, "now I know my ABC's..." part.  I know, I know...she doesn't really know her alphabet.  But it is still cute.

 

No, we didn't go to for the inauguration. But in honor of the day, I posted some old photos from one of my several trips to D.C.  (For those who don't know- I absolutely LOVE D.C.!!!!  I want to go back.  I want to take all my friends who have never been!!!)

Yesterday's inauguration was amazing.  To be perfectly honest, I had never watched one before.  But yesterday several of us gathered in the breakroom at work to watch.  It was interesting to see the lack of respect in general.  Granted, it was lunch time, but I was taught to be silent during prayers, etc.  On the other hand, there were several who actually stood up at the appropriate moment.  There were not as many people who stopped to watch, but I was riveted. 

I know I am a bit emotional anyway, and the media played this up like you wouldn't believe.  But I had to put myself in someone else's shoes for the moment to see that it really was a momentous occasion.  So, like the new President, I am hopeful.  Hopeful that the citizens of the United States of America take their heads out of their behinds and get back to work, hopeful that they listen to what he had to say and take it to heart, and hopeful that we realize what a wonderful country we live in - and that we should strive to keep it that way!

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OK, so off my soapbox!

Abby update:

• Abby is learning new words so fast, that I can't keep up!
• She still loves the muppets.
• She went potty again in the big girl potty!
• She goes to bed easier, but has had problems staying asleep. (She hasn't been feeling all that great, which lead to mommy doing a load of laundry at 1:00 am one day.)
• She hasn't been wanting to eat much of anything.  (Granted, this could be partially due to the "Revenge of the Blueberries" the other night.) So, Sean looked it up on the internet and found out that toddlers go thru phases related to growth spurts where her apetite will change.  Good to know, but still frustrating.  I feel like my child is starving herself.  I mentioned this at work, and my friend Scott said that his 3-year-old hasn't eaten in weeks.  OK.

Mommy update:

• I joined a gym.  I have gone 7 times now!!!  My goal is 3x per week.  It is easier with a friend (Desi and a few other people from work go there.  We get a corp rate of $30/mo.)  We keep each other motivated to go.  We even tried a class which ended up being changed at the last minute due to a sick instructor.  We were supposed to take a Zoomba (?) class, but ended up taking some sort of Hip Hop dance thing.  It was a good workout, but I had a hard time keeping up with little miss blonde not-an-ounce-of-fat-on-me instructor.  I have never been a big Hip Hop dancer, so trying to learn a whole dance routine in 30 minutes is crazy!  But we endured!  This is good "me" time, but it takes real preparation for those nights that I won't be home  until 7:00.  Sean and I have to plan to have leftovers those nights.  We actyally have to see what nights to cook what so that we can have leftovers on my gym nights.  But it has worked out so far.  Going on week #3!!!

 

Well, Sean and I are both back to work now.  I didn't have to go back until the 8th.  It was nice to have that time off and not have anywhere to be.  I didn't get all the cleaning done that I would have liked, but I got to spend lots of quality time with my husband and daughter.  Good trade, I think!

I discovered that Abby is really much better when we stick to her schedule.  Having that much time away from school was... interesting.  They have a schedule that they stick to.  We didn't.  So by the time she went back, she was 1-2 hours off her normal routine.  It was also interesting trying to keep her busy.  We discovered that the little area of our living room/dining room was not enough for her.  So there were lots of trips out and about where she walked almost everywhere herself (just not in parking lots- not yet).  We went to the aquarium, took walks with her new doll stroller, went to Target, Kroger, etc. 

She's also spending more time with the dogs.  When she wants to play with them, she says "in" and we let them into the living area.  Most of the time they are upstairs asleep on our bed!  She's learning to be gentle with them, give them love (aka hugs), and ask for "kisses."  Luna gives her kisses and Sophie gets the love.  Its also interesting (and scary) that she's picking up things we tell the dogs.  I've forever telling them to "move" or "go" and this morning she repeated that in the same exact tone of voice I use. 

And those who know me know that "Jaws" is one of my favorite moves of all time.  I can watch it any time, any day.  Well, last night Sean and Abby recreated a scene from "Jaws."  In the movie, Chief Brody (no relation to Adam...lol) was sitting at the dinner table after a rough day.  His 4 or 5 year old son was also at the table and began to copy what his dad was doing with his hands.  It is a very touching moment.  (If you don't know this scene, watch the movie again!  It is just too cute!)  So last night at the dinner table, Abby started doing the same thing with Sean.  Of course he's seen the movie too, so he basically did the same thing that Chief Broday did.  And Abby played right along!  It was amazing to watch!  Fun age!  We're learning a lot from this little girl!

I have great hopes for 2009.  It has been an interesting 2008, and I am thankful for many things.  Let's all try to stay positive in the upcoming months.  (Mind over matter!)

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A few Abby updates:

• She has been doing better about the potty.  She tends to tell us after the fact, but that's ok for now.  She has gone in her potty once more since the first time last week.
• She has, however, decided to have a "blankie".  She has grown attached to a blanket that Grammy and Pop Pop got for her when she was born.  She has to have it with her when she sleeps.  The other night she threw a tantrum because we wouldn't let her take into the bath with her!  This is all pretty new- within the last few weeks.
• And we have found a TV show that she will actually sit down and watch.  Don't get me wrong, she loves the opening of "Cops" but this one she asks for!  We found this by accident- "The Muppet Show" with all its craziness.  She can't say muppet yet, so she walks over to the DVD player and says "up-up-up" and points to the TV.  We bought season 3 last Wednesday and have seen all the episodes about 10 times!!!!  (I can't wait for season 2 to arrive.  I just ordered it today after watching yet another episode with Roy Rogers!)  When we watched the show back in the day, I didn't realize how...adult...it was.  Raquel Welch was barely dressed, they had scenes in a bar, Miss Piggy was constantly abusing poor Kermit, and there were adult jokes and inuindoes (sp?).  But we all turned out all right, right?  Sort-of?

Anyway, hope you all have a wonderful, happy, safe, and prosperous new year!

Thank you to all who contributed to such a wonderful Christmas!  We had a very nice Christmas and hope everyone else did, too.  Since Abby is still too young to be excited about Christmas morning, we were able to sleep in and even have breakfast before attempting to open any gifts.  I don't even think we started until around 10:00 am!  Sean and I have had to learn that Abby is very much her own person.  She opened the first present and was done!  All she wanted to do was play with it.  If we even tried to get her to open anything else, she got mad.  So Sean and I opened ours.  I think her last gift was opened around 2:30 or so.  Some I just opened for her.  She didn't miss it.  She got some really cool stuff: a doll house, tea set, toy guitar, tiny keyboard, race car, doll + clothes + stroller, and some additional accessories.  She loves her doll house which she calles "house" and we've already had "tea" several times.  And she really likes her stroller.  The one in the picture above was el-cheapo and broke yesterday.  So, I have replaced it with a newer, more sturdy one (not pictured, yet). 

Abby is feeling better, but has pretty much refused to eat anything of substance.  She will still eat cheese, yogurt, and cresent rolls, but not much else.  Oh well.  We're learning.

And we said goodbye to the Christmas tree this afternoon.  It served us well.  (But to be honest-I am really happy to have that space back!) 

 

It has been an interesting 48 hrs!  First of all, the Northern KY/Cincinatti area got hit with some really cold weather on Sunday and Monday, but then it warmed up on Tuesday enough to rain.  The rain froze on the roads, bridges, and overpasses just in time for people to begin their trips or rides home.  What normally takes 20-30 minutes took me over 2 hours!!!  It was a mess.  Luckily, Sean and I made it home safe and sound. (Not everyone did, though.)

When I was letting the dogs in this morning (and noticing that it was much, much warmer!), I saw a rather tall bird out by the pond.  Sean thinks it was an egret.  Those are not native to this area.  But he said that they had them back in California.  So maybe the bird came in from California just to bring some West Coast to him since he is missing home this time of year!  (Picture above.)

Abby was still coughing so much last night that she threw up again, so we decided to take her to the doctor this morning.  Thank goodness they were in!!  So, he examined her and determined that it was probably just a cold and that it hadn't moved into her lungs.  But to be safe, he did a swab of her throat.  Well, of course that made her mad.  Those things are like 12 inches long!!! Once I stood her up, though, she threw up.  And not on herself- all over ME!!! Oh the joys of parenting.  I never thought that kind of thing would be OK with me.  But I guess it's something that changes when you have a child.  Luckily, I got most of it cleaned up and the nurse helped with the rest.  The doctor and Sean were ...how shall I put it?  More "affected" by the smell.  They both had to stand outside the room.  I hate that I almost made the doctor sick.  He's our favorite doctor too!  Oh well!! I'm sure he has seen worse.  Luckily, I had taken off the sweatshirt that I was using as a jacket.  So I did a quick change while we waited for the strep culture to process.  Good news- no strep!  We did get another round of medicine.  This time it is bubble gum flavored.  She likes that better than the orange flavored stuff that we got last time.

By the time we got home from Target (to get the prescription filled) and the grocery store
(for the rest of the Christmas dinner fixins), it was almost noon.  I just figured that she would need a new diaper.  But when I went to change her, it was dry!  So, I put her on her potty and guess what?!!?!?  She went in her potty!!!  First time!!! I was so excited!!!  Big day! She hasn't done it since.  But now I know that she knows what to do.  We're not going to force it since she is still kinda young.

After a rather fitfull nap in the rocking chair with both Sean and myself (not at the same time, mind you), aunt Desi stopped by with her Christmas present for Abby.  Abby was a little hesitant to open it since we've been stopping her for the last few weeks about opening the presents under the tree.  But she got into it and eventually got it all unwrapped.  She really liked the big silver bow!  Aunt Desi did a great job picking out a present!  She got a wooden doll clothes closet/vanity.  Abby is getting to that age where she loves her dolls, so this was great!  Plus, she really likes taking things out and then putting them back.  I'll take some pictures tomorrow with the rest of the Christmas presents!!! 

It is currently 8:38 pm and 7 degrees outside.  I don't know about you, but I think that is cold. I'm sure Kate is thinking that sounds warm.  We also have 15 mph winds that bring that down to the negative something-or-other for windchill.  Yuck!

On top of that, Abby has a nasty cough and a low fever.  She's doing OK, but the cough sounds horrible.  We just have to get thru Monday and Tuesday...two days, baby...and then we can stay home and cuddle until  you feel better!

Also, it is becoming apparent that our child is growing up right before our eyes.  One thing I failed to mention in the previous post is her new ability to answer us "yes" or "no."  If you ask her a yes/no question, she will answer you.  For the most part she knows what she's saying.  We've tricked her a few times, but usually she knows.  This is amazing!  We're able to have pseudo conversations with her!  And she's proved she is one of the more intelligent mammals by using tools to help her reach a goal.  Today she used the empty roll for wrapping paper to 1) turn on a light switch, and 2) try to lift a wreath off the door. 

And finally, she made me laugh so hard today that I cried.  Sean is probably ready to kill me, but I've sort-of taught her the line "Ice, Ice, Baby."  For those of  you who may not remember, that was a song by Vanilla Ice back in 1991 or so.  It is just one of those songs from the 90's that is sooo bad, and yet you remember every line!  I don't remember why I started singing it, but she picked it right up.  Like I said, I laughed so hard I had a hard time catching my breath. 

 

Time seems to just keep flying by.  So, here are a few updates about our world:

• Abby has started to use two-word sentences.  We've been trying to get her to say "help please" for those times when she wants something or wants to do something that she's not quite able to do.  Usually she gets really frustrated.  So the "help please" lets us know before she looses it.  Also, she says "move puppies" when they are in her way.  And finally, she says "walk please."  When that happens, she grabs your finger and you two walk around the living room.  In cirlces.  For what seems like forever.  Until one of you passes out from dizziness.
• I think we may be near the potty training time.  She has been getting increasingly aware of the fullness or dirtiness of her diapers.  She doesn't like poo to be in there at all.  I'm not quite ready for this.  I need to start reading up.  She still hasn't gone in the potty, but I'm not too worried at this point.
• We had another biting incident at school.  Not sure what happened, but Abby got bit on her back right above her diaper.  This time, she was in the Toddler room, so it was a different teacher.  She said that Abby's feelings were hurt more than she was.  The mark is pretty much gone now, but at the time you could see two front teeth marks.
• Her appetite is changing too.  She is eating more at one time.  And we found out that she really likes crecent rolls.  And I do mean REALLY.  I think she had three tonight.  I hate to give her too many, but we don't eat them all the time.  So I guess it won't hurt her too bad.
• I've been hanging in there at work.  The automotive industry is taking a beating, and even we are not immune.  Most of the plants have a shutdown that lasts anywhere from 3-6 weeks.  So, they extended out holiday break until Jan 8.  We have to use some of our vacation time, but that's pretty normal in this industry.  So, the house will be much, much cleaner by the time I have to go back to work.
• And finally, something to celebrate:  My friend from work, Rhonda, got tickets to the inaguration next month.  There were so many people who requested them, that they had to hold a drawing- and she got two seats!!!  Regardless of who you voted for, this is a big deal.  But it is more personal for some.  Rhonda's daughter is bi-racial.  She's only 6, but this will be something that she will remember forever.  I am excited for them all.  It is history in the making.  

When I came home from the post office Saturday morning (trying desperately to mail off the remainder of the packages), this is what I found:  Abby had fallen asleep by the tree-almost under it!!!  It was just one of those moments!

Friday when we picked Abby up from pre-school, there was an envelope in our mail cubby.  I wasn't prepared for what the letter inside said.  Abby is moving up to the next class, Toddler 1.  They will be transitioning her over the next few weeks.  I was happy and sad all at the same time!  It's great that she's improving and yet it kinda freaks me out that she's growing up so fast!!!  I'll keep ya posted on the move.

We did get our Christmas decorating done (for the most part) over the weekend.  Abby loves the "balls" on the tree.  I haven't put any of the presents out yet, but that may require the baby gate.  We'll see what happens.

Check out TJ and Stacey's website!!!! They have a new baby girl, Payton!!!! YEAH!!!!

And check out Karen's website- they have a new house!!! Wow!!!

OK, so we don't have a tree up yet.  Hope to get one this weekend 'cause little miss thing loves lights!  Sean put up the dangly outside lights last weekend.  They are on a timer, so when we get home, they are on (it's already dark when we get home now).  Well, it is nearly impossible to get Abby in the house now!  She keeps pointing and saying, "lights....lights.....lights."  We can't even go upstairs for bathtime since the stairs start right by the front door and she can see the lights from there.  So we have to stop to see the lights, then we have a fit when mommy takes her away (forcibly).  At some point last night she woke up with what I thought was a bad dream.  When I opened her door, she screemed like I scared her.  Then she kept pointing to the door.  I picked her up and she still kept pointing to the door and screeming something.  I took her into the hall and she kept pointing.  She was saying something, but in my half-asleep stupor, I didn't realize what.  Until we got to the top of the stairs and she pointed downstairs and said, "LIGHTS!"  I had to take her to the window to show her that the lights were off!!!!  She did finally calm down, but I was actually worried that she had heard something or had a REALLY bad dream 'cause she was screeming and frantic. OK, so now we know.  She likes lights.

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And a few notes on the pictures above (until I can get some new Abby photos-sorry)

L- Mom and dad back in the 70's.  Cute, huh?

M- A photo that my great grandmother had made when my grandfather got out of boot camp(?) Not too sure because there are more from that same sitting with one of his sisters and brother-in-law.

R- My grandfather back in the 60's or 70's on a camel in Egypt.  (See the pyramid?)

Happy Thanksgiving to all!  We all have so much to be thankful for.  I'm thankful for (not in any specific order): my wonderful husband, healthy little girl, a wonderful family that grows each year, parents who taught me how to live a responsible life, cheesecake, safety, true friends, my education, the life that I lived before I "settled down", the life that I live now that I have "settled down", my job, an understanding boss, the ABILITY to work, the FREEDOM to work, and all the men and women throughout history who have made sacrifices to ensure our freedom, and so much more that words can't even describe.

So please take a moment to think of all the things (great or small) that you are thankful for.  Please remember those who are not with their friends or family while they serve our country.  Pray that they all come home safely.  Pray for our leaders to have strength, integrity and guidance.

 

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And a few notes about the pictures above (from left to right): The Calvin Perrigo family circa 1952 (my dad's family), my brothers (Justin and Alex), and my mom and her twin brother.  Just thought some old pics would be kinda neat to share.

I haven't heard a lot of new news, but I think Andrea is doing well.  Please continue to pray for the whole family.  Above are pics of Andrea with her sister (and Abby's twin, I think) Sarah Elizabeth. 

We stopped by Target after work tonight and it was already dark.  When we got out of the car, it was snowing.  Not bad- just some flurries.  But they were HUGE flakes.  Abby must have been too small last year when it was snowing because she was amazed!  She just kept looking up and trying to catch them.  It was just one of those moments.

OK, so Abby has a little friend at school.  Her name is Kiki (I know!) and so all we hear is "babble, babble, babble, Kiki, babble, babble."  ALL NIGHT LONG!  It's really cute.  Like she's telling us what she did today with Kiki.

Unfortunately, she's sick.  All last week her nose was running.  Sean and I thought we were getting something, but we've been able to take some Zicam and pretty much stop it.  I don't think she's too bad during the day because they haven't called us to come get her, but night time is no fun.  And tonight her voice was all crackly and hoarse.  Poor thing.  No fever, though.  That's good.  So we raised her bed (pillow under one end) to help her breathe, vicks vapor rub and bath stuff, and a vaporizor.  Hopefully she will feel better soon.  I hate to see her sick. She went to bed EARLY tonight.  Almost an hour early.

Also, Happy Birthday to:  My dad, Steve and his twin brother, Richard as well as one of our groomsmen- TJ.

An update on Andrea Grace- She's doing well, but will be in the hospital for a while.  They sent pictures, but I didn't know if they would want me to post them.  So, I will wait until I get the OK.  Just keep praying that she and her mom make a speedy recovery.

 

Well, I tried to add a post on Sunday.  I had it all written and then messed it up by hitting some unknown combination of keys.  Gone.  Just like that!  At that point, I was too frustrated to try to re-write it.  So, I gave up.

Here are a few updates since it has been forever since writing a real entry.

• The trip to Washington was nice.  I wish we could have gone under different circumstances, but such is life.  It was the first time that all of Mimi's great grandchildren were together.  And they all got along wonderfully!!! I was amazed at how well behaved all the kids were.  Especially since 3 out of the 4 were in a different time zone and sleeping in a strange bed!  The memorial services were really nice.  I feel like I missed out by not knowing Sean's grandmother personally.  I never got to meet her face-to-face.  But she was a well-loved woman.  I've heard some wonderful stories from friends, family, and fellow church members.  I know her family misses her dearly.  (And after seeing more family photos, I think that Sean favors his maternal grandfather!  A LOT!!!)
• Unfortunately, Sean's sister's family got a nasty stomach bug on Friday.  She ended up with the worst of it on their way back to Colorado on Saturday.  By Sunday, when we left, Sean had it.  I had it from Monday-Thursday, and his parents had it for their drive back to California!!!  I ended up bringing it back to one of my dear friends at work.  ("Tis the season for giving!  Sorry!  Bad joke!)  Sean's mom is still not 100%, but I think the rest of us have started feeling better. Luckily, Abby never really got it.
• My dad and grandmother stopped by here last Thursday night on their way back from Wadsworth, OH (near Akron) to see help out while my cousin was in the hospital.  It was nice to see my grandmother with Abby.  And dad.  She had a blast with both of them!!!
• We spent the weekend recovering from travel- AKA doing laundry.  Sean went to a gun show where he said he had never seen so many people and so many crazy people.  I think it was worse than Wal-Mart.  He didn't bring anything home...I guess the prices weren't that competitive.
• Then, back to the routine of work, which is nice. 

Just a few more days until Thanksgiving and then-WHAMMO- it will be Christmas!  I think we're getting a live tree this year.  We'll see how that goes with the dogs.  I can just imagine that it will end up like the tree in National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation once they drink all the tree water.  I'll keep ya posted.

Happy 2nd Birthday to Julia!!!!

Happy Birthday to my cousin, Annie!

So we got back late Sunday night.  I will have to write another post when I have more time.  But I wanted to ask for everyone's prayers for my cousin, Annie and her new baby.  They took little Andrea Grace on Monday at 34-36 weeks. She ended up weighing just over 1 lb 8 oz.  They had to do surgery on her Monday night (esophagus I think).  She is still in the NICU up near Akron.  Please pray for Annie's C-section recovery and for little Andrea Grace's journey.  We all know that miracles can happen.  Look at our wonderful Julia Cammerata!!!!  So PRAY - PRAY -PRAY!!!!

I just re-read yesterday's post and realized that I can't spell. Or maybe I just can't type.  Anyway, there were several mistakes.  Hopefully, I caught them all.  Wish this thing had spellcheck!

 

And another update:  Abby did finally realize that her baby gates have been modified.  She tried to get under one yesterday and got her foot stuck. I think she's figured out that she won't be escaping that way.  Let's hope she doesn't learn to go over!!!

I forgot to mention that Friday night my friend Desi and her boyfriend stopped by to see Abby all dressed up.  She brought lots of goodies including a Halloween "My Little Pony" as well as a wand and crown for Abby.  Abby didn't get to eat any of the candy, but she sure enjoyed taking it out of the bag and putting it back in! We sure do love the aunt Desi!!!! 

Also, we've been trying to get Abby prepared for her trip on Tuesday by talking a lot about seeing Grammy and Pop Pop.  So, she's started saying "Pop Pop!!"  It's really cute.  She's been sitting in her carseat/stroller that will be going on the trip with us, and we've gotten a few things for her to do while on the plane.  Last time she wasn't as mobile, so I am a little worried that a 5 hr flight may be pushing it.  But we'll see.  Unfortunately, we could only get two seats together on any leg of the flights.  So some lucky person gets to sit next to us!  Bet they will be happy!

And finally, Abby has had a few incidents today..let's just say she got sick.  We're not sure what happened, but the carpet cleaner had to come out from hiding.  First she got the couch and ottoman, then she got the carpet in the dining room.  I hope it was just too much banana or something.  She got sick for the first time a couple of weeks ago when I was in TN. Poor Sean!  He had to clean it up all by himself!  Plus, it was in the middle of the night.  I think Abby was scared.  It was the first time that had happened.  She didn't know what was going on.  So goes the joys of being a parent. 

Yes, she was a fairy.  Pretty girlie, huh?  I got the costume at Cracker Barrel (it was 40% off!!!). It was a little big, but at least she can play in it for a while.  Thankfully, it was nice and warm for a while.  After it got dark, it got much, much cooler.  Thanks to our neighbor's grandmother (Cole- who is in the middle picture above dressed as Lightning McQueen), Abby had her first sucker.  And boy did she like it!!! She had a green tongue, green lips, and sticky fingers and chin!!!  The cutest thing was when Cole's dad, Sean, asked if he could have some (thinking that she wouldn't give it up) she handed it to him!  She ate more than half of it.  Eventually she let me take it from her so I could wipe her down at which point I hid it.  But it was too late.  That was waaayyyy too much sugar for someone who hasn't had much sugar.  (I mean, remember that I even made her a carrot cake for her 1st birthday!?!?!) Most of the trick-or-treaters were done by 7:45, so we closed up and went in.  But she was a cranky little girl until we could get some real food in her.  She did calm down eventually.

I've added some pictures of Abby's first real experience pumpkin carving.  Don't worry!  Sean did all the real carving, but Abby took out all the "guts."  She really got into it.

Also, Abby figured out a few weeks ago how to shimmy under the baby gates and escape.  So tonight Sean added a few extra inches of gate.  Great job Sean!!!  It looks nice and does the trick.  She's seen them, but I don't think it registers yet.  I'll let you know the outcome.

Well, it is true that you learn to take the good and the bad.  Our worlds have had a rough week.  I left for Michigan on Monday.  I called Sean around 3:00 and found out that Sunday night his grandmother passed away.  I felt so bad!! I was so far away from him.  I couldn't comfort him!  I felt like a horrible wife.  Plus I didn't have a way to get home any time soon.  I did finally make it home around 6:30 pm on Tuesday. We will be heading out to Washington on Tuesday for the memorial services.  This will be the first time that all of her great-grand kids will be together. 

Some good news- Monday my sister-in-law, Layla, found out that she was cancer-free.  They will do another scan in January.  She's planning to go back to work within the next few weeks.  Amazing, huh?

And on the Abby front- she's growing up so much each day.  She's learning new words and "talking" more.  I am amazed by what they can learn in such a short amount of time.  Watch out world! 

 

 

We went to a local farm this afternoon where they had a real petting zoo and pumpkin patch.  A lot of the area pumpkin patches are just fields where they bring in the pumpkins and place them all around.  The two that we got today we had to break off from the vine/stem.  It is a real working farm.  There were goats, sheep, cows, horses, ducks, rabbits, and all sorts of fun.  They gave us two cups of feed.  Abby really got into feeding the goats.  She did so well!! I thought she might get scared, but she didn't.  They took us on a hayride to the actual pumpkin patch.  The ride was really nice!  It was a little cooler than I originally thought, but we were fine.  There was a nice old gentleman on the ride who was our "tour guide."  He spoke to us about the farm, the local area, and the history of farming in this area.  As a child, he grew up on a farm during the depression.  He kept us amazed with his stories.  I really like this place!  And it was packed!!! But this is the last weekend for it, so I gues that may play a part.  They even had a playground area and a covered picnic area.  They did charge $7 per adult, but it was worth it.  Plus, I'm sure it all goes to the gas for the tractors pulling all us city folk.  They had two running at a time!!  There were that many people there! 

So, the trip to Jackson, TN wasn't too bad.  I was able to stop in Nashville (Gallatin) and have lunch with my Mom, Dad and Brother (Alex).  I was also able to stop in and see Layla for a while.  She's looking good!!!  My meeting on Thursday didn't last as long as expected, so I ended up driving back to Gallatin that night.  Luckily, I was able to see a few of my friends while in town.  It's a good thing that I headed that way early, because by Friday, we had rain.  Lots and lots of rain.  What usually takes 4 to 4.5 hours turned into 6!!!!  There were times when I didn't get over 60 mph.  And that was probably pushing it.  But, I made it back.  Now I'm just trying to get everything cleaned up for my next trip on Monday.  It will just be one night, but sometimes that worse.  This time I'm heading up to Michigan.

I posted a few new photos of Abby.  Enjoy!

Well, thankfully, my parents came up on Friday.  I had an apt. at the vet first thing Saturday morning for both dogs.  It would have been impossible with two roudy dogs and Abby!  So we played with the fun bouncy ball that looks like a pumpkin that grandma got her and went to Target.  We got a cute dress (I'll post pictures when I can) for picture day at pre-school which was yesterday.  I know!  Can you believe it?!?!?!?  Already!  But she was adorable.  I think they do some Christmas poses which is nice.  The very ironic thing is that the picture company is based out of Gallatin, TN!!!!!  (My hometown.)  It is a small world. 

I also got Abby a tutu skirt.  My thoughts were that she can be a balerina for Halloween.  I am so NOT very creative anymore!  Oh well.  She is way too cute in the little pink skirt, but it may be too cold for her to actually trick or treat in it.  We'll see.

After picking Abby up from pre-school yesterday, we stopped by Borders bookstore so I could look for a book on CD since I have 14 hours of driving ahead of me.  OK, so I think this may have been Abby's first time in a bookstore.  And for those of you who know her...she LOVES, LOVES, LOVES her books.  She went crazy!!!  Needsless to say, she came out of there with a book and I barely got to look for a book on CD.  But I got a Steven King ("The Mist"?) that was on clearance.  Only problem- it's only 72 minutes long.  That won't get me too far.  Oh well.

We ended up getting Sean around 7:00 pm and heading home.  When we got there, Abby had a package.  Another truck!!!!!  This one had a cow and a horse that were carried in the back.  And this one makes sounds!  (Thanks Grammy!!!)  She loved it!!! And she loved the Moose that Sean's mom sent back with him from Washington.

Sean got to meet his brother's daughter who is around three (maybe) while he was out there.  It was good for him to be with his family for a while.  His grandmother is now in a rehab facility trying to work on getting home. 

And finally, I am getting ready to head down to west TN for the next few days.  I plan on stopping in Nashville area to see some family on my way which will break up the 7 hour drive.  After all this travel, I have to say that I may be on strike for a while.  I have to travel overnight one night next week, too.  I can't believe it's Halloween already.  Then it will be November, which means Thanksgiving, which means Christmas is around the corner!!!!

 

After reading my post from this morning, I thought I would clarify a few things.  (That's what you get when you try to write at 6:00 am!!!!)

• Christine was one of my first friends here in NKY.  She and I used to work together.  And she co-hosted my baby shower!  Her daughter, Samantha is 8 yrs old or so.  They did post an update if you think you can stomach it.  It hurts me to think about it.  But she was a trooper and it looks like there is a long road of recovery ahead of her.
• Karli is around 3 yrs old.  I have never actually met her, but I wanted to pass her info along for two reasons: 1) so people can  be aware of the disease and signs and 2) thoughts and prayers.  I know that my friends and family are the best!!! 
• And on top of all that, I forgot to include my grandmother-in-law!!!!  How horrible of me.  I think Sean's mom is up in WA with her now and Sean will be there soon.  I'll update when I get more info.

So, I made it back.  Only one glitch:  I left my laptop's power cord!!!!  Hopefully they find it and can get it back to me.  And I'm done traveling until Tuesday.  Now....some sleep sounds really nice!

This working mom thing is not as easy as I imagined.  Well, nothing about parenting is, really.  I spent apx 5 hours on the road yesterday and will be doing it again today.  There are meetings down in Harrodsburg, KY  (out in the middle of nowhere, I might add) all week.  Well, most people drove down on Sunday and are staying in a hotel all week.  I can't do that.  I guess I could- but I'm not.  First reason:  I would miss my baby, second reason: Sean's leaving on Thursday, so those days are out (I really shouldn't be that far from home in case something happens and I need to pick Abby up.) and third reason:  I will be gone 4 days next week traveling to Jackson, TN (about 7 hours away).  That is just too much time to be gone.  It's bad enough that Sean gets back on Monday and I leave on Tuesday.  So we only have that one night to catch up, and then I'm gone.  Poor Abby!  I'm sure she won't even understand.  But this sucks!!!  Oh well.  Its just bad timing.  We won't be doing this all the time.  I hope.

There are several people that need your thoughts and prayers.  1) One of my local friend's daughter just had spinal surgery at Children's yesterday for a serious case of scoliosis.  I will post her carepage link.  2) My friend, Trudy, back in TN has a relative of her husband's (cousin?) who has a form of eye cancer, retinoblastoma.  I will post her link, too.  For allyou parents out there- this is really sad and scary.  But it is good information to know that this exists and what to look for. 3) My cousin, Annie, has been admitted to the hospital.  She is several months pregnant (due in January?) and they want the baby to gain more weight.  They want her to stay in for 3 weeks!!!!  And finally, 4) Layla (my sister-in-law) sent us an update.  She went to the oncologist yesterday. Here's her e-mail (so I don't get any info wrong):

I had my first appointment with my Onocologist today.  She is getting me a scan on Friday along with a painful bone scan.  I will get a needle to inject ink into my bones.  Then on the 27th I will meet with her again and find out the results of the scans.  The good news is she is talking like if there is no trace of cancer anywhere else then I will not have to go through chemo.  My case is one of a kind.  They said this strange cancer that I have only comes along once every 5-10 years.  She is going to take my case to the cancer board.  That way all the Vanderbilt Dr.'s can give their advice on how to treat it.  Its so rare.  She said it wasn't anything that I did, it was genetic.  Also, she believes it started in my bile-ducts.  There was cancer in my liver, bile-ducts but none in my gallbladder.  The cool thing is my cancer is on display for all the students @ Vandy who are studying this sort of thing.

In an effort to avoid another migraine, I went to they eye doctor on Friday.  I go back this week to check my prescription.  Looks like I will be getting some glasses.  I don't think I need anything too strong, but I think it will help with eye strain.  I work all day on a regular 17 inch laptop (no monitor) that is like 2 feet away (not to mention that I'm gettin older and BOTH of my parents wear glasses).  So, we'll see if that helps any.

Abby and I went to Ikea on Saturday.  I wanted to get out of the house while daddy worked on putting up crown molding in the living room to hide the wires for our surround sound.  (It looks so nice!!!) While we were there, we picked up some really cool stuff- little metal pots and pans, little plastic utinsils, and a little wooden train set.  It is too cute!!!  But there were 5 million people there.  it took about 30 minutes to check out.  It was crazy!!! And I thought I got there kinda early.  Apparently, they had a Columbus Day sale and had offered a free breakfast from 9:00 - 10:30.  Little did I know!

Afterward, Abby and I went to an open house at work.  Our CEO, Furuta-san was there as was his boss, Dr. Toyoda (the namesake).  Don't ask me why it is a D instead of T.  All I know is that the D is the original spelling.  It was nice to see them smoozing with all us peons.  There were a lot of people there with the spouses and children.  Abby got to play with some of her little boyfriends.  Too cute!  I didn't take my camera, but there were plenty of photos taken.  If I can get some, I will post them.  Abby was wearing the cutest little dress that Sean's mom got her.

Sean finished the crown molding today and then sat down to watch some football with his little girl. Those photos are on the pictures page.  Notice the matching jerseys?  I didn't get all the laundry done, but oh well.  We had a busy weekend anyway.

Sean goes to Washington on Thursday.  Thankfully, my parents will be in on Friday to help out.  I have to take the dogs in for their shots on Saturday.  It would be close to impossible to wrangle both dogs and Abby on a very, VERY busy street.  Thank God for grandparents!!!!

So...let's see...what's happened since last post?  1) Sean's back from NY (YEAH!!!!), 2) fall weather (love the leaves), 3) leaky roof (thanks, Ike!), 4) stupid doctors (see Kate's blog for further explaination), 5) migraines (and therefore, more doctors-this time for me), and 6) new toys for Abby.

1)  Abby and I made it thru the week with Daddy in NY.  And he didn't even bring us back any Antonella's!!!!! How dare he?!?!?!?

2)  The leaves are turning and falling here marking a true change in the weather.  So, the blankets have come out of hiding.

3)  Sean noticed when we got home today that there is a leak at the pinacle of our roof where the siding (now missing) beat the crap out of it.  So, he was up on our already-wet-from-the-rain-today roof nailing a tarp to it to reduce the damage while we wait for insurance and repairman availability.  Right now, there's like a 3 month wait!!!!  But it's not too bad, really.  No major damage.

4)  Sean's grandmother was doing better, but then the medical professionals got to her and fixed that.  I know that sounds horrible- but it seems like they are trying to....well....ya know!  So, Sean is flying out next week to visit for a long weekend.  Don't worry!  I won't let him take any of his firearms!  Kate's post will explain better what's going on.  (But please pray that she has a speedy recovery!)

5)  Migraines.  The word itself is painful.  I used to get them all the time.  I started taking topomax for them but had to stop taking it when I decided to get pregnant.  Luckily, I haven't had one since getting pregnant.  Well that changed on Monday morning.  Not sure what caused it, but it woke me up from my sleep around 5:00 am.  I mean...it knocked me on my butt!!!!  I haven't had one that bad-ever.  And since I am a glutton for punishment, I tried to go to work.  That lasted until 3:00 pm when I asked Sean to take me home.  This is after 2 Excederine Migraine doses and a chiropractor adjustment.  I was trying anything!  Sleep didn't even help!  The pain was at the base of my skull.  When I would stand up, it would throb with each heartbeat and make me dizzy.  So, I went to the doctor yesterday when it still wasn't gone to make sure it wasn't something worse.  And guess what he says?  Yep.  It's a migraine.  Thanks.  Here's by co-pay.  But he did give me some samples of a migraine medicine (and a script for them if they work) to take when one comes on.  It's not an everyday pill.  Only when needed.  And he said that if I get another migraine within the next couple of weeks or so, to come back in.  They would do an MRI to make sure it wasn't something else.  But everything else looked fine.  So, $10 well spent.

 6)  And finally- I have looked all over for some dump trucks like Jack has.  Not sure where they got theirs.  I've looked at Wal-Mart (yes, I know....I actually went to the most evil of stores in search of a dump truck!), Target, and Toys R Us.  They have dump trucks, but they are the big metal ones that are for older kids to actually move dirt.  I did find a little wagon that she can push around.  It has jumbo lego's in it which she likes, too.  So that will have to do for now.  I'll try to take some pictures soon. 

I just don't seem to find the time anymore to post!  So when I do, they're looonnnngggg.  Sorry!

• We made it thru the rest of last week.  Working only two days was great- except I had 3 days worth of work to catch up on!
• We went to Jack Bowman's 2nd birthday party on Saturday where Abby got to play with the big boys.  We discovered that we need to get her a big dump truck to play with.  She had a blast with Jack's.
• Abby's newest "trick" is saying her name.  She says "Abby."  But you really have to prompt her to do it.  She's still not saying two-word sentences, but she can "talk" up a storm.  Just call me on my cell phone and I'll prove it!
• And on Monday Sean left for NY.  (He gets back on Friday....I can't wait!)
• Monday night Abby didn't sleep well (of course).  And when I got her up Tuesday morning, she had goopy, red eyes.  We've experienced this before.  Usually it happens when she's been sick or going to get sick.  It happened like 3 times in the winter/spring, so I had some eye drops left over that I gave her.  I debated taking her in, but did anyway.  Of course they called at 10:30 saying that she didn't look good.  So, I picked her up and took her to the Doctor just to be sure and to put the pre-school at ease.  She didn't have a fever, and the doctor said that it sounded like I did the right thing with the drops.  She said to continue for 5-7 days but that she was only contaigious for the first 24 hours after the first dose.  LUCKY ME!!  I actually did something that was smart!!!!  Otherwise, I would have had to keep her home today too and miss two days of work.  As the doctor was reviewing Abby's chart, she realized that she was due for a flu shot, so poor Abby got a shot anyway!  Which saved me from having to make another trip in.  So Abby and I had a quiet time at home for the afternoon.  I had brought my laptop home thinking that I would do some work while she napped.  She usually gets a two hour nap at pre-school.  Think she did that for me?  Nope.  So no work got done.  And that's ok.  She did really well overnight.  Slept all the way thru!!!  But I thik the flu shot had something to do with that.
• Luckily, when she got up this morning, no goop.  Not really.  I mean, most people have morning crud, right?  That's what her eyes looked like.  But we continue with the drops.  Which, by the way, are EXTREMEMLY difficult to administer to an active 18-month-old when your alone and trying to hold her down with one hand, keep her hands out of her eyes, pry her eyelids open and acurately drop two drops in each eye.  Needless to say, she doesn't like the drops.  And I really miss Sean during those episodes.  (Not that I don't miss him anyway...but those are tough!)
• However, the school called at lunch saying that she had a fever of 100 or so, and that she wasn't acting like her normal playfull self.  Since it was almost naptime, we all thought we would wait to see what happens after the nap.  Lucky for me again- she was fine and woke up with a smile!  When I called at 3:30 they said she was busy playing!  YEAH!!!

So...the weather here is definately feeling more like fall.  The leaves are changing, and it's supposed to get down to 45 degrees tonight.  We'll have to bring all the plants in soon (the ones that are left after my neglect, hurricane Ike, etc.).   I love fall!!! 

My-oh-my!  It has been a long time since my last post.  So this one will probably be big.  Apologies!

• Friday- Sean's parents made it into town.  They were at our house when I got in from work.  Sean had picked Abby up from pre-school early and found out our daughter is an escape artist.  Let me explain: the pre-toddler (Abby's class) and toddler 1 classes are really one big room divided by cubbies and a bathroom (with tiny little toilets and sinks!).  Apparently, Abby woke up from her nap early and decided that she wanted to play with the big kids.  So she went thru the bathroom and over to the big kids class!  What a sneaker!  Anyway, we had a nice dinner and played all evening!  It looked like she missed her Grammy!
• Saturday- We simply hung out all day with the grandparents.  It has been nice here, so we went out for a little while, played with bubbles, and watched the wildlife in our pond. (Otter, beaver, muskrat?  Not sure.)   Abby also kept up entertained by getting in the cooler (empty) and kicking back.  I gave her the pillow to put in there since it looked kinda uncomfortable without it.  She would put her feet up and just relax.  It was hilarious!  Then she learned how to open the screen door!  She has gotten tall enough to reach it, so she did it like 300 times!  Open, close, open, close, open, close.  She was so proud of herself!
• Sunday- We met Sean's parents out for breakfast at Cracker Barrel.  Then we went to Jungle Jim's up in OH.  That was a blast!  We all had a great time looking at all the neat food and watching the moving/singing decorations.
• Monday Morning- Abby's 18 month check-up.  And she got a shot.  But Grammy went with us to kiss it and make it better.  She was a trooper!  (Both Grammy and Abby!)  I got the fun duty of holding Abby down while they give the shot.  Luckily, they only had to give one.  Apparently, we're on a waiting list for a vaccine that there is a shortage of, so we'll get a call when it comes in.  (I didn't even know that could happen!)  Plus, we'll probably get a flu shot for her in October or November.  As far as stats, I didn't write anything down at the time, but between Grammy and I think her stats are: 18 inches head circumference (50%), 24.4 lbs (50%), and 33 inches (90%).  I think there may have been point somethings for the head and height, but I can't remember.  The only way I even remember the weight was because they had her walk out to the big girl scale naked!
• Monday Afternoon- Went to the aquarium.  Lots of fun for everyone!  (Check out some of the pictures on the "Pictures Page."  Abby got a stuffed octopus (which is on her head in one of the pictures) and some bath toys!
• Tuesday- Hanging out with the family.  Took a drive around the neighborhood in the pick car.  Spent as much time as possible with Grammy and Pop Pop!  Sadly, they had to say goodbye and head back to California!
• Wednesday- Trying to get back into the groove.  I do not want to go back to work after 3 days off!!!!  But we must.  So, today was a day for me and Abby to just hang out.  We went to Target (my favorite store!) and picked  up a Halloween outfit, a sewing machine, and some misc. needs like bleach.  I also got Abby some finger paints.  We haven't opened them yet.  I have wanted to get some for a while, but have honestly been afraid of the mess.  I'm sure I'll have pictures when we use them!  After shopping, we met aunt Desi for lunch at Applebees.  My plan was to take Abby to the park after lunch, but she fell asleep on the way, so we just went home.  Sean was begining to put some crown molding up in the living room, so we went back out to the park and to Kroger.  Abby loves the swings, but up until now, she has only been in the toddler swings with the leg holes.  I got in the regular swing next to her.  So...guess what?  Yep...she had to try the big one!  But that's not the craziest thing that she did while we were there.  We played on the teeter totter (loved it!), and we played in the tunnel/fort thing.  But the slide was still a little hot, so we played on other things until I thought it had cooled off.  When we did get over there, only the bottom 1/2 was cool enough for me to put Abby's behind on it.  We went down 4-5 times and then she figured out that she could turn over.  Then, it was the challenge of WALKING UP IT!!!  Which she did.  To the top.  With me clutching on to her little outfit while trying to take pictures!  OK, so the slide wasn't that tall.  But...what the?!?!?!  I mean, where do they get that?  It was crazy and cute and then the realization sets in that she is growing up right in front of our eyes.  Every minute.  So my task in life is to try to enjoy every last one of them!!!!!

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Other Updates:

• It looks like the tumor/lesion that they removed from my sister-in-law's liver was cancer.  But they do not think that it originated anywhere else and they think they got it all.  She goes back on Friday to find out the pathology of the cancer and to make sure it hadn't spread.  I spoke with her tonight.  She sounded great!!!  She said things were going well, but that she was swelling a lot.  I can't imagine.  But she was upbeat and moving around, so that good news.
• Unfortunately, Sean got some bad news today.  Apparently his maternal grandmother fell and broke her hip.  She is having surgery tonight to put some pins in it.  So, we have to take the good news with the bad.

I'm going to apologize in advance for the long post, but here's a recap of the last 5 day's events:

• Sunday- Started out like normal.  Breakfast, cleaning, laundry.  But while the 3rd load was begining to wash, the power went out.  Let me back up....for about an hour before that, the wind was just going crazy!!!!  My parents were on their way back from Detroit and were planning to stop by on their way thru.  So I called them at 1:00 pm to let them know that we were having some crazy weather and to be careful.  By 2:00 the power was out.  By 3:00 we were watching parts of our house flying all over the neighborhood (mainly the siding).  By 4:00 our storage shed was blown away and into parts.  Luckily, by 5:30 or so mom and dad made it in.  They were a big help with Abby.  And I married a brilliant man who bought a generator, camping equipment and all sorts of great emergency stuff.  So we were OK.  We had power to the fridge and freezer which is FULL of meat.  We even had TV for short amounts of time to check on what the situation was.  And Sean made mac and cheese on the camp stove.  As always, Abby was a trooper.
• Monday morning- still no power.  I didn't sleep well.  It was just too quiet.  No one in our neighborhood was making a sound.  Sean and I ventured down the road to an area that we thought had power.  Mom and dad had been able to get some gas the night before, and it looked like Kroger had its lights on.  Just to be sure, I called-they had power and even were able to take credit or debit cards.  Which is a good thing, because I very rarely have cash.  We got some gas in the car and some for the generator, some milk for Abby, and some cash just in case.  They were already out of ice and removing all the defective products from the store (like cheese, frozen stuff, etc.)  I also picked up a newspaper only to read that the power could be out for a week and that 4 people were killed when trees fell on them.  When we got home, Sean put some water on the camp stove and grill to get hot so I could do some dishes (the old fashioned way)!!!!  Mom and dad left around lunch.  Abby and I took a walk around the neighborhood.  There were a ton of houses that had damage to the siding.  Ike had collided with a cold front, so the temperature dropped several degrees.  It was almost COLD!  I really needed to go to work, where they actually had power (of course).  I needed to pick up a pool car since I had a trip scheduled on Tuesday.  I also needed to pick up the directions which were at my desk.  I think I also wanted a technology fix.  I stopped and got gas in my car on the way in.  It took me 30 minutes!! I had to wait in line for what seemed like forever!!!  Finally, I was able to fill up.  What madness!!! I only worked for 3 hours.  Around 5:00 Sean called asking if we had any more candles.  As I was trying to explain, the power came back on!!!! YEAH!!!!!  (The pictures of Abby and Sophie were taken after the power came back on, but before I got home.  They were becoming best friends.  I hate that I missed it!)  I stopped by Kroger only to find that everyone else in the state was there.  I managed to get home, finish the load of laundry that had been sitting in water, and get ready for Tuesday.  I missed my electricity!!! I'll admit it.  I'm a wimp!  I really hated going to work without a shower.  I like my hot water heater!
• Tuesday, I got up at 5:00 am and got on the road by 6:30.  It was a good thing that we had gotten gas the day before, because all the gas stations in the area were out. The plant that I visited is almost 3 hours away and I had to be there at 9:00.  Luckily, they are so far south that they are on central time.   Otherwise, I would have had to leave by 5:30.  That would not have been fun!  The trip was ok except for some fog early in the morning.  My meeting went fine and actually ended sooner than expected.  So I made it home by 7:00 pm.
• Meanwhile, my sister-in-law was in surgery at Vanderbilt in Nashville.  They were supposed to start around 7:00 am, but they had an emergency liver transplant which pushed her surgery to noon or so.  I think it lasted around 4 hours.  They think they got the whole tumor and said that her liver was larger than normal, so she had more remaining than they had originally thought.  Thankfully, she seems to be doing OK, but we really don't have a lot of information.  They are just trying to keep her pain free and as comfortable as possible.  Thank you to everyone for your thoughts and prayers.  I can't imagine what the recovery will be like.
• So for the last two nights, we've been trying to get ready for Sean's parents.  They will be here tomorrow.  I know we are all so anxious to see them.  We have lots of fun stuff planned- like the aquarium, maybe the zoo, and maybe the Dayton Air Force Museum!  I'll post when I can. 

We made it thru another week.  Abby is doing so much better with pre-school drop off.  I think she has figured this out now.  We try to make it as brief as possible.  I'm doing better about planning.  We've been trying to make Abby's lunch with the previous night's left-overs.  And like all of us, she can only take so much.  We had meatloaf two nights, which meant that Abby had it for 4 meals in a row!  She ate it all for the lunch the first day, but by lunch the second day...well, let's just say that most of it ended up in the trash.  Oh well.  We tried. 

I can also see that she is learning some new things.  It is hard to tell if it is just time for some of these "new things" or if it is from school.  But either way, it's kinda cool.  First of all, she understands what the trash can is.  Sean and I have been very careful about her NOT touching the trash can.  It's just that it is not the cleanest thing in our house.  l have noticed Abby going to it more frequently now.  At first I kept saying, "No.  Don't touch.  Dirty."  But then I realized that she was throwing something away.  Real trash.  Now I feel like a bad mom for possibly confusing her.  So, I think we're going to have to get a small Abby trash can just for her that we keep clean(er) than the others so she can have a place to throw trash away (and for us to make sure that it was really trash).

The other thing that she's doing now is washing her hands.  If I'm alone with her, I have to take her to the bathroom with me when I have to go.  I sit her on her potty while I go.  The potty can be used as a stepstool, so then we wash our hands.  (I know...I know....waaaayyy too much info.)  They must be doing this at school because she knows how to rub her hands together and dry them off.  I know she's seen us do it, and we do wash her hands (of course!).  It is amazing (and scrary) to see your child become more independent.

We've been playing more with the neighbor kids.  They are mostly boys (at least the ones Abby's age).  All the mothers want to have a girl and say how light she is compared to their boys.  It was funny to watch them all together.  They look at her and flirt while she just wants to be a "big kid" and play on their jungle gym.  (I have already planted the seed that we need to start thinking about one.)  The neighbors have a really nice wooden swing, fort combo thing that is really cool.  Abby loves to swing and just typically be outside, so I see one in our future.

We also went fall clothes shopping today.  When I say we, I mean me and Abby.  Sean was organizing the garage.  Abby is such a tropper.  She hung out with me all afternoon.  We went to five different stores.  Most of her clothes come from either Target or Old Navy.  We got a rain jacket, jeans, knit pants, several shirts, long sleeve sleep sets, and some really snazzy shoes.  I think we're ready for fall.

And finally, I spoke w/ my sister-in-law yesterday.  Her surgery is scheduled for Tuesday.  I think she said that is was 5-6 hours and would require a 12 inch incision.  She will be at Vanderbilt for 5 days and have an 8 week recovery.  They still don't know exactly how much that they will have to remove, but it will be more than half.  They also don't know what caused it.  They will have to send it to pathology for testing, and then there may be no way to tell.  Our whole family asks for your thoughts and prayers for her surgery and recovery.

 

 

Well, we got Abby's room done.  I've included some pictures.  All I can say right now is that the weekends are waaaayyyy too short.  I still have the last load of laundry in the dryer, I need to clean up the kitchen, and make all of our lunches for tomorrow.  And it's now almost 9:30.  I don't know which is worse- going to bed late or getting up early.  So...I need to prepare myself for another week.  Wish us luck!

One more note:  I think my sister-in-law (Layla, Justin's wife) will have surgery on the 16th.  They may have to take more of her liver than expected. 

11 Days until we see the Sullivan's!!!!

 

We made it thru.  Glad it was a four day week.  The first day was ok since there was no crying.  But days two and three were tougher.  She knew we were leaving her and she made sure we knew it wasn't ok.  But once we left, she was fine.  And we got better at it, too.  It looks like this is actually faster than the other way.  Before Sean would drop me off, take Abby, then come back himself.  Now, we arrive at work together around 8:00 am.  (OK, so more like 8:05 or 8:10, but we're getting better!)  He says it makes for a longer day at work.  I don't think he likes that.  He's ready to go at 4:59 pm!

Friday was a little different.  When we dropped her off, there were no tears, but she acted mad.  She gave Sean a reluctant high-five and turned away from us.  They called me around 9:30 saying she was acting strange- wanting to sleep instead of play, and that she had a low-grade fever.  We didn't need to come get her, but they just wanted us to know.  I called back around 11:00 to check on her.  They said she was up playing and that they hoped eating would help.  They were preparing lunch.  Oh my!  You should have heard all the background noise!!!! I don't know how they do it!!!! That would drive me nuts- especially if they weren't my own kids! I guess the eating helped because they didn't call me back.  We left work a little early due to a raging headache on my part (sinuses I think).  When we got there, we found out that another child had just (like 10 minutes before we got there) bit Abby.  I thought Sean was gonna lose it!  They have a form that we have to sign.  Like an "incident report" for her files.  It didn't name the other child, but I will assume that they will talk to his or her parents.  That poor teacher!  She looked scared.  Like we wouldn't come back.  Abby was fine.  I didn't worry too much about it since Abby's biting thing several months ago.  I guess it is just something that happens.  But...whoever bit her did a good job.  By the time we got home there was nice set of bite marks.  More like a bruise.  It has faded over the weekend and now looks more like the teeth scraped her.

And finally, Sean painted her room yesterday.  I will take pictures when we're done.  I got some new curtains from Ikea that go with her new comforter (which she likes to sleep on TOP of!).  We had bought a darker almost red to paint the chair rail.  I'm not sure if I like it.  BUt it adds some character to the room.  It is definately a girl's room now!

I need to start some laundry.  We may stop by Adam's this afternoon.  He's having a football kick-off party!   

Well, we made it!  We took her in right at 8:00 am.  We had to drop off all sorts of stuff like diapers, wipes, sippies, a change of clothes, sunscreen, an art smock, and lunch.  She already had her cubbie with her name on it.  Abby did great!  I had to put her down so we could put all of the stuff away.  By the time we got done, she was already starting to play.  So we left without saying goodbye.  And that's ok.  I was crying and didn't want her to see me upset- just in case it would upset her.  They told me I could call and check on her, which I did around 9:30.  She was fine.  I can't say that we were.  It was a rough day for the parents.  But we picked her up around 5:30.  We looked thru the window to see her playing.  When she saw us, though, she dropped what she was playing with and ran to us!!!  What a nice way to greet someone!!!  They give a daily report of things like what time she napped, how many diapers (and what kind) they changed, what she ate at lunch, and what they learned/played that day.  I think she'll be fine.  We're going to try it again tomorrow.  Since there is a little more involved, I think we're going to need to leave a little earlier than normal, which means getting up earlier than normal.  But not much.  I'll get up around 5:45 or 6:00 and Abby will need to get up around 6:45.  We need to leave around 7:20.  And she was tired after her first day. She went to bed around 8:00 tonight.  So we'll see what tomorrow brings. 

It was nice having an extra day.  But now, it's sad to see it go.  Today we picked up some paint for Abby's room.  I'm hoping to get it painted before Sean's parents come into town.  I want to add more pink now that Sean is well aware that Abby is a girl. 

Sean made ribs for dinner.  Yummo!!  And our little carnivore actually took off with one of his ribs!  We added some pictures of her eating it.  And yes, we do dress her.  It just seems like we always have photo ops either while she's eating or right after.  (There's usually only a short amount of time between eating and bathtime, so.....)

And now, I need to get some sleep.  Tomorrow is going to be a long and hopefully not heartbreaking day for me.  There were tears all around on Friday when Abby got picked up from Mrs. Kelly's.  I am praying that I can handle it tomorrow and that Abby will love it.  I still don't doubt that it is the right thing, but it just seems like she's so young!!!  I don't want my baby to grow up!!!  But I guess no one does.  Wish me luck!!

A few notes in closing:

• Sean's father's birthday is tomorrow.  We didn't send a card since we didn't know if they would already be on the road.  But now I feel bad.  So here's a big "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" from all of us!!!  Can't wait to see you!
• It looks like my sister-in-law will have some major surgery soon.  She goes to Vanderbilt on Wednesday for a consultation.  She has a rather large lesion on her liver and will have to have apx. half of her liver removed.  Please keep her and her family in your thoughts and prayers. 

Made it through the week!  YEAH!!!  Today Sean and Abby woke up sick.  I think it is just a runny nose for Abby, but Sean has the sore throat thing again.  No fun!  So, I took a trip to IKEA by myself.  I don't think Sean liked it last time, so this way I got to walk around on my own timeframe.  I have been looking for a quilt for Abby's bed, but I can't find one that I liked.  And IKEA had a comforter with several "duvet" covers for them.  And at $14.99 each!  So I got a crib-sized comforter, pillow and covers.  Plus, I also picked up the easle and paper that I have been wanting to get for her, some cover-ups (for her clothes), a mirror for her room, and a pink table to replace the fridge that we removed. (It hasn't been used since she stopped feeding in the night.  But now she knows how to open it, which kinda makes me nervous.  So, we removed it until the next kid comes-whenever that may be.)

We made chicken soup for dinner in hopes that its healing powers work.  Abby went to bed REALLY early (8:00 pm- IN BED!) and I'm trying to get some additional laundry done before heading off to bed myself.  I hope I stay imune to the illness and that Abby feels better by Tuesday for her first day at preschool.

I ordered a kiddie size adirondack (sp?) chair for Abby a few weeks ago.  It came in and daddy put it together tonight.  She hasn't seen it, so I'll have to get a picture of her in it tomorrow.  I think it is too cute!  And daddy did such a good job putting it together! 

Also, I spoke to Karen today.  Her surgery went as well as could be expected with no complications.  She said to tell everyone thank you for your thoughts and prayers.

It has been a busy week.  I've failed to post on a more regular basis since my stress level at work has quadrupled in the last week.  So, here are some items of interest:

• One of my best friends here in KY, Rhonda, has a 5 year old daughter.  Last weekend, she had a garage sale.  What didn't get sold was going to Goodwill, so she called to see if we wanted any of it before she took it.  I'm sure there were a ton of toys that would have been wonderful to have, but we couldn't run up to her house before my mom and dad were expected, so I just asked if she could bring a few items to work on Monday.  Well, work was nuts and we didn't get a chance to transfer any of it to our car.  But we did on Tuesday.  What we got was a huge red tub of fake food, pots and pans, plates, cardboard food boxes, and plastic cans of food!  I had just been looking at a set at Target the week before!  Needless to say, Abby was excited!!!!!  She nearly crawled into the tub!  She also got a cleaning cart with a broom, mop, vacuum, dust pan, and bucket.  Abby really likes this as well.  Sean is convinced that the cleaning thing will be genetic.  But I'm hoping that she doesn't get my OCD.  Anyway, we have a few pics posted of her new toys!
• Thursday was a really crappy day for me at work.  I ended up coming home with a migraine.  Luckily, I was able to take something to get me through until Abby was asleep.  Once she hit the sack, so did I (which was around 9:00 pm).  I woke up around 1:00 am realizing that my headache was gone, but I was dreaming about work stuff.  I tried to go back to sleep, but couldn't get the work issues out of my head.  So I went downstairs to watch some TV for a while and have some milk.  Around 2:00 I went back to bed and dozed off.  However, around 3:00 both Sean and I heard a noise.  Since it woke both of us up, we both went to investigate.  As he was checking out the basement, I looked out on the back deck.  At first I just turned on the light and looked out the door window, but I ended up opening the door to look further and found what was making the noise.  We have a Rubbermaid cabinet on our deck that is right by the door and is about 3 feet tall.  Well, there was a possum on top of it eating leftover dog food!!!!  It kind of startled me, but he didn't run off right away.  He kinda looked at me, ate some more, and looked back at me.  When Sean came back up, he took a look.  I guess Sean is more intimidating, because he took off!!!  OK.  So now my heart is racing.  Try to go back to sleep.  (Note:  my alarm is set for 6:00 am.)  Finally get back to sleep and around 4:00 am or so (who knows at this point) Abby wakes up.  Luckily, Sean gets up with her and gets her back to sleep.  (This waking up thing is happening about 4-5 times a week. It's weird because she doesn't really need anything and goes right back to sleep.  I think we're only with her for maybe 10 mintues.  Strange.)  Needless to say, I hit the snooze button more than once on Friday morning.
• Finally, Abby and I had a busy "Mommy and Me" day today.  Sean left to go investigate some potential trucks, so Abby and I decided to do some shopping.  We went to DSW and Homegoods.  I ended up getting some black dress shoes for work, and we got a girlie monkey clock for Abby's room.  I'll have to take a picture of the clock.  It is too cute.  We call Abby our little monkey because of all the climbing that she does and her monkey toes.  Those toes are always moving and can pick up objects.  Her new trick is holding on to Sean's hands, climbing up his legs, and flipping herself backwards.  Nice, huh?  After our shopping adventure, we went to aunt Desi's to swim.  We had not been in a while, and thought we would get one more swim in before the end of the season.  Last week was rather cool, but this past week it warmed up quite a bit.  Today it ended up getting to 90 degrees but the pool was still cold.  It was very sunny today, so I made sure to put lots of sunscreen on Abby.  Do you think I put any on me?  Nope.  So guess who got sunburned?  Yep.  Sean's been putting aloe vera on me all night.  It's not the worst sunburn I've ever had, but still!  Luckily, Abby has Sean's skin tone.  She's already darker than me.  No burn, thankfully!  She still loves the water.  She wants to be able to swim and play with the big kids.  I think once we get her in a swim class, it won't be long.  Today we tried to teach her to kick, but it is kinda hard when she can't really float by herself yet.  This may be the last time we get to swim this season.  Fall is closing in on us.

In closing, we only have a few more days left with Mrs. Kelly.  We transfer to Goddard on Sept. 2.  I am not looking forward to the transition, but we'll get thru it.  And I know it will be good for Abby. 

I added a new link to a friend's Shutterfly website.  This is one of our Groomsmen and his wife who are expecting a baby soon (TJ and Stacey).  

And last but by no means least, everyone please offer up a prayer for Karen.  She will be having surgery on Monday.  

Well, it's Monday.  The rest of last week flew by.  The weekend was busy- as always.  We made a trip to Costco on Sat.  And on Sunday, my parents stopped by for the night.  I didn't get any pictures since it was such a quick trip.  I have added a few more misc. snapshots on the pictures tab.  She's keeping us very busy!

Well, today I was cranky at work.  And tonight Abby was cranky.  So we're cranky. Oh well!  I just hope she sleeps thru the night.  She's gotten up EVERY night at least once for the last two weeks.  Not sure what it is, but it needs to stop!  Is her afternoon nap too long?  Does she need to skip her afternoon nap?  Is she getting too cool with the ceiling fan on?  Or is it that she just wakes up and wants to be with us?  Not sure, but she's been such a great sleeper since I went back to work, that this is just plain old ODD!!!

New pics posted as well of Abby just hanging out.

Today was a busy day of cleaning, organizing, and checking things off "To Do" lists.  Abby was a big help today.  She actually swiffered for me!!! I've included some pictures to keep everyone amused!

The rest of the week flew by!  Before I knew it, it was Friday!!  It seems like every day Abby does something new.  I try to post every day just to keep the day's events fresh, but that doesn't always work.  I do this mainly for me.  I'm keeping this as a sort of journal.  I wish I had started when she was born.  So, please understand that I'm just trying to get this all "on paper" so to speak before I forget it.  We all think our kids are amazing and brilliant.  It's not that I think Abby is exceptional.  I'm just amazed at the amount of changes in just a short amount of time!!!!

So...here are a few updates:  Ironically, not just a few minutes after posting a comment on Karen's blog Friday morning before work about our kids not understanding what gravity is, Abby discovered it.  To further explain- we've been able to climb stairs for a while, but she's not wanted to learn how to go down them.  Within the last two weeks or so, she's been scooting down them on her bum while we hold on and scoot behind her.  Friday morning as we began to scoot downstairs, she wiggled out of my grip while I was trying to sit and took a tumble down a few stairs. Oh the horror!!!!  OK, so I know what it's like to have time slow down!! I felt like I couldn't move fast enough!!!  She, of course, was screaming.  Sean was in the shower, and the dogs were upset!  I managed to get her up and back on our bed where I tried to check her out.  No broken bones, no scrapes, just a good scare!  (For both of us!!!)  Luckily, it hasn't stopped her from going down them since.  I just make sure she's really in my grip!!!  Man-o-man are they fast or what?!?!?!?

She's also discovered the joys of the rocking chair in her room.  She's been able to climb up on the couch for a while, but just recently discovered the rocking chair.   She climbs up, sits right in the middle, points to her books (so I give them to her), and she proceeds to rock and "read".  She looks so little and grown-up all at the same time!!!  And she's really proud of herself.  That's the cute part!

Finally, we went to a friend's daughter's birthday party this afternoon (Camille from NY).  Her daughter just turned two. They have a pool, so of course, Abby and I went swimming.  Sean stayed home since he is still under the weather.  (I think his cold has moved to his chest.)  There were lots of other kids there- several older boys and girls, as well as a 13 month old, and a 3 year old.  Abby tried to play with the older girls.  Oh how she tried.  Alexandra (the birthday girl) has a ton of toys including a HUGE kitchen by Step2.  I think my cousin's daughter Sarah has one.  It has all sorts of cool kitchen stuff.  They played well together, but it just proves to me that we've made the right decision to move Abby to a pre-school where she can be with kids her own age and learn to share and communicate.  Anyway, we came home around 5:00 pm with just a short nap in the car on the way home.  Needless to say, Abby went to sleep around 8:30 tonight!  Hopefully, she sleeps thru the night!!!  Several times over the last week or so, she's gotten up.  Last night she got up 4 times!!!  That's unusual for her. 

Nothing much planned for tomorrow other than cleaning, cleaning, and more cleaning.

 

OK, so I forgot to mention one little thing and beg everyone for suggestions.  We have two potty chairs- one in the downstairs bathroom, and one upstairs in Abby's bathroom.  So every night while I'm filling her bath, I take off her diaper and sit her down on the potty.  She doesn't do anything, but she's interested and watches when I go.  (I know, I know....too much info!!!)  Isn't it a little early for this interest?  Everything I've read says that potty training starts around age two for girls and older for boys.  Is this a bad thing that I've started?  I'm not pressuring her, but wanted her to get used to sitting there.  Now, she goes right to the chair, lifts the lid, and sits down with her diaper on.  HELP!!  I don't want to scar my child for life!!! 

I added some recent "Misc" pictures to the picture page, including: the before and after of my dining chair re-do (the gold is the new), some pics of Abby eating corn on the cob (those are pretty funny), sitting on daddy's shoulders like she's a big girl, and reading the newspaper at the table.

Also, she's starting to mimic us.  If we're eating peas, she'll eat them, if we start to eat the corn, she goes to the corn, and tonight since we were using our regular glasses for tea or sprite, she wanted to drink out of one.  She didn't want her sippie.  Of course, I didn't give her glass.  I put some water in one of her plastic cups which she proceeded to drink (for the most part).  Some ended up on the floor or caught in her diaper, but she drank more than half.  I was in shock!  Who taught her that?!?!?!?  Is it just from watching us?  If so, oh boy!

Her new trick: trying to slide herself under the 6 or so inches of free space between the baby gate and the floor.  I'm not sure if she's trying to escape, or if she just wants to see if she can do it.  She's made it almost all the way thru on her tummy but gets stuck trying to get her head under.  She tries on her back, too.  But that isn't as productive.

And finally, Sean made raspberry sorbet tonight using our new icecream maker.  It was yumm-o!!!  It tasted JUST like those all-fruit popcicles!!  And Abby had quite a bit of mine!  I didn't think she would like it since it was so cold, but she ate it up.  She kept getting impatient when I would take a bite.

Tomorrow is the half-way point.  YEAH!!!! 

Well, we didn't make it to the open house at Goddard this weekend.  When we got up on Saturday, Abby's nose was running like you wouldn't believe and she was sneezing.  She was warm, but didn't seem like she had a fever.  But Sean didn't fare as well.  By the afternoon he was displaying all the "sick" signs: coughing, sneezing, runny nose, sore throat, headache.  So they stayed home and took a nap while I went to the grocery to pick up some chicken soup provisions.  Luckily, I haven't gotten it.  I REALLY, REALLY hope that I don't either.  I have a ton of work to do and lots of travel ahead.  I have to travel every two weeks thru October!  I think the longest I would be gone is 4 nights, but that's still more than I have been gone so far.  Hopefully, that will be it for a while.  And hopefully, Sean won't have to travel at the same time.  One of the downsides is that I may have to travel the first week of Sept.  That's the week we start at Goddard.  I really want to be here to get her used to it, and to get us in a routine.  Right now, we just drop her off.  At Goddard, you have to use a passcode to get in, sign her in, drop off food, pick up any communication documents in her "cubby," and take her to her classroom.  I don't know about you, but that sounds more complex and more timely.  I'm thinking that we're going to have to leave the house earlier!  So, maybe I can get that travel pushed back a week.  But that just means that I will have to travel two weeks in a row.  I don't know which is worse?!?

While Sean rested and Abby played with her books, I re-covered our dining table chairs.  I had made the mistake of putting Abby's booster seat right on the seat itself without anything to protect the seat cushion.  I had originally covered them back in 1999 when I got the table.  So they were due for an overhaul anyway.  I had the brilliant idea to cover one of the seats with a shower curtain over the newly updated fabric.  Turns out that I may have bought too cheap of a shower curtain.  I just got one at the dollar store since I was going to cut it up anyway.  Looks like I may have to get one of the heavy duty ones soon.  But for now, it works wonders!!!  Just wipe it clean!!  No stains, no worries!  Nice!  We already have the plastic desk floor mat under her chair.  Not that it protects everything.  She can throw quite a distance!  But she's getting better.  I know she's done when she starts to play with her food.

Anyway...nothing exciting planned for this week.  We do have a birthday party to go to on Saturday.  Hopefully, everyone is well enough to go- it's a pool party!!!

Well, I made it up to MI with no problems, and I made it back.  It was a quick trip.  I did what I set out to do.  But I am glad I'm back!!  I got to drive one of our pool cars- a silver Camry.  Every time I drive a Toyota, I am more impressed.  It got realy good gas mileage and drove so very smoothly.  I had no problems until I got back to Cincinnati around 4:45 pm.  Traffic like you wouldn't believe!!!  I think there was a tractor trailer overturned.  Luckily, I have good friends like Desi who I called to give me directions thru downtown to get out of there and home at a decent hour.  I made it back to work by 5:30 to turn in the car.  I made it home by 6:00 and all is well.  Sean and Abby were fine.  I got lots of screams and jumping up and down when she finally saw me. 

The hotel was fine.  A little old, but ok.  They upgraded me to a suite.  I guess they ran out of regular rooms.  Since I was only staying one night, I guess they thought they could switch me.  No complaints here.  So, I ended up with a 2 room suite with a kitchenette, dining table, separate bedroom, and a huge (I mean HUGE) 2-person whirlpool bath.  So, I got some Outback to go (one of my favorite restaraunts, but I don't get it very often), ate, and set out to have a bath.  Abby could have swam in it.  It was really nice.  It took a while to fill up, and I didn't even try to fill it up all the way, just enough to cover the jets. 

I had a hard time sleeping.  It's hard when you're out of your routine and away from your family.  Something (a sound) woke me up around 1:30.  It sounded like someone trying to get in.  I had closed the doors to the bedroom to help keep it cool. But I could see thru the slits into the living area where I had kept the light over the sink on.  Nothing.  It took me forever to get back to sleep and get my heart rate back down.

The weird thing is that when I talked to Sean yesterday,  he said Abby woke up at the same time screaming like she was scared of something.  He had to cuddle and rock her back to sleep.  Spooky, huh?

So...we have an open house at Goddard tomorrow and cleaning the rest of the weekend!! Fun, fun, fun!

Here's some follow-ups to this morning's post. 1) Sean survived his first day back to work. (We even got to have lunch together.) 2) Mrs. Kelly was fine with our news.  She's going to have her hands full with 3 newborns! 3) I will be heading to Michigan in the morning.  Originally, I was supposed to go up today, but....it's a long story.  So I will be up there tomorrow and return on Thursday afternoon. I see a bath in an actual bathtub in my near future!  That's the good thing about traveling for work- free meals and time for a long bubble bath!

Well, it is Tuesday.  And that means 1) Sean has to go back to work after being off for 10 days, 2) we have to tell Mrs. Kelly that we're putting Abby in preschool, and 3) I have to explain to my VP why I'm not going to MI (beacuse several of my co-workers think it will be a waste of my time- but how do you tell a VP that?).

I didn't sleep well.  I bought a mouthguard thingy to help with my bruxism (grinding).  It sort-of fits, but I end up spitting it out at some point only to wake up and try to find it.  I guess it will take some time to get used to.  I need it though.  I actually woke myself up grinding the other night.  I think that's why I chipped one of my teeth back in Jan.

I'm hoping that we can get back into some sort of routine over the next few days.  It was really good for Sean to spend some one-on-one time with Abby.  They have a much, much stronger bond now.  I'll let you know how today goes.  

Well, we made it to the zoo.  It didn't go down as I had planned.  In some cases, it was better than expected, and in some cases it was worse. 

First of all, we didn't make it there until after 10:00 am.  The good news is that the rain was pushed off until tomorrow, so it was clear sailing.  It was a little overcast early on, but the sun came out right about the time we got there.  And it wasn't too hot, either.  The bad news is that the zoo has some construction going on.  That wasn't mentioned on their website.  In fact, there was A LOT of construction going on!!!!  Right after we paid and were walking to the first exhibit, a HUGE dumptruck was traveling towards us down the same path.  And you know how narrow those "streets" are!!!  I mean, there wasn't much room!!  That happened at least one more time while we were there.  Also, several exhibits were closed, and they had those golf carts zipping in and out EVERYWHERE!!!  To top it off, they don't use their horns!  Abby almost got ran over once.  Not a positive experience!! I have only heard great and wonderful things about this zoo, but those incidents will make me think twice before I ever recommend it.

I think she may still be a little too young to enjoy everything there, but overall I think she had fun.  Part of my plan was to try to get home for lunch.  Well, that didn't happen.  I had packed water and snacks, but that wasn't going to cover for lunch.  So, we ate at one of the places there.  I will say this- there are plenty of options all over the zoo if you are hungry.  But like any of those types of places, everything was expensive.  Our lunch was $24.  Ouch!! We took the small umbrella stroller, and she did really well riding in it until lunch.  After lunch, all she wanted to do was walk around like a big kid.  And she did.  Luckily, she held my hand most of the time.  There were a few trips and stumbles, so we have a 2nd banged up knee.  But just a few scrapes.  Nothing major.  No tears even.  By the time we got to the monkey area, we could tell that she was getting tired, so we started to head back.  I think we left around 2:00 pm.  Not too bad!  She held out as long as she could!!!  Of course, she was passed out within a few minutes in the car.  Her favorites were: the bears, the otters (of course), and the birds.  We may try to go to the Indianapolis Zoo next time. 

Other updates:  I tried to trim her bangs this evening.  They have been getting so long.  I really hate to cut them, but she won't leave a barrette or even ponytail holder in.  So, I trimmed.  I don't think I cut enough, so I may have to cut more tomorrow.  Oh well.

And, she's learning to snap.  She tries really hard.  I think she's trying to dance.  She will rock back and forth in a circle and "snap."  Funny and cute.

And finally, she has a new favorite book, "Hand, Hand, Fingers, Thumb."  She will bring it over and make us read it to her three and four times in a row.  It was one of my favorite books when I was little, but it is rather repetitive.  We have to hide it from her.  Seriously.  I think she's addicted.

OK, so that's it.  Sorry for the exceptionally long post.  Check out the zoo photos in the "Pictures" tab.

Well, we got to go swimming this evening and gave daddy some much needed "daddy time."  The water was too cold, so we didn't stay long.  Abby's getting better about holding her breath.  We got completely dunked tonight and recovered well.  There was a look of shock on her face, and she did cough a little, but she went right back to "swimming!"

For those who want to see some amazing photos of Japan.  Check out the "Bowman Blog" to the right.  Amy has been visiting her sister in Japan and has posted some pics on their blog.  They are really cool!

One thing I failed to mention the other night was that I ran into our new neighbors Tuesday night when we were taking out the trash.  She said that they were taking Cole to the Dr. on Friday for some tests.  I guess when they got him in on Sunday (after the going in circles in the cul-de-sac episode) he was drooling and somewhat unresponsive.  So they took him to the pediatrician who thought maybe he was having seizures.  He was acting more himself after some gatoraid, but they want to run some tests to be sure.  Hope all goes well. 

I think we're going to try to get to the zoo early tomorrow for 3 reasons: 1) to beat the heat, 2) to beat the rain, and 3) to get back in time for lunch.  We'll see what happens.  It is supposed to rain around 1:00 pm.  If we get to go, I'll make sure we get tons of pictures! 

Since I have been up since 5:00 am this morning, I will try to keep this short and sweet:

Sean made ice cream tonight.  It was wonderful. 

Abby scraped her knee.  That picture is posted above. She's OK.  Just a scrape.  But now she has a cool bandaid. 

We may go swimming tomorrow and give daddy some daddy time.  I have Friday off.  Hopefully, it will be nice enough and we can go to the zoo!!! 

I've had a long week already.  My meeting today went well.  One snaffoo was the lunch.  I had to get food for all 25 of us.  So I ordered Roly Poly (wraps).  They were supposed to deliver it at 11:15 am for our lunch at 11:30 am.  When I hadn't seen them at 11:20, I started to panic.  We had people drive 7 hours and some even came from Canada!!! I didn't want them to not get food!!!!  Can you imagine?!?!?!?!?  So I get a call at 11:30 from some guy saying my food was at the front desk. Well, our receptionist is female and I was already at the front desk.  Maybe a clue that something is wrong?  My thought was that they delivered it to the Toyota building across across the interstate.  I called to ask where my food was, and I was right.  So, they had to come back out, pick up the food, and bring it to the correct address.  I called Toyota to make sure that they still had it.  Luckily, they did.  No one ate all our food in that 15 minutes.  By the time the guy showed up, it was 11:50 am!!!  The good news is that the meeting was already behind schedule, so they were still discussing when I came in to arrange the food.  Whew!! Needless to say, I will not be ordering from Roly Poly ever again.  The thing I most regret is that I paid with my corporate credit card and had already given them a $25 tip!!!!  I may still call tomorrow to complain.  I ordered on-line and had to input our address and I confirmed via a phone call.  When I went thru the delivery receipt, the address was even on that. Oh well!  It all worked out, but I was kinda stressed for 30 minutes.  

Off to bed for me!!! I'm wiped.

Sean and Abby have fared very well on their own over the past two days.  And, it looks like they went shopping both days!  Yesterday they got a salad spinner and a playstation 3.  Today, they got an attachment for the KitchenAid (one that we have wanted for a while) the ice cream maker!!!!!  So soon there will be wonderful homemade ice cream!!!!  Good thing, too.  It's been getting progressively hotter here.

We got a honeydew and a watermelon on Sunday at Jungle Jims.  Abby really like the honeydew whish she had on Sunday, but today she was introduced to the watermelon.  Check out the new "PICTURES" tab for some very funny photos of her eating it.  (And wiping her mouth on the towel hanging on the stove.)  Apparently, it is now her new favorite food.  She makes this giggle/laugh that is kinda creepy and cute at the same time.  It's weird.  I really wish we had a video camera for this one. 

I have a busy day at work tomorrow.  Have to be in at 7:00 to set up for the meeting.  So, I will need to cut this one short. 

Busy, busy, busy!  That's what it always seems like.  Today, daddy went by Lowe's first thing and picked up some stain and polyeurathane (sp?) for Abby's table and chairs.  He also got another shade for the back deck.  When he got back, we decided to go to Costco.  While there, we picked up more diapers.  This time we got size 4's.  We've needed them for about two weeks now, but had so many of the 3's left.  Our little girl is growing up!

When we got home, our new neighbors were in the cul-de-sac.  Well, just the 23-month old.  He was driving his pick-up truck around in circles.  I stopped by while Sean was unloading and spoke with his mom, dad, and grandparents.  Apparently Cole got this truck for Christmas but is just now getting used to driving it.  He was doing a really good job steering!!!  (Better than most adults!)  His mom introduced herself, but for the life of me, I can't remember her name!!! Guess I'll have to do some investigating.  We had to cut our visit short due to Cole going in constant circles in 95 degree heat, thus making him sick.  His birthday is next month.  Maybe we'll get to go.  It was cute watching Abby watch him.  He was shy around her.

This evening we had a big storm come thru.  We had to go to the basement for while since we had a tornado warning.  Abby kept saying "shhhh" to the thunder.  When we came up, there was a rainbow.  (I tried to take a picure, but I am not a great photographer.  What I did get is posted above.)  It knocked over a bunch of our plants out on the deck, including my HUGE aloe plant.  It needed to be re-potted anyway, but Sean had to cut off some of the damaged leaves.  Hope it makes it!! This one came from TN.  I have 3-4 plants from when I lived in NY.  One that Karen gave me!

So, I'll keep you posted of all the fun that Sean and Abby have this week together.  I am sad that I can't take more time off, but that's the way it goes.  (I need to save the time I do have left for a trip to NY, when Sean's parents come out, and the "just-in-case".)

 

Today we went to the Ikea located in West Chester, OH.  It is about 40 minutes away (which I consider a trek).  But I wanted a kiddie size table and chairs for Abby and they have the best prices.  The ones at Target and Babies R Us were about $90 for the set, but we got one today for $39.99!!  Of course, you have to put it together, and we used more gas to get this one, but oh well!  I don't have any pictures since Sean wants to stain it before we put it together.  (Sounds like a trip to Lowe's!)  Ikea was a MADHOUSE!!  They were giving away free drinks for the people standing in line to pay!  I think we had 15 people in front of us just in our line!!! And all the lanes were open!  Abby was a trooper, as always.  I would really like to go back when I can look at everything.  There were just too many people there!  I also wanted to pick up an easle that they have, but it was too big to fit in the Escape.  (Yet another reason to get a truck!)

Since we were in the area, we stopped by Jungle Jims which is a "global food" market.  It has all sorts of animated characters.  Daddy got us some Monterrey Jack cheese (which Abby loves- she is 1/2 Californian!), apricots, and some steak for dinner!!!  But the best part of dinner was the home-grown squash and zucchini that my friend Rhonda gave us.  She has this amazing garden and gave us like 5 pounds of the best looking veggies around.  They're bigger than the ones at the grocery!  So tonight Abby had her first taste of real (not babyfood) squash and zucchini.  I think she liked it.  She ate almost all that we gave her.  So this posting goes out to Rhonda and her wonderful garden!!

Sean's finally home!  His return trip was without delay!  I can't say the same for his flight out.  I think they had delays at both Cincinnati and in Philly.  I picked him up from the airport around 3:45 pm and then picked up Abby.  Mrs. Kelly will be off all next week.  And since I am running short of vacation time and have a large meeting on Wednesday with guests coming from all over the U.S., Sean gets to stay home all next week with her!!! I am taking Friday off in the hopes that it is nice enough to go to the Zoo!  After we got Abby, we went to Goddard to drop off the application (and fee).  I didn't expect to do anything else, but wanted Sean and Abby to at least see inside the place.  By the time we got there it was almost 4:30 pm.  We met with the owner who has miraculously found an opening for us in Sept.  (I think that has something to do with one of our friends who already sends her daughter there and is friends with the manager!)  So now the hard part is going to be telling Mrs. Kelly and working through this transition.  I think in the long run it will be best for Abby.  She was really facinated with all the kids.  (We went on a quick tour thru the place.)

We got home and spent some time in the sand and kiddie pool.  Then a chicken and rice-a-roni dinner.  (I swear you would think that she hasn't eaten in days if you were to see her shovel it in!)  Sean's suitcase was in the dining room and she decided to empty it.  (Those are posted below.)  We had a bath and got to bed, but about 15 minutes after I put her down, she started screaming.  Her leg had gotten stuck between the slats.  I pulled her out and she's ok.  But I know it hurt.  Hopefully, it won't bruise.  I rocked with her for a little while and had a really touching moment.  She actually let me cuddle with her for a while like we used to.  And she kept pressing her hand to my lips for me to kiss her palm.  It was one of the sweetest things.  Those are some pretty kissable palms!!  My angel!

One other note:  this morning we were watching the news while getting ready and one of the newscasters was at a pool at a hotel (I think) downtown.  Abby stopped what she was doing, pointed at the tv and basically said, "hey mom, look at the pool!"  She just kept pointing.  I guess she is really excited about pools!!!  It was funny!  I knew she liked the water!

Not sure what else we have going on this weekend other than just hanging out and cleaning.  (And spending some quality time with my husband and beautiful, sweet daughter!)

 

One more day!!! Sean's flight comes in around 3:45 pm!  Yeah!!!!  I'm sure he's missed Abby (and maybe me too)! 

We went back over to Desi's this evening to swim.  Originally, the weather forecast said that there was a chance of clouds and rain, but nothing of the sort happened.  It was nice and hot today.  So, we enjoyed the pool a little longer tonight since we got there at 5:45.  We didn't even take the floatie this time.  But we did take a sippie.  All that exercise makes a girl thirsty!!!  Tonight we "worked on" holding our breath and getting our face wet.  And Desi's boyfriend Scott stopped in for a splash.  Guys are overall more rough than girls, but Abby loved the splashing! He played with her and was just a sweet and gentle (at least with her).  Abby's really getting attached to them.  She's seen them 3 nights this week alone!  Now, she's reaching for Desi and giving big, open-mouth kisses to both of them!  I am truly blessed to have such great friends. 

 

Just a quick note about last night:  I have the best friends ever!!!  Desi called about 7:00 pm and asked if I minded if she stopped by for a moment.  Her boyfriend has a friend who lives the next street over and his parents live in the next subdivision.  He friend wanted him to go for a run with him, so Desi thought I may need some help with Abby for a moment.  She remembered me saying that I needed to water our plants, but that I would have to wait until Abby went to sleep.  What a wonderful, thoughtful friend!! Both her and Scott played with Abby for 5-10 minutes while I watered all our plants.  (We have a tomato that looks like it may be ready soon!!!) Abby is amazed by Scott.  He's a big, bald toy!  He was too cute trying to teach her how to throw the football.  (He's a rugby player.  Like on a team.   He's played at the Cincinnati Bengal's stadium.)That 10 minutes was so helpful!  Thank you to my amazing friends!!!

Not too long after they left, Abby had a bath and went to sleep.  And I started to watch "Knocked Up" which I had recorded last week.  I had heard it was funny, and it was.  But I stayed up too late watching it.  (Way to get some rest, right?!?!?!?)  And Abby woke up twice between 12:00 am and 1:40 am.  Oh well!  Who needs sleep?  She was OK.  I guess she just needed to cuddle.

So tonight if it doesn't rain, I think we may go back to Desi's to swim and then over to another friend, Elizabeth's house.  She adores Abby and hasn't seen her in a while, so we may stop by.  I'll let you know how our last night without daddy goes!

This morning, mom and dad left at 7:30 am when Abby and I left for daycare/work.  Today was their 35th wedding anniversary!!  Congrats to them!!! Few can say that anymore!

After work, Abby and I went to aunt Desi's to swim again.  I had planned ahead and packed swimsuits for both of us as well as towels, sunscreen, and swimmies.  But we didn't have any pool toys, so I stopped in Walgreens and picked up a bouncy play ball.  We took the floatie as well.  This time, there was only one other person at the pool and he was actually swimming laps as exercise!!  It was almost 6:00 pm by the time we got in the pool.  It didn't get really hot today- 86 degrees I think.  But the water was soooo nice and warm!!  Abby didn't last long in the floatie.  She wanted OUT pretty quickly.  Luckily, we did get some photos (posted below).  And like last time, she loved it!!!  She is really a water girl!  This time she got her face wet several times.  I think we actually went under once.  She wanted me to let go of her!!!  Again, I could feel her little muscles straining to get away and swim.  It looks like we may have to start going to a "mommie and me" swim class like Jack and Amy did.  Not sure if we'll make it back over this week, but we sure did have fun tonight.  And we made it home in time to have some dinner at a decent time!  We only stayed in the pool until around 7:00 pm.  Our fingers and toes were starting to prune!  Abby did pee on aunt Desi's bathroom floor, though.  Oh well!  She drank 2 sippies of water/juice after swimming!  And she ate pretty well tonight.

After she went to sleep (a little earlier than usual), I managed to clean the kitchen up, start a load of dishes, water the plants, wash a load of laundry and get it in the dryer, fold a load of laundry, take out all the trash and recycling, start getting my lunch together for tomorrow, and try to superglue Abby's sunglasses back together.  (They were just a dollar, but why throw them away when she can still use them on walks, etc.)  At this point, I'm beat.  So...this is it for now.  I'll let you know what happens tomorrow!

Well, it has been a while since I've posted.  Since last post 1) my dental woes have diminished, 2) we found out that Abby REALLY likes Rice-a-Roni (it's the San Francisco treat!!), 3) we have had our first parenting "issue", 4) my parents stopped in for a visit, and 5) Sean left for New York for the week.  So, I'll explain in further detail:

1) I've been dilligent about keeping my wisdom tooth space very clean.  (Some may say I have OCD.)  Earlier in the week I had Sean look at it with his flashlight to make sure I hadn't missed any food.  His response was "no food, but I can see your jaw bone!"  Nice!  My response: "Now do you see why I was in so much pain?"  So, it is begining to heal and close up.  I'm off my antibiotics, and haven't taken any Tylenol since Friday.  On the road to recovery!!!

2) We made Rice-a-Roni one night for dinner and found out that Abby loves it.  She was literally shoveling it in.  I had to get another box to make the next night with the leftover chicken!  Sean's witty remark about her love of the San Francisco treat was "well, she is half Californian!"

3) We had an issue at daycare on Friday.  I'm sure it won't be the last, but it definately knocked me down a few notches.  Apparently, Abby BIT another child at daycare!!!!  I know!  I know!  This is a horrible thing!!!  I have since researched and read, asked for advise, and cried!!!  Our little girl really is a sweatheart.  Promise!  But I fear that she is too much like me.  She wants what she wants when she wants it.  I can only hope that it was the ONE and ONLY time it happens.  As a result, I am looking into moving her into a preschool where she will be around more kids her own age.  And more supervision.  And more learning activities.  The best school in the area, Goddard, can be kinda hard to get into.  The owner is looking to see when the earliest is that we could get her in.  I asked for sometime in January, but it may be sooner.  I am not looking forward to the almost double-what-I-pay-now monthly cost, but it may be worth it to keep her stimulated and active.  I'll keep ya posted on that development.  ****And if anyone has any advise, please let us know.  I don't want to end up the parent of "a biter!"

4) My parents went to Indiana over the weekend.  Since we're kinda on the way back, they stopped in and spent the night last night.  They also stayed today and Abby-sat.  ALL DAY!!!  I'm sure they're about ready to drop!  They played and played.  They went for three walks- one in the stroller, one in the pink car, and one in the wagon!  I'm sure Mrs. Kelly will appreciate all their hard work (spoiling her).

5) Sean left for New York for the week.  He will be back on Friday.  So, I'm single mom this week.  But I plan on taking Abby to Aunt Desi's to swim this week at least once.  And I promise this time to take some pictures of her in the floatie.  It's supposed to be pretty hot here this week, so it should be a good week for it.  And I got her two new swimsuits- so we have to try them out!

I'll try to do better about posting this week.

 

Just a quick update on my dental situation.  I went back to the dentist yesterday since my pain wasn't going away and it was spreading to my ear.  He confirmed that I have a dry socket!!! What joy!!!  He cleaned out the space/hole/cavity and re-packed it with that nasty eugenol stuff.  He also prescribed some antibiotics.  So, the rest of the day and evening were not much fun!  The packing helped with the pain, but I really think the cure was worse than the illness!!! I hate that stuff.  I couldn't eat with it in.  He said that it was supposed to stay in and that my gums would heal around it.  Well, around 7:00 pm I could tell that the stuff was trying to work its way out.  By 9:00 pm I had a headache and tried to go to sleep.  At some point I got up to take some tylenol and took the gauze out that I was using to try to keep the eugenol in.  Well, to my surprise (and relief) it all came out!!!!  I was able to sleep better after that.  So this morning, I had my usual breakfast of carnation instant breakfast (hey! we're busy people!) and called the dentist when I got to work.  I had done some research on the internet and found a few websites that said that the packing was mainly for pain control and that healing was the same with or without packing.  So, my thinking is that if I can control the pain with just tylenol and keep it clean, I should be ok.  I stopped by the dentist office to pick up a syringe with a curved tip to help rinse the space/hole/cavity.  And by golly!  It works!!  I used it after lunch. And yes, I actually had food!  Granted, it was soup and some (verry little) salad.  But you would be amazed at what got rinsed out!  OK, so I don't want to gross everyone out.  So, anyway....I've been trying to keep it clean using warm salt water after every meal.  The pain is a lot better as well. Hopefully, there won't be anything else to post regarding my missing teeth.

Sunday afternoon Abby and I went to aunt Desi's apartment building where they have a pool!!!!!  I took a pink floatie that aunt Deborah sent us and a ton of sunblock...and away we went.  She was in a pool last August, but I guess she remembers it because she wasn't scared at all!  It was about 5:00 pm so it was past the heat of the day, but it was still warm out.  We liked the floatie- I like it since it gave me some much needed confidence that she wouldn't drown, and she liked the freedom.  But eventually she wanted out to play with all the big kids.  There were about 8 other kids from 6-12 yrs old in the pool.  So, I took her out of the big pink floatie.  I could feel her muscles strain to push off of me.  She wanted to swim and kinda acted like she knew how.  She even got her face wet without complaint!!!  I'm hoping this is a good sign!  We only stayed for an hour.  I was scared that she was getting a little pink herself.  She didn't want to leave the pool, but didn't throw a fit either.  Good girl!  Next time, we'll have to bring more toys.  Luckily, there was a family there that let us borrow a ball.  Abby really liked it when Desi would push it under the water and let it shoot up!  So, I think we may stop by Desi's one or two nights a week for the rest of the summer!  Maybe more the week Sean's in NY!!! (Sorry.  No pictures for two reasons: 1) me in a swimsuit and a camera do not mix and 2) cameras, water, and my clumsy self don't mix either.) 

Happy 4th of July!!!

Since it is raining here, I thought it would be a good time to go downtown to the Newport Aquarium.  I think everyone with kids must have had the same idea.  We got there around 10:00 am.  Luckily there wasn't a line to get tickets, but there was quite a line inside!  We ended up skipping the first several exhibits.  Abby was more interested in all the kids and what was going on around her than the fish.  But we managed to get in front of the biggest group of people and their 10 million kids!  The rest of the trip was amazing!  Abby started to actually pay attention to the tanks and the fish and all the other critters.  She really like the otter which she called a "doggy."  I've posted pictures below.  These are with the smaller camera, and the glass made it hard to use the flash, so the quality is not the best.  But you can tell that Abby had a great time (and so did we)!  She really liked the divers who were cleaning the tanks and feeding the fish!!!  There are several water "tunnels" where the fish swim above and below you.  Of course, the only exit is THROUGH the gift shop.  And being the suckers that we are, she ended up with a stuffed otter and a plastic shark for the tub.  And we paid an extra $30 or so and got a yearly pass.  Now, we can go back whenever we want!!  And when we left around 11:45 the line was much, much longer- even just to purchase tickets!  I'm glad we got there when we did.  Plus, we made it home in time to get Abby some lunch!  She's still carrying around that otter! newportaquarium.com

Well, I made it through.  It was not fun.  I had one wisdom tooth pulled back in January.  I had chipped it, and the dentist thought it was better if we just pulled it.  It was relatively simple.  But today was a different story.  He started with the bottom right wisdom tooth.  It didn't want to come out at all.  So he moved to the top right wisdom tooth.  It came out right away.  So he went back to the bottom one.  Thank God for drugs!!!!  More than anything, it felt like he was trying to rip my jaw off.  He did finally get it out, but it wasn't bleeding well so he had to pack it.  I didn't realize that they use a clove leaf type substance.  It looked like seaweed.  But I guess it worked because it helped to form a clot.  And this way, I don't have to go back to have it changed or removed.  Thankfully, he gave me a prescription for some painkillers.  After I took one of those and had a nap, I was feeling much better.  I figure I will be hurting for a while.  So.....the moral of this story is:  take care of your teeth!  Mine weren't neglected, but my mouth is so small and I still had ALL of my wisdom teeth (up until Jan.) that it made it difficult to brush and floss properly. 

Twice in one night...how did you ever get so lucky?

#1) Tonight was a busy night.  After the last post, we had some exciting things happen. Abby and I went back outside.  She accidentally threw the tennis ball into the dogs water trough in the backyard.  So daddy went to retrieve it and discovered a small frog in it.  Since we have the large retaining basin in our back yard, I'm assuming this will end up being a big bullfrog, but we'll see!

#2) Our new neighbor stopped over and introduced himself.  His name is Sean as well!  (Although I didn't ask how he spelled it.)  He seems nice.  He said that they had a 22 month old boy, so Abby may have a new friend! We'll have to get together!

#3) We went inside to eat dinner (daddy made chicken parm-yummmy!).  Both dogs started barking, which is kinda unusual.  Sophie typically barks at animals and Luna at people, so I was a little concerned.  I looked out and didn't see anyone or anything.  But they kept barking and both had raised hair.  When I went down to take a closer look, I discovered that there was rather large turtle in Sean's grapevines.  (Pics are below.)  We had seen one in the pond, but hadn't seen him since the storm last month.  I'm glad that he's OK.  (Or..it could be a SHE who is looking for a place to lay eggs?  I don't know anything about turtles!)  If you look at the pictures, you will be able to see some of Sean's grapes.

#4) Eating.  I gave our little carnivore some noodles while the chicken was cooling off.  Those pics are pretty funny.  She learned how to slurp them up.  Pretty entertaining.  (Pics below.)  By the way, she ate most of my chicken.

It was such a nice, cool, breezy evening.  So Abby and I took her car out for a spin.  Sean's parents got Abby a battery operated car for her birthday.  We've taken it out before, but this is the first time I got it on film (pictures added below).  When we go back, we went out on the back porch for some fun with the dogs.  There's even an action shot of Abby throwing the tennis ball to daddy! 

It looks like we may have a rainy 4th of July.  But that won't bother me too much.  I have a dentist apt. tomorrow afternoon to have two of my wisdom teeth pulled.  I am not looking forward to it, but I think it will help.  This dentist is really good.

And one final note:  Sean is turning over the title to his truck tomorrow.  Toyota made him an offer that he couldn't refuse, so tomorrow it will no longer be his.  But don't feel too bad for him, once the title to my car comes in (I just paid it off last week!), we'll be trading it in for a brand new Toyota Tundra.  Sean's already done the research and found out which ones hold car seats in the back.  We'll keep everyone posted on that!!!!

We re-measured Abby here just to discover that she really is only 30 1/2 inches tall.  But I don't know what growth chart the pediatrician's nurse was using, because that equates to about the 50-55% (not 85%).  I guess we don't need to worry right now.  We'll see where she is at her 18 month check-up and go from there.  It is hard to tell when its your own child and you see them everyday.  Luckily, we haven't had any reactions to the shots.  We had to give her some tylenol that night, but that was it.

We've been having amazing weather here lately.  Unseasonably cool!  Not that I am complaining!! We've only had to use our air conditioner a few times this season.  But this means that Abby and I have spent a lot of time out on our deck.  She just loves it out there.  She likes the plants, the breeze, and playing with Sophie and Luna.  Sophie plays fetch while Luna gets the lovin'. 

Sean made a Santa Maria style dinner last night.  That consists of tri-tip (for those who don't what this is, it is a cut of beef like bottom sirloin), grilled garlic bread, and trail camp beans called pinquito which are only grown in the Santa Maria Valley.  Sean is famous within my family for this particular dinner.  My parents love this meal (and so do I)!!!  Anyway, Sean cut up the meat REALLY thin and gave Abby some with the beans.  The beans are kinda spicy, but she gobbled them down.  She couldn't figure out what was going on- but apparently her mouth was burning.  She really appreciated the sippie of water!  We got some pictures, but I haven't had a chance to download them.  I'll try to get them on here tonight.  We've also discovered that she likes cucumbers which Sean put in the salad.  I think they helped cool off her tongue when it got too hot.  So, before bed she got a good squirt of some anti-gas meds.  Beans, cucumbers...I dunno what we were thinking.  But she was ok.  Who knows what Mrs. Kelly had to put up with though!

One final note:  Abby has a favorite book.  It is called "I Love You Through and Through."  It's really cute so I don't mind reading it.  And I guess I've made it interactive.  It basically goes thru different things like "I love your top side, your bottom side, your inside, your outside, your fingers, toes, etc."  Well, I guess I make faces, noises and hand gestures when I read it.  So when we read it, she makes the motions that go along with the words and pictures.  Tonight when Sean was reading it to her, he was amazed.  It was funny to watch.  She will point to her nose and eyes, wiggle her fingers and toes.  Again, I think we need a video camera.  These are too funny not to share!

Well, not much has been going on this week.  Thankfully, Abby is feeling better.  We went to her 15 month check-up today.  Originally, it was scheduled for last Friday, but her Dr. wanted to wait until she had taken all of her medicine before she came back.  So, we had to re-schedule at the last minute.  Which means we didn't have a whole lot of options as far as timing!!!  I scheduled the apt. for 12:00 (noon) today probably thinking that would save Sean and/or myself from having to take too much time off of work.  But what I didn't think about was Abby's lunch.  We picked her up at about 11:25, so I know that she didn't get to eat at Mrs. Kelly's.  And we both forgot to get a sippie for her.  (She's used to a sippie for the car ride home, so I just assumed that she would want one for the ride to the Dr.  Luckily, she was so excited to see us, that she didn't even miss the sippie!! Yeah!!!) When we went to get her out of the car at the doctor's office, I noticed that she had pooped.  Being the great mom that I am, I had diapers- but NO WIPES!!!  Great!!!  We haven't used a diaper bag since she was a baby.  I just keep one in each car stocked with the necessities.  But I had taken out the wipe container when we got back from TN since it was empty.  I just hadn't filled it back up and replaced it!!!!  So, we had to make due with wet paper towels from the doctor's office bathroom.  And by the way, you cannot dispose of dirty diapers in their trash cans.  They will give you a plastic bag, but you get to keep the soiled diaper!  And so I did.  In my purse!!  At this point I'm feeling like I must not have my head on straight.  Abby did really well waiting in the lobby.  When she began to get too restless, they called us back. Great timing!!  Things are looking up!  She got her weight taken on the big girl scale again.  This time she stood still long enough for it to read: 23.6 pounds (65%).  Her height is 30.5 inches (85%) and her head circ. is 18.5 (75%).  I'm reading into this that she may have her father's genes and end up tall and skinny!  But the doctor wasn't too happy that her weight percentile had dropped so much.  She wants us to increase the amt. of milk we give her and reduce the water/juice combo.  I think we can do that.  Everything else looked normal.  She got two shots, but recovered quickly.  I was suprised to hear that they can have a reaction including a rash up to 2 weeks after the measles shot.  Hopefully, that doesn't happen.  So...next apt isn't until Sept.  We did finally get to eat.  Sean and I had to get back to work, so we had to make due with Wendy's chicken nuggets and mandarin oranges.  Oh well.  We made it through.

Busy weekend.  Sean stayed home on Friday with Abby for two reasons: 1) he needed to burn some vacation time so that he would keep accruing it and 2) Mrs. Kelly's sister came in from Colorado for a visit, so she took the day off.  From the sounds of it, he and Abby had a great day.  Her rash is gone, she looks and acts like she feels better, but she still has several days left of her medicine.  We go to the doctor on Wednesday, so we'll give you updates then.

After work, I went with one of my friends to the museum center to go thru a traveling exhibit called "Bodies: The Exhibition."  It was spectacular! I will post a link to it.  (But be aware that it may be a bit graphic.) I've been meaning to go, but it's not something that you could take a child to.  These are actual bodies and body parts that have been preserved using polymers.  If you know me, you know that I LOVED this exhibit!  It has been a controversial exhibit here.  Anyway, I'm glad that we didn't take Abby, since she would have tried to TOUCH everything.  Most dispays did not have glass, so it would have been very difficult to keep her from touching everything.  Plus, she wouldn't have wanted to stay in her stroller for that long.  So, Desi and I went by ourselves for a "girls night out."  It was a much needed night off, but I have to admit that by 9:00, I was missing my little girl!  She was already asleep when I got home!!!!

Yesterday we spent doing regular Saturday chores- mowing the grass, laundry (which I am still doing!), vacuuming, and dusting!  But last night we went over to Adam's house for a little while.  For those of you who don't know, Adam is a former roommate of mine.  We lived together in NY for a while.  We both moved from out of state and couldn't afford rent on our own (I don't know who can!!!!).  Anyway, he moved here right before I did.  Sean, Abby and I only stayed for a little while.  It was still nice to get out for a while.  Plus we got to see some of our other friends, Aaron, Teri and their son, Aiden, who is 3 or so.  It is amazing to see how much they change when you're not around them often. The last time I saw him, he was just a baby!!  But Abby had a good time running around Adam's basement that they just had finished.  (Now, Sean and I are wondering what it would take to do ours!!!!)

Anyway, we're just hanging out here today.  Sean made breakfast for us, I'm still doing laundry, but I think Sean may go to the gun range and I may go shopping (with Abby, of course!).

So Mrs. Kelly called at lunch to tell us that Abby has a rash all over and that she thinks she has roseola (sp?).  She didn't think that it was contageous now, but Abby wasn't her normal self.  And since we couldn't see how bad it was, we decided to go get her.  And since we carpool, that meant that both of us had to go.  Luckily,  she didn't look too bad, so Sean went back to work while I stayed home with her.  I tried to keep her somewhat content.  I know she's not feeling well.  She'll just lay down wherever she is playing for a minute or two then start screaming!  She'll reach for me and just want to cuddle.  Which is nice, if I thought I could make her feel better. We also went out on the deck for a while where she practiced throwing the tennis ball for Sophie to fetch.  She's getting pretty good at tossing the ball and saying "Luna" but still has trouble with "Sophie."  And the dogs were great!  They were really patient with her and didn't take the ball from her at all!

Finally, last night I realized that someone (not Sean or I) has taught her to play "patty cake."  I don't remember what we were doing, but she started to roll her hands like the "roll 'em up" part.  I'm just amazed every day at how much they learn and how fun they are.  I'll have to get a camcorder to record all this fun stuff! 

 

Abby's feeling a little better.  She's still not completely herself.  We still have to give her something for the fever, but she is good about taking the medicine.  She didn't eat well tonight.  It looked like it hurt to chew.  She's a trooper! 

I added some pics below of her using the booster seat.  The eating is messy, but now we can use the table to color!! What fun!

Well, we have ear infection #2.  I'm not complaining, since I have heard that it is kind of a right of passage.  I've heard horror stories about the number of ear infections some of my friend's kids have had.  Mrs. Kelly called me while I was at lunch to come pick her up since she had a fever.  By the time we got home, she was cranky.  When Sean took her temp, it was 101.7 and rising.  (But mrs. wiggleworm wouldn't sit still long enough for it to quit reading.)  We decided to go ahead and take her to the doctor after giving her some tylenol for the fever.  They were good about getting her in pretty quickly.  We were supposed to go in on Friday for her 15 month check-up and shots, but the Dr. thought we should wait until after her 10 days of medication, so we had to reschedule for next week.  We did find out that she is between 22-23 pounds. (Again, she wouldn't stand still long enough on the "big girl" scale- the one that you STAND on.)  We will give updates on her height after next week's check-up. 

And one of the other things that could be causing her cranky behavior- 4 more teeth are coming in.  Looks like the upper eye teeth have poked through and the lower eye teeth will be next.  I hope the Dr. gets her hearing back.  When she tried to open her mouth to look at her throat, Abby SCREAMED!!! That's when the Dr. saw the 4 new teeth.  (Nothing better than screaming at the Dr.'s office!!!)

Since we had to go to Target to fill her prescription, we picked up some more tylenol and a booster seat.  One of the things that we've been noticing is that she doesn't like to sit in her high chair with the tray.  When we ate out the other day, they had the wooden high chair that sits right next to the table.  She really liked that.  So, we got a cheap plastic one that straps to your chairs.  We tried it out tonight with great success.  We're able to sit right next to Mommy and Daddy and eat off the table.  Which means that the mess is closer to us!!!! We did get some pics of that mess, but I haven't had a chance to upload them.

In closing...hopefully, she will sleep through the night and feel better in the morning.  The Dr. said that she wasn't contagious, so we should be able to take her back to daycare.  Wish us luck!

We made it home.  We're all safe and sound (and some of us are asleep).  More pics have been added below.

So while I was writing the last entry, my mom was out on the back porch with Abby.  (Again, I remind you that she LOVES to be outside!  She's been dragging us outside all day!)  It was dusk, dogs were barking in the background, and baseball games were going on.  My parents don't live too far from the local park where youth baseball and softball games are held.  You could hear the crowd cheering players on.  It was picturesque.  When I finished the entry, Sean and I joined them.  Abby was sitting like a grown-up at the table (they have the nice patio furniture with cushions and a glass table).  When we came out, we discovered that she had learned something new.  Apparently, my mom was trying to get her to listen to the different noises and kept saying "shhhh...listen" while holding her finger to her mouth.   Abby would be walking around and would occasionally just stop and say, "shhhh" includng the finger to her mouth!  She did it several times!! I swear they are sponges!  Shhhhh.

Fearing a complete meltdown if we tried to take her in, we fixed her some dinner and took it out for her to eat it on the back porch.  Needless to say, there were plenty of distractions!  We tried initially to bring the high chair out for her.  She would not have any of that!!! She wanted to sit in the grown-up chairs at the table.  So we let her.  But then the fireflies (lightning bugs) started to show up.  That was it!  She was simply amazed.  We have them at home, but most of them hang out down by the pond.  We tried to catch a few.  More showed up as it got darker.  The look on her face was priceless!! It wasn't fear- just pure wonder.  I can't really describe it.  And of course, I didn't have the camera.  But trust me...it was a look I won't soon forget.  Guess we'll be spending more time trying to collect them when we get home.

Busy weekend.  Abby played with grandma and grandpa Perrigo and unlce Alex almost non-stop. It took her about 10 minutes to warm back up to grandpa, but once she figured out she knew him, it was all over.  (He's just a big plaything!)  We also got to see great-grandma Nannie and aunt Trudy!!  She played with all sorts of fun new toys that grandma and grandpa have, so take a look below to see her in action!  Luckily, everyone slept well.  Mommy remembered to bring her nightime CD and blankie, so going to sleep went smoothly.  She woke up at 5:30 Central time, which was 6:30 her time.  That's pretty normal.  But she usually just hangs out in her crib for 30-45 minutes.  Since she's in the same room as us, we ended up just getting up.  But she took a good two hour nap this afternoon. 

We're tyring to get packed for this road trip.  It's taking longer than I originally thought.  Abby's needing some entertainment, so I popped in a DVD of one her favorite bands- the Laurie Berkner Band.  She got the DVD for her birthday from Greg, Amy and Morrigan.  It's really cool!  She likes "I'm Gonna Catch You" but my favorite is "Victor Vito."  I added a link to the site below.  For those of you with kids- they are really cool.  I like them!

Wow!  Tonight was a busy night! 

#1.  When we got home, there was a package waiting for us that included some dry ice.  So, Sean played Mr. Wizard and put some in a glass with water.  What a reaction!  Abby was thoroughly amazed.  (Pictures below.)

#2.  While I was upstairs changing clothes, Sean started up the Wii Fit.  Abby wanted to play, so he took some pics of her on it (pictures below).  Whoa, girl!

#3.  Sean had bought some champagne for our anniversary.  Since we didn't open it last night, we thought we would open it tonight to celebrate.  Abby was interested in what those funny glasses were and kept reaching for them.  When Sean finished his, he gave it (empty) to Abby.  She proceeded to pretend to drink from it.  She even put her hand in it and tried to lick her fingers.  (Don't worry!  She didn't get anything...Promise!)  But it was too funny to pass up, so those pics are below as well!

We are going to drive down to Nashville in the morning to see my folks for Father's Day.  I will try to take plenty of photos while we're down there.  These trips are usually really busy.  We try to see EVERYONE while we're in town.  So, I'm sure there will be plenty to report over the next few days!

For all the fathers out there- HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!!  You deserve it!

Well, it's been 3 years!  Thank you to everyone for the anniversary wishes!  Sean and I actually got to have lunch together today.  It was nice!  Luckily, I did not have to go to Mexico.  Originally, I was supposed to go to Mexico on Tuesday and return on Thursday.  But cost-cutting measures prevailed.  Good for me!!!  (It wasn't a tourist part of Mexico, if you catch my drift.)

I was feeling bad for not including any pictures of the dogs, so there's a new album just for them below. 

On the way home, we rolled down the windows since it was nice out.  Abby giggled the whole time!  She really liked the wind in her hair!  It was hard not to smile at the innocence and simple pleasures.  Having kids really does make you stop and enjoy the little things. 

Sean got me a Wii Fit for my birthday (but I just got it today since they've been out of stock).  Abby kept trying to stand on it.  She's such a sponge!  She watched us play some of the games, and when Sean was playing, she was doing some of the same motions.  She was even watching the TV, not Sean.  I'll keep ya posted on my Wii Fit results!  I hope this helps me get moving!  I hate to complain, but it seems like there's not enough time in the day!!!  I'm relying on my friends to keep me motivated!

Not much going on today.  Back to work!  AARGGHHH!!  It's hot here, but not as hot as in NY!!!  I guess they have a heat wave going on!  Thank goodness for air conditioning!!! 

I gave Sean his Anniversary/Father's Day present today.  (I'm like Ian- I just can't wait!!)  I got him something a little non-traditional.  I got him a gift certificate to a gun range.  He has a few guns that I know haven't been fired since we've been married. 

Abby update: We've added another word to our vocabulary: fishy.  She has a 20 gallon fish tank in her room.  Right now there is only one fish in it.  So we feed the fish every morning and say "goodnight" to the fish at night.  She's getting pretty good at some of these words, but it may be just me and Sean who can understand her!  I know I've needed translation when some of my friends kids talk to me.  I'm sure that's what is going on with Abby.

 

Went to Target this morning (by myself) to pick up a few things and ended up buying a bubble wand for Abby.  It was in the One Spot , so it was just $1.00!!!! We already had bubble solution that I bought last year.  She just wasn't really interested in it after I bought it, and I guess I forgot that I had it.  So this afternoon we spent some time in the sand, the pool, played with some bubbles, back to the sand, and then back in the pool.  We stopped playing with the bubbles when she started hitting the dogs with the wand.  Not that the dogs care...and she wasn't trying to hurt them- she just couldn't figure out how to make more bubbles!!!  It was really fun.  Probably more fun for me than for her!!  But sadly, no pictures.  Sean was in the house putting away our Costco purchases.  (Costco is a trek that we take once every 6 weeks or so.  It is about 45 minutes away, so we usually have to plan the trip with coolers and all.) 

Currently our Abby is passed out in the living room!  All that playing wears a girl out!

Tonight we attended a Toyota Boshoku America summer outing.  (Pictures are below.)  It was held at a local baseball field.  It's a pretty nice stadium with covered areas with tables and even a playground area.  The admission is usually $5, so it is a great place to take the family without breaking the bank.  Plus it is local, so you save on gas!  TBA fed us and even provided souvenir bat and baseball!  It was great to see some of Mommy's friends from work (as well as some of their kids!).  Abby got to play in the grass, walk around, and hang out with the big kids.  We didn't last long.  It was hot and she got nice and messy from eating.  They had her favorites- chicken fingers, mac-and-cheese, and baked beans!  Yum!  But a lot of it ended up on her (and mom).  We also tried a slice of lime tonight for the first time.  She actually chewed on it for a few seconds before make the "sour" face!!!! What a pucker!!! I wish we had gotten a picture of that!

 

One of the interesting things tonight was meeting another Abigail Grace!!!  She is apx 9 yrs. old and is a friend of my boss's daughter!!!  Small world, huh?

 

Also, congrats go out to my friend Rhonda who passed her PHR (Proffesional Human Resources) exam today!!!  From what I hear it is a 4 hour test regarding all sorts of HR stuff like laws and acts.  So, way to go Rhonda!!!

I hate allergy season.  It has to be something that is blooming or in the air outside since I don't have any issues while at work in an air conditioned office!!!  But the closer I get to home, the worse my allergies get.  This morning was bad.  I've been dilligent about taking zyrtec each morning.  But my eyes were totally itchy this morning to the point that I shouldn't have even tried to put on make-up!!!!  By about 9:45 they were ok.  Last weekend I went thru several (small) boxes of tissues!!!  It's just not fun!

Abby update: not much new today.  We bought sippie cups last year that have a straw instead of the valve.  She wasn't quite coordinated enough to use them so we put them away for a while.  Well tonight at dinner she kept reaching for my water, so I let her drink some.  Luckily it was water since it ended up down her front and into her diaper.  (If you haven't heard, we simply strip her down to her diaper to feed her.  It makes it much easier to clean her up.  We also removed the cloth liner for her high chair.  Mommy was having too many issues with her OCD about keeping it clean.)  So, we pulled out the sippies with straws.  And guess what?!?!?!?  No issues.  She figured it out right away.  We only ran into issues when it got almost empty.  She kept turning it up like the other sippies.  Oh well!!

Tonight we had tons of laughs playing "Finger Puppet Tennis."  We've been trying to using kitchen items as toys lately.  (Abby likes going through the kitchen cabinets and tends to bring stuff back with her.)  We have measuring cups, funnels, and a pampered chef small steamer w/ lid all over our living room (amongst other things)!  To distract Abby earlier tonight, Sean picked up the finger puppets that aunt Karen gave us from Ikea (which we love!) and used the steamer lid as a tennis racquet.  There are several finger puppets- girraffe, monkey, tucan, dog, etc.  So Sean would hit them to Abby and me on the other side of the room.  I couldn't help but laugh since he was aiming right for me!!!!  Abby started laughing, too!  I would throw them back to Sean, but eventually she started trying to throw them to him.  She has better aim than I do!  We played like that for at least 15 minutes!  We then moved on to kickball.  We may have a soccer player on our hands!  She's pretty good.

In other news: Abby is the oldest kid at daycare for the moment.  The older two girls are going to a preschool for the summer.  Not sure if they will return in the fall.  Both of their mothers are expecting child #2.  It seems like Abby is adjusting well. 

It finally feels like summer!!! I've enjoyed the extended spring (except for the storms).  But it hit 90 degrees today and will continue to rise over the next week.  I've heard that it may get up to 100 by the end of next week.  So, we turned on the airconditioner for the first time this year. 

We've had quite a few storms over the last two days.  But tonight, it got really bad just as we were getting home.  It got almost pitch black, the wind was REALLY  bad.  Then  the weather radio started going off- first for thunderstorm warnings, then a tornado watch, then tornado warnings.  The lightning was very close.  I've been a little nervous since our "incident" last year with lightning (picture below). But when the power went off, we decided to move down to the basement.  Eventually, the storm passed with no damage to the house.  No siding came off!!!!  But the power was off for almost two hours.  Abby was a trooper!  We hung out in her room with the dogs while daddy made dinner on the grill.  YEAH daddy!!  So, we started dinner by candlelight when the lights came back on.  It was nice to not worry about the stuff in the fridge and freezer going bad, but we kept the lights turned off while we ate since it was so relaxing.

 

Abby update:  She's picked up a bad habit- saying "stop that!"  TO US!!!!  Neither one of us use that phrase, so I'm guessing that she got it from daycare.  Mrs. Kelly is working on getting her to stop sucking on her fingers, so I think that may be where she's hearing it.  When I try to move her away from something or take something from her, she says "stop that."  At first it was funny, but that didn't last long.  I guess that's just part of growing up.  I've been told that she will be a challenge to us since she's so independent, but that such independence will be a blessing later.  I only hope that we last that long!

Thank goodness for overnight diapers!! I knew they existed, but I guess forgot over the last few weeks when we would have to change Abby's sheets in the morning.  And those regular diapers were so full!!  So, we got some overnights and WOW! They work really well!  Just a recommendation for those who may experience the same issues. 

Our little Abby is trying to learn how to dress herself already.  She can put one leg in her pants and really tries to get a shirt on over her head.  But the funniest thing is trying to put shoes on!! She can get one of her shoes on, but its easier to put on mommy and daddy's!!!  She even got my dressy work shoes on tonight and walked in them!!! They have like a 1.5 inch heel!!! It was hilarious!! (Pictures are below.)

 

She's also changing her own bedtime ritual.  For the last 12-14 months we have done the same thing every night: eat, play, bath, bottle, book, cuddle with mommie/daddy, and rock to sleep.  We switched her bottle to a sippie several weeks ago with no issues.  But now we look at her books while she drinks her milk (meaning that I read while she turns the pages), then she wants to be put in her crib - AWAKE!  No kidding!  She snuggles up with a blanket that Sean's mom and dad got her and goes off to sleep.  No more cuddles with mommie!!!!  It is a good thing that she can go to sleep on her own.  (A really good thing!!)  But mommie is a little sad.  

 

In other news:  I gave blood for the first time today.  One of our friends from the Gap got me to round up some Toyota volunteers to give blood in a joint effort.  I think we had over 30 people donate or attempt to donate today.  I ended up giving a double- where they take twice as much blood, take out the platelets, then give the rest back to you with some saline.  The thing that sold me on that idea was that the needle is smaller.  The downside is that it takes longer.  I was a little tired afterward, and people kept saying that I was pale.  But I'm feeling much better after a steak dinner.  Thanks, Sean!!!

Not much going on this weekend.  We put Abby in her pool this weekend.  That was fun!  (We're using it to rinse the sand off!!!)  She really likes being outside.  I mean REALLY likes it!!!  And as far as "outside" is concerned, it is the patio.  She's not really fond of the grass.  But she'll take one of our fingers and lead us over to the door and point/grunt to get us to take her out.  She's done this before, but now it is worse.  If we don't take her out, she throws a fit.  Same thing when we bring her in.  And...she had her first popsicle!! It was just a simple orange pop, but she definately liked it!  I cut a section off and put it in one of those mesh things.  (I just didn't think it would last if I gave it to her on the stick!!!)  She sure was a sticky mess!!  But she enjoyed it- which may be because I took her out on the patio to eat it!

There have been some questions about Jack and his surgery.  For those who don't know the history, Jack is the 20 month old son of Tommy and Amy, friends of ours from TN.  I've known Tommy since 1996 and we did quite of bit of traveling together for the Gap.  Soon after Jack was born, they found two (I think) holes in his heart, so he had to have surgery to correct that.  Then earlier this year, he had tubes put in his ears.  This last surgery was to remove his tonsils and adenoids.  He is a trooper!!!  We have received an update that the surgery went well this morning.  He does not require a breathing tube and is eating jell-o.  They're going to try to get him to eat some applesauce later.  He will be required to spend the night tonight at Children's.  I'll include a picture of him from Abby's B-day party.  Jack is such a wonderful kid!! We're so lucky to have them all in our lives!

 

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Well, today was a sad day for Sean.  About a month ago, he got a letter from Toyota that there are some rust issues with several model years of Tacoma- and his was one of them.  So today he took it in to be inspected.  We both kinda knew what was going to happen since the rust was so bad.  The letter stated that they would either repair it or buy it back at 1 1/2 blue book.  So, today Sean had to say goodbye to the truck he has wanted since seeing "Back to the Future."  (Marty McFly had one in the movie.)  He has been taking pictures of it over the last few weeks.  I think he almost cried at the dealership today.  They said that several men actually shed tears.  They gave him a loaner to use until he gets the check in about 30 days.  I was trying to convince him that we should try the mini-van, but to no avail!  Since working for a Toyota supplier, I have been in a lot more Toyota vehicles and find them to be a lot nicer than I thought.  We have some company vehichles as work (Siennas) that have a really smooth drive.

Abby update:  We're learning about temper tantrums!  I know! I know!  Most of you don't even believe me when  I say that she cries, but she's learning to express herself in rather negative ways.  She's a very independent little girl.  She also doesn't have the vocabulary to ask for what she wants, so there's a lot of pointing and grunting.  We've eliminated the ottoman, so she can walk freely between the living and dining rooms.  That is proving to be interesting.  She likes looking out the windows which are low enough for her to see out of when she's on her tippie toes.  We just have to make sure the window fans have been moved.  She's also trying to figure out how to open the baby gates.  She's definately keeping up busy!!  (And we love it.)

Well, another year older.  I've learned so much in the last year!  Wow!! 

I had a nice birthday.  I did have to work, but that's OK.  Sean took me to lunch and got me flowers, and I got some cool gifts from my friends at work.  Desi got me a cool mug with some Godiva chocolate bars, a magnet, and a little book. And Rhonda got me one of those "Edible Arrangements."  It's fruit that has been cut up and skewered to look like a flower arrangement!!! It was so cool!!!  I say "was" because we started eating it right away.  There were chocolate covered bananas, strawberries, cantaloupe, and grapes.  Most of it made it home with me. 

On another note:  Abby just keeps growing and amazing us!  We had to remove the area rug from the living room.  Last night, she discovered the plants on it and kept trying to "pick" them.  It was cute.  But she's been tripping over it too, so we removed it last night.

She's also discovered that she can climb onto the ottoman, which we have been using since she started crawling to keep her contained in the living room by blocking the exit to more fun and exciting areas.  So now, we have to REALLY watch her!!  We've caught her a couple of times almost making it over.  Daredevil! 

It's been such a wonderful weekend!  Yesterday Abby got to play with sand for the first time.  We bought two cheap-o plastic pools, some play sand, and a few beach buckets and such.  The 2nd pool is used as a cover for the sand so rain, cats and other "wild critters" don't get in it.  Well, we got her in the swimsuit that she got for her 1st birthday (thanks auntie Desi!) and put her in the sand.  She didn't know what to do with it at first, but then we started digging and making sand castles!  When Sean came to take some photos, I handed her some sand which she promptly put in her mouth.  I was afraid that she would freak out, but she handled it well!!! She tried to spit it out and Sean got some water to rinse her off.  That's when we got the shots of her footprints.  How adorable!!! 

7/10/2011 1:25:00 PM - 002003419510
I love the photos! It won't let me save them anymore. Now I can't use them as screensavers. :(

3/29/2011 11:38:40 AM - 002003419510
Great updates! How do you remember it all? I can't remember yesterday! We appreciated Sean coming by to see us. It really meant a lot. I think the last time he was here Abby was just learning to "toddle".
I wish we all could be closer in distance. It wouldn't be so hard to get to see each other.
That's just the mom in me. Sorry!

1/23/2011 6:33:26 PM - 002003419510
We are very thankful for the results from the MRI. We are "confident" TJ will grow to be quite a brilliant young man. We are so proud of him and his beautiful big sister. They are treasures that are "treasured" in our hearts for all eternity. Nothing will ever change that love.

9/5/2010 12:44:15 PM - 001009573755
it's much easier to give both kids a bath at once....next is just putting them in the shower with you.

7/27/2010 2:26:25 AM - 002003419510
I love all the phone photos! Great looking kids.

7/25/2010 7:40:19 PM - 001011914991
I am so proud of all of you, Sean, Habitat for Humanity is one of the charities I really believe in. Good for you. And Liz thank you for not telling Miss Abby that the finger guard came from me. Love you all.

7/17/2010 11:11:37 PM - 001009573755
thanks for the great summer fun...and ALL that great food. I already miss the kids. Megan keeps talking about Uncle Sean.

6/28/2010 10:42:40 PM - 001009573755
lovin' all those pictures of the kiddos. I cannot wait to see you all

5/16/2010 1:34:47 PM - 002003419510
I love the picnic pictures! Fun was had by all and in the "shade" so no one got sunburned! Great job parents.

5/12/2010 12:07:07 PM - 001075944379
Poor Abby, I've heard strep is really painful. Hope everyone is feeling better by now!

4/25/2010 12:23:28 PM - 002005754279
Sorry...I just now got around to reading the April 10 entry! It's Corinne- (I've been told that she'll prob have to tell people how to spell her name her entire life. Oh well, try living with Poziwilko as your last name, right?!) Anyhow, we love the taggie blanket and you did a great job on it!

4/11/2010 12:35:59 PM - 001075944379
the eating thing with Abby has NOTHING to do with her being a female. I (unfortunately) brought my 8-year old nephew to TEARS because I wanted him to eat his vegetables. Full on crying. Boys are picky, too. Kids just want to be in control! :)

3/28/2010 2:40:55 PM - 001065601516
She has been doing this for a while...so no worries about you going it, mom.

3/27/2010 11:59:30 PM - 002003419510
Abby and I had a discussion about the traffic lights while I was there. It was in one of her books or while we were walking. I told her to tell you when she sees it changing to help you know when to stop, etc. Guilty. sorry.

3/24/2010 8:29:04 PM - 001011914991
She is sooo funny. I remember when I told my Dad he ran a red light (it turned as we were going through the intersection) and him telling me no he didn't and me saying yes you did. It went back and forth like that for a while until my mom told us both to stop it! Runs in the family.

3/20/2010 9:51:19 PM - 001011914991
I love the pictures. Hope your visit is a great one and tell the folks "Hi" for us.

3/18/2010 1:59:37 AM - 002003419510
I really like the one in the dress spread out. She had style to be only 16 in that one.

3/17/2010 4:57:32 PM - 001011914991
Your grandmother is such a beautiful woman! A real Southern Belle.

3/17/2010 1:21:07 PM - 001009573755
your grandmother was a looker, i just love old pictures like that

3/16/2010 1:44:01 PM - 003019861760
YEA YOU!!!!!

3/16/2010 12:32:26 AM - 001032648441
saying prayers for peace while you all are waiting for these results!

3/11/2010 11:46:38 PM - 002003419510
I have nothing but good feelings about all of this. I truly believe he is alright now and that the test will be negative. God is in control and we just have to believe in His power to care for TJ and Abby in ways we can not. We love all of you and pray for you daily. Too far away to do anything else. We are looking forward to seeing all of you soon!

3/11/2010 7:30:13 PM - 001075944379
when Justin had to give a urine sample as a "baby", they did a catheter. in a matter of 45 seconds, they had lots of pee-pee and he didn't really fuss (not as much as i expected!). i hope TJ is okay. i did google horner's, but i can't seem to find out what problems it causes long-term. there's not a lot of research. i didn't see anything terrible, so i don't know sean says it's bad, but maybe he saw something i didn't!! why will it take a couple of weeks for the results????

3/11/2010 5:21:44 PM - 003019861760
Sean is right - no need to look that kind of information up unless you know for sure. Save the worrying for something else.... Praying for good test results - love ya girl!

3/4/2010 1:52:19 PM - 001009573755
good luck Liz, and i do all of the present shopping too, when i get a package all ready to ship, then Paul notices and says, "did we get something" I just shake my head and wonder how can a really smart man, no nothing that goes on in his own house. oh yes get into medical coding, find out why we are being overcharged for everything

3/1/2010 3:12:07 PM - 001011914991
Will do the praying about the job. I have a good friend who does the coding for one of the hospitals and she loves it.

2/18/2010 11:35:08 PM - 001009573755
His eye is looking good, i hope the doctor thinks so too

2/17/2010 1:31:03 AM - 001065601516
We were only outside for like 10 minutes...it took longer to get her dressed for it than to be out in it! (Hahahaha)

2/17/2010 12:16:08 AM - 002003419510
He looks really good here. Even his eye looks like it is more open. I hope no one has a set-back from going outside.

2/14/2010 1:19:40 PM - 002003419510
The "real" value people have of a mother is so low that the appreciation level is not what it should be. You, and all mothers deserve a great big heart filled with all the Love God has for all His creation. It would not contain it, I am sure! I love you and believe you are doing a wonderful job. Better than I ever did when I started that path. Too young and too inexperienced. Now too far away and too old to be much help.

1/8/2010 2:14:53 AM - 002003419510
I love these new photos in the snow! I know she was a good snow shoveler! Is that a word? Daddy's little helper sounds better.

1/3/2010 5:51:18 PM - 001065601516
It's a popcicle and holder...we were trying to get her something into her tummy. No luck! the popcicle melted.

1/3/2010 1:34:47 PM - 002003419510
I just love these pictures. What is she doing at the table with something yellow?

12/27/2009 12:36:11 AM - 002003419510
I'm glad the bell arrived in time and that she liked it. I know TJ is too young for the toys I picked out, so just save them for next year.

12/20/2009 12:55:51 AM - 002003419510
The book is just great. You do a good job on anything you go to do. Talented in every area. The kids look like they should have a big Christmas. They are just the right ages to see it through their eyes!

12/19/2009 2:58:30 PM - 001065601516
Thank Judy, but it's not so much the money as it is the commitment and time. Who knows what we'll be doing in May. (Hopefully, I will have a job!)

12/19/2009 4:23:15 AM - 001011914991
I had written a comment when you first posted this, but it's not here. Anyway I am so glad that Abby loved the ballet. I 've never heard of charging the parents to see a recital. If you need help for the reg. fee we can help. I agree that parents spend more time driving kids to all the activities instead of just plain one on one time. Too many activities. Love the glider and what a great deal.

12/15/2009 12:57:37 AM - 001009573755
Miss abby looks so grown up. I hear ya about the dance thing. I cannot believe they would charge to see the recital...i thought those were FREE. Toddlers and Tiaras!!! CRAZY.

12/13/2009 11:22:28 PM - 002003419510
The kids look like they are in the best of Christmas spirits! I, too, love the glider. I hope Sean is enjoying it also. The bell has been shipped and I will send the letter from Santa that comes with it tomorrow. You can give it to her when you want her to have them.

12/3/2009 2:12:12 AM - 002003419510
Great photos girls! Now to pick one for a screen saver.

12/1/2009 6:01:37 PM - 001009573755
too bad Sean had to miss all the fun...he had a pretty neat train set when we were little.

11/30/2009 2:39:14 AM - 002003419510
I love the new photos. I especially like the one with the cap over his eyes. He certainly does smile a lot. Abby looks like such a "big sister". Looking forward to seeing all of you again soon.

11/29/2009 12:19:12 AM - 001011914991
I love, love , Love the pictures! I love Abby's Christmas tree too.

11/28/2009 2:05:19 PM - 001009573755
megan and i painted our nails on thanksgiving too...must be a family thing. Way to go for the sale.

11/27/2009 11:26:26 PM - 002003419510
Abby did a great job of her photos she took too. What a bright little girl you have there. I know you will appreciate her work in you latter years. I enjoy looking at things you three did when you were small. Love to all four of you! Your Tenneesse Mom

11/23/2009 3:13:21 PM - 001065601516
like father like daughter!

11/22/2009 10:41:22 PM - 001012934376
This brings back so many memories of camping in the backyard with the kids. Sean was usually the one to bring up sleeping in the tent. Sorry to say, that tent finally gave up the ghost after 20+ years.

11/20/2009 12:32:21 AM - 001065601516
Oh! I want to see that!!! But I heard it is a little scary for kids. My friend took her 5 yr old and he was in her lap right away. But I don't know from experience....so...

11/19/2009 11:55:57 PM - 002003419510
Good job you two! I love the tent and she seems to love it also. Keep up the great work. She is just two, so go slow be patient and enjoy the ride!

11/19/2009 9:33:25 PM - 001009573755
we are taking the kids to see their first theater movie this Saturday, our realtor has free tickets for all their clients to see "A Christmas Carol" I'm hoping they do well. if not they were free, so no real loss.
Meg's hair goes down to the middle of her back, i'm too scared to cut it

11/19/2009 8:10:11 PM - 001065601516
I cut about 2-3 inches off about a week aftewr you guys went home. I just evened it up a little.

11/19/2009 7:10:32 PM - 001011914991
I love the new pictures. Did you guys cut Abby's hair? Just wondering, she is so cute. And TJ what can I say I want to eat him up. They are beautiful.

11/16/2009 9:41:19 PM - 001065601516
Thanks, Kate. I know I am not the best judge sine I was the incubator...but I have to agree.

11/15/2009 7:44:38 PM - 001009573755
those kids are so cute...i have the bestest looking niece and nephew ever.

11/12/2009 5:08:18 PM - 001011914991
I love the new pictures! What beautiful babies you have, or I should say we have ;). TJ is growing so fast. I love baby smiles!

11/3/2009 12:53:32 AM - 001009573755
btw i'm jealous of the pumpkins Sean grew...i wished i were home this summer to get some going.

11/3/2009 12:52:49 AM - 001009573755
great costumes Mom!!! love my little Tommy Boy...

11/1/2009 7:09:49 PM - 002003419510
What a cute couple of Trick or Treaters you have my dear! Can't wait to see you guys this week end.

10/26/2009 5:23:55 PM - 001009573755
Liz...did you seriously just have a baby, because it doesn't look like it. You look AWESOME. and i love the family picture of you all...if only TJ was face forward it would make a great Christmas card.

10/26/2009 1:40:01 AM - 001065601516
I know Judy. I just want my sweet Abby back. I miss her.

10/25/2009 10:26:05 PM - 001011914991
Great pictures! Abby is getting more and more beautiful and TJ is getting bigger from what i can tell. I miss you all and Abby will grow out of the testing thing, she is just curious. I love you all.

10/25/2009 9:59:37 PM - 002003419510
What a beautiful family you two have become. May God bless this union and these children always!

10/24/2009 1:59:04 AM - 002003419510
They are just precious! I can't wait to all of you again! I need a hug from my Abigail! I need to kiss Mr. Sweet cheeks TJ. You and Sean too!

10/19/2009 10:47:59 PM - 002003419510
Abigail is just beautiful in these photos!

10/19/2009 10:45:20 PM - 002003419510
Hang in there parents. Kids will be kids. Just try to think like them and avoid some problems ahead of time. Liz hid our car keys one time in the kitchen drawer. I had to get on my knees and pretend to be small and think where she might have put keys. I found them finally. We just don't want her to get hurt. The tank is glass and heavy. Be careful. Love to you all.

10/15/2009 5:53:03 PM - 001011914991
Gee I have beautiful grandkids!! I am so glad that the spiders are gone! They were so big and so scary!

10/6/2009 12:15:56 AM - 002003419510
These photos are great. Thanks for adding them to Shutterfly. I love the ones of TJ asleep. He really has filled out! Abby looks like she's enjoying him in his chair! Keep us updated and send photos from time to time. I know you are very busy. I will let you do the calling. You will know when you can talk.

10/4/2009 1:55:20 AM - 001009573755
Liz, i'm so happy mom and dad got to see TJ while he was "newborn" and they had that special time with Abby. I know it broke their heart to leave. I wished we all lived closer together so we could all just hang out and BBQ at one house or the other.

9/24/2009 2:24:20 AM - 001075944379
both of my kids slept w/their hands behind their heads...in fact they still do. i actually never realized, but i do, too!! hah hah....i guess we're dreaming about hanging out at the beach or something really cool. little Thomas is so handsome. i can't wait to see you all!!

9/24/2009 12:35:57 AM - 002003419510
I just love the way he is sleeping. With his arms behind his head. He's a real cool little man!.. A young man with confidence. Glad he is gaining and doing so well. Enjoy them both. It goes by so fast.

9/16/2009 7:01:03 PM - 001009573755
what a great story...so happy you posted it. i was wondering how it all went. Sean never gives good details. ha ha.
Give my nephew a smootchy for me.
btw Megan loves to say TEE JAY, when we tell them about him.

9/16/2009 12:45:25 AM - 002003419510
Just when you think you can't love another person as much as you love someone else. There is a new life in your arms and your heart just melts away and the tears flow.
God is good and I really don't deserve anything He gives me. Love to all of you.

9/10/2009 5:39:38 PM - 001011914991
He a beautiful baby. I can hardly wait to meet him. We are so blessed. Elizabeth you look so beautiful, Sean you look so proud. And Miss Abby you are as cute as ever. Love you all.

9/8/2009 9:26:33 PM - 002003419510
I love all the pictures! I forgot my camera when we left for the hospital. What was I thinking? Good to be with all of you and so thankful God sent you such a beautiful healthy little boy!

9/5/2009 1:12:29 AM - 002003419510
You both are beauties to me! I am looking forward to seeing all of you! Praying for a safe and healthy delivery and baby.

8/30/2009 11:40:43 PM - 001075944379
Julia's going through the same bossiness phase, at least I hope it's a phase. Her cousin who is 3 was over last night and they were fighting like crazy, but Julia didn't want her to leave, of course!! :) And congrats on only gaining 8 lbs. I gained something like 40 w/Justin! Yes, we really need pics of that belly!!!!

8/29/2009 5:20:26 PM - 001011914991
Omg that snake is huge! I hate snakes too. Ask Sean. You are doing so well, only 8 pounds, that is fantastic. Can hardly wait to get there.

8/24/2009 12:09:11 AM - 001075944379
yes, little boys have mood swings :(

8/18/2009 1:51:49 AM - 001065601516
It is actually Seamus....I think we have agreed on something else. But it is a secret.

8/18/2009 1:39:31 AM - 002003419510
I watched a movie yesterday with an Irish family with a son named Shamus. I could get used to that name. He might not like it though.

8/18/2009 1:38:29 AM - 002003419510
I love the photos. I am glad she loves so many beautiful people in her life.

8/17/2009 10:51:59 PM - 001009573755
consider yourself lucky if she waited this far to get to the terrible two's...Megan is a pro at it. Ian is having 4 yr old moments too...so the house is full of FUN. :O

8/9/2009 7:56:54 PM - 001011914991
We can hardly wait to get back there. Abby is doing great, and I had heartburn with my pregnancies too. It was awful.

8/9/2009 12:24:35 PM - 001065601516
So far...so good. She got up this morning and was playing. The inside door knob has the child proof cover, so she can't get out.

8/9/2009 11:58:45 AM - 002005754279
How's the big girl bed going? Will she stay in it?

8/7/2009 3:11:39 PM - 001011914991
I love that girl! I will take her blue, purple, or any color. She is too cute.

8/1/2009 6:05:17 PM - 001075944379
yeah for potty training!!! GO ABBY!!!

7/26/2009 7:41:42 PM - 002003419510
I love these photos. I saw one on top of the H'ville Police Department. Got out the cell phone, go into the camera, looked up, gone.... Several small birds had run off to another building. I guess they were protecting their territory.

7/25/2009 7:25:31 PM - 001075944379
so next spring, can you send sean up to our house to help us with our garden??

7/18/2009 10:52:36 PM - 001011914991
Those are fantastic pictures of Washington DC! Post card perfect, it looks like you had a great time. and I'm with Karen as being jealous about Oceanaire.

7/17/2009 1:41:50 PM - 001075944379
SO JEALOUS about Oceanaire. Can't you go to another hospital to have your tubes tied? Even if it means having to go to another Dr.? And I know this might be TMI, but I have my tubes tied and Chris is still going to get a vasectomy in a couple of weeks! You can never be too safe!! hah hah

7/16/2009 12:01:35 AM - 001011914991
I think as long as the Dr. is okay with it you are soooo lucky!

7/15/2009 9:53:30 PM - 001065601516
I think the Essure procedure is done in the office. I will probably do that if our insurance covers it.
Kate: I think the protesters actually helped us. We may not have gotten to see what we did when we did if they hadn't been there and messed up the tour schedule. Also, the weight thing is just weird. I needed to have lost 40-60 lbs BEFORE I got pregnant, so the less I gain, the less I have to lose. (Which is good as long as the baby is HEALTHY!!!)

7/15/2009 3:19:11 PM - 001011914991
I am so glad that everything is going good. I love that song "Down to the river to pray" it's the best part of the movie! I am glad you had a good time. The tube thingy is funny, when I had mine done, Tom had to sign a paper saying it was ok!!! I think there are some procedures that can be done in the office?Maybe that's why he suggested the vasectomy. Good luck.

7/15/2009 1:43:59 PM - 001009573755
i really didn't mean to sound nasty about your weight...i'm happy for you, just sad for me. Loved your trip. we had protesters on our trip too. Right on top of Mt Rushmore. Your trip sounded more fun than ours.

7/15/2009 1:35:48 PM - 001009573755
i love you Liz, but don't go bragging about that weight thingy ;) I never went in and saw that i LOST weight. i still need to lose weight from the first time around.
I had the option for the essure thingy, but opted not to since you have to go in for an x-ray 1 month after to make sure it took.
Are there any other hospitals around you that will do it? I went in around the 6 wk check up to get mine done.

7/5/2009 1:05:19 PM - 002003419510
I love the bling bling! Good job Judy!
Sean is such a good farmer. Great cook!
Handyman! etc..... I love shopping for children. All the clothes now are more appealing for some reason. They're for "Grandchildren".

7/3/2009 10:41:12 PM - 001011914991
She keeps getting more and more beautiful. I hope she likes her tiara. She looks like a princess .

6/26/2009 12:34:27 PM - 001065601516
Update on the sunscreen: I got the spray stuff which works really well if you are dry. But if you get wet, it pills up and flakes off. So, I think I will stick to the lotion stuff for the pool and the spray stuff for the rest of the time. And it was waterproof! Oh well! It is much easier to apply though. I really like the face sticks that look like a glue stick. That works really well and stays on!

6/21/2009 2:35:39 PM - 001065601516
Dolls don't say, "Don't tell me No!" But I'm sure a princess does! It's hard not to laugh when she says that with her finger waving.

6/21/2009 2:20:58 PM - 001011914991
Your Mom is right, is beautiful and a real living doll. And the princess thing, they come into this world knowing about them. I think that they can just reconize their own..after all they are princesses.

6/21/2009 1:13:44 PM - 001009573755
Megan has eczema too, we use Eucerine for that. and the princess thing...Megan has known about them for a long time. She calls Cinderella "ella" and for a silly reason, Snow White is "mommy"

6/21/2009 12:34:52 PM - 002003419510
I love the hair and the eyes in the middle photo above. She is just beautiful even if she is my grand-daugher! God love her! She is a doll!

6/16/2009 8:32:06 PM - 001011914991
PS the sharing thing will go away. But then if she is like me...i still don't share my desserts, ask Tom!lol

6/16/2009 8:31:03 PM - 001011914991
You will look back at this time and say "Thank you Lord I had that time alone with Abby". it goes by fast and these memories you make will last a life time. She is going to love just spend time with you and you alone. It sounds like the summer is off to a great start. Enjoy!

6/16/2009 5:33:00 PM - 001009573755
dad's totally help out with kids...i admire you for taking her to the zoo by yourself. i can barely manage the park with my 2 kids.
don't worry about the sharing thing, Megan is going through that phase too. i cannot tell you how many times a day i hear, "NO MINE" from either of the kids.
Have fun while you just have Miss Abby.

6/14/2009 1:48:01 PM - 002003419510
I know that struggle. I am battling it even going into my 60's. Saying that is hard too. Sixties! I still feel (in my head, of course) younger. You will always be beautiful in my eyes. No matter what your weight may be.
Glad you enjoyed the movie. It was good.
Enjoy this time off before this sweet grandson arrives. You won't regret your decision.

6/11/2009 2:01:52 PM - 001009573755
Miss Karen is right...with Ian i gained 40 lbs, with Megan i gained 20 lbs, partly because of the diabetic diet i was on and i exercised more...took more walked with Ian and just plain running around with a toddler.

6/10/2009 2:57:31 AM - 001075944379
don't worry about what other people say about gaining weight...you know what feels right for you. depending on your pre-preganancy status, you can gain anywhere from 0-60 lbs.!!! that's a BIG span. and you know your doctor would be telling you if there was something wrong with your not gaining weight. i'm sure you've read this already, but this is a good guideline: http://www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancyhealth/eatingfortwo.html

6/8/2009 9:21:06 PM - 001009573755
M&M's worked for Ian, along with a sticker chart. And if he made it a whole week he got a big treat like a toy...and if he made it a whole month it was a trip to Chuck E Cheese.

6/8/2009 5:42:42 PM - 001032648441
When are you doing the swim class? Think there's room for one more? That might be really good to have for Jack too. Although, might be tough with Caroline. Let me know when you are having your yard sale. We'll clean out your girl stuff!

Oh, and what Jack would say to Abby about potty training...it's all about the stickers. He'll squeeze out pee for a sticker! We stayed home for a week and that really made a difference. The poo part is taking longer, but we'll get there. We bought some little plastic potties up at IKEA that are great. They are only like $4 so we bought a few. One to put in the kitchen/living room so he can get while I'm nursing and the most important one...in the back of the car. He loves being perched in the back of the pilot peeing! Great for dirty bathrooms and stops on the road!

6/8/2009 12:18:20 AM - 001011914991
How fun I loved DC and we will make it back one of these days. Abby is growing up so fast and love the helping pictures. It makes great memories. I hope to have a package off for Abby and the baby this week.

6/7/2009 6:56:46 PM - 002003419510
This looks so much like a photo I have of you helping me in the kitchen. It is hard to have "help" sometimes, but in the long run they learn and you have done a "good job" of teaching. Keep up the good work and by all means be very careful on your trip.

6/7/2009 1:42:59 PM - 001009573755
Liz-Try craigslist, that's what i do for all of our unwanted items. It is easier than a garage sale.
What a cute turtle...DC??? it should be Colorado. Hee hee. Our kids love blueberry muffins too.

5/31/2009 4:31:15 PM - 002003419510
I love the new photos. She is such a doll and such a good girl. I know you will do just as well with the young lad on the way! Names are being offered to you I hear. I know we will love whatever you decide upon.

5/27/2009 8:41:29 PM - 001075944379
my doc said no benadryl while pregnant!! i wish they would get their stories straight!!! take advantage of being able to go out with her alone while you can because before long you will NEVER leave the house :) at least not without another adult to help. or on the days abby is in school....i'm still so jealous! oh, and any ideas for names??

5/20/2009 12:01:17 AM - 001009573755
sounds like fun, except the smoking part, I had that experience at the Denver Zoo...he i saw the zoo pictures, you have no baby bump yet, what gives?!?
Okay baby...cooperate for ultrasound tech, we need to know if you are a boy or girl. I love you!!!

5/13/2009 2:33:30 PM - 001075944379
BTW- a glass of red here and there won't hurt. not exactly a stiff drink, but better than nothing :)

5/11/2009 9:08:13 PM - 001009573755
that sounds like a nice mother's day...you'll have to post pictures of the remodel. I cannot wait to find out what i'm having, and niece or nephew lol...i cannot believe you are already 20 wks.
Need some belly pictures!!!

5/11/2009 1:10:20 AM - 001065601516
I'll find out in two weeks. That's the earliest they could get me in!!! But I will share. Sean's gonna find out too.

5/11/2009 12:16:31 AM - 001075944379
20 weeks, huh??? any NEWS to share with us?? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell us if you know!!!

5/4/2009 4:46:51 PM - 001009573755
my brother has to get over those girly moments, like painted toes...next time go for RED, that's what my girly likes. Love the dress up clothes. Being a SAHM will be so rewarding, you actually get to witness all the milestones the kids make, and you raise them not someone else. When i was little my mom quit work and i was happy for it. I'm hoping for a boy, i have tons of baby boy toys i must get rid of.

5/3/2009 11:10:35 PM - 002003419510
I love the outfit! Wasn't that on Barbie? I love to hear children try to say words they can't pronounce correctly. It just shows that child like quality about them! Love to all of you there. Raining here like "Crazzzy!" Garden looks good though.

5/3/2009 10:23:13 PM - 001075944379
at least she can say "justy", julia calls her brother "buddy" and refuses to call him justin. i think abby is preparing for when she and my justin start dating. justin's okay with an older woman. he told me so.

4/28/2009 10:30:04 PM - 001065601516
Yes, I am lucky. That was one of the reasons I took this opportunity. Without the buy-out $$$$, I couldn't keep her in school. So...until it runs out...

4/28/2009 3:31:58 PM - 001075944379
you're SO lucky you get to be a part-time SAHM until the new baby comes!! poor julia had to endure all of my doctor's appointments and what-not. plus you'll get a break 3 days a weeks in the fall!!! you have NO IDEA how much i would have loved that (and still would). you really are blessed to be able to afford that. count your lucky stars!!!!!!!

4/27/2009 2:25:41 AM - 001011914991
You will have all the support you need. Abby looks so grown up in the pictures. They grow so fast, and i don't blame you for wanting to keep her in school. she is really doing well. We love you all.

4/7/2009 2:32:46 AM - 001011914991
Hey we've all been there with the diaper thing. It happens. You know who's a mom and who's not by the looks you get..compassion or are you kidding me. lol I am with you on the bleachers..I always picture the kids falling through and it's never pretty. You're a good Momma and don't let anyone tell you different...love you all.

4/6/2009 1:39:55 PM - 001009573755
that is bad...i try to bring the diaper bag everywhere...i use it as a purse, and always have extra snacks and toys.

4/5/2009 8:51:12 PM - 001065601516
I can't imagine! I asked if they had any diapers and all they had were newborns. I had some in the car, but since we were already late and back in the room waiting, I figured I could change her when we got back to the car. Oh well. Live and learn. Thankfully, it wasn't messy.

4/5/2009 7:06:30 PM - 001009573755
try keeping 2 kids occupied in the docotor's office, it doesn't get easy, so that's when you start making things with gloves, cups and tongue depressors. Our old Doctor ALWAYS had extra diapers and wipes available. The last time i saw him, Ian had an accident while waiting (he was terribly sick) for Megan's appointment. He offered Tyenol for him and a diaper. I brought extra in my bag. No shots huh? Megan got her Hep A booster.

3/25/2009 1:31:04 AM - 002003419510
I love the new pictures! She's going to make a great "big sister". Start teaching her to practice holding her doll so she will be really careful when the real baby gets here! She will do great!

3/22/2009 8:12:46 PM - 001011914991
I have the cutest grandchildren. She is such a doll. I love that sink that Sean gave her. That will keep her occupied. There is something about water and children. Hours and Hours of fun.

3/14/2009 6:17:20 PM - 001009573755
Megan and Abby must be on the same track, She won't come close to sleeping through the night since getting sick, we'll see what the coming week will bring. She started to get better then got sick with a cough, runny nose and fever. Have fun with your parents...and our thoughts are with you about your job. It might be a blessing if you decided to stay home with the kids, save on babysitting/daycare. And have quality time raising your kids. I wouldn't give that up for anything...i may complain about it, but i love to be there for all the milestones.

3/12/2009 10:44:46 PM - 001011914991
I didn't mean for that comment to come off so preachy. It's hard to make those kind of decisions when you are in the midst of the problem and with everything on your plate, to say don't worry is easier said than done. But you aren't alone, you have your family and a very big God on your side. I just want you and that new baby not to be in distress. We love you lots.

3/12/2009 10:16:45 PM - 001011914991
You are in our prayers always and will be even more. God will provide. Have fun with your folks and give Abby a big hug from us. Take care of yourself and remember that God is in control.

3/12/2009 11:46:24 AM - 001075944379
wow that's a pretty serious decision you two have to make!! either way, i hope you all enjoy abby's birthday!!!! i sent a present to her a couple of days ago, so you should have it by the end of the week. xoxo

3/3/2009 12:38:02 PM - 002003419510
I love all the pictures! Barbie is not the "doll" in my eyes! Abby has been a beauty from day 1. Love to you all! Mom

3/3/2009 3:16:24 AM - 001011914991
That Doll is taller than Abby. How cute are they together. I am so happy about the new baby, boy or girl, I just pray that you and the baby are healthy.

3/1/2009 3:57:57 PM - 001009573755
YAY for an update, and Double YAY for baby number 2. Man, i wanted to be the auntie to give Abby her first Barbie doll. Oh well. Next step for Abby is a big girl bed.

2/3/2009 9:38:00 PM - 001011914991
That is a lot of snow!! But the picture is great. I hope she had fun. Did you get pictures of the ice shell? That is too crazy.

2/2/2009 1:04:31 AM - 001075944379
seems like you guys got more ice than we did.  abby is so cute in the snow!!  julia hates it.  i'm sure it will grow on her in the years to come, but i can't blame her for not liking it. 

2/1/2009 7:13:56 PM - 001065601516
I finally dug my car out!!!  It got over 40 degrees here today and everything is melting, so it made it a lot easier to break the ice shell off my car.  And I do mean ICE SHELL.  I had to pound it to crack pieces off.  Luckily, it didn't take me too long and all went well.

2/1/2009 1:42:40 PM - 002003419510
She just looks so happy!  I can't wait to get my hands on her soon.  I really miss having you near me.  Have fun in the snow and ice.  But, "Be Careful".

1/22/2009 2:27:23 AM - 002003419510
I, too, watched most of the inauguration during my lunch hour.
I would love to see Washington DC before I have to be pushed around in a wheelchair.  It has so much history to absorb.  I loved Boston.  I'd love to see it in July (4th).  Americans need to pray for all our leaders.  Starting at the White House and going down to the fathers of the homes in America.  Prayer needs to be a part of our daily lives.  I appreciated the President's speech.  He did a great job.
Abby is such a precious thing!  I will never be able to describe how I felt when I walked in that hospital room as they were placing her in the crib.  My heart was there in my throat.   God is good.

1/22/2009 2:19:22 AM - 001065601516
I will try to write down all the words/phrases, but I'm not going to guarantee anything!

I actually voted for Bush both times.  He was not perfect and doesn't deserve the horrible things that people say about him.  But on the other hand, neither does Obama.  I read a lot of downright nasty comments about both on Facebook.  I begin to lose hope that we can all join forces to move ahead.  We shouldn't be waiting for Obama to fail.  We should be praying that he succeeds!  It is in all of our best interests that he and his administration uses their knowledge, guidance, and power to bring the US back from the brink!  I think we as a people need to read our history and government books again. 
(Sorry!  I have been holding that in ALL day!  I am really disappointed in some of my Facebook "friends.")

1/22/2009 1:36:59 AM - 001009573755

okay as far as the word thing goes,  i just keep track of all the words NOT to say....inevitably they repeat it all. Megan is a minick of everyone...so is Ian. But if you have the time to mark down all the words, good for you. I can mabe  jot down things in my calendar.

I'm glad you all feel so inspired by the new president, i'll be happy if he leaves military spending alone(that is our livelyhood right now).

I'll give him a chance...i liked Bush (i'm a republican through and through)

Miss you all...Liz you are awesome to go to the gym, i have never step foot in one in my life. I treid the Billy Blanks DVD thing, until i got pregnant with Megan...even before i couldn't make it through the whole thing with the bands, i'm a wimp.

1/22/2009 1:27:19 AM - 001075944379
Amen, Judy.  A lot of people were very rude/disrespectful towards the old administration and while it was far from perfect, they were still our leaders and deserved respect.  The good thing is that a lot of those people who whined also got out and voted to make their dissatisfaction heard- so at least they didn't just complain, they did something about it.  I guess that's a step in the right direction.

Liz- you guys should keep a spreadsheet of her new words and when she says them.  We're doing that with Julia and then when the doctor asks (which they will) we'll be prepared to tell them about how many words/phrases she can say.  Plus, you can add it to her digital scrapbook :)

1/22/2009 12:22:30 AM - 001011914991
Congratulations on going to the gym. When we lived in Campbell our complex had a work out center and I would first thing in the morning and it was great. I felt better and lost weight. But then we moved and motivation went out the window. It's good that you have friends to go with, it makes it easier. What you said about yesterday's inauguration is true. I was taught respect, whether you voted for the President or not, he was our leader and we needed to support him. I hope that the American people give him a chance to do something. Sometimes getting elected is the easy part, getting things done and passed is the hard one. I'll try and do my part with prayer and support.

1/18/2009 6:45:17 PM - 001075944379
HAh hah. you mommies who can up and go with your kids make me laugh- and make me jealous at the same time!  i don't get to go anywhere with my kids because 1) it's freezing outside, literally, 2) we can't go to the store or restaurants since it's impossible to push two strollers at once and 3) besides we would spend money that we shouldn't be spending.  so we find ways to keep it entertaining at home with lots of storytime and playdoh and it forces the kids to keep themselves entertained which is a skill in and of itself.  i think every kid is high energy- i know julia has a ton of it!!  if i find that she's getting antsy, we play hide-and-seek in our just-over 1000 sq. ft. house.  there's not many hiding places, but for a 2-year old it's the running around that gets her most excited!!! :)

1/18/2009 3:19:28 PM - 002005754279
You just described my life with Barrett (the house not being enough for him and having to go out lots)!  I'm so glad I joined the moms club when I did...they have lots of park days and other activities so that I'm not all alone when I take him out.  We also go to the grocery store and to Target to stay busy.  I find that the activities where Barrett is moving are the best--the play area at ChickFilA rocks!  Anyhow, I don't hear many other people say the same thing about their children, so maybe we share high energy babies??

1/11/2009 9:15:04 PM - 001011914991
That is my favorite scene in Jaws, besides the We need a big boat. I love that movie and what is scary is that it really shows island life. Missy Abby is such a joy, I love the picture with Sophie, what a great dog! And just wait until you hear playing with her babies and she sounds just like you. It was a shock to me, I kept asking do I really sound like that? lol I really don't think you'll have any shocks though.

1/11/2009 8:24:57 PM - 002003419510
All I can say or repeat is Proverbs 17:6
 
"Children's children are the crown of old men; and the glory of children are their fathers."

Amen: MOM

1/6/2009 1:17:07 AM - 001011914991
I love the paintings you sent me and love to see that she really gets into her work. What cute little dresser for her babies. She is such a cutie and we miss her and you guys a lot.

1/2/2009 3:40:45 PM - 001009573755
megan has that same stroller for her babydolls.  I want to start getting the Muppet show on DVD too. i loved that show

12/29/2008 7:37:34 PM - 001011914991
Hope you guys have a Happy New Year and thank you for the e card and the pictures.  I love the way you decorated the tree with a star on top and an angel under it. She looks like she is really loving the baby and stroller. I think she wants to be just like her Mommy. Good choice Abby.

12/28/2008 5:33:22 PM - 002003419510
Glad to see she was feeling so much better.  I also noticed she "did not" have her fingers in her mouth in any of the pictures.  She must be doing better in that area.  Next year she will be ready for you!  And Santa!  Have a wonderful time off with her!

12/28/2008 3:41:40 PM - 001009573755
i'm glad she likes the tea set, i think i'm going to get Megan one like it for her birthday.  Megan loves her stroller too... she feeds her babies and walks all around the house pushing the babies. 

12/26/2008 2:04:08 PM - 001065601516
I think the anti-biotics were more for the ear infection. It's the same ear each time.  And you're right! I did try to catch the "stuff" as it was coming up!!! How NOT normal is that?!?!?!?  Abby loved everything!  And thank you for ours!  Abby and I had "tea" last night!

12/26/2008 4:11:53 AM - 001009573755
i have a picture of Ian on the potty reading a book.  Totally minding his own business.
I hope Abby liked her gift...the kids totally loved everything you gave them. Pots and pans were a hit, and of course the Geo trax stuff, all i hear now is the revving of the machines.
both my kids have had this really yucky cough, but doctors don't really do much about it. 
As far as vomit goes, yeah your own kids totally different than a strangers. Look what happened at Mimi's house, my mom got vomited on Megan like 2 times, and you find yourself holding your hand open to catch it. Like when did that become normal?!? But being a mom, it is fine.   Merry Christmas!!!

12/25/2008 4:05:18 PM - 002003419510

I love the potty chair picture.  I have one with you.  Precious.

I know she will feel much better and do great opening all those Santa presents.  Keep the pictures coming.  Have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!  Missing all of you. 

12/25/2008 2:36:07 AM - 001011914991
It does look like some kind of egret or heron I think they're of the same family. And we did have them here and in our back yard! I love and I mean LOVE the pictures of her on the potty. I'm glad that she doesn't have strep but I'm sorry she is sick. And I think that the throwing up thing is a male thing, cuz more than once I had to send Tom out of the room when our kids were sick. Merry Christmas and much love to all of you and we are can hardly wait to see more pictures.

12/23/2008 6:20:46 PM - 001036634512

Hi Liz,

I finally logged into shutterfly again, Im horrible.  =) I just saw your comment I will keep my eyes open for it.  I just read all of your update, Abby sure is growning up!! Potty training soon, wow. Im sure it FLEW by!  I hope you guys have a great Christmas!!! Talk to you soon!

12/23/2008 4:06:44 PM - 002007581371

Your blog really is the best!  Mark your calendar for 3 years from yesterday to go back and read your entry.  The part where you are so excited she can talk and have conversations….yeah, well, you’ll have a different view by then.  I remember when I first said “Honey, can you just stop talking until the big hand gets to the 1?  Mommy needs just a few seconds of total quiet.”

12/22/2008 4:50:09 PM - 001011914991
I am laughing hard right now too. I bet everyone who comments on your blog can give you a story of an oops that was taught to a little one. They really are sponges and it sometimes seem like they soak up the things we wish they would just pass by. She is a smart one that is for sure. There will be fun times ahead. And she is a blessing of the best kind. We love her so. Hope she's feeling better, I hated when our kids got the Holiday crud (that's what we called it and it happened at Christmas) Love you all.

12/22/2008 4:06:21 PM - 001009573755
7 degrees is really cold...and as i am learning it is the wind that makes it worse.
After church yesterday it was 10.  But after last week of bitterly cold weather, 20 is warm.
Megan too is saying 2 words at once, i'm working on "Merry Christmas" Paul taught her "Oh shoot" (i'm so pleased by that one). She does say, "juice peeze" and"thank you" (or something like it)
Abby will do good at potty training, Megan really isn't at the stage where she can say pee pee, so i'm not going to start.  for now it is easier for me with Diapers for her.
I love the "Ice Ice baby"  That is nothing to be ashamed of, look what Paul taught Ian..."bow chicka bow wow" and now both kids say, "come on man, it's the holidays" from that commercial on tv

12/21/2008 3:27:51 PM - 002003419510
I know she will do great with the Potty Training.  She is a sharp child.  Who doesn't love Cresent Rolls?  Show me!  Are you keeping a word diary?  Just to keep up with how many words she knows and says?  Hang in there with the economy.  I am praying we all have a blessed 2009.  Pray for our leaders to make the right decisions on behalf of the people they represent.   Continue with the wonderful parenting and send photos often.  Out of State Mother and Grandmother.  Almost Out of Mind. hahahaha!

12/21/2008 2:03:02 AM - 001009573755
Abby takes after Uncle Paul....he looooves cresent rolls. I guess it shouldn't really surprise me.an is just like Uncle Sean. We are all family and all alot alike.
Who is this kid? I'm going to call cousin Luigi to take care of them.

12/20/2008 6:57:19 PM - 001011914991
Poor Abby, I hope she's over the biting. She is really progressing along, and the potty training isn't as hard as you think, when they're ready it'll happen over night (almost). Anyway congrats. to your friend and you're right It's time to support our newly elected President so he can do a good job.

12/19/2008 11:37:32 AM - 001065601516
Kate, Abby is good with the presents.  She's very rarely left alone with them, though. She wants to open them and is really interested in the one aunt Karen got her because it makes noise.  Sean had to move it behind the tree.  (BTW- he has NOT told me this story, so you may have to!)

12/19/2008 3:35:58 AM - 002003419510
That is just too adorable!  I am so glad you have a camera and can share these moments with all the families scattered all over this great country of ours!  May you, Sean and Abby and all your families have the best Christmas ever!  May God bless all of you visiting this website this next year!  Love,

12/18/2008 10:58:55 PM - 001075944379
she is the best present ever!! 

12/18/2008 4:59:48 PM - 001009573755
that is too adorable, how is she with the presents under the tree, i've been avoiding it because i know 2 little ones who would pull a Uncle Sean, (Have Sean tell you about unwrapping a re-wrapping gifts).
i might put some big ones out soon, just to reclaim my closet.

12/17/2008 6:39:05 PM - 001011914991
I'm telling you that is what I want under my tree! She's the best present ever. Christmas morning is going to be so much fun!

12/12/2008 6:45:18 AM - 001012934376
Seeing Sean holding Abby up to help decorate the tree brings back huge memories of Sean's grandfather and tree decorating. He is so much like his Papa, especially how he treats his little girl. She is so beautiful and I'm not surprised at her moving up.

12/11/2008 12:19:09 AM - 002003419510
She is a beautiful gift from the Lord.  The older she gets the more you will enjoy the Christmas morning experience.  May all of you be blessed this holiday season.

12/8/2008 5:41:44 PM - 001011914991
Way to go Abby! We are so proud of her. And what cute present she makes under the tree. This is going to be a fun Christmas for you and her too.

12/8/2008 12:32:51 PM - 001075944379
 Congrats on Abby's "graduation"!  I love the picture of her under the tree.  She's getting so big! 

12/6/2008 4:04:49 PM - 002003419510

Look at that beautiful girl!  Payton is doing the "touchdown" pose also!  Must be something new for this generation of babies.

I forgot my password to Karen's site.  Congratulations on the new home! 

Give my girl a big hug for me.

12/4/2008 9:15:04 PM - 001009573755
wow, i can totally see  you in your mom. She is a long dark haired version of you. love the oldies! Megan is in love with the snow...she points to the outside all the  time. We are getting our tree this weekend too (have to, paul has drill the next weekend)
miss you guys... will try to get your package off this weekend.

12/1/2008 7:21:30 PM - 001011914991
Amen to what your Mom said. You have the voice of an angel and love to hear you sing to Abby too.

11/30/2008 5:26:10 PM - 002003419510

It was such joy to see my sweet girl, her wonderful husband and her precious daughter on Friday.  I know our trip was a quick one.

I know we left before you had gotten up.  But you know me,

I cry everytime I leave you.  God only knows how thankfu I am for each of my dear children.  Each are special to me in so many ways.  God blessed each of you with such beautiful voices.  It had to come from Him.  I have no such talent.  I could only stop and listen to "you" sing at church.  Always sing to Abby.  Let her hear that beautiful voice.  I too have so much to be thankful for I would not know where to start.  I am truly thankful that you found Sean who loves you and Abby so much.  May God continue to bless your home, your work and your life.

11/30/2008 4:56:14 PM - 001075944379
My thanks--- a little late--- I am thankful for Liz, Sean & Abby.  I'm thankful that I have such amazing people in my life.  I'm thankful that they are healthy and smart and beautiful.  Thanks for being my friends!! xoxo

11/28/2008 3:30:18 AM - 001011914991
I love the pictures! What a beautiful family! Hope you had a great Thanksgiving, We are greatful to have you as part of our family now. The pictures are really great. Thank you for sharing.

11/24/2008 5:09:18 PM - 001011914991
Talk about looking alike! OMG they really do look like twins. Your cousin's baby and family are in our prayers daily.

11/24/2008 1:47:19 PM - 001009573755
such a tiny baby....reminds me of the pictures of Julia, and now look at her. Such scary times for your family. Prayers to all of them!

11/23/2008 8:45:40 AM - 001012934376
It was wonderful having everyone here. Mom was so happy when you & Sean got married, when you had Abby and appreciated the pictures you guys sent her. I miss her every day but it helped so much having everyone here. To be able to go in her home and have her family there helped ease the transition for me. I love you all and wish you guys lived closer. Esp so I could see that little Abby! You are raising a wonderful little girl. She is so sweet and just a joy to be around. Kate already knows I wish they were closer as well.

11/20/2008 12:41:12 AM - 002003419510

I am thankful you are back home and getting settled again.

Traveling with small children is exhausting.  To go across country and back with one has to be quite a job.  Both of you are doing a wonderful job with Miss Abby.  We are thankful for Sean and what he means to your life and ours.  Love all the pictures!  They are great!

11/19/2008 4:22:12 PM - 001009573755
Even though Mimi didn't meet you face to face, she totally loved you and was happy Sean met and married you. And as far as Abby Grace....love cannot express what she felt for that child, even if she never met her.
Ian sick with a fever, sore throat....we are taking him to the doctors today.

11/19/2008 3:57:42 AM - 001011914991
My mom would have loved to hear that, because she would call him little Walter. I'm just now starting to get better thank God because I'm sick of being sick. I couldn't have gotten through that last week without all of you being there. Thank you again. I've been praying for your cousin's baby and hope that she is doing better. Love to our precious Abby and Sean and you too.

11/18/2008 11:38:24 AM - 001065601516
I don't think you guys could have helped it.  The bad thing is...I gave it to one of my friends at work.  Nice, huh?

11/17/2008 2:18:39 PM - 001009573755
love those pictures of the girls sitting together on the couch...and in the tub, those are precious!  sorry for getting y'all sick. Mom is trying to get over her's.
 

11/14/2008 12:34:54 PM - 002040300788
Thank you for the prayers.  They took little Andrea actually at 32weeks and she was 1 lb 8 oz. Thankfully she's doing well for being so little.  She went made it through her surgery Monday night well and has been holding her own all week.  They removed the ventalator yesterday so she is breathing on her own now.  She has lost a couple oz., but that's to be expected.  They have started her on feedings through the tube in her stomach. I finally got to come home last night after almost 5 weeks in the hospital. 

11/6/2008 10:46:27 PM - 001036634512
Hi There, Ok I think I finally got a handle on this shutterfly thing =) Tell your sister in-law thank you for her comments =) I cant figure out how to post a comment on her site w/out signing up, the last thing I need is another membership to a webiste =)

Im going to try and be good and update as much as I can!

11/1/2008 10:28:00 PM - 002003419510
She is beautiful in my eyes.  It would not matter what she was just as for Halloween.  You two do a great job with her!  Have a safe trip and keep up with her in the airports!  Love all of you!

10/31/2008 7:18:16 AM - 001012934376

Oh my dear, you are such a strength to Sean. When he was visiting mom and things were rough emotionally for him, just talking to you helped center him. This has been such a rough road for us all and it is wonderful for the good news of your sis-in-law.

Sean's Aunt Vic

10/30/2008 4:22:34 PM - 001009573755
you are an amazing wife....and an even better sister in law. I'm so happy you will be there. i need my big bro more than ever. I'm so happy about Layla...that is great news. Praise God. The whole saying "when God closes a door he always opens a window" is true

10/30/2008 3:41:34 PM - 001011914991
You are a good wife. Don't ever think that you're not! We are so happy to have you in our family. I'm happpy about your sister-in-law. And am so happy that you all will be here for the service. It's just like my mom to arrange all of this so we can all be together at last.;)

10/28/2008 6:52:54 PM - 001075944379
 She's such a cutie pie....I love the pink hat!!!  Believe it or not, the "pumpkin patches" around here get a lot of the pumpkins shipped in, too, which is odd because they grow like weeds.  But, there are some real spots and of course they're the busiest.  Looks like you guys might have to get a goat as your next pet.  :)

10/26/2008 9:29:42 PM - 002003419510

These photos of the pumpkin hunt are Greatttt!  I love the one of you squatting down behind her!  Both my girls in one great shot!

Sean looks adorable on the swing with Abby.  I'm glad you guys did this!  She will remember it in photos!

10/26/2008 3:19:41 PM - 002003419510
I love the picture day dress and shoes!  She looked really proud of her new dress!  I enjoy having these precious pictures to keep and share.  Thank you.  Be careful going to MI.

10/26/2008 2:41:13 PM - 001009573755
i love that dress...i'll be expecting a picture of my own. or an order sheet so i can buy one. I think Megan has shoes very similar to those.
 

10/21/2008 2:39:31 PM - 001011914991
I'm glad she likes the trucks and the moose. (airport gifts aren't always so plentiful but their fun.) And thank you for sharing Sean with us, I couldn't have gotten through this weekend without him and I know it made a difference with my Mom. Drive carefully.

10/16/2008 12:56:04 PM - 001075944379
Kate is correct.  I know I keep saying this, but the most precious moments are those when Julia and Justin are 'playing' together.  I'm sure in a couple of years (months?) I'll be pulling my hair out as they fight.  But, don't feel any pressure to have another one either.  It is A LOT of work.

10/15/2008 6:17:54 PM - 001009573755
Sweet Liz you are too hard on youself...in my eyes you are the most selfless person, you have such a huge heart, and we are so SOOOO happy you are apart of our family.
Yes things change when #2 comes, but funny thing about us mommies, is that you forget what the heck it was like when it was only 1 or even none.
Seriously, i can't even remember what it was like with just Ian...But you become better with #2. You learn from all the mistakes you have made (not that you have made any).
We all love you and Miss Abby. 

10/15/2008 2:34:29 AM - 001065601516

Life changed with one...I'm sure things will change if/when #2 comes along.  

10/14/2008 10:43:43 PM - 002003419510

I love the new pictures.  She is  just a living doll in my eyes!

You are both such great parents.  I will remember Sean in his travels and you in burning up the road in Kentucky.  Hang in there!  It doesn't get easier either.  Add another one to the mix and see what you feel like!!

LOL,

Mom

10/14/2008 3:51:53 PM - 001009573755
karen-yeah pots and pans are totally girly!
 Send Abby here to Auntie Kate...it would be like having twins....they could probably even take turns on being good twin/bad twin.
So many sick people in your life Liz....our prayers will be full.

10/14/2008 2:44:00 PM - 001075944379
I wish I was there to help you out!!!  You can always send Abby up here for some time with "Aunt" Karen if you want :) 

I'm totally jealous of the Ikea pots and pans (BTW, Kate, those are girly, right? :)....that's the set I want for Julia, but I don't think we'll be going to Ikea anytime soon.  Probably for the best because I always spend way too much money there. 

We are totally praying for everyone and their families!! xoxo

10/14/2008 2:57:51 AM - 001009573755
cute pictures, but come on you guys. she is a girl!!! get her some baby dolls...i'm just going to have to get her a Barbie.
 

10/13/2008 5:33:56 PM - 001011914991
I love the pictures, when you say cute Abby you're not kidding. She is cute and so good too. I hope you have a great weekend with your folks. I know they'll have a great time with Abby. I'll keep your sister-in-law in our prayers. Hope she is feeling beeter soon.

10/12/2008 7:05:06 PM - 002003419510

You are really good at these postings.  I have not worked on mine since July 15th.  I have added photos though.  I'd rather be outside doing stuff to the yard, house, etc.  Glad the headaches have subsided.  I desire everyone to continue to remember Layla and family.  Love ya.

Mom

10/11/2008 4:12:28 PM - 001011914991
Hope your head ache is gone. What kind of dump truck was it. I can look around and see if I can get it for her. I feel like I need to get her something, well not so much need as I want to get her something. Abby is such a joy, her smille lights up a room. Anyway let me know and Grammy will be on the hunt.

10/9/2008 10:47:59 PM - 001009573755
 Karen and I are thinking the same way, maybe Abby needs a little brother or sister to help mommy feel better, lol.
But then again...2 kids kinda makes you have MORE headaches. j/k.
Sorry you are feeling so badly...and sorry to hear about the leak. I hear it is only in the garage, so that is better than over your bed!
I think when Mimi sees Sean that will be the best medicine she could get, well almost, seeing You and Abby would be even better.

10/9/2008 5:43:23 PM - 001075944379
maybe you need to get pregnant again so you don't get migraines.....just a thought.

10/9/2008 2:57:46 PM - 001011914991
Thank you for the prayers. I hope your headache goes away I know they can be debilating. Give that beautiful baby a big love from Grammy and pop pop.

10/2/2008 1:41:29 AM - 001011914991
Thank you for the great time. We really had a fun time and loved being with you and Sean and especially our Beautiful Abby. What  a great baby. She made our day the whole time we were there. You and Sean are great parents and we are so proud of you.

9/26/2008 9:57:43 PM - 001075944379
what a grandpa's girl!  her face is so lit up in the pics of her and her grandpa.  it's too cute!

9/26/2008 4:40:10 PM - 001009573755
 looks like you all had a fun time, i know my parents really had a nice visit with you all.
I hope your sister in law has a speedy recovery, i'll be keeping her in our prayers.
Mimi really loved the flowers you sent, she said that yours and mine really matched well.

9/20/2008 2:19:46 AM - 002003419510
This makes a great diary!  I love the photos and enjoy seeing all of you this way since we can't be close by you.  Thank the Lord for the Internet.  Have a great and blessed weekend and enjoy Sean's folks while they are in Kentucky!

9/16/2008 2:35:04 PM - 001009573755
good luck with all the home repair...so happy your power returned sooner than what was expected.
Our thoughts are with your SIL.

9/15/2008 8:55:48 PM - 001075944379
 I'm praying real hard for your sister-in-law.  Having gone through a couple of surgeries in the past few months, I sympathize with her.  But, my surgeries weren't nearly as serious as hers, so I'm hoping that she recovers well.

So, it's so funny that our girls are on the same wavelength.  For months, Julia has been obsessed with trashcans.  EVERYTHING goes in them.  Some things that should and some things that shouldn't.  She loves watching the stuff "disappear".  It has something to do with object permanence.  It's so smart of you to give her her own trashcan and to try and teach her what's appropriate to go in it.  She's also great with handwashing.  If she's watching us wash her hands, she rubs hers together.  If I have to wash her hands, she sits on the sink and likes to wash her hands AND her feet.  That's okay because her feet are usually pretty funky. 

Darn it, I really wish our girls could meet!!!!!!!

9/10/2008 12:47:21 AM - 002003419510

Liz and Sean!  I love the colors and the accents just tie it all together!  Good job!! I am sure she loves it also.  There is no time to rest anymore!  Each day goes to fast and the week ends are a blur.  Get some rest somewhere in there.  Both of you!

9/9/2008 3:53:18 PM - 001075944379
 good job on abby's room.  the curtains are similar to the ones we have in our kids' room. 

we'll be praying for your sister-in-law. 

9/6/2008 10:09:50 PM - 002003419510
I just love her hair!  She is looking more like a 2 yr old.  I know she will do great at school.  She has had such a great start at home!  You both desire a "big" way to go!  Keep up the good work.  Hope Sean's folks get to really enjoy their trip and all of you too.

9/4/2008 1:33:07 PM - 001075944379
 What a big girl!  She'll probably start to blossom soon- even more so then she has!  She's already so smart....I'm sure this will only help.  BTW, I just looked through your "Trip" pictures and got a kick out of the one with Sean and the fish.  hah hah hah hah.  Good times.

9/3/2008 1:47:39 AM - 001009573755
what?!? no you are not a bad parent, i looked into those schools here there is one up the road, but i think we'll wait a while. I would have to work to pay for it, i'm sure. Both kids are growing up so rapidly, i would hate to speed up the process.
Sean sounded torn up by the new school.
We do drop our kids off at the nursery at church and they love it, so once a week for an hour they get to play with other kids alone.

9/3/2008 1:10:27 AM - 002003419510

I am so glad Abby did so well at "big girl" school.  I whispered a prayer for all of you on my way to work.  It leaves such a dark cloud over a parent to drop one off and them clinging and crying on you.  The child, of  course, goes on playing after you have left and then you have this sadness all day.

Happy Birthday Poppa Tom! I am sure you guys will enjoy your visit.  Sean's a great cook and Liz and Abby can dazzle you with their mommie and daughter antics. Please do remember Layla in your prayers. Family is so important and I need all of them.

9/3/2008 1:06:05 AM - 001065601516
Kate, I feel like the bad parent because I don't stay home with her. 

9/2/2008 11:53:56 PM - 001011914991

We will keep your Sister-in-law in our prayers. Tom loved talking with Abby  on the phone. We can hardly wait to see you guys too. Sounded like her first day at school went well for her at least. See you soon.

 

9/2/2008 3:42:55 PM - 001009573755
Good luck to your SIL....funny when i was reading it, i was like, i'm not having problems, then i came to my senses that you have other family besides us. hee hee. Good Luck with the big girl school. I feel like such a slacker, my kids are taught by me and tv. Ian does know his planets (thanks to Paul).

9/1/2008 1:58:06 AM - 001065601516
I had to restrain myself.  I did pretty good and only spent $100.  I want to get a couple of curtains that match Abby's new comforter.  oh well.  It is still about 45 mintes away.  Not too bad, but still.

8/31/2008 2:28:44 PM - 001075944379
 i hope the "Babies" feel better soon.  and you can't get sick, liz!  don't you know that mommies aren't allowed to be sick?  it's in the rules!  i'm so happy you finally got an ikea.  we have lots of stuff from ikea.  i haven't been in a while, which is a good thing!  we use their laundry hampers as toy storage.  by far, though, their textiles are the best.  i have them throughout the house.  i can't wait for julia to get a little bit older so i can get her the play kitchen.....and there's a train that i want for justin.....am i living vicariously ??

8/31/2008 1:55:20 PM - 001070354296
If everyone looks at the puppy pics wih Abigail...doesn't she look just like a woman's pro wrestler.  I mean she is in the south.

8/31/2008 1:35:54 PM - 001009573755
the illness thing must be going around, both my kids have it, to some degree. Ian had fever and runny nose/cough thing. megan was suffering from a bout of diarrhea and woke up last night several times sounding congested.  I'm hoping health for when mom and dad come...which reminds me i need to take some airborne!

8/31/2008 2:39:20 AM - 001011914991
I hope you don't get sick too. And I hope that both Abby and Seano get well fast. It's hard to believe she'll be starting school soon. And I love IKEA ! Their prices are so good and I love the names they have for things. I feel like Swedish chef on the muppet show when I say them.

8/26/2008 3:24:28 AM - 001011914991
I love the new pictures with the big dog and her new purse. She is such a beauty and her hair is getting long. How is Karen doing, she is in our prayers. I hope she has a speedy recovery.

8/24/2008 7:08:33 PM - 002003419510

You just took me down memroy lane!  Sleep, or the lack of it, caused me to fall asleep at my desk when we were I worked for the State in Indiana.  She will calm back down into a routine then something else will come along.  I hope work settles down for you.  Everyone is experiencing some sort of difficulties whether it be home, work or personal.  I, too, will keep Karen in my prayers.  She has been a really good friend to you I know. 

Is that what ate Sean's grapes? 

Have a safe and blessed week.  Not much going on here to mention. Love all of you.

8/24/2008 6:52:59 PM - 001011914991
Karen will be in our prayers. Sorry that work is getting you down, Abby waking up could be the stress (okay, I guess I just added guilt to the stress, sorry) I know how hard it is to change, especially with baby-sitters. When I did child care, when one of the kids went to a pre-school it was really hard. Attachment is a two edged sword. But ultimately she will blossum  like you cannot believe. I hope that work will calm down for you. My hat is off to you and Sean, you really are doing a great job. Honest!

8/24/2008 6:35:54 PM - 001009573755
my parents use to do the vinegar thing too...but it makes you smell like a pickle or easter eggs. 

8/24/2008 1:15:59 PM - 001075944379
yeah!!  i've been waiting for you to post something alllll week.  first off, please don't let work stress you out too much- easier said than done, i'm sure.  btw- i love the idea of the play food for abby.  we have an educational store around here that has some great toys for pretend play, but it's really expensive, so we're waiting for her birthday to get stuff for her.  also...julia is still randomly waking up in the middle of the night, too.  it's so strange that abby is, too.  maybe they're going to hit another milestone soon.  plus....i read somewhere that vinegar (yes, vinegar) helps with sunburn.  of course i read this AFTER my sunburn cleared up so i didn't have an opportunity to try it.  so what don't you try it and let me know, hee hee hee hee.  and....thanks for the prayer wishes.  i'm super nervous and need all the support i can get.

8/19/2008 10:21:51 PM - 001011914991
I love the pictures of her and the box. Boxes and kids are a great combination. And I especially love the picture of her and you together, it's two best friends hanging out. I can hardly wait until we get there and see all of you!

8/15/2008 2:55:46 PM - 001009573755
 Must be something in the air...Megan woke up several times last night (she usually only wakes up a couple times) but this time she kept crying....might have been one of two things, a cold she picked up from her brother, or the massive storm that went through. She ended up crashed in our bed on top of me.
Abby maybe going through a milestone and that's what is keeping her up...Ian would be off of his sleep schedule every time he hit a new milestone.

8/14/2008 8:58:04 PM - 001075944379
Julia did the same thing last night!  She woke up crying and WOULD NOT go back to sleep.  I got her up, changed her diaper and she was okay, but as soon as I put her back down, the crying continued.  It's very out of character for her!  She finally did fall back asleep.  Poor baby.  Maybe our girls are somehow telepathically linked.  Wouldn't surprise me. xoxo

8/14/2008 1:49:28 AM - 001011914991
Sometimes kids just go through these periods where they wake up in the night. It could be she's going through a growth spurt and that's why. It will pass, right now it seems like it will never pass, but it will.

8/12/2008 1:33:48 AM - 001011914991
Of course Abby is exceptional!! She is also very beautiful. I know the horror you felt, we've all been there. I love the pictures of her posing for her daddy and especially of her coloring and sucking her two fingers! Means that she hasn't grown up all the way.

8/11/2008 11:36:18 PM - 001075944379
We have a play vacuum that Julia likes to "clean" with.  She even makes the vacuum sound while she's using it.  Hopefully soon she can use the real vacuum!

8/11/2008 10:59:40 PM - 001065601516
We had some watermelon early on which dripped all over the blue shorts you see in a different set of pictures.  They came off and didn't go back on.  Don't worry!!! We do dress her!

8/11/2008 5:31:12 PM - 001075944379
where's abby's pants??

8/11/2008 1:19:43 PM - 001009573755
that's my girl, already doing housework....love the picture of her with the hat and the coloring books....the caption should read."word to your homey"

8/9/2008 12:49:42 PM - 002003419510
She is just a "doll" in my eyes!  We may have to swing by there on our way home from Indy.  I just need a "hug" from that little angel.  I love the way she shakes and turns her arms and hands when shes something she wants.  Too precious.  You are both so blessed.  Have a great week end. Love, MOM

8/7/2008 12:17:26 AM - 001011914991
I love the pictures of her reading the news paper. I think she will flourish at the "school" and will come out on top where ever she is . And it will be because of her parents, not just the school. I'm excited for her and you. It's hard no matter where it is, to let go.I'm still trying.

8/6/2008 4:24:08 PM - 001011914991
I just reread some of the comments, and I think that all of you mothers are doing so well and have it together when it comes to your kids. It will work out and I think our next generation is going to be really a remarkable one.

8/6/2008 4:17:45 PM - 001011914991
When she's ready it will be like magic, almost over night. But to tell the truth, until she does it all on her own, you are the one that's potty trained. I don't think you're going to scar her, and who knows she may just pick it up and run with it.

8/6/2008 3:50:02 PM - 001009573755
nice job on the chairs, i like the new color alot.

8/6/2008 3:47:46 PM - 001009573755
ahhh you new mommies. I thought Ian was ready at one point, but when the kid is screaming, it isn't time yet. Just relax and let her play on the potty seat, right now it is just routine, and something she does out of habit.  she'll tell you when she is ready. The trick if you really REALLY are serious about potty training is rewards. I gave Ian m&m's, one for pee pee and 2 for poopy.
I tried this method using a doll to show him how to do it...well that resulted in him having a doll named "pee pee doll" and Paul not liking the fact that his boy had a doll with a pink bow on its head.
Megan is interested in watching Ian do the potty thing and really wants to flush the toilet. But i'm not forcing her into it, she isn't even off of size 3 diapers yet!

8/6/2008 11:56:23 AM - 001075944379
There's a sign language sign for "potty" that we've been teaching Julia.  Every time I change a poopy diaper, I say "poopy" and she does the sign.  Now I have to get her to do it as soon as she goes.  That's the first step in potty training- having them recognize when they go or have to go.  It's mostly about communication, I think.  The actual act of going to the bathroom on the potty is secondary.  But, I've never potty trained a baby so what do I know??

8/6/2008 2:12:43 AM - 001065601516

Sean went back to work today and seems to be feeling better.  We will be fine.  I just don't want to leave Sean all alone during that big of a transition.  It will probably be harder on us than on her.  Sean's not liking that the new place is a "school" which means that his little girl is growing up.  And I agree, but I think it's really the best thing for her.  And they're focus is not on academics, so there isn't any pressure.  Promise!  I think it will help her to be with kids her own age.

8/5/2008 3:12:47 AM - 001011914991
Wow that does sound like alot. My hats off to both you and Sean, you guys really have it together. Once you get into a routine you'll have it down pat. You both are great. Love to all of you and hope every one is feeling better.

8/2/2008 1:45:51 AM - 001065601516

Karen, you remember well (but it's a sirloin, not ribeye).  And both the car and bath were nice (especially since I didn't have to pay for either)!  I think that's the first time Abby and I have done that, but I doubt it will be the last.  I get to do a whole lot more traveling over the next few months.  But most of the time she sleeps thru the night- even when one of us is away.

Kate, the drive wasn't too bad at 4.5 hours.  But it was just too much when it was back-to-back days like that.

8/1/2008 8:33:16 PM - 001075944379
if we went to outback, here's how it would go:

karen says, in a very sarcastic tone, "you like outback?  really??"

liz just roles her eyes and orders a rare ribeye.  sean could only wish they had tri-tip on the menu.  chris is just happy to have meat within 10 feet of him as living with a vegetarian is getting old.

anyway....i don't know what i envy more, the whirlpool or the camry.  and i'm sure that you and abby had that odd connection in the middle of the night.  it is really creepy.  does she wake up often like that??

8/1/2008 3:53:21 PM - 001009573755
 Outback is my fave too....i can NEVER sleep in hotels,even if the family is with me. looks like you girls are connected! hee he, like me and my mom. how long of a drive was it?

7/30/2008 4:01:16 PM - 001075944379
why aren't there any pictures of you at the zoo??  all we got is a pic of your arm :(  will ya just let sean take some pics once in a while?? xoxo :)

7/28/2008 10:44:36 AM - 001065601516

No worries!  She's a job for us, too!  She can be a handfull.  But I guess they all can.

7/28/2008 1:42:34 AM - 002003419510

I read my last posting/comment.  It did not make complete sense.

Nothing unusual there.  That's the story of my life lately.  She is a "JOY" to you both. A "joy" to all of us.  Get some rest and call me when you arrive at your destination.

7/26/2008 6:48:13 PM - 002003419510
Abby is getting so big.  She's come a long way since the first time I saw her!  I am glad she is such a job for both of you.  She likes being with you both doing things together.  "Family", I believe it is called.  Have a great weekend and drive carefully to MI.

7/26/2008 4:47:56 PM - 001011914991
She looked like she had a good time. Sometimes when it's a big zoo it's better to do it  in two  trips. I've heard that your zoo was the best in the nation, but when there's construction it's usually a mess. my luck it's always the exhibits that I really want see, that are shut down.

7/24/2008 2:13:18 PM - 001009573755
hope you enjoy your ice cream maker...we need to get ours out and use it. the only problem is that it only makes soft ice cream. What recipe did you use? Paul has made watermelon sorbet with ours (that was a mess but it was yummy)
Meggie also loves the melon...but she has been on a grape kick lately.
in regards to the lunch...makes you wonder about people huh? Like do they even read or do they just assume.  

7/24/2008 4:20:21 AM - 001070354296
ABBY,
My girl likes the watermelon.
I see the maniacal laughter she gets from watermelon runs in the family.
So be sure to show her Pinky and the Brain cartoons to develop it.
Love the pics. Stop by and visit sometime.

7/24/2008 1:54:08 AM - 002003419510

These watermelon pictures are wonderful!  I love the expressions on her face in each picture.  I believe her looks have changed since we were up there!  I see a video camera in your future also.  I wished I had had one when you kids were in high school.

I missed so much music that is lost forever.  All of you are so talented.  Much love.

7/23/2008 3:07:55 PM - 001011914991
How cute is that. She is so beautiful! I love that she loves watermelon.

7/22/2008 1:31:08 AM - 001011914991
I'm glad Sean is home safe. It looked like Abby was saying "stay home". The picture of you and her together is beautiful and she looks like she's really stretching out. Love to you all.

7/21/2008 7:44:01 PM - 001075944379
i picked up some veggies from my friend melanie's garden today!  what a coincidence.... have you tried giving abby frozen veggies?  julia likes frozen peas (while they're still frozen). 

7/21/2008 6:57:28 PM - 002021764020
So sweet of you to mention the garden.  I am glad the princess liked her veggies.  Maybe she would like to come pick some herself....and play in the dirt!

7/20/2008 2:17:53 AM - 001009573755
You know if you asked my folks they would have bought Abby a table and chair like they got Ian for his birthday one year.  Megan loves the zucchinis too, i cook them the way our dad taught us...with garlic and oil!! YUMMO!!!  I have a yellow crook neck i'm dying to cook up (i guess just for us girls...the boys stay away from it)
 

7/19/2008 6:10:06 PM - 002003419510

I am so glad Sean arrived safely.  I know the transition will be difficult, but maybe it won't be too disruptive.  Poor Mrs. Kelly.

Make sure she will be available when you have the next one.

Have a blessed weekend together. Love ya!

7/19/2008 2:56:29 PM - 001009573755
 Yay for daddy being home. You need to teach her to stay clear of his dirty boxers though!! Ha, ha.  Good that you got a spot on the new preschool.
Have fun this weekend! and Relax.

7/18/2008 2:11:42 AM - 001009573755
we watched the movie a couple days ago, it was funny but not what i expected. The next one i want to see is "27 Dresses" 

7/18/2008 1:26:10 AM - 001065601516

Karen- The floatie was a gift from my friend Deborah out in CA.  (It is nice, but Abby doesn't want to be confined...so we didn't even take it today.)  And hopefully we'll get to come up there next month!  (And I'm trying to grow my hair out, so I have good days and not-so-good days.) 

Kate- The movie wasn't that good.  It had some really funny moments, but it was pretty predictable.  Don't fret if you don't get to see it.

7/18/2008 12:47:37 AM - 001075944379
i love what you've done w/your hair recently.  you're a hot momma!!  i love abby's floatie- it's a nice and fancy one.  i only looked at walmart and there wasn't much of a selection.  i'm glad though because she doesn't use it anyway.  4x in the pool over the past two weeks and she STILL has a tantrum every time.  maybe if you and abby come here, abby can show her how it's done.  i miss you guys.

7/17/2008 6:39:28 PM - 001009573755
we recorded "Knocked Up" last week too...it was okay, we started to watch it when the kids where in the room...and soon realized it was a wait until the kids go to bed movie! too many bad words.
Nice have friends close by (and ones that remember you in times of need)
Sean will be home soon...funny for people who really don't make too much noise when they are around, it sure gets quiet when they are absent.
Love ya Girl!!!!

7/17/2008 4:08:08 PM - 002003419510
No matter where you may go in life, there is always room for good friends.  Remember the song you learned in brownies, "Make new friends, but keep the old, some are silver the others gold?"  Friends can fill the void of family and be closer than a sister or brother in some cases.  I thank God you have friends all over the country.  And they stay in touch.  How wonderful!

7/16/2008 11:01:25 PM - 002003419510

I'm with Kate on the "get some rest" girl!!  I'm a good one to talk though.  I'm suppose to be on vacation and I'm out in the yard all morning pulling weeds, cutting the hedges and mowing the grass.

Maybe tomorrow will be more like a vacation! How is left to be revealed.

7/16/2008 10:21:44 PM - 001009573755
i think the heat is harder to deal with when you have little ones....they want to be outside but it is too HOT, and they have such fragile skin. Megan allows me to apply to sunblock but Ian is now acting like a tough guy and won't allow me to apply it.
The week is almost up and Sean will be home again...I had a dream about him last night. I dreamed that  we had to return to high school just for senior year. I was like, I distinctly remember graduation and finishing...weirdness. 

7/16/2008 10:06:33 PM - 001065601516
Yeah, it's simply easier to try to do it once she's asleep.  It's what has to happen to keep the place livable.  Plus, it was trash day today and we only get it once a week, so it was then or not until next week.  I'm just relaxing tonight with my daughter!  Maybe we'll watch a movie that Sean doesn't like since he's not here.

7/16/2008 3:48:55 PM - 001009573755
 my God girl....get some rest. I'm tired just reading what you did in one night. But then again when i just had one i could do more too. Megan is a water lover too, she jumped in our kiddie pool, clothes and all and didn't give a hootie hoot.

7/16/2008 1:32:24 PM - 001011914991
That was supposed to say stay with Abby not stary with Abby. It's early here.

7/16/2008 1:30:41 PM - 001011914991
Happy Anniversary to your folks. I forgot that their's was 3 days before ours. I bet The best anniversary present was getting to stary with Abby for the day. What a beauty she is, and such a happy baby too. Your days are long. I was tired after just reading it. lol

7/16/2008 1:23:45 PM - 002003419510

There will never be the right word or the best word or the best expression for all the joy and blessings You, Sean and Abby bring to our lives.  Thank you for allowing us the opportunity to visit and keep her even for a day.  She is so precious.  I see swimming lessons in her future.  That pool looks so inviting that I think I'd even brave a swimsuit and get in.  Ban all other people from the area, of course.

7/15/2008 2:22:39 PM - 001009573755
that picture of her in the sunglasses she looks just like her mommy! Don't worry, Megan started to bite too...but just because she is teething.  She mostly whacks her brother when she gets angry! Preschool so soon?! Whoops i missed the bus on that one with my kids. 

7/15/2008 10:57:57 AM - 001065601516
We were planning to move her to Goddard when she turned two anyway.  Mrs. Kelly usually doesn't keep them past pre-school age anyway.  Now, Abby is the oldest at daycare with a 9 month old and a 12 month old.  I think the biting revolved around playing with a toy.  My concern is that she just isn't getting the stimulation that she was when she had two girls who were three years old to play with.  We'll see.

7/15/2008 10:26:23 AM - 001075944379
one bite does not a biter make..... Abby is so young she doesn't know any better.  she's a bit too young to rationalize with or bribe, but you can just reprimand her if you see her doing it.  i think you should switch her daycare only if you're not extending yourselves too much- financially speaking that is (and if it's close enough to work).   she'll learn more  from you than anyone else anyway....so stop biting sean and maybe she'll get the point, hee, hee.

7/15/2008 2:31:21 AM - 001011914991
Okay the first thing to do is take a deep breath. We all know that Abby is  a sweet girl. Chris and our babysitter's daughter were bitting each other. Now Chris didn't bite anywhere else, just there. So our babysitter promised them each a new book if they wouldn't bite for a week(Chris was 2 so he was older) anyway he earned his book and the sitter's kid didn't. Abby is a smart kiddo and do you know what happened? cuz it could be the other kids fault (not that I'm biased but she is my grandchild and wouldn't do things like that!!) Could be just a one time thing too. And I don't think you have to worry about being a parent of a biter! You are great parents both of you. Say hi to your folks for me. Ask your Mom she'll tell you that Abby is a sweatheart! lol

7/15/2008 12:46:54 AM - 001075944379
ummm...i'm going through withdrawal.  you haven't updated the latest news in almost a week.  get on it, girl!

7/11/2008 2:52:23 AM - 001011914991

I think your Mom is right. Teach her to swim, there are so many pools around anymore it's really a safety thing.  I hope you're feeling better it's awful to be sick and a toothache is the worse.Abby is really doing so well I love the pictures of her. She is growing so fast.

7/11/2008 2:09:03 AM - 002003419510

Glad you are feeling better.  Please do teach her to swim.  Children really need to know how to swim.  I wish our mother had not been afraid of water.  The pools always look so inviting.  I just try to drink all the water......Maybe someday.

7/10/2008 10:43:46 PM - 001009573755
 Abby is doing well, and if you want, i can copy Megan's growth charts so you can compare with what you are given. I just got the kids health records along with mine from my OB/GYN. I think going by her current growth chart at 18 months she'll be below the charts. (sigh) my little girl!!!! When we were dropping Paul's mom off at the airport i sat her on the scales....with clothes on and after lunch she was just at 20.5 lbs.

7/10/2008 12:57:33 PM - 001075944379
and she's well-loved!!! :)

julia got a fever last night- there's this whole coxsackie virus thing going around and she might have been exposed to it over the weekend.  yuck.  wish us luck.

7/9/2008 10:12:29 PM - 001065601516
I realize that different scales may be calibrated differently and she's still of average weight (65% I think), so I'm not realy too concerned.  For the most part she eats well, sleeps well, plays really well, and is generally happy.  (Exept for the occasional tantrum about wanting to go outside.) 

7/9/2008 4:58:43 PM - 001075944379
okay, so not to bring it up again, but back to the whole height/weight thing with Abby.  i just looked at some of the pics you have of her w/o her shirt on (on the other website) and she's a big girl.  i don't know what your doctor is talking about!  at one of julia's doctor's offices, julia weighed 27 lbs (which i knew wasn't accurate) and then the next week at another doctor's office she was 22 lbs.  now that's a big difference for such a small person.  she has some big poops, but not that big!!  it's bad enough that i obsess over her weight since she was only 1 lb. when she was born, but to not know an accurate weight is too much for me.  now i've decided to just make sure she's overall healthy and happy - which she is - and leave the rest in God's hands :)  so anyway, just had to vent :)  xoxo

7/9/2008 3:31:58 PM - 001011914991
You poor kiddo. I am so sorry about the pain. I'm glad you're feeling better. It's not easy going to work, being mom and sick at the same time. Hope all is going well. Love to you and Sean and our beautiful baby.

7/9/2008 3:26:43 PM - 001009573755
i had to do the whole cleaning out with the syringe too, I had to clean it with a mixture of water and mouth wash....funny i remember stitches floating out every once in a while. Did you drink with a straw, DON'T that causes dry sockets!!!
I feel for you, dental pain is right there with after labor pain.

7/9/2008 3:06:55 PM - 001075944379
yucky yucky teeth (or lack thereof).  i don't remember having to let anything heal around my teeth.  i do remember having to constantly clean out the craters left by the missing teeth until the gum finally filled in. 
i took julia in the pool last night once chris got home.  it was our first time in the community pool- her first time in anything but a kiddie pool.  she whined almost the whole time, but overall i think she did well. i'll post the whole "story" soon on my page. 

7/9/2008 2:04:34 AM - 001065601516
We used little swimmers and I will get some pics soon of her an her pink floatie.  We left it w/ aunt Desi since we don't really have a need for it here.  I saw that miss Julia went swimming as well!  Did she like it?

7/7/2008 4:21:27 PM - 001075944379
booo!  no pool pics?  you should at least take some of abby!  i would love to see her in her floatie.  i want to put julia in a pool, but i can't during the day because it's too much with having to watch her and justin at the same time.  we don't have a floatie for her yet, either.  did you use a swimmie diaper??  we bought a waterPROOF/shockproof camera recently.  it can go underwater.  chris even tested it.  it's an olympus and takes decent pics, so next time you're in the market for a camera....think about getting that one :)

7/7/2008 2:46:52 PM - 001009573755
that is so strange about the strollers...when we went to that aquarium after your wedding we had the stroller, in fact i have pictures of Ian sitting in it. I do remember it because of the stupid Lorikeet  (sp) exhibit i got pooped on and demanded Paul buy me a new shirt because he kept laughing at me.
I wonder what changed in those few years.
I was such a baby when i had my teeth out too...all i remember after passing out from the valium they gave me. was ian needing to laying next to me with the ice packs on my face.

7/7/2008 10:52:50 AM - 001065601516
The dentist gave me demerol.  I've been taking them pretty regularly.  But I think more than anything, it's the aceteminophen (sp) in it that helps with the pain.  I've been switching out with extra strenth tylenol with similar results (no drowsiness).  Today is the real test.  I'll let you know after a day back at work actually talking all day! 

7/6/2008 5:24:54 PM - 001075944379
we're in the process of planning a family trip to the philadelphia zoo & camden aquarium.  thanks for mentioning the stroller thing.  i'll look online to see what our aquarium rules are.

good luck with your teeth!  i'm a baby and was laid up for 2 weeks after i got all 4 done at once (i got put under- they didn't even ask!).  are you taking anything for the pain?

7/6/2008 2:52:35 PM - 001065601516

They wouldn't let us take strollers in due to fire hazards (emergency evac stuff).  They had backpack things for kids up to 35 pounds that were free, but Abby wouldn't have sat still anyway.

I'm still in some pain.  I think I may call the dentist tomorrow and have him look at them just to reassure me that they are OK.  The one thing that I'm having a hard time with is the nasty taste from the eugenol.  The packing came out on Friday, but there's still this nasty taste in my mouth.  Yuck!

7/6/2008 2:41:17 PM - 001009573755
yesterday we took the kids and the mother in law to our aquarium in Denver (it actually reminded me of the Newport one)
Megan loved it, she just sat in her stroller and pointed to all the fishes.
You are brave, I opted to go "under" when i had all of mine out.But mine were impacted so i had to have them cut out. Even at that the aftermath was rather painful.

7/4/2008 10:43:23 PM - 002003419510

You can tell she really enjoyed the aquarium.  Did the divers scare her at first?  She looks like she's grown so much just since Father's day.  I am thankful for cameras, the internet and electricity.  It brings all of you closer every day. Much love.

7/4/2008 7:08:38 PM - 001065601516
It was getting dark when we found the turtle, so she didn't see it.  But she saw a lot of them today at the aquarium.

7/4/2008 5:40:47 PM - 002003419510

Just look at the talons on that turtle!  I love the "girl" in those cute little skirts!  She's a doll in anything.  I'm glad you're feeling better.  Enjoy the weekend.  Don't forget to ask Karen about adding video to shutterfly.  I have some great ones of Abby.

 

7/4/2008 3:38:45 PM - 001075944379
that is one big turtle!!  did you show abby the turtle? 

julia will sometimes eat spicy foods, too.  her speech therapist said spicier foods are good for kids because it encourages them to talk (???).  i don't understand that, but it doesn't seem like abby needs any help talking since she has such a large vocabulary already. 

7/3/2008 6:29:39 PM - 001011914991
I think it is a snapping turtle. What ever kind it is, it looks like a don't mess with me or else, kind of turtle. Love the noodle pictures! Too cute as usual. I love that you guys have wild life, the only kind we get are the two legged kind. That and gophers.

7/3/2008 3:24:13 PM - 001009573755
great pictures...that turtle is cool, all we have are bunnies, prairie dogs, and squirrels. i think that is a snapping turtle but i'll have to double check to make sure.

7/2/2008 10:53:44 PM - 001065601516
Ya know, I wasn't really worried until the DR said something about her weight.  I think she's fine, but I guess it kinda made me wonder if we were feeding her enough.  She's not picky and does really well eating, I think.  But you're right, it is hard not to compare!  Even to what is "normal."

7/2/2008 3:16:33 PM - 001009573755
My mom is right, don't worry about other kids....heck you even start to worry between your own kids. i still do for some part. But I think she'll still be a tall one, you both are rather tall. Megan is in the 55% for height (i was going to send you a copy of her growth chart once i get their records, just so you can compare with what you are getting)
Megan loves spicy beans too, doesn't seem to bug her either, i think i ate some rather spicy stuff when she was in the womb!
You are making my mouth water for some tri-tip! We do have it in our Costco, and we now have a BBQ to cook it on. YAY.

7/2/2008 2:39:47 AM - 001011914991
I don't think you have anything to worry about. She is just right and healthy too. What a sweet heart. Sometimes I think we get too caught up in comparing with other kids, when we have the best right in front of us. So keep up the good work, Abby is fine just the way she is!

6/27/2008 10:07:06 PM - 001065601516
I know!  I would imagine that I would need it with 2 kids or a smaller kiddo.  But if you think about it, we're always either at home, at daycare, or traveling back and forth.  She really doesn't need much.  As long as we have a sippie and snacks, diapers and wipes, and some toys, we're good.  I would think that we will need to keep some extra clothes in the car for when we start potty training.  I can see where that would be needed!  She really doesn't need all that much stuff.  And we're usually not too far from the car.

6/27/2008 7:17:43 PM - 001075944379
No diaper bag!  I couldn't imagine.  I carry everything- including a little purse I can take out if that's all I need- in my diaper bag.  But, I also have 2 babies.  I will have a diaper bag for a long time, unfortunately.  I can't believe that Abby is so small.  She doesn't seem smaller than Julia, but it might be hard to tell from the pictures.  Don't get too caught up in it, though.  She probably burns a lot of calories running around. 

6/27/2008 11:03:35 AM - 001065601516

They measured her laying down, too.  But she wasn't too happy about that, so there was a lot of wiggling.  I would guess that they may be about the same height. 

We keep each diaper bag stocked with non-perrishable stuff, but if we're going to go to Costco, I drop a bag of animal crackers and a sippie in my purse.  I just didn't really find a need for the diaper bag after she quit spitting up so much.  But we haven't gone anywhere like the zoo or museum where you will be away from your car for a long time.  I would probably stock a diaper bag then.

6/27/2008 3:58:12 AM - 001009573755

Did they measure her standing up too? it surprises me that Megan is taller by a smidge...but they measure her lying down, so that adds a bit of length...so they must be rather close in height. They have extra wipes at our (now old) doctors office, but the same deal with the no poopy diapers.

I'll be interested to see what the stats are like in Colorado...maybe Megan won't be the 7th percentile for weight there.

Glad everything else went good...Do you keep your purse stocked with baby necessities if you don't use a diaper bag? I have a well stocked diaper bag...everything from food to toys to straws, you never know when you need something to keep your kids entertained.

6/25/2008 11:35:31 AM - 001075944379
You've gotta call me back!  I have some news for you!! 

Julia starts "preschool" in Oct.  Yesterday our friend's girl came over.  She's 6 (or 7) and Julia was running after her like crazy.  It was too cute- so I'm excited for her to be around even more kids come Oct.  I think it will help her learn faster and socialize better.

6/25/2008 2:01:42 AM - 001065601516

I think the ravioli is square.  Abby is pretty good with just about everything at this point.  Some things are easier for her to chew.  She doesn't like peaches much.

I saw your update.  We pretty much see whichever dr is available at the time.  We go on Thursday. I'll have our updates then.  Tell your mom and dad we said hi!

6/25/2008 1:36:15 AM - 001009573755

ooh, is it the triangle ravioli...i looove that stuff, i need to get some to let Megan try some. Not sure if Ian will eat any, he is beginning to be such a picky eater!

did you check out Megan's stats, i posted them on my site!

6/23/2008 10:08:09 PM - 001065601516

I did some research online.  There was some correlation between ultrasounds and ear infections.  I think that kids in daycare probably get sicker more often than those not.

We were having costco ravioli.  It is yummy!

6/23/2008 8:14:48 PM - 001009573755

are you serious about the ultrasound thingy and ear infections?!? I had them with both my kids and Ian never once got sick until i had Megan (he picked up the germs at the hospital, i think)

I almost picked Megan some of those new crayon thingys but thought i should wait until i get home. 

what was she eating in those pictures...it looked good. Miss you all.

we have megan's 15 month appointment today, we'll let ya know what her stats are.

6/22/2008 6:51:59 PM - 002003419510

I am so glad the rash is gone and she's feeling better.  Continue to add photos so we can see how she changes.  You may not notice the little things we see while so far apart.  Love you all.

6/21/2008 4:40:42 PM - 001011914991
I'm glad she has such good day care. As far as the cuddles go, they do make her feel better. Being with Mom when you don't feel good, always makes it better.

6/20/2008 12:12:14 AM - 002003419510
I hope that sweet girl is feeling better now.  I love the pics of her sitting at the table with you drawing.  She will be the best of everything because of all the love and attention you two wonderful parents give her. 

6/19/2008 11:13:04 PM - 001011914991
Our poor Abby. If she's on antibiotics you might want to call the Dr. and make sure she's not having an allergic reaction to her Meds. It kind of runs in our family. ie Pop pop and I are allergic to some medicines. I remember one time we had to keep Sean quiet and in bed (He was about 5) So we bought just about everykind of toy to play sitting down and even at that it didn't work. Good Luck it is so scary when they're sick.

6/18/2008 1:29:58 PM - 001011914991
I love the pictures, especially the ones with the two of you smiling. My son is so lucky to have two beautiful women in his life! She really is doing a good job of feeding herself. And she really looks just like you and Sean. Keep up the good work. I hope she's feeling better soon.

6/18/2008 12:48:40 AM - 001065601516
Some research suggests that your theory may be true. And the time is FLYING!

6/18/2008 12:37:31 AM - 002003419510
Ear infections seem to follow babies where the mom had an ultrasound done before birth.  That's my theory and I'm sticking to it!  Good luck with the new teeth coming in also.  It will all be over before you know it.  Then you will look back and wonder how it all happened so fast.  Where did the time go, etc. Love her for me. 

6/17/2008 2:10:44 PM - 001011914991
Poor baby. I hope she's feeling better soon. And I hope that Mom and Dad get some rest too. It makes you feel so helpless when they're sick. I love that she likes to be a big girl while she's eating. Give her big loves from Grammy and Pop pop.

6/17/2008 1:11:21 PM - 001075944379
hey!  just some advice that i found works for julia when she's not feeling well.  try children's motrin instead of tylenol.  the ibuprofen seems to work faster and is stronger.  poor abby.  we'll be praying (for all of you!) that she gets better asap.  

6/16/2008 11:33:35 PM - 002003419510

We really loved having you guys here for the weekend.  Abby is a treasure.  Those sunglasses put me back in the 70's.  She would really be rotten if we lived closer.  Don't be strangers.

Love, Mom

6/15/2008 2:31:20 PM - 001011914991
I love your parent's house. It what I think of when I think of the south. silly I know, but big neat porches with rockers and listening to summer noises. They are great memories. I'm glad that Abby is having those. I still haven't seen a firefly, I am so jealous. Abby is such a beauty. I am glad she has your parents that are closer then we are. She needs to have Grandma and Grandpa loves.

6/15/2008 12:12:37 AM - 001065601516
Amanda, I couln't find the extenders.  I have probably packed them up.  But I got them at Babies R Us for just a few dollars.

6/13/2008 5:07:08 PM - 001011914991
Our girl is growing up so fast. She is just too cute. I'm glad she like the champagne, now I can have a drinking buddy. Just kidding of course. Have a safe trip and tell your Mom and Dad Hi for us. And to give our little an extra big hug for me.

6/13/2008 12:21:29 PM - 001009573755
Miss Abby is looking more of a toddler these days, than a baby....she looks more than 3 days older than my girl!, Have a safe drive, i'll post pictures of the new house as soon as the internet gets up.
love you guys

6/12/2008 7:42:06 PM - 001075944379
Happy Anniversary! (a day late...sorry I'm such a  bad friend!)  It's only been three years?  We've both had some MAJOR changes in our lives during that time, huh? :)  All for the better, I must say.  Thank goodness Sean hasn't used those guns since you've been married....j/k.  Wait until Abby starts dating- I'm sure he'll get plenty of use out of them then.  Take care! xoxo

6/11/2008 11:34:04 PM - 002003419510

Well, it's been an exciting and rewarding 3 years!  You have so much to show for such a loving relationship!  God has blessed us all with having each of you in our lives! May He give you many, many more.  All our love,

Mom and Dad

6/11/2008 3:08:23 PM - 001011914991
Yeah babies do that. Enjoy it because they grow up so fast. Happy Anniversary to you both we love you lots. So glad Sean brought you into our family. A gift is on it's way.

6/11/2008 11:32:11 AM - 001009573755
Happy Anniversary!!! 3 yrs right? seems like longer, but Ian was 5 months old at the wedding (that's how i remember!!) So happy you two guys got married and have such a sweet little girl. Hugs and kisses from all the Avedissian's!

6/11/2008 12:40:19 AM - 001065601516
I think diaper size depends on the brand.  Huggies tends to fit Abby better.  They are longer rather than wider.  I didn't like pampers- they were wide but too short.  It always looked like she had plumber's butt!

6/11/2008 12:08:33 AM - 002003419510

You are so blessed!  Abby is such a beautiful little toddler.

She is so lucky to have you two as parents.  Enjoy making the memories.  The language barriers will soon be filled with answering many questions.  A growing vocabulary is in her future. Watch the excitement in all she does. Plus, take pictures for all of us so far away.

6/10/2008 9:31:10 PM - 002003419510
I love the sun dress and the sand box and the beautiful toddler she has
become!  Such a blessing from God.
You are both such great parents.  She is blessed to have you.
Love,
MOM

6/10/2008 3:17:24 PM - 001011914991
Hey the translation thing gets easier and easier. Pretty soon you start to understand all toddlers. Then it's the adults you don't know what they are saying.

6/10/2008 2:18:03 PM - 002005754279
Okay, first there are overnight diapers and now you tell me about onesie extenders?  You are such an informed mom!  I didn't know about either of those things, but will definitely be using them!  Another point-you mentioned Abby was still in size 3 diapers.  Do you remember when she started using them?  Barrett is using that size now, because size 2 was starting to look like a speedo on him!  I just can't imagine that he'll still be using the same size when he's Abby's age, but who knows??

6/10/2008 2:07:26 AM - 001009573755
so the fish never made it out of the old office? Which one is it? Megan says words very quietly...like today i swear she said "peaches" at dinner time.I saw that it was pretty warm in your neighborhood...it is supposed to be warm tomorrow.
i'll e-mail you with our new address and phone number!!!
Hugs and kisses to my sweet Abby Grace.
 

6/9/2008 11:06:40 PM - 001011914991
I love the stories of our little girl. She is such a beautiful girl and so full of life. She must keep you two going! keep up the good work. This site makes it so you guys don't seem so far away.

6/9/2008 12:38:17 PM - 001075944379
I love this site!  I created one too, but I'm not too sure if the email went out to everyone to invite them.  Maybe I'll do what you did and forward the info to the invitees. 

I think it's AMAZING that Abby is talking to much already!  And getting herself dressed?  WOW!  She's so smart!  But I expect nothing less of her since she has you and Sean as parents.  Looks like your "baby" is turning into a toddler....look out!! :) xoxo 

6/9/2008 2:29:40 AM - 001065601516
The naked thing is for me.  She is so independent that she doesn't want to be fed- she wants to do it.  So we've been letting her for the last several months.  Now that it is warm enough, I just strip her down.  That way, I don't get upset when food ends up everywhere.  She does pretty good with the fork, but the spoon is tricky!  The bibs we have don't cover the sleeves, plus she learned how to take them off.  Oh well.  There will just be a lot of naked baby pics of her!

6/8/2008 2:37:25 AM - 001009573755
Looks like you had fun, cute pictures of the girl. I can't believe she has to be nakey to eat. I like her hair with the barrettes. I have to put Megan's hair up in a pony to get it out of her eyes.
I'm suffering from allergies here too, the pussy willows around us are opening up and where they have blown to it looks like it snowed it is that thick.

6/7/2008 11:33:41 PM - 002003419510

I love the web site and all the wonderful photos of that sweet girl you two produced!  You are so blessed.  I hope she does not develop the allergies you have either.  She is growing and learning so much.  I know you two are great parents.

Love,

MOM

6/6/2008 3:41:11 PM - 001011914991
Have Sean tell you about the rubber band wars he and Kate used to have. Or when we'd take the napkins and start throwing them at each other. I love how Abby is doing so well. Sign of good parents.

6/6/2008 1:24:34 AM - 001065601516
That giving spirit has a HUGE painful bruise where they drew blood.  I hope it goes away soon!

6/5/2008 2:53:55 PM - 001011914991
The "stop it" really is too cute from a gram point of view. It's also a sign of intelligence too. You guys have one smart cookie there. You could say she has it all, beauty and brains!

6/4/2008 10:58:08 AM - 001065601516
I think it is just a phase.  She tries really hard.  Sometimes with humorous results.  She had one leg of her pajama bottoms on her leg, then one of her PJ top sleeves on the other leg.  (Thankfully, that is stretchy material!) She was walking around like that!  It was hilarious!  She's not gotten the socks down yet, but she knows how it works.  She just can't get her feet and hands to work together.

6/4/2008 2:16:08 AM - 001009573755
wow getting dressed by herself already? Ian is still working on that one. I'm just happy we don't have streakers in the family. I hear horror stories of kids going around naked.

6/3/2008 3:40:32 PM - 001011914991
I love that she's playing dress up with the shoes. I am so proud of you and your giving spirit!

6/2/2008 9:45:31 PM - 001011914991
I love this site, we can keep up with you and Abby. We're back from Washington. Hope you had a Happy Birthday. We love the pictures of her eating sand but the foot prints were just too precious. Give hugs and kisses from Pop Pop and Gram.

5/30/2008 6:10:50 PM - 001009573755
btw we were looking at siennas too before we decided on our freestyle, we have a friend that has one and she loved it.
we like our crossover, i'm not too fond of the minivan sliding door(personal issues really....i can't never close them).
Good Luck with a new car, van or truck.

5/29/2008 2:53:49 PM - 001009573755
i'm honored i'm one of your favorite links...i better keep up the blog with the pictures!!!! it is easier with the new camera. Megan is also the daredevil too, before we moved she learned to climb up on mom and dad's ottomans.