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I used to be so good at sending out the emails about what our family is doing and all of our pictures. But with a full time job at First Baptist Church Trussville, a full time job as a mom, and now staying booked with my photography I had to come up with an easier way. And poor Julian (Benny) just wants to crash when he gets home. I hope you enjoy looking through the pictures and the updates.
We had a blast on July 4th. Jillian stayed up during all of the festivities and she just sat and watched the whole thing it was precious. Grayson looked forward to the fireworks all weekend and then they started and he was a little scared but then he started to like them so "Doggy" and Grayson sat in his new "Cars" chair and watched like a big boy.
Jillian now has 4 teeth and she is waking up all night long in pain. I am ready for the teething to give us a break, lol. Grayson is finally potty trained, YEAH!!!!! Now we have to work to get that Boppy out of his mouth. Any tips?? Julian just built a small boat motor that he is very proud of. He sold it to a friend of his. In return he is getting a commercial grade back pack blower. Just what we need more stuff. I am still staying busy with my photography and LOVING my new job. We will be celebrating Grayson's 3rd birthday in August and I can't wait.
Ok so a quick update on everyone...
Jillian is already sitting up on her own and she just loves her big brother. She still only has 2 teeth but I believe she is working on more. She talks (noises) all the time and she loves music. We really just adore this little girl.
Grayson is still trying to get a hold of going to the potty. Hopefully we will get it soon. He loves his new babysitter and now even thinks the world of Jillian. He tells her she is pretty all the time. He really is just a sweet little guy
Julian (Benny) is still just working and having fun playing with all of his junk which he brings more home weekly.
I am still loving my new job and taking pictures. My life is always crazy but I would not trade it for the world. The church has Vacation Bible School this week and I have been nuts but wow it is the most rewarding thing I have ever seen. I will probably put some pictures up on my photography website.
I guess that is it for now. Look at the pictures from the lawnmower party
I remember Grayson got his teeth at 5 months but I am having a hard time believing that my baby girl has her 1st 2 teeth. Last night I felt in her mouth and she has 2 bottom teeth popping through. I can not believe how big she is getting. She is such a joy and I would not trade either one of my babies for anything. I will add pictures as soon as I can. I am about a month behind on my picture editing so I am working like crazy to get caught up so to say the least faily pictures get pushed way back. But hey check out my blog www.benzaiaphoto.blogspot.com
I have not updated in a very long time. I have been very busy but Jillian is growing like crazy! She cracks up laughing all the time and she always puts a very big smile on your face. She is sleeping through the night and just the sweetest little angel!
I want ya'll to all take a look at her 3 Month pictures...go to www.mollybridgesphotography.com then go to the client proofing link. Our password is Benzaia201003. We are very happy with them
Well I thought I was turning in my lens on my photography until I took some pictures of a good friend of mine, Jennifer. She and her husband are welcoming a baby boy into this world in just a couple of months. I offered to take some maternity pictures for them and they turned out great. Please check out my blog. www.benzaiaphoto.blogspot.com. Please become a follower. It really fueled the fire and I think I am going to keep it up for a while longer. Hopefully one day I will be able to stay home with my babies and do photography full time. I have such a passion for it.
Anyways, a new update on everything else. Jillian went to the doctor on Wednesday and she is doing great. She weighs 12 pounds, 13 ounces and she is 24 inches long. She is our little chunker. Her little rolls on her thighs are the best. She is super healthy but we still have to watch her breathing to make sure she does not fall into the RSV mess again. Grayson is still a wonderful big brother. He loves to feed her and give her; her pacifier when she is crying. Sometimes he helps too much and I have to tell him that she does not nee that (whatever it is) right now. We are just really enjoying our family right now. They are all everything that I need right now.
Well a lot has happened in the past 2 weeks. I went back to work and I only had to work 4 days. Everything went very smooth and we were starting to get into a routine. Well on Wednesday Jillian started to get a little stuffy and I just thought ok first week of daycare she has a cold. So I just kept watching her. Well she started coughing so I thought I should take her to the doctor. So on Saturday we went to the doctor and she told us that she just had a common cold and to keep sucking out her nose with the bulb thing. She did tell us that infants can change very quickly so keep watching her. Well by Saturday night her cough had gotten worse and I was getting worried. On Sunday she was not eating and so I kept watching her. By Sunday night my Mom was at our house and she said we need to go to the ER. So we packed up and off we went to the ER at 9:00 PM. We arrived at Children's Hospital and they put us in a room immediatly because she looked so sick. The nurse came and saw us and checked her temp, oxygen levels and the sucked out her nose with this awesome machine. Her oxygen levels were good so she wasn't having trouble breathing besides her nose being stopped up. Since she had not eaten they checked her to see if she was dehydrated and she was so they wanted to admit us to the hospital. I had to leave the room when they did her IV because I just kept crying. We finally got to a room at 4:00 AM (my mom had to work the next day, yikes). Jillian already looked so much better. Benny came to the hospital the next morning and we both sat there with her while she rested. They did a couple of test and made sure she was eating and then they released us Monday night. In the meantime Grayson started to get sick. So the next day we took both Jillian and Grayson to their pediatrician, Dr. Lytle, and he confirmed that they both had RSV. So Benny and I have stayed home with the kids all last week. They can't go back to school until tomorrow, Monday. They are both so much better now. Dr. Lytle said that they will continue coughing for 2 -3 weeks so we are still not done with all of this but hopefully we will be soon. Please keep our little babies in your prayers because they could turn at any time. We just home to get everyone healthy as soon as we can.
P.S. As I am writing this Grayson is dancing around the kitchen with Elmo so I would say he is definitly feeling better.
Well I have made a huge jump backwards with my photography. After many years of trying to build my business and get it to where I want it to be I have decided to slack off a little bit. I was really doing too much with working full time and doing photography and I was forgetting about my sweet husband and baby (babies now). I have closed my website and I now only have a blog. You can check it out at www.benzaiaphoto.blogspot.com I really feel like this is more appropriate since I will only be doing photography for fun and not just for money. Maybe one day I can focus on it again but for now I am going to keep it a hobby.
Quick family update...everyone is doing well. Jillian has some stomach (gas) problems and I am cutting out every type of food that taste halfway decent. Hopefully we will figure out what is causing the problem but no luck yet. Oh and Julian finished all of his ASE test and he is now master certified. He passed all 8 test. Congrats to him!
Miss Jillian Marie was born on December 3rd at 1:08 AM. She weighed 8 pounds 12 ounces. She was 20 3/4 inches long. She has beautiful light brown almost blonde hair and she has beautiful plump lips (I am not sure where those came from). We have a very exciting story to tell with her birth.
We went into the hospital on December 2nd to start the inducing process. The first step usually takes a couple of hours to do its job and then they let you sleep and rest until the next morning when they start the pitosin drip (spelling???). Well Miss Jillian had other plans. They started the first step around 6:30 PM and everything was fine. I was having light contractions about 4-5 minutes apart but it was nothing to worry about yet. Well around 11:00 they got stronger and stronger so the nurses offered me some light pain medicine so that I would be more comfortable. The nurses kept telling me that I was not dilated enough yet. Well around 11:15 I just knew something was not right so I called the nurses again. Before they got in there I had already given a hard push and my water broke. Well the nurses told me I could not push until the doctor got there. So I had to sit there with a nurse holding baby Jillian in while I tried as hard as I could to not push, but I was still pushing some. The doctor finally got there and after just a few pushes Baby Jillian was here. I do not remember much after this because my body was just so worn out. Well to say the least I had no epidural and I did it all natural. I would have never thought I would be able to do that but I did. Benny was wonderful the whole time he just kept talking to me about going shopping for shoes. He really knows my weakness.
Well we are home now and everyone is doing great. Grayson is already a little protective of Jillian. He will not let Scout get anywhere near her. He is doing great with me and actually starting to act like a big boy. He has been with Nana for the past couple of days and I think he is so tired from playing hard with her.
Grayson got to play in the snow this morning. We woke up to snow on the ground and it is very cold. Benny, Jillian and I missed that fun but Grayson and Nana had a blast.
Anyways, we are very excited and blessed about our new baby. She really has made us a family.
So I went to the doctor again today and he told me that Jillian is very very low but my cervix is still very thick. So he said it would definitly be before December 3rd but there is a very good chance I could go into labor before then. My cousins all think that she will come this Friday but I think they are just getting their hopes up since they will be in town. I told Dr. Robinett I just really want to eat all of the good Thanksgiving food. Once I get that I will be good to go. Well my last day of work is going to be tomorrow. I will be sending some time resting the next week.
On another note I hope everyone has a wonderful Thanksgiving. Our family is so thankful for all of our family and friends. We are truly blessed!!!!!
Well we decided this past weekend was going to be the big weekend. So we woke up and started hanging all of Grayson's pictures from his nursery into his big boy room. So his big boy room has everything that it needs now except My Big Boy. He does not want to sleep in his bed at all. Knowing this is a huge mistake I laid down in the bed with him and every night I have laid with him for anywhere between 45 minutes and 2 hours and then I end up taking him into his crib and he falls right to sleep. Well Grayson and I are both so tired so tonight I decided to go back to the old bed (even though it is all pink). Wish me luck and if you have any advice please post it because I am at a loss.
Quick update on me and Baby Jillian. Baby Jillian is doing great she is very healthy. She is still in the high position and thank goodness there is no progress towards delivery. It is just a little too soon for her to come into this world. But me on the other hand I am dying. I always said that I would really take the time and enjoy this pregnancy but I am finding it harder and harder. She is all out front and it is getting harder and harder to carry her. I went to the doctor on Friday of last week with extreme back pain and lower abdominal pain. I was terrified that I was already in labor but I wasn't. He told me that it was my muscles contracting and unfortunatly there is nothing I can do. He told me that my back pains were due to how I was carrying her and it is making my spine curve more than normal. He told me to get bed rest and I of course asked him if I was on mandatory bed rest and I am not. So right now I am still working but I stay in pain throughout the day and usually until I get home to rest. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers that the pain will stop soon. But other than that everything is PERFECT. Grayson is being his sweet self and loving on the belly/baby and he is very protective of me.
This weekend was so busy and we had a blast. We took Grayson to the Pumpkin Patch on Saturday and it was FREEZING. He would barely get out of his wagon. It was so funny. The only thing he would do was ride the train. It was so funny. But we had fun picking out 2 pumpkins. A big one and a small one. I will take pictures when we carve them.
We also had some family pictures taken in Helena. I am so excited to see the proofs because the photographer was AMAZING. Her name is Wynter and she owns Wynter Photographer. You should all check her out at www.wynterphoto.com I will send you all the link and password as soon as I get it. She is super busy so I am not exactly sure when I will get them. Grayson had the best time hamming it up for the camera.
A quick Jillian update, I go to the doctor tomorrow to get my 2 week check up. I now go every 2 weeks. It is getting really close and I just can not believe it. I will let everyone know what the doctor says after I go tomorrow.
Friday of last week Grayson went to see Doctor Lytle for his 2 year appointment. Everything was perfect. He weighs a wopping 30 pounds 9 ounces. He did a great job getting his flu shot and he was such a big boy during the appointment. I still can not believe I have a 2 year old and that my sweet little baby boy is now a big boy. Tonight he told me "Night Night my Mommy" my heart just crumbled. Oh he is just the sweetest thing. Last night he even told me "I love you mommy" He is talking like crazy and he is getting so smart!!!! He must get that from his daddy. That is it for now but we are getting ready to fly to Vermont at the end of this month. We are going to have a blast with Granny and Pops!!!!!!!
We went to the doctor today as a family. Grayson came with us and he was so good and he just sat next to me and watched the nurse until he had enough and then he wanted to play. We found out we are having a girl and she is very very healthy. We are so excited. We have not made our final decision on her name but we will put that on as soon as we figure it out. Take a look at the pictures that I added. Poor Grayson is so outnumbered by so many girls. He is the only boy on both sides. We are super excited and I just told my sister today and she already bought her a new dress. Oh she is going to be rotten.
Oh and right now as I am writing this I just felt her kick around and I was holding my stomach and there she was. I could feel her it was the best thing ever.
Thank you so much for all of your support! Oh and Congrats to Brooke and Brad on their baby boy, Justin and also Niki and Jessie on there precious baby boy, Whit. I am going to have a lot of clothes for the 2 of you.
Well as most of you could tell I have not updated this in a little while. Our internet has been down and they finally fixed it today. Yeah!!!! Well this is probably going to be long and I am going to try and update as many pictures as possible, there are a ton.
Well, to start our little "rerun" is doing great! I am going to update his/her new pictures. We are going again this Thursday to the doctor and I will get some more pictures. The heart beat is extremely healthy and he/she is really starting to look like a baby. The morning/afternoon/evening sickness is finally starting to slow down. Today was my first day without the naseau medicine and although I was feeling sick once I did great! I am finally getting energy back and starting to slowly feel back to normal. I will update again once we go on Thursday.
Grayson is great! We went to the mall today and he got 2 new pairs of shoes. He has been putting them on and then swapping back to the other pair all day. He loves shoes, he must get that from his mommy. He is talking like crazy and copying everything we say. I just love watching him grow and learn every single day.
Benny (Julian) has been working with his friend Chad on his sister in law's lawn mower. They have had a blast. He is working hard and has been a wonderful daddy the past couple of months.
I have had the craziest couple of months. My very best friend got married, congrats Jessica & Gavin. I will upload tons of pictures from that, including the bachelerette weekend (which I was pregnant at). The wedding was gorgeous and she was the most beautiful bride ever. Another good friend of mine is expecting a baby in June and we had a baby shower for her. It was precious and I can not wait to put the pictures up.
Well that is all for now but I will think of more as I go.
Hello everyone! Well we have some really big news to share!!! We are expecting baby #2 December 9th! I know I know so exciting. Some of you may already know but I wanted to make sure that everyone else knows. We are so excited and Grayson really has no clue. He just looks at my stomach, then says "baby" then tries to lift my shirt. He is just a wonderful little thing. We go to our next appointment on May 14th. We already heard the heart beat and I will upload the picture as soon as possible.
A little update on Grayson and everyone else. Grayson is talking like crazy. It was like all of a sudden I woke up and he was talking like a big boy. He climbs up into the kitchen table chairs and likes to read his books. Julian (Benny) is doing the same ol thing. I will get him to get on here soon and tell all of you what he has done with his old lawn mower. It is very impressive. I am doing great. I am just extremely tired because Benzaia Photography has really picked up. I have a photo package being auctioned off to help raise money for the Leukemia Society.
We will keep you updated on the new little "rerun" as Julian (Benny) calls it.
Easter was wonderful this year! We had a blast going Egg Hunting with the little man. He loved to run to the eggs and then shake them and break them open; then he would get the candy out and run to Mommy to open the candy for him. We went to 2 Easter egg hunts on Saturday and then we did 1 more on Sunday. Saturday night he was running up and down the halls Saturday night, he was sooooo hyper.
Easter Sunday we went to the Church of Highlands and Grayson loves going to the preschool there and he made it much easier for Fallon. Krista said it was the first time that Fallon did not cry when she left her. We went to Chef Bob's and had lunch and although that was a challenge (having a 19 month old) it was very fun and the foo was wonderful.